High-Ranking British Spy Outed By Wife For Having Sexual Affairs With Men


Hell hath no fury like a military wife scorned.

The spouse of a high-ranking British spy is pissed after learning her husband has been sneaking around with other men behind her back.

“When I found out what he had been doing my world fell apart,” the woman testified before a military divorce court last week.

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The husband, whose name has not been released, is an intelligence officer in a British Army unit that targets al-Qaeda and Islamic State of Iraq and the Levant (Isil). According to his wife, she learned of his infidelities when she discovered gay porn and links to gay dating sites on his phone. When she confronted him about it, he admitted to having casual sex with guys he had met near the headquarters of MI6 in south London, where he was stationed.

Now, the woman wants a divorce. But not just that. She also wants her husband fired from his job, arguing that his extracurricular activities have broken his security clearance by putting him “at risk of blackmail” by other agents.

“I found out what my husband was doing very easily,” she testified. “Imagine what trained people could do with this information.”

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The husband is said to be considered a “higher trained intelligence office” with several years of experience working with both “willing and unwilling subjects.”

Because of his status within the Army, his wife also testified that she feels her concerns are not being taken seriously, saying that when she first reported her husband’s behavior to his employers, no one seemed to care.

“I find it very odd that they haven’t asked me for any information,” she said, adding that she feels she has been treated very “unfairly.”

A spokesperson for the Army said it did not comment on individuals, but added that it takes “the welfare of its personnel extremely seriously and has provided appropriate support to the soldier and his family.”

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h/t: The Telegraph

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  • Dantonio Lopez

    Out all the down low homosexual save women from HIV infections

  • Andrew Webb

    Gay British spies? Surely not?!

  • Jason Narofsky

    Ummm this story is fake y’all

  • Irish Ryan

    Can you blame her lol

  • Stefano Gant

    Bitch needs to find a new man. Move on please.

  • Bailey Bednar

    how else are you gonna get those dirty, creamy secrets out of them?

  • Nick Guida

    He could argue it was for the good of the world

  • ashton7326

    probably best for her she will find a man who loves her .

  • Juanjo

    Hell hath no fury than that of a spouse who has been cheated on.

  • Aromaeus

    What an idiot, not just for the cheating but being in the position he’s in the risk of blackmail is very high. I hope he loses his job.

  • Rimminit

    If they allowed gays they would have to marry a labia majora to get a job!

  • JJ Evans

    Either he’s not very good at his job or the wifes just the better spy in which case M or or Money Penny need to offer her a job

  • Rimminit

    @Rimminit: sorry the word should have been wouldn’t. :

  • James Rumsey

    What did she expect his boss to do? ><

  • John Malin

    I’ve said it before, married men on the DL are total fools. If a man cheats with other women, a wife will often be forgiving, but with another man, or men, she’ll have his balls for breakfast.

  • Philip Epstein

    He was undercover dumbass . Lol

  • Sweetie Pie

    A spy gotta do what a spy gotta do……

  • Tracy Pope

    They’re “not taking her seriously” because they already know he’s bi and likely don’t consider it a threat to security. Sad and unfair to her but that’s just not a reason to fire him.

  • EvonCook

    This English spy guy was probably just honing his abilities to meet, greet and infiltrate ISIS members who are mostly DL or closeted gays driven to hate by their religiosity. Of course they are, or why else would they be so angry, frustrated and violent if not for the suppression and denial of their natural homosexual tendencies which they cannot accept and are prohibited from celebrating as healthy members of the human society? This goes for a lot of hypocritical and homophobic Republicans in our own country too!

  • Tony Chaplinski

    a married man has an affair, end of story

  • Kieran

    More reason why the next James Bond should be gay. It’s time.

  • woodroad34

    HOw does she know, if he is an actual spy, that he wasn’t doing some kind of Honey Pot thing? One of the bombers in France frequented gay bars. Is she only pissed because he was going after gays? What if it had been women, instead?

  • Adrian Lehman-Sizemore

    so he had sex with men? is there something wrong with having sex with men?

  • Sweetie Pie

    @woodroad34: Hell hath no fury like woman scorned

  • Kevin J Desmond

    I’m guessing she’s gonna have problems now for the rest of her life … oh-well.

  • Bauhaus

    Bisexual would be sexy, too. Something for everyone.

  • Jim Guinnessey

    Big f—-n deal, lady.

  • nmharleyrider

    Now that she has outed him, there is no way he could be blackmailed so she bit her own foot on that one. He is certainly no threat to security now that is is known. She should have just asked him to bring some of his men friends home for three-ways.

  • Billy Budd

    He should NOT get fired. He should get a medal from the government for living for such a long time with a bitch of a wife.

  • CurlyMop

    Once again you dumb fags are idiotically defending the wrong side. Gay men have sexualized infidelity and closet cowards. This “man” is married. I don’t give a shit if he’s gay or bi, he has no right to cheat on his spouse. Come out the closet and divorce your wife if you want to be with a man. Stop fetishizing married cheaters.

  • Brian

    Any woman would be offended by a cheating husband. However, I find that wives can be particularly bitter if “the other woman” is actually a man. It kind of refutes her as a gender.

    Women find it very upsetting when they are refuted on a personal level but they find it even more upsetting when they are refuted at the gender level.

  • Transiteer

    He’s a Spy. He had to marry her to maintain his ‘cover’. Everybody knows the best spies are gay. Always have been. Shuffle the old broad off to a desert island and give her a nail to chew on. She won’t last long and it’ll be nice and quiet again . . . . Let the man get back to work. He’s apparently quite good at it.

  • martinbakman

    Military divorce court. WTF is dat?

    This story sounds like total baloney. If he was a high ranking intelligence office, would she even know that?

  • Dave Downunder

    Sounds like she’s just pissed because he didn’t get into any trouble over it like she wanted so now she is accusing the military of not taking it seriously. It is clear that all she is really concerned about is ruining his life but that hasn’t happened so she is having a dummy spit over it.

  • Stached1

    @Jason Narofsky: Indeed it is fake.

  • Daggerman

    ..this isn’t really news, is it? I mean most men have sex with other men behind closed doors or do it in much more secret situations! Anyway regardless of them being married I thought that was the most oldest joke in the book…?

  • Scribe38

    If he is fired, he can’t pay spousal support. Don’t let your hurt feelings, kill your paycheck.

  • Chris

    @John Malin: @CurlyMop: “dumb fags”??? What the fuck are you doing reading an article like this if you’re not creeping around in the closet? Seriously, come the hell out.

  • Chris

    @John Malin: my recent comment was NOT directed at you. Sorry.

  • Chris

    @Brian: I might have to disagree, from personal experience. My ex-wife was 100% prepared to forgive me and stay with me. She was, frustrated, however, in that she had no way to fight it. If it were another woman she would have had the “tools” to fight. Since I was with a man, she didn’t. The bottom line to my story, we divorced because I was fully coming out. A person has to live who they are.

  • Kenover

    C’mon folks. He’s British. Is anyone really surprised?

  • wade.l

    @Dave Downunder: you hit the hammer right on the nail

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