I think what we have seen in terms of gay teenagers committing suicide because of bullying is anguishing. I think young people, if they are feeling like they are confused, need to know that there are people to talk to and that there are places they can go and not feel alone. But I feel that they have just as many rights as I do to not be bullied. And I don’t understand people who say, “Well, this is a terrible thing that is happening to this young person whose life is being exposed,” and then turn around and do it to another person. People have different reasons for the way they live their lives. You cannot put everyone’s reasons in the same box. It’s just a line I’ve never crossed and never will. … I don’t live a lie. You have to understand that people who choose not to discuss their personal lives are not living a lie. That is a presumption that people jump to.
—Actor Kevin Spacey, in what might be the most revealing comments about his sexuality he ever provides [via]
Cam
He chooses to sit in the back of the bus. Good for him.
Daez
@Cam: How come people like you always need to denigrate anyone that doesn’t shout their homosexuality from the roof tops as a self hating back of the bus sitting gay?
Perhaps, like all good people, he is just doing what he feels he needs to do to survive. Nah, that can’t be it, keep throwing stones cause lord knows you have no skeletons in your closet.
Cam
@Daez: DAEZ,
How come without fail you consistently defend the people that either are anti-gay or those that are defending their choise to stay closeted as if it was the same has hiding an affiar?
You supported the folks with the hotel not having to rent to gays and here you are attacking me. Did I denigrate Spacey? I said specificlly that he is choosing to sit in the back of the bus. Please explain to me, how his choice, to hide major facts about who he is, his life, and his loves is different from somebody that doesn’t really see what the problem is with sitting in the back of the bus.
Explain how my comparision was invalid.
Dinsdale
@Daez:
Faggot, please.
Daez
@Cam: Very simply. Because you are delusional if you believe that people that chose to sit in the back of the buss really have a choice at all. Do you honestly believe there is a choice in the matter when the option is to sit in the back of the buss or to come out and risk your livelihood, your family, your home and other aspects of your life.
Every time someone like you makes the comment that choosing not to live a life based on your sexuality is “sitting at the back of the bus” you simply reinforce the idea that there is a real choice in the matter.
Also, I still support the rights of a business to freely discriminate because its a HELL of a lot better for a business to freely discriminate than to give the illusion that they are completely gay friend when in reality they are anything but (can we say TARGET?).
Daez
@Dinsdale: YES MASTER!
DR
He’s got a point.
He’s an actor. I don’t care what he does in his personal life unless it’s the answer to a Jeopardy! question. He didn’t give up his right to have a life of his own because he won a couple of Oscars.
As for bullying? Look at what happened with Lance and Ricky and Vanessa and Anna…. vilified by a bunch of bitter queens with nothing better to do than accuse folks of trying to revive careers or being safe, or whatever.
I don’t blame Kevin Spacey one bit for telling everyone to piss off.
Aaron
Pathetic coward.
bobby
If you’re fully out then you are. If you’re not then you’re not. it’s your sexuality. It’s yours to disclose, not for others to out you. If he doesn’t want to tell the world then so be it, it’s HIS choice. If you want to stand on the roof top and yell, good for you.
People need to stop being so involved, or trying to be involved in others lives. Focus on your own life, career, family, relationships. Stop telling others how to live. It’s a basic principle. (insert xxx) tries to tell you how to live, you try to tell others, etc, just stop.
and before you start bitching at me for being a closet case or what ever. I am out to all my friends and fam. No i don’t announce it with in the first 30sec of meeting new people. But if they ask then i tell them.
Dr. Dick
Can someone explain to me the comparison between choosing to stray closeted and abiding by racist segregatory laws please? Could we stop comparing the black civil rights movement with the queer civil right movement? I am a member of both communities, and I’m sorry but the comparison is in poor taste
Soupy
Believe it or not, it’s something for an actor in the film business to consider. It can hurt your career. Look at Rupert Everett.
Cam
@Dr. Dick:
Poor taste or not the comparison is valid.
Spacey is defneding his choise to stay closeted, to hide who he is, to abide by the bigotry and homophobia and the rule of keeping your mouth shut about being gay. He is a willing participant in the actions that are telling him it’s bad to be out.
