Kellyanne Conway‘s daughter may have found one way to use TikTok, but we’ve found others! Here’s the best of what came our way this week:
Boyfriends Tom & James revealed why Instagay couples have the best angles.
@bfcuties##gayfun ##gaygoals ##gayhusbandlife ##gaycouple ##husbandcheck ##beartiktok
Lesley Stahl honed her gaydar.
@mymarmeladewtf is this class making me watch
Utica wouldn’t say.
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@rupaulsdragraceTry not to laugh: @uticaqueen edition ##dragrace ##trynottolaugh ##rupaul
Lil Nas X flashed his diamond vampire grillz.
@lilnasxu ever seen diamond vampire grillz
Michael McBride covered America’s past gay presidents.
@idea.soup“to save space on the frontier” ##history ##lgbthistory ##historylesson ##historytime ##gayhistory ##lgbt ##fyp ##interestingfacts
These beautiful first responders celebrated their five year anniversary.
@jacobjosephofficialHappy Anniversary babe #5yearanniversary #gaytiktok #black #desi #police #nurse
Andre Armenante told us he’s gay without actually telling us he’s gay.
@outofthehatWhat’s your subtle technique? ##gay ##gayhumor ##lgbt ##tellmeyourequeer
Ehi Omigie paid an extra gay compliment.
@e_hemanClose one. #codeswitching #closecall #gay #gaytiktok #blacktiktok #fy #fyp #viral #twitter #foryou #opulence #work #StreetFashion #Entrepreneur
Dr. Joe Kart gave reasons why straight men have sex with men.
@drjoekortThe real reason straight men have sex with men. ##straightmen ##bisexualmen ##sexualfluidity ##gaymen 
And This Sean Cody model read his Grindr messages from last night.
@gtfo_sammyWho is she? Not the same person I was last night ##grindr ##gay ##lgbt ##bi ##queer ##gaytiktok ##fy ##fyp ##foryou ##iykyk ##funny ##comedy
Donston
Can we not promote the toxic TikToks about “straight” guys sleeping with dudes? No one cares about “straight” guys doing anything. And of course, a “doctor” is indulging that mess. Queerty (and other “queer” sites) can’t be posting articles about “closeted” dudes killing their supposed “boyfriends” in order to stay closeted and then post shit about how hot it is for “straight” guys to hook up with dudes. Do you not see the hypocrisy? Do you not see that you’re a part of the problem?
You want to have a conversation about the many elements of someone’s sexuality, the realities of experimentation, the different degrees of fluidity some people experience, the vastness of the gender, romantic, sexual, affection, emotional investment, commitment spectrum? All of that is fine. But I’m tired of everything coming down to defending “straight” guys or fantasizing about “straight” guys or getting mad because you want everyone to accept you into whatever category you want to fit in. The conversation on identity, gender, sexuality, orientation, sociology, psychology- it has to evolve past the “label” thumping and the constant defense of male insecurities. God, I’m tired of so much energy being placed on defending male egos. And of course a TikTok “doctor” doesn’t get any of that and how toxic this shit is.
At this point I’m all about abolishing sexual identity politics. Social media has turned this stuff into nothing more than cliques, fetishes, porn categories, clickbait and hashtags.
jjose712
Straight men that has regularly sex with men are simply not straight (one thing is experiment a bit in college and other have sex with other men and keep the charade that you are straight).
Donston
For me, it’s not about whether someone is “straight” or not. Arguing with people about their identities serves almost no purpose. It’s the fact that this is just some random assemblage of tiktoks, but y’all had to put in something about “straight” dudes in homo hookups. They just won’t let the shit go. In one article you’re bemoaning “closeted” guys killing their “boyfriends” in order to not get exposed. Then in another several articles you’re looking for any excuse to kiss the ass of a decent looking “straight” guy and you’re using a “straight” identity as clickbait and as fantasy. The shit is hypocritical and at this point, it’s irresponsible.
I’m all about not being identity dependent. I’m all about sexual freedom, understanding the vastness of sexuality, fluidity, the orientation spectrum, eradicating male homophobia for everyone. But the obsession some out “queers” have with defending and caping for “straight” guys and protecting fragile male egos is just pathetic and anti progress. There’s so much to be discussed when it comes to sexuality, gender, the orientation spectrum, sociology and psychology. Yet, it keeps only getting whittled down to people being “straight” or “not gay”. Stop caping for folks who mostly wouldn’t cape for you and who mostly don’t care about your attention and approval outside of when they want hook-ups or want money or Instagram/OnlyFans followers. Stop acting like a “straight” guy admitting to sexually engaging with dudes or having same sex attractions is a godsend and equates to someone being “special” and “open-minded”. Stop using identities as clickbait hashtags. Stop turning everything and everyone into fantasy. Leave all that shit in 2020 and start having real convos and writing real articles that aren’t just about identity and sexual politics and protecting “straight’ guys”. The “queer community” and “queer media” are connected to a lot of the problems that they claim to be interested in stopping. Save that shit for the porn sites.
Kangol2
The first responder couple is so cute. Given their jobs I hope they’re taking every precaution and staying as safe as possible. I’m also glad to see Lil Nas X continues to produce hits.
Donston
I don’t know if LNX will ever see big mainstream success again. But it at least appears he’ll maintain relevancy for a while. Good for him.