The memorial service for 42-year-old Daniel Kaufman took place this Saturday, honoring the gay man who was murdered while working at a coffee cart inside the Inland Regional Center for people with disabilities in San Bernadino.
He was shot to death when Syed Farook and Tashfeen Malik attacked the facility, ultimately murdering 14 people and wounding dozens more.
Right now, the massacre is being investigated as an act of terrorism. Groups associated with Daesh have claimed credit for the murders.
As more details of the horrible day have emerged, Daniel Kaufman has been revealed to be a hero.
When the shootings began, Daniel was in the hallway of the facility.
Always concerned more about the safety of others than himself, he began shouting “Get out! Go! Get out now! Hurry!”
As shots rang out, Kaufman began pushing people out of harm’s way, rushing them to the safety of the door before he was himself shot and killed.
A source close to Ryan Reyes, Kaufman’s surviving partner, says he’s credited with saving 4 people’s lives.
Reyes will be telling his story this week on the Dr. Phil show.
Daniel was known as the one person in his wide circle of friends as the guy to turn you when in need of an uplifting conversation or were in need of a laugh.
On Saturday, many of those people congregated at Irwindale, California‘s Santa Fe Dam Recreation Area to remember Daniel.
Friends shared stories of Daniel, alternately laughing and crying as they retold intimate exchanges, recalled their final memories of him and their favorite things about him.
Reyes, his partner of three years, retold some of Daniel’s favorite stories. He said Kaufman lived to make people laugh.
A practicing Wiccan, Daniel regularly participated at Renaissance Fairs. He loved scary moves and comic books.
A ravenous Star Wars fan, he was looking forward to the upcoming The Force Awakens and had recently met Carrie Fisher, who played Princess Leia in the original films and will soon be reprising her role.
Many people at the memorial simply knew Daniel as the guy who was always smiling. Only when his image was broadcast did many of his co-workers and peers learn his name.
“It didn’t matter what type of mood he was in,” Reyes said. “If you were hurting, it was that bright cheery, ‘are you ok? I’m going to make you laugh. I’m going to make you feel good again.’ That was Daniel. God, I miss him.”
Ryan Reyes had a special message to send:
“I speak for both Daniel and myself when I say that this attack should NOT encourage people to treat Muslims any differently than they would anyone else. This tragedy was committed by a radical group. We do not hold all Christians accountable for the actions of the Westboro Baptist Church, so why do we blame all Muslims for the actions of THEIR version of Westboro? It makes no sense. The twisted actions and beliefs of a few should not be used to view the majority. Muslims are just as loving and caring as anyone else. It made Daniel sick and continues to make me sick, that Americans refuse to drop this way of thinking.
Muslim people are just as desperate to capture the radical groups as anyone else. By joining forces and working together through love and understanding, we can defeat those that perpetrate these acts. My heart and sympathy goes out to all Muslims that are not members of these radical groups. I am sorry that, for whatever reason, people cannot seem to understand that the radical groups and terrorists do NOT speak for all Muslims. Just know that I do not blame you for this and I love you as my brothers and sisters in humanity, just as Daniel would.”
H/t: LGBTQ Nation
Xzamilio
Oh, fuck, this made me tear up bad. He sounded like an incredible guy. Just horrible to lose someone you love to such senseless violence.
Giancarlo85
A hero who saved others and he will remembered with great respect. Lets not turn this into some political argument please.
mikelphx
So sad and so inspiring. People like him are the real heroes. Not some of the ppl you see the media trying to shove down our throats. I am sure those 4 ppl are very grateful.
Scott Albert Bennett
This is so sad…. Daniel looks like someone I would have liked to have known.
Desert Boy
“The prettiest sound in the world is the Islamic call to prayer”. – Barack Obama
Hussain-TheCanadian
My heart aches as I reads this; what a hero, and what an honorable man. A person who sacrifices himself for the sake of others deserves the honors of a martyrer.
I will light a candle for him tonight.
sportsguy1983
I hope he has told his story on true news sources before he talks to dr. Phil
Jerry P Davis
Desert Boy : But George W. Bush said “Islam is a beautiful religion”, too. I don’t know if Bush or Obama really feel that way or not, but politicians have to say all kinds of stuff.