Somebody who would have said “Look, it’s just the back of the bus, I will get there just as fast and I don’t see why anybody is causing a fuss about where to sit.” Would have been participating in the exact same way. They are going along with the bigotry for whatever reason. There is no such thing as “Poor Taste” when you are making a valid comparison of actions or behaviors. If somebody kills somebody because they hate women, it is not in poor taste to say that that crime is similar to one in which somebody killed somebody for being hispanic. Perhaps a male hispanic would find it “In poor taste” if he didn’t like women and didn’t want to be compared, but the straight out comparison again, is completely valid.
As for your request to stop comparing the gay civil rights struggle to the black civil rights struggle, you may have to take that request to the NAACP, Juliam Bond, Martin Luthor King Jr’s widow, Mrs. Loving etc… because they all draw that comparison.
David Ehrenstein
@Cam: Not to mention a gay black man named Bayard Rustin who created the March on Washington.
Spacey is Beyond Pathetic.
“You have to understand that people who choose not to discuss their personal lives are not living a lie.”
Yeah right. They’re living a STRUCTURING ABSENCE!
Spacey believes that since he won’t acknowledge the fact that he’s gay it’s Against The Law for anyone to mention it.
Stories about Spacey’s sexcapades flew around the town for years when he was just a rising young character actor. Then came the Trailer Incident on the set of “The Usual Suspects”a nd all bets were off. He started taking his assistnat Diane with him to awards shows, declaring his love for her from the podium.
So much for “I’m not living a lie”!
Gregg
It’s his business and his alone. The only people who care about entertainers shouting their orientation to all are career queens who impart their views on others as the “correct” way to live. Live you own life, let other’s live their own lives as they see fit.
wannabegay2
its the same line for all closeted gays, right? if youre not coming out, you are living a lie.
Franky
It’s his life. If he doesn’t want everyone to know then not every needs to know. Is that your decision to make? No. It’s not like he’s one of those rabid anti-gay republicans that fights against gay-equality laws but then goes home to an male escort. He’s saying positive things about the community and keeping his own sexuality to himself. Why do you need him to come out so badly? Will that somehow make your life completely? Will it suddenly make the world peaceful if he decides that absolutely everyone in the world (who follows North American celebrity news) knows for sure that he’s gay or straight?
Try putting all that attention you’re putting on his life into your own for a bit.
DR
@Cam:
Cam, he’s defending his choice to stay closeted to the entire world. Unless you’re his best friend and he’s staying closeted to you, you have no clue with whom he discusses his sexuality… family and friends probably know a lot more than you do about who the real Kevin Spacey is.
It’s a lousy comparison, and for you to so quickly throw out the casual insults is exactly why people like him tell you all to piss off.
Cam
@Gregg:
Oh Please, every single other actor or actress is asked about who they are dating, their children or who they are married. It’s only the self-hating type that equate being asked if they are dating anybody to being asked about anal sex.
I’m just saying that he is a willing participant in his own discrimination. If he is fine with that, then fine, but he needs to not get on a high horse and pretend that he is doing that from anything other than fear of disrimination. It isn’t about the dignity of privacy, it’s about his succumbing to the pressure and fear around him. That is his choice, but I’m not going to defend or give him a medal for it. Good for Hollywood though, we always get the same angry foaming at the mouth posters in here defending these types, and always with the same talking points. Apparently you all are quite well organized.
Cam
@DR:
Which “Casual Insult” was thrown out? Please specify, is he not being a party to his own discrimination? You claim it’s a lousy comparison but seem to not be able to state why.
Hank ORD
Why is it always the same few who camp on queerty telling everyone else how to live and apparently experts on all things gay?Why should we care if he tells us the gory details of his life or not,none of our business really.Truth be known,I don’t really care what my doctor,lawyer,mechanic or favorite actor or actress do in his or her lives.Better not to know actually.
Cam
@Hank ORD: said..
“”Why is it always the same few who camp on queerty telling everyone else how to live and apparently experts on all things gay?Why should we care if he tells us the gory details of his life or not,none of our business really.””
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How sad for you that you think the fact that he dates or is in love with a man, a “Gory Detail.”
Josh
I’m fine with him not saying that he’s gay and I’m not saying he’s living a lie, but when someone responds like he did it almost certainly means that he IS gay. A straight man would have no problem revealing that he’s straight. It really is that simple. Sorry, Kevin…
gregger
@Daez: Kevin Spacey was notorious in the steam room of the old gym in Chelsea, American Fitness (more often called “Uh Mary can you lift this?” Then when asked “are you gay?” Spacey’s response was “No I’m not” or “I’m straight.” It was much later after he stopped haunting steam rooms and other things that he stopped responding. He has changed his tune in recent years but for many of us, he remains a self loathing closet case. Complete with beards for media events and hanging on men as he runs around town.
