Some of the notable LGBTQ figures we lost in 2019.
Karl Lagerfeld
Fashion designer Karl Lagerfeld died February 19, aged 85. Lagerfeld was born in Hamburg in 1933: the son of a businessman and former lingerie saleswoman. He undertook his secondary schooling in Paris, after which he took up a job as an apprenticeship with the designer Pierre Balmain.
He designed his first haute couture collection, for Jean Patou, in 1958. Lagerfeld built a name for himself during the 1960s, working extensively with Chloe, Curiel, and Fendi. Lagerfeld was appointed creative director for Chanel in 1983, which is when he truly became a global fashion brand.
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Rip Taylor
US comic and actor Rip Taylor died early October in Beverley Hills, West Hollywood. He was 84.
Taylor was a US TV and comedy club regular for more than six decades. He got his big break after being invited to appear on The Ed Sullivan Show. One of Taylor’s trademarks was pretending to cry whilst pleading with the audience to laugh, and Sullivan named him the “crying comedian.”
Countless further appearances followed on TV, including The Jackie Gleason Show, movies such as Wayne’s World 2, and on Jackass in the mid-90s.
Lyra McKee
Northern Ireland journalist and LGBTQ rights campaigner Lyra McKee, 29, was shot dead while observing rioting in Londonderry’s Creggan estate on April 18.
Her death shocked Britain and reawakened memories of the sectarian troubles that have plagued Northern Ireland for decades. The New IRA admitted one of its members was responsible for the crime.
In the wake of her death, a letter she wrote to her 14-year-old self, in which she counseled that being gay would turn out to be OK, went viral.
Miriam Rivera
Miriam Rivera, heralded by some as “the world’s first transgender reality TV star,” died at her home, aged 38, in Hermosillo, Mexico in February. Rivera shot to attention in the UK’s 2004 dating reality series, There’s Something About Miriam, and also appeared on Big Brother Australia.
Although her death was ruled to be suicide, those close to Rivera – including her New York-based husband – suspect she may have been murdered.
Walter Mercado
Walter Mercado was probably the best-known astrologer in the whole of Latin America. Although he never publicly came out, the Puerto Rican’s camp and flamboyant persona endeared him to millions – including many LGBTQ people. His televised horoscopes were broadcast across the Spanish-speaking world.
He died, aged 88, following a short illness, in San Juan on November 2.
Richard Rhodes
A Navy veteran, political trailblazer and HIV/AIDS activist, Richard Rhodes died aged 81 in late July. Born in Tampa, Florida, he made Atlanta, Georgia, his home from 1971 onwards. Among his achievements, he was one of the first openly gay men to run for the Georgia House of Representatives, the first openly gay male delegate to the Democratic National Convention from Georgia and the first openly gay chair of the DeKalb Democratic Party. He was a founding member of SAGE Atlanta and Atlanta Prime Timers.
Brandon Truaxe
Gay entrepreneur Brandon Truaxe was the founder of the $300 million+ skincare company Deciem. He died, aged 40, in January, following a fall from the 26th floor of a condominium building in Toronto, Canada. Friends and colleagues reported that he had been acting erratically for several months, leading to him being ousted as the head of the company he founded.
Jackie Shane
Trans singer Jackie Shane died in February at the age of 78. Shane was born in Nashville, TN, but moved to Canada in the 1960s, where she briefly blazed a trail on the R’n’B circuit and had a hit with the song “Any Other Way” in 1967.
She disappeared into obscurity in 1971 and was not publicly heard from again until a retrospective collection of music was released in 2018 and picked up a Grammy nomination. Back living in Nashville, she came forward to do limited media interviews about her life and music.
Barbra Siperstein
Transgender activist Barbra ‘Babs’ Casbar Siperstein died on February 3. She was 76. Siperstein came out as trans in the late 1980s. She made history in 2009 when she became the first openly transgender person to be elected to the Democratic National Committee. She was promoted to the executive committee in 2011 and served until 2017.
