Jesse Brune’s on a mission: making the world feel better, one person at a time.
A professional chef and personal trainer, Brune’s big break came when Bravo asked him to be on their gym bunny reality show, Workout. And now that he’s a household name, Brune’s got a new gig: hocking Nair For Men, which he did quite well during yesterday’s gay pride extravaganza here in New York.
Our editor sat down with Brune to discuss his campaign against unwanted body hair, why he’s fit to change a stranger’s life and how the closet forced him out of acting.
Read all about it, after the jump…
Andrew Belonsky: So, you’re in New York, Jesse, for gay pride. You were on the Nair for Men float…
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Jesse Brune: Yeah, I am in town for Nair spreading the good word.
AB: Spreading the good, hairless word. Do you think your involvement with Nair may make bears think they’re being discriminated against? Do you fear the bear backlash on all of this?
JB: [Laughs] I thought that a fun activity to do is to Nair a bear – but, no, absolutely not. There’s no problem with body hair. If you’re going to own it, own it, but I think that a lot of people are getting ready for summer, getting ready for pool parties, are working out really hard in the gym and what Nair does is get that smooth skin that makes your muscles pop and get your muscular structure in full light after you’ve been working so hard on it. It’s just one of those little things that you do to feel sexy. It’s sort of like after having a hair cut or buying new clothes. It just helps your energy. You carry yourself a little differently. I think that after Queer Eye for The Straight Guy, men having been really hip to grooming. It’s okay for us to take care of ourselves – and in the gay community, come on, everybody has their little tricks.
AB: That was a very serious answer. Now, how did you get involved in all of this? Did they approach you?
JB: Yeah. I was actually talking about cooking shows with somebody and I was with my manager and she said, “Jesse, have you ever thought of Nair?” And I was like, “Um, not really.” And then after talking to them and hearing their mission statement, it made a lot of sense for me to stand by this because it’s what I do – I help people feel good about themselves and that is pretty much the focus of this product.
AB: And, Jesse, I’d like a bit of biographical information about you. How did you get into what you call the “transformation field?”
JB: It started with – I was in LA and New York, I was acting a bit and I got really sick of auditioning, I hated auditioning. And then I signed with a big management firm and they told me, I had one of those creepy made-for-tv movie moments – I went into their office and they closed the door and they said, “Jesse, we think you can be a big star, but you have to go into the closet!” It was that bad and that cheesy. And, so, I just couldn’t do it. I had to stay true to myself. And the other thing that I always wanted to do was cook. My mother was Southern, she was big into food and so family meals were very important. When she started working two jobs, she taught me how to cook dinner for the family. I always had a fantasy of going to culinary school and becoming a chef; I always thought it was so sexy.
AB: Oh, yes. Indeed.
JB: So a week after I decided to quit acting, I was in culinary school. I think all those years of acting made me very body conscious, so I got certified to be a personal trainer while I was in culinary school so that I wouldn’t gain a lot of weight. It was as shallow as that – I just didn’t want to get fat in culinary school.
AB: And how did you get involved in Workout?
JB: Toward the end of school I developed a following with my training and then I was approached by Workout to come on the show. I didn’t want to do it initially because it was a show about working out – I didn’t want to do that, I wanted to focus on food, but then they said they would feature me as a chef on the show and it just sort of took off from there. The more popular the show became, the more I had people wanting me to do both for them – train them and cook for them. So, my business started forming itself there, but it took me until the second season of the show – I had gained weight between the first and second season and part of the focus of the second season was about how I gained weight and, you know, that’s not the end of the world, doing that, but when I looked back at the footage, I realized that I just wasn’t happy. I had to take a step back and really go to the core issue, which was not that I gained weight, it was not what I was eating, it was “what can I do to make myself feel good.” And that’s where I started and from there I transformed my life.
AB: That’s a very strong word: “transform.”
JB: And I have to use the word “transform,” because that’s the only word that would accurately describe it. I approached my clients with that – what is it that you want to, not necessarily change but work on? Starting from that platform and moving around there, I realized when asked what I do, all I can say is “I help people transform.” It’s more than getting in shape, it’s more than just changing somebody’s eating – all that falls into place, but the brand that I endorse for myself is the “happy living expert.” That’s what I try to help people do: get to the point where they can really say, as clichéd as it might sound, is to say that they’re happy.
AB: Okay, so now let’s go back even further – where did you grow up?
JB: I grew up in Seattle – I grew up a Southern Baptist in Seattle, Washington.
AB: Was your family very religious?
JB: Yeah, when I was younger, I was very religious – I had a close family connection, but I would say I dropped the Southern Baptist probably when I was about fourteen. I came out of the closet when I was fifteen. As soon as I realized what it was, I was like, “Oh, that’s what it is: I’m gay!” I came out and never had any – I mean, I’m blessed in that my family just embraced me and loves me no matter what.
AB: And what year was that?
JB: 1995.
AB: That’s pretty impressive. Now, do people ever come to you only to get a date or because they’re gawking at someone who’s on television?