Hank ORD
@Cam: blah blah blah – I guess at this point you can cut and paste most any response from your queerty indignation response arsenal.Don’t be sad for me, once I hit submit on this posting I will be moving forward in life,not sitting on a blog telling everyone who disagrees with you they are sad.
Just a thought...
Try an experiment.
Pick a random article on this site. Then another. Then three more. Try one last one.
When you see the same person commenting everywhere–I’m talking about the Cams of the world, and the Fritzes–chances are, this and other online vehicles are their life. This forum and others like it are, in all likelihood, the extent of their engagement with and influence (such as it is) on other people and the world in general.
Which is, of course, why they devote so much of their energies to calling OTHERS pathetic.
I hope they get well soon.
DR
@Cam:
I was pretty clear why it was a poor comparison, Cam, you just don’t agree methinks.
You don’t know to whom he may or may not be open. To suggest he’s “seating himself on the back of the bus” because he hasn’t taken out a full page ad in the paper discussing what he does when he isn’t on camera is petty, childish, and insulting.
It’s none of your damn business.
CJ Maciejeski
@Cam: Yeah, because the enquirer front page would be all about love and happiness and rainbow-farting bunnyrabbits…yep…
Cam
@Just a thought…:
Lets see, you can’t argue with my point, therefore you just lash out, attack, and try to dismmiss the person. Ok, done, lets just pretend that everysingle thing you wrote is correct for a second. Lets pretend that I am a complete shut in, who never goes outside and have no life outside of Queerty….please point out which part of my statement this fact would invaliddate.
And
No. 26 · DR
@Cam:
I was pretty clear why it was a poor comparison, Cam, you just don’t agree methinks.
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Spacey himself brought up the issue. My comment was based on his jumping in to defend himself in a conversation where it wasn’t needed. I know why he stays in the closet, he knows why he stays in the closet. He is afraid of the reprecussions. I get it, that is fine, but to pretend that it is due to some privacy advocation is silly and ridiculous. He bought into the system, good for him. But he needs to own that.
Adrian Acosta
I think the real issue here is the fact that if you read the interview the reporter Kevin Sessum might have pulled a Barbara Walkters/Ricky Martin bit on Spacey by asking:
“We gay men have always proudly claimed you as a member of our tribe, and yet you don’t proudly claim us back. Why?”
He put Spacey on the spot and pretty much asked him “Are you Gay?”
it’s clear, if you read the interview, Spacey was not interested in discussing his private matters. He was there to talk about his work.
at the end though Kevin did answer the question at hand from a different perspective by saying he does embrace the part of the gay tribe that is committing suicide because of bullying.
very interesting exchange.
now the question is, has he helped in the fight for equal rights and if so how has he contributed?
Marcus
@David Ehrenstein: I still can’t believe he did that LOL
Oh well, it’s his life…but just because he doesn’t want to discuss it, doesn’t mean other people won’t.
He seems to not want to understand that.
He’s going to be a miserable man.
Fitz
The line in the sand for me is: does he work against gay causes? Spacey doesn’t; so I say hands off.
gregger
@Soupy: Rupert came out before he was well known and not really established. It was also in the 80’s at the height of the Aids/homophobia backlash. The use of him, his nasty attitude, and what happened 25 years ago is really not valid.
Brutus
@Cam: While you’re right that an ad hominem attack doesn’t invalidate your point, Just A Thought is right to imply that we should stop listening to you because even when people DO rebut your points, you just go into a new thread and start from the top again.
In short: You’re not worth the effort.
Cam
@Brutus: said..
“”@Cam: While you’re right that an ad hominem attack doesn’t invalidate your point, Just A Thought is right to imply that we should stop listening to you because even when people DO rebut your points, you just go into a new thread and start from the top again.
In short: You’re not worth the effort.”
________________
Interesting, you claim that an Ad hominem attack doesn’t invalidate my point…right before you engage in one.
Once again, you claim that if people rebut my point I go to another thread blah blah blah…. What I’ve noticed here is that nobody has rebutted it. People claim that I’m attacking Spacey…and then attack me, but nobody has refuted the point I made, you then try to masterful tactic of “Gee, you’re not worth it”. So just so I know….did that refute my point?