Just days before her death, the Babs Siperstein Law went into effect in New Jersey. The law allows transgender, non-binary, and other gender-nonconforming people to request a change on their birth certificate from a registrar.
Hattie Hathaway
New Yorker Brian Butterick, also known as the drag queen Hattie Hathaway, died at the age of 62 in late January. Butterick was a well-known figure on NYC’s club scene. Beyond making a name for himself as a drag queen, Butterick was also a musician and performer, poet, and club runner. He worked for a while as creative director of Pyramid, as well as stints at Mudd Club, Mother and co-producer of Jackie 60 in the 90s.
Harris Wofford
Harris Wofford was a noted US attorney, civil rights activist, and Democratic Party politician who represented Pennsylvania in the United States Senate from 1991 to 1995. He married his wife, Clare, in 1948, and had three children. They were together until her death in 1996. At the time, Wofford said he never expected to fall in love again, but in 2001 he met interior designer Matthew Charlton, 50 years his junior. He married Charlton in 2016, at the age of 90. Wofford died January 21, 2019.
Jeudy Charlot
One of Haiti’s most prominent LGBTIQ activists, Jeudy Charlot, was found dead at his home in Pétion-Ville outside of the capital of Port-au-Prince on the morning of Monday, November 25th. He was 34. Jeudy rose to prominence as an LGBTQ rights advocate in 2009 when he founded Kouraj, a social group for queer people to meet and congregate together.
The organization evolved to take on a more campaigning role. In the months leading up to his death, friends and family had tried to persuade Charlot to flee Haiti for his safety.
Mary Oliver
Lesbian Pulitzer Prize-winning poet Mary Oliver died January 17, at her home in Hobe Sound, Florida, at the age of 83, following a battle with lymphoma. The beloved American poet was known for her odes to nature and wildlife. In 1984, she won a Pulitzer Prize for her poetry collection, American Primitive, and a National Book award in 1992 for New and Selected Poems. In 2007, The New York Times praised her as ‘far and away, this country’s best-selling poet’.
Robert W. Richards
Robert W. Richards was an artist and illustrator. He died on July 11, aged 78. Born in Maine, he began his career as a fashion illustrator, working for major newspapers and brands such as L’Oreal, Clairol, and Revlon. He went on to also work on show posters, as well as album artwork for the likes of Sarah Vaughan, Dinah Shore, Lena Horne, Bob Marley, and Peggy Lee. In later years, he won new fans for his erotic art.
Andy Velez
Andy Vélez, died May 14, 2019, aged 80, following complications associated with a fall in his Greenwich Village home. Vélez became involved with ACT UP soon after its launch in 1987 and remained a committed HIV activist throughout his life, also helping raise awareness of challenges facing Latinx communities and becoming involved with the Rise and Resist movement.
He was also a founding member of Queer Nation in New York City in 1990. Besides his activism, he wrote extensively about the theatre for a number of media outlets and taught courses in musical theater at the New School.
Philip Osment
British theatre director and playwright Philip Osment died May 24, aged 66. Osment was a member of the pioneering queer theatre group Gay Sweatshop in the late 70s and 80s. He found acclaim with his play This Island’s Mine in 1988, described by The Guardian as “elegiac plea for acceptance of those at the fringes of mainstream society.” He went on to write and direct many other productions, including his award-winning Little Violet and the Angel (2001).
Howard Cruse
Acclaimed cartoonist Howard Cruse died November 26, aged 75, from complications relating to lymphoma. He was best known for his 1995 graphic novel, Stuck Rubber Baby, which explored his interior struggles as a closeted gay man during the civil rights era of the 1960s.
In the 1980s, he was founding editor of Gay Comix, which showcased the work of many underground lesbian and gay cartoonists. He also produced the comic strip, ‘Wendel’, which ran in the Advocate for much of that decade.
Carmella Marcella Garcia
Drag queen Carmella Marcella Garcia was the creation of performer, George Timothy Reed, who passed October 15, 2019, in Bowling Green, Kentucky, aged 57, following a fight against cancer. He created Carmella, “The Grand Ole Gal of the South”, in the mid-80s and became a well-known figure in Nashville and further afield, with regular appearances in the bars of Provincetown and Florida. He also had great success as a pageant coach.