Andy Berkvam
Karen has been following this story and telling me about him. Sounds like he was a great guy.
scotty
Only the best are taken away before their time is truly up. RIP kind sir
Giancarlo85
@Desert Boy: Of course. Leave it to a blowhard to score some political points off the death of another. You just couldn’t help yourself. Last I checked, the US is striking ISIL so hard the USAF asked for even more bombs and munitions to replenish their stocks. Seems like Obama is doing his job after all.
Giancarlo85
And what was the point of bringing up some uncorroborated quote? To price what?
Giancarlo85
*prove
Merv
Ordinary Muslims can’t be blamed for this attack, but they are not blameless. They allowed a culture of radical and often violent extremism to grow and thrive within their religion. They may have denounced the attacks after they happened, but these attacks didn’t come out of a vacuum. Extremist rhetoric was and is embraced by many, and denounced by few. To the extent that this comes from the scriptures themselves, they need to unambiguously reject those scriptures.
Desert Boy
@Giancarlo85: 2011: 18,000 ISIS fighters. 2015: 150,000 to 200,000 ISIS fighters. Even liberal Democratic, senior member of the Intelligence Committee said, “ISIS isn’t contained. Their numbers are growing”. Stop licking the president’s taint and at least try to be informed. I know for you this would be quite a leap but give it a shot.
Desert Boy
@Desert Boy: senior member of the Intelligence Committee, Dianne Feinstein said
Desert Boy
@Giancarlo85: You’re really an idiot and a moron. Here is the proof that Obama said it. I am correct and you, well, as usual, you are wrong.
http://humanevents.com/2010/08/19/obama-muslim-call-to-prayer-one-of-the-prettiest-sounds-on-earth/
Alistair Wiseman
@Merv:
Well, to be fair and accurate, the Left believes climate change is causing terrorism. The Democratic party candidate Bernie Sanders, currently running second in the polls, recently said on ‘Face the Nation’ (link below), terrorism is directly linked to climate change. (Don’t laugh, he is serious.)
https://youtu.be/gWsUMdhknFQ
Giancarlo85
@Alistair Wiseman: And you believe a party that thinks carpet bombing and using dumb bombs would solve everything. englighten us some more please.
@Desert Boy: You are a moron. Can you get me a site that is worth something? Total moron you are. Did you leave your brain at the dumpster today? What was the point of bringing up that made up quote, asides from trying to slander Obama and score some political points? Hey asshole, Obama has done more to counter terrorism than any other President or the republican party. But please entertain me with more of your worthless thoughts.
Giancarlo85
Oh and as usual shitboy has nothing real. He claims he is a democrat, yet he bashes on Obama more than Ted Cruz.
Giancarlo85
@Desert Boy: Their expansion is contained after Kurds and Syrian soldiers have scored several victories. stop kissing your own ass. Must be pretty awkward because you are such an idiot. And 100-150,000? Utter bullshit figures. If that was the case, why have the Kurds who are far fewer in number able to defeat them?
Giancarlo85
Informed? Yes I am. I am not a right wing idiot who believes bullshit from fox news. That is called being highly informed.
Desert Boy
@Giancarlo85: Can I get you a site? Learn to use a search engine, moron. I realize that’s an intellectual challenge for a nitwit like you but, try to stretch.
Giancarlo85
@Desert Boy: From your unsupported numbers to some random bullshit website… Keep it coming! Your stupidity amuses me. You really have no clue what is going on in this world.
Educate yourself.
Desert Boy
@Giancarlo85: According to your warped pea brain, everyone on Queerty is a Repug, voted for Bush or McCain or Romney, and watch FOX Noise. Your mommy’s basement is a sad place. Get out and breath some fresh air, then find a psychotherapist .
Giancarlo85
@Desert Boy: nope. People like can, atticus and others are clear about where they stand. You obviously hate Obama irrationally to the point of vapid stupidity. You clearly are with BJ mcfrisky, alistair and cwm85. You pretty much lost your marbles years ago. You have no independent thoughts and you make up numbers as you go along.
Bravo for being an inconsiderate and spiteful ass too. You totally disrespected the man this article was honoring with your political bullshit.