What I notice here is that people are attacking, name calling, and jumping all over the people that they claim are attacking Spacey. Claiming that we are horrible evil people when anybody doesn’t agree with us…
Read what I and some of the others wrote about him, then read what you folks wrote….you might want to rethink who you label the people who attack anybody who dissagrees with them?
greenmanTN
Uh, what about the times he specifically stated in interviews that he’s straight? There have been celebrities who refuse to address their sexuality WITHOUT LYING, which is quite different than claiming to be heterosexual. Anderson Cooper and David Hyde Pierce, off the top of my head. DHP has since ‘come out,’ but when he was on “Frasier” his statement to the press was “I live my life as an open book, I just don’t choose to read it to anyone.” No muss, no fuss, no lies.
Just a thought...
Cam has now posted 8 replies to this post alone. Cam, go for a walk. Get some air. We are all worried about you. This isn’t healthy.
Kyle M.
DAEZ IS A TROLL. DO NOT FEED THE TROLLS.
As others have noted, Daez is an imposter posing as “one of us” but his ideology and stance on every single gay topic is being against the gay side. There is always a right and a wrong in every argument, and by in large, the cases highlighted on this site show the wrongs put upon gay individuals for being gay. Daez will tell you how he understands lack of equality in any given story is wrong, BUT ….enter a laundry list of why it should exist. Sheriff fired in Mississippi? According to Daez, it’s fine. Why would you want to work somewhere you’re not welcomed. Not allowed in a business establishment? According to Daez, it’s fine. Why would you want to go to a business that doesn’t like gays. California school teaching of Harvey Milk? According to Daez there is no reason for children to be exposed to a homosexual “congressmen” who had a gay agenda and did not do anything except for the contribution of 10% of the population. Not to mention, as pointed out, he is also against gay adoption, feels DADT should not be a priority for gays because “why would we want to serve in a military that doesn’t accept us”…see that’s the flawed thinking behind his narrow viewpoints. His strategy is to just stop partaking in any event that does not fully accept gay folks. Instead of reversing it, and combating it, Daez suggests just moving on. When probed, he than insists “No..no, I didn’t mean to infer we shouldn’t challenge minds. I say we educate them, not force it upon them” yet he detests “activism”, detests educating of the presence of homosexuals in history to high schoolers, detests the efforts of brave inidviduals like Dan Choi who will not be silenced. Essentially, silence and tyranny of the majority is what this Daez troll seeks. For us to bite the bullet, keep our presence low key, and have tea with red velvet cake with every known anti gay offender with the hopes they come around, and if they don’t? isolate yourself in your corner of the world, with your gay friendly businesses, communities and live life with out demanding change, not begging for it like a timid flower.
His ideology is stemmed from pushing the gay cause back, and we as the gay community need to silence detractors who try to divert our attention like Daez.
Kyle M.
@Hank ORD: This is Daez. It’s one of his alias characters. Here he’s arguing being openly gay and honest about being gay is “knowing where you stick your junk in”….this is the same troll that makes homophobic remarks in other threads. The trolls don’t just run off and leave, they pick other names to troll with. Any gay man who equates being gay to just sex is not one of us. Trolls who are imposters and pretend to be one of us while ATTEMPTING to change our minds and convert to their bigotry need to consistently be called out. There is no shame in being gay, being open about it, and discussing it in a very fragile significant time for the gay movement. We need to be as vocal, open, and honest about who we are and the more people who can be comfortable enough to be open with that aspect of their lives, the more exposure those who don’t normally have with a gay person can see they in actuality do have with a gay person. Not someone closed off to that matter of their life, but open to everything else. Back to my original point, look out for trigger words like:
-gay = sex
-some of you queers want us all to live like you
-who cares where he stick his stuff in
-why do some of you scream from a rooftop your sexuality
^ Those are ex gay statements from the ex gay movement adopted by some trolls on here mouthing off. Call out the trolls, than stop feeding them once we catch them.
B
No. 16 · Franky pointed out, “It’s his life. If he doesn’t want everyone to know then not every needs to know.”
Also, if he has a boyfriend or partner, maybe that person is camera shy, in which case he would be merely respecting his
partner’s wishes.
Jimmy
How is this any different from Anderson Cooper?