RIP legend. Thanks for all the laughs and love ❤️💔 pic.twitter.com/U1RseTAkgP
— Brooke Lynn Hytes (@Bhytes1) October 15, 2019
Binyavanga Wainaina
Kenyan author and LGBTI rights activist Binyavanga Wainaina died May 21, at the age of 48. Wainaina worked for several years as a freelance food and travel writer. However, a satirical essay he wrote in 2012, How To Write About Africa, brought him to wide attention and won awards. It led to him writing more political work, leading to him being named by Time magazine as one of its annual Most Influential People in 2014.
He revealed himself to be HIV positive on World AIDS Day in 2016 and also announced plans to marry his long-term partner – news that made headlines in Kenya, where homosexuality remains criminalized.
Santiago Carvajal
Santiago Carvajal, 32, was a television presenter in Honduras. The trans broadcaster hosted La Galaxia de Santi, a magazine show on a local television channel. She was gunned down in the street and died July, 6. Friends say she had been subjected to death threats in the days preceding her death. Anti-trans hate crime is common in Honduras, and Carvajal was one of several trans women murdered in July alone.
Allee Willis
Grammy-winning songwriter Allee Willis died Christmas Eve, aged 72, of a heart attack. She was best known for co-writing the Earth Wind and Fire songs, “September” and “Boogie Wonderland”, and the theme song to Friends, “I’ll Be There For You”, for The Rembrandts, among many other hits. She also wrote for shows, including the score for the musical of The Color Purple. Her partner, Prudence Fenton, announced Willis’ death via Instagram.
Ram Dass
Spiritual philosopher Ram Dass died December 22 in Hawaii. He was 88. Born Richard Alpert, he was a clinical psychologist but a trip to India, and experimentation with LSD in the late 60s, set his life on a different path. He published several motivational and inspiring books, including The Only Dance There Is, and How Can I Help? Compassion in Action. A stroke in 1997 left him disabled, but he continued his work, saying his health challenges only led him to look even further inward into the spiritual heart of life.
Actress Helen Hunt was among those to mourn his passing. She posted a photo of herself to Instagram with one of his quotes on the subject of death.
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“Dying is the most important thing you do in your life. It’s the great frontier for every one of us. And loving is the art of living as a preparation for dying. Allowing ourselves to dissolve into the ocean of love is not just about leaving this body; it is also the route to Oneness and unity with our own inner being, the souls, while we are still here. If you know how to live and to love, you know how to die.”
frenchjr25
We also lost this year LGBTQ rights pioneer Dr. Ted McIlvenna. Starting in 1965 with San Francisco’s “New Year’s Ball”, he was a leader in the British Homosexual Law Reform and established the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality.
JohnInDallas
I am extremely saddened that you left out a major loss of groundbreaking author and activist Patricia Nell Warren, who passed away on February 9 at the age of 82. The following is from The One Archives at The University of Southern California Libraries.
Patricia Nell Warren was born in 1936 and grew up on the Grant Kohrs cattle ranch near Deer Lodge, Montana. She began writing professionally when she was a teenager in the 1950s, and later landed a job at Reader’s Digest where she worked as a copy editor, 1959-1964, and book editor, 1964-1980. For a few years in the 1960s, Reader’s Digest stationed her in Spain. While there, she wrote her first gay novel, a chronicle of the illicit relationship between a Spanish bullfighter and a peasant during the fascist regime of Spain (she would publish the book in 2001 under the title The Wild Man). In Spain, she also took up jogging. She became proficient enough that she was the fourth woman to finish the 1970 Boston Marathon. In 1971, she published her first book The Last Centennial, a set of three short novels that take place in a Montana town during the 1970s.
In 1974, Warren published her most acclaimed work The Front Runner, her first published gay-themed book. This love story about an ex-Marine track coach and his Olympic athlete was the first work of gay fiction to reach the New York Times Best Seller list and has sold an estimated 10 million copies worldwide. The work inspired Front Runners running and walking clubs across the world.