JB: Well, you know, what’s funny is that I’m at the point now where I screen my clientelle. I ask – because I get an overwhelming number of people who want to work with me, especially after a season is on the air, so I’m pretty good at weeding out the people who want to come just for the – I’ve had people who have come to work out with me and afterward they’ll be like, “So, what are you doing now? Do you want to do something?” And those are the people I never see again. I don’t care to waste my time with that. I keep my personal life my personal life and my business life, my business life.
AB: Speaking of your personal life – do you date? Are you dating somebody?
JB: Yeah, I’ve had a boyfriend now for about a year.
AB: Hoorah! Are you guys going to get gay married?
JB: [Laughs] God, I don’t know. Who knows what tomorrow brings…
fredo777
I love hirsute men but I s’pose smooth is okay for some guys.
Jesse is a qt. I used to sport some shots of him modeling a green hoodie + green undies w/ long striped socks as my forum sig on this other site.
hell's kitchen guy
This interview is like watching paint dry.
crazylove
if you thought it was boring when did you continue reading. involuntary reading disorder?
hisurfer
If you read it backwards it’s like watching dry paint get wet.
Dan
well, he is cute in aging twink kind of way.
but yeah… beginning to understand why he’s not given much airtime on that bravo show.
troy
Yikes! I guess it only took him one season to figure out why he was
not happy because quite frankly I don’t think he had to reach very far to find out what was wrong. There just does not seem to be a lot of layers to this guy. I feel like I was listening to a interview of a Dallas Cowboy cheerleader or something.
jessebruneisadouchebag
I think it’s funny that he’s the only one wearing a shirt. What a douchebag. Make him go away please.
while my nails are drying
I just went to his web site and played the clip of him on the cooking show. Girlfriend, whoever in the show biz world that shut the door and told him to stay in the closet was obviously deaf, dumb and blind and assumed the rest of the world is as well. Because when I look into my crystal ball and see his future what I see is the next Richard Simmons! Nothing wrong with being a little femme but denial ain’t no river in Egypt!
marcus
He is riding the Nair float and he is dressed like that? That outfit is about as sexy as what my grandfather used to mow the lawn in. I don’t think he necessarily had to wear a bikini or anything but nothing about him would make me want to go out and buy that product.
Troy
I grew up Southern Baptist and I always love it when gays say that their Southern Baptist families love them “no matter what” What the fuck is that supposed to mean? Even if your a murderer or a rapist or a bank robber or gay, we still love you. How nice that they can over look that hideous flaw that the Southern Baptist Religion will tell you any day of the week is sending you straight to hell. Being gay is a fundamental part of who we are and if someone is following a faith that teaches it is evil, and especially one like the Southern Baptist who shout it from the roof tops thenthey are not loving a core, fundamental part of you and Mr. Brune there is no part of you that I can see that is not gay.
fredo777
Retract the claws, ladies.
The snarkiness is in overdrive.
crazylove
nah- on some threads it can be counted on to be over the top. There is basically nothing wrong with this guy other than he’s gaining some suceess,a nd these people dissing him aren’t.
Trenton
It’s true that the comments are a touch mordant, but can we agree that the outfit is a true abomination? His Baptist family may practice unconditional love despite his sinful “lifestyle”, but wearing those pants on anything but a golf course is unforgivable.
Scooter Bangs
yeah, the guy is classic gay z-list ‘personality’ (household name??? maybe at his mama’s house…)but no reason to hate on his pants. NYC is full of colored madras shorts this year. All you Red State queens will be wearing em next summer. no doubt.
I saw the float at the parade and if it makes any difference, it was met with laughs and derision. it was a tacky highlight bwt the bar floats and other ‘business & services’ floats.
michael
I live in Vancouver where half the population is from all over the world and is about as liberal as it gets in this hemisphere. Nobody wears shorts like that, so to say anyone who does not “get them” is from a red state sounds like something some queen who is stuck in one of those states would say. And yeah, just cause he is successful does not make him the brightest bulb in the tanning bed. From that interview I would say there are a few bulbs that need replacing.
fredo777
Don’t be a hater. It is not a good look.
How is any regular member of a popular Bravo show (whom fans know by name + refer to him by it…in their households) “z-list”? He also modeled +, as I said, I saw him doing stuff before he was even on Bravo.
BootsieGee
I think I saw the shorts at Target this past weekend. I actually bought a paid. I wore them on Sunday and my friend mentioned that he was seeing tons of plaid shorts running around lately.
I have always had a mini-boycrush on Jesse and the interview is basically a rehash of what he said in his Instinct interview a few months back. As for the photos, two things: First, those guys on the float look oddly plastic and over oiled, yuk. Second, Jesse you should know better than to wear a T-Shirt like that in the heat, you know you are going to get it all wet with sweat. Next time try a white breathable cotton, loose fitting and unbuttoned, a much better look for you and shows of your sexy naired chest and goes well with the shorts.