AugustLA
If you’re honest and open about all aspects of your life except for your sexuality, than yes…you do feel it’s shameful and you’re not fully honest with who you are because like it or not (and closet cases don’t)…being gay is an extension of being you. Not everything to you, but just as you would announce you have a prefrence for tall people, tea over coffee, and coastal egions verses land locked environments…then te meer mention of who you are attracted to isn’t that big of a deal. Constantly going out of your way to avoid a simple yes/no seems more exhausting than just simply answering yes/no and having it go away. Especially when you’re a millionare, and have more to gain (like people’s respect) by being unapologetically yourself and proud, as opposed to feeding everyone’s fodder and whispering. That seems so lame. Actually, it is lame. Nothing respectable about a grown man who has to hide a part of themself.
boom
The fact that I don’t know too damn much about his private life is one of the reasons I don’t hear “Kevin Spacey” and immediately think of something besides his movies. I don’t care about who he dates, who he has beef with, or what his pets’ names are because there’s no media constantly telling me I should care. Consequently, the only things I associate with him are his films. Which, in my opinion, is a smart career move and a social fucking grace. If more celebrities, gay straight or otherwise, tried that move too, we’d probably be a lot less annoyed with most of them.
ejg2
Kevin Spacey, whether he is gay or not, is just an Acadamy Award winning actor. Anderson Cooper is a journalist. Neither one of them have any real effect on our lives. Why do we press so hard for them to “come out” when it really won’t “help” the gay cause? Why don’t we place the same insane pressure on our elected officials? The politicians that suck a dick on Tuesday and then endorse Prop 8 (or vote against hate crimes legislation, etc) on Wednesday are doing far worse damage to our lives than the dad from American Beauty or a wind-blown reporter. The house voted to repeal dadt. It might make it through the senate. hooray. Now I can die for a country that that I am dead to anyway. Put the same amount of pressure on your politicians to live an “honest life” and it will get better for all of us.
Scott
As cool as it would be for him to come out, it’s his choice.
He’s a fantastic actor and hopefully we will see some more oscar worthy performances from him in the future.
Now, onto the important sh*t: Like stated before, we need to focus more on closeted politicians pushing Prop 8 and other anti-gay policies! Spacey being gay or not is such a minimal issue and would do nothing for the gay community! Worry about the important stuff!
Kari
People calling Kevin Spacey a coward, you seriously need to re-evaluate your entire life. It is Kevin Spacey’s CHOICE on what he chooses to say about his PERSONAL life, it is NOONE’s business except his own. Stop jumping to conclusions about someone you have probably never met and never will meet. Mr Spacey’s comments are every bit justified, he owes no explanation on his sexuality and he shouldn’t feel the need to explain himself. Spacey is right in saying that trying to bully the “gay” out of someone is totally pathetic and uncalled for. Spacey is a PROFESSIONAL and asking a professional actor about his personal life during an interview regarding his new film? Unfair. Just because Kevin is not open about his sexuality or his personal life does not make him gay and even if he is it truly is no one elses business. Would you like being forced out the closet or made to second guess your sexuality? Stop worrying so much about an actors life and go stress over your own before you hate the man for choosing to keep at least some aspect of his life, private.
I have had the pleasure of meeting Kevin a couple of times and honestly? People are way too quick to judge and assume. He is constantly reported as “bitchy” and he is quite the opposite. In fact, he is one of the most down to earth people I have ever had the honor to meet. It is wrong to judge someone based on what the emdia states about them.
Matt
This should be forwarded to Barbra Walters! Not every gay person wants to be wrapped in a rainbow flag and paraded down the street. And the fact that some gay people do not visibly wave the flag everyday does not make them hateful toward the gay community. I am a proud gay man. I am sucessful in my business and personal life. Because I do not have sex in public parks or declare my sexual preference to every man I meet like an uncontrolable hard on does not make me a closeted homophobe. I write my congress and the president to push for equal rights and vote for the candidates that represent my beliefs.
Cam
@Just a thought…:
Once again, no refutation of my point.
And to all the heretofore unseen screenames that suddenly appear out of nowhere everytime we have a posting on some closeted Hollywood star. I hope the publicists are paying you interns well.
Interesting how much anger and bile these folks have for anybody that dares question the Hollywood closet. Sounds like it hits a little too close to home.
As for Spacey, once again, it isn’t a privacy issue, it’s a living with discrimination issue. If he wants to do that, that is fine, but lets not pretend that it’s because he enjoys his privacy.
Cam
@Matt: said..
“”Because I do not have sex in public parks or declare my sexual preference to every man I meet like an uncontrolable hard on does not make me a closeted homophobe. “”
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Again, what a sad comment on your thoughts if you compare being honest about who you are to having public sex in a park. That is exactly the same comparison that the anti-gay bigots would be making.