In 1976, Warren published The Fancy Dancer, the first bestseller to portray a gay priest and to explore gay life in a small town. In 1978, Warren published The Beauty Queen, a story inspired by the rise of the homophobic Anita Bryant. In 1991, Warren published her second mainstream title, One Is the Sun, a historical epic about a woman chief of the Montana Territory during the 1800s.
In 1994, Warren completed Harlan’s Race, the long-awaited sequel to The Front Runner. This was the premiere title offered by Wildcat Press, an independent press co-founded by Warren and her business partner, Tyler St. Mark. In 1997, Wildcat Press published the third book in the series, Billy’s Boy, which won the Lambda Literary Editor’s Choice Award. Wildcat Press would go on to publish the following Warren-authored books: The Wild Man (2001), The Lavender Locker Room: 3000 Years of Great Athletes Whose Sexual Orientation Was Different (2006), and My West: Personal Writings on the American West (2011).
Warren is also known for her hundreds of nonfiction articles and essays on subjects such as youth, mythology, environmentalism, human rights, gay and lesbian life, AIDS, mixed-race prejudice, American history, sports, wild animals, agriculture, and current events. Her short works have appeared in the Los Angeles Times, Reader’s Digest, San Francisco Chronicle, Chicago Tribune, L.A. Woman, Mythosphere, Foreword and Persimmon Hill, as well as in LGBT publications such as the Advocate, Out, Gay & Lesbian Review, Genre, Philadelphia Gay News, and Lodestar Quarterly. As a columnist, Warren wrote a series about gay pioneers in sports history for Outsports.com and the “Left Field” series on the politics of AIDS and public health in A & U Magazine.
In addition to her literary work, Warren has been a committed human rights activist. Her personal activism started during the 1960s, with her efforts to have the American media recognize the individuality of Ukrainians and other ethnic groups in the USSR. In the 1970s, she became active in women’s rights and was the plaintiffs’ spokesperson for Susan Smith v. Reader’s Digest, a landmark lawsuit that resulted in a class-action victory for women. As a former amateur athlete, she helped lead a group of female distance runners who forced the Amateur Athletics Union to change the discriminatory rules under which women were permitted to run in the mid-1970s.
Later, Warren’s activism focused on free speech and issues confronting LGBT youth. In the late 1990s, she taught a GED program for LGBT youth, served on the Gay and Lesbian Education Commission of the Los Angeles Unified School District (LAUSD), and served on the LAUSD’s Human Relations Education Commission. She is one of several dozen plaintiffs in ACLU v. Reno and ACLU v. Reno II, a case-setting lawsuit seeking to stem unwarranted censorship of the Internet. She was also one of the founders of Just Dissent, a California activist group seeking to protect the rights of peaceful protesters.
Warren’s passionate activism has drawn her to diverse causes. She has volunteered for SOS Care, a wildcat rescue center. In 2007, Warren campaigned for a seat on the West Hollywood City Council. Warren’s literary and political work has been honored by the Arizona Human Rights Fund’s Barry Goldwater Award, the National Cowboy Hall of Fame’s Western Heritage Award, the Lambda Literary Award, the Saints & Sinners Hall of Fame, and the Gay and Lesbian Literary Hall of Fame.
John Selig
Dallas, Texas
sjwood
For those of us who came out and came of age in the early 70’s Patricia Nell Warren gave us the first reasonably positive, mainstream portrayal of Gay relationships. When the The Front Runner was published 1974 there was no mainstream Gay fiction and this book was a game changer for me and countless others. Less than 10 years after publication of The Front Runner AIDS would claim the headlines and the lives of countless men of our generation who considered Ms. Warren a hero. We are a generation who lived through hell but the passing of Patricia Nell Warren reminds us of a world before AIDS when we were emerging from the shadows of institutional homophobia and claiming our place in society – thanks to people like Ms. Warren. Her passing was definitely a milestone worthy of note.