JusticeontheRocks
Spacey is a media whore. Nothing wrong with that. He has publicists working very hard to make sure people continue to interview him, keep him in the public eye, reinforce his status as a “celebrity.” Nothing wrong with that. But he wants it both ways: he wants to make his whole life a subject of talk, gossip and intense speculation, then he wants to draw lines about how curious people can be. A lot wrong with that.
David Ehrenstein
What’s with this “Choice” crap?
If you’re gay the only “Choice” you have is to be a brave and hones person or to be a KAPO.
David Ehrenstein
@Kari: How much does Kevin pay you to post here dear?
Chandler In Las Vegas
It probably means he is one of those detestable REPUBLICAN gays that believe they shouldn’t be defined by their sexuality. How ironic…
Sam
Cam, now Hollywood interns are posting here to protect Kevin from being outed? You REALLY need to get a life.
On the bright side, just think- any day now, Kris Allen will announce he is divorcing his wife for Adam Lambert.
Try not to wet yourself at the news.
Daez
@Dr. Dick: Not to be disrespectful, but do you honestly think no black person has ever tried to pass for white to make their lives easier at any point in history?
Daez
@Cam: You are so right. His coming out would only cost him work, possibly a career and the condemnation of everyone that disagrees with him.
On the other hand, staying in the closet allows him to make the very people that “hate” him be his bitches. Now, how exactly does that make him self-hating or a willing contributor in his own discrimination (which he isn’t experiencing because no one knows that he is gay).
Its bitchy old queens that couldn’t pass if they tried that demand everyone be out because they are.
Ronbo
@Daez: Daez, you’ve earned your dollar from the RNC today. Time to zip it up.
Daez
@Kyle M.: Oh dear. I feel that the education system has already failed you since you know nothing about paragraphs.
Seriously though, can you prove to me why it is a good idea to force our way into places we aren’t wanted? How well has that worked for us so far?
Here is a hint, its worked so well so far that 31 states have passed constitutional amendments as a backlash to our current approach.
Yet, we still insist, that forcing ourselves upon others is a good idea.
Daez
@Kyle M.: Did no one ever tell you when you make outlandish claims you should have evidence? Just because you are obsessed with me doesn’t mean you should see me everywhere. I’m not the boy walking down the street next to you, either.
Seriously, I would never equate being gay to simply being where we stick our dick unless its in a known attempt to piss someone off, such as yourself.
My relationship with my partner is about 95% living life as a committed partner who is supportive and loving and about 5% where I put my dick (even if where I put my dick can sometimes be the funnest part).
Daez
@AugustLA: f you’re honest and open about all aspects of your life except for your sexuality, than yes…you do feel it’s shameful and you’re not fully honest with who you are because like it or not (and closet cases don’t)…being gay is an extension of being you.
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Wow! You just don’t get it do you. You have demonstrated this ability to actually communicate your thoughts and ideals into a way that is not the stereotypical (back of the buss) rhetoric.
Very well said, but that doesn’t exactly tow the party line. You really had to get out of the gay card carrying box for that one. I don’t know how anyone can look at that argument and not agree fully with it.
However, fear most definitely plays a part in it. In this consumer driven world, its hard to think that you might lose property, your job, your home, your friends, and your family just because you come out.
Daez
@ejg2: Well said, but careful bro, soon you will be accused of being me.
Daez
@Ronbo: Baby, honey, sweet heart…
It would take more than a dollar to pay me to go one on one with closed minded people that think all gays should tow the line or stop being gay.
I argue with closed minded bigots that can’t see the viewpoint of anyone else out of love.
Jaroslaw
Wow Cam, I’ve been a bit busy or I would have jumped in to help you. Yeah, most of the people here are just attacking you instead of intelligently refuting your points.
This really is silly. I have NEVER heard a straight person say “who I am married to is none of your business.” Not only that, those kind of questions come with celebrity status. Anyone ever heard of the casting couch? Some will do ANYTHING for celebrity status and then when they get it, they want “privacy?” Doesn’t work that way.
So, Kevin, yes, you have the right to answer any way you want. And I have the right to think you’re chicken for not answering.
Simple, really.
Jeffree
Maybe Kevin Spacey is asexual?
Do asexual people come out? (I don’t know the answer to that question).
Spacey, regardless, is still one of our finest actors, & I won’t boycott his movies.