Mo’Nique isn’t just the Academy Award contender. She’s also planting the seeds to — if she so chooses — become an outspoken advocate for the Gs. With a little help from singer Miki Howard on The Mo’Nique Show, the Precious actress laid it all out there: there should be no judgment about the homos in the black religious community.
Aside from recognizing the gays have contributed much to African-American culture, these two stunning ladies are sending a no-frills message to their brothers, Christian or otherwise, that just because previous generations were taught that homosexuality was sinful doesn’t make it so. (Cue to 27:50)
Maybe an intern should forward this clip to the likes of J-Elijah, the Brooklyn-based self-professed ex-gay Christian hip-hopper who stopped by Jamaica’s chat show Smile Jamaica (last year, it looks like) to share his good fortune. Nobody, J-Elijah says, is born homosexual. Except, uh, he himself says he had bisexual feelings at a very young age.
An episode of Tyra this was not.
And now a special treat for you, J-Elijah last week delivered the rap — in the bottom video — about the down low. Hell-o!
dontblamemeivotedforhillary
Mo’Nique is a Goddess! She will win the Oscar and become the Queen of the Gays!
JR
Does he rap like that when he takes it up the butt??? That would be HOT!
Shade
Nice, thanks Mo’Nique
barry
When i listen to Mo’nique i always feel good. She redifines celebrity this year and is definitely a legend in the making. Love her!
terrwill
Follow this subhuman filthy vile scumbag rapper for a week. I will guarantee you will find him at a cruise area or back room getting barebacked by multiple anonymous cocks…………..
Dirty Ole Man
J-Elijah you poor little GAY Misguided, Confused, Self Loathing (yet cute) young man. I pity you so very much for swallowing this bullshit that has been fed to you. I couldn’t even watch the rest of this video. The level of ignorance is stunning!
Xavier Deron
Really Queerty! REALLY!
Why not credit for Rod 2.0 or link to him on the Monique/Miki Howard story? OKAY!
Unless you gals were watching Monique the other night? Were ya toots? WERE YA????
jason
One of the reasons why our ancestors banned homosexual relations is that they realized that most men were bisexual in orientation. Without a legal ban, men were prone to be promiscuous and cheat on their wives, if not with other women then with other men.
Therefore, the ban on homosexual relations reflects a fear of male bisexuality and the male-male promiscuity paradigm that may be associated with it. Our ancestors realized that men were hard-wired to be horny, and hence required some form of control.
Keep in mind that, in those days, there was no penicillin. When men behaved promiscuously, it had devastating consequences for the health of the general population. Herpes, syphilis etc became rife and were often fatal. A legal ban on male homosexual interactions was considered a necessary curtailing imperative.
Today’s demonization of the concept of male bisexuality partly reflects the ancestral roots of opposition to male homosexual relations. Women in particular fear male bisexuality because it opens up the possibility of her man having an extra reason to stray.
Dirty Ole Man
@Xavier Deron:
Why don’t you take your boot licking ass back to Rod’s
shitty little blog! I’ve seen stories that were published
on multiple websites. Does that mean one is stealing stories from the other? Gurl Sit Down!
jason
Sexuality is not devastating. It’s the lack of morality that is devastating. If you cheat, act promiscuous, take drugs, it’s devastating.
Don’t demonize the male-male orientation per se. It’s healthy so long as you treat yourselves and others with respect.
Same Crap
Hey, Terriwill, have you ever referred to, say, Southern white bible bleaters as ‘subhuman’ is that only reserved for anti-gay Africans, African-Americans and Muzzies?
Soakman
Jason, where are you getting this information? You write intelligently, but I’ve never heard that before. Additionally, I was taught in a very good human sexuality class by a neurologist, that (although unknown as to whether it’s due to social stigma or biological reasons) men are physically aroused (using plethysmograph testing) most often to the extreme poles of the sexes. In other words, most men identify AND physiologically become aroused by only men or only women.
Women, however, are scientifically the gender offering the most sexual fluidity when it comes to arrousal and partner choice.
Can you tell me where the “realization” you mentioned stemmed from? What era? What location? Which resources have you used to gather that piece of information? I understand why the sexual diseases logic would apply, but I’m fairly certain that if this realization actually occurred, it was wrong. I’m not saying that bisexual men don’t exist, but I’m saying they are much much much rarer than bisexual women.
Ian
@terrwill: Geez Terriwell, and here you were just last week going on and on about posters who bitch and insult models due to their preferences and here you are nastily attacking this guy just because he has problems accepting himself for who and what he is. You are such a hypocrite, and from now on whenever you attack another poster for being “nasty” I’ll be right behind you in the comments to point out your own holier than thou hypocritical attitudes.
nikko
Classic ex-gay bullshit. J-Elijah is trying way too hard to sound convincing.
AmberV
Love Mo’Nique!
Tackle
@11,SAME CRAP
@13,IAN
Good points made. I have noticed that (Terrwell)tends to harsher on Blacks than Whites.
jason
Soakman,
I don’t know of any credible studies pointing to female bisexuality being more natural or common than male bisexuality. The one or two studies that I have read have used porn as part of the methodology.
Using porn is flawed methodology. Porn is directed by sleazy men who have paid women to have sex. Porn is prostitution, and bears little, if any, resemblance to sex.
What you need to remember is that there is no even playing field when it comes to comparing male bisexuality to female bisexuality in America. In the American media over many years, male bisexuality has been demonized, female bisexuality has been glamorized.
In an uneven paradigm such as this, the only way of determining prevalence of genuine bisexual orientation – as opposed to trendy social statement – is to get inside the head of the subject. This is difficult to do unless you are prepared to spend a lot of time with the subject, especially male ones.
Another factor is that women use their sexuality as a marketing ploy. They often fake it, basically. Ttendy social statements from women such as “I’m bisexual” should be considered in this light.
jason
One of the interesting things I’ve noticed about self-described bisexual women is that almost all of them are in relationships with men rather than women. You have to wonder if these women are simply being used by their boyfriends to recruit other women for threesomes. In almost all these relationships, it’s uncanny that the man is always strictly straight.
You can’t help but think that these “bisexual” women have prostituted themselves for the sake of a financially rewarding relationship with a man who directs her sexuality.
terrwill
NoNo. 16 · Tackle
. 11 · Same Crap;
Guys,Please don’t even go there. If you peruse other threads that pertain to persons other than Blacks you will see that I do not discriminate on any basis. If you do harm to the community I will go at you with both barrels…..here are some posts about non blacks that I have posted:
No. 1 · terrwill This disturbing looking vile little hate spewing monkey introduced a bill which he was clearly advised would not make it out of committee, and therefore has a zero chance of passage……. Wonder who’s putting cash in his pocket? The moron church possibly?????? Posted: Jan 28, 2010 at 2:40 pm · @Reply · [Flag?]
No. 14 · terrwill @StudSlut: No matter how hot he is his rightous religious posterboy antics would make me physically sick…….he is a foolish asshat who has become a puppet of the rightwing flying him all over the country touting his holier than thou act, whilst his football game is circling the drain…….like I said Gay karma does exist…………
No. 13 · Ian: Sorry but there is no such thing as an “Ex Gay” being Gay is no more a choice than being born Black or White is.
I have a real problem with those who hate on the Gays for no fucking reason at all. It has affected me very personally and I give no quarter to these scumbags. What this scumbag is doing is milking this to appeal to the rightwing nutbags for monetary gain. There are many of people who have discovered that it is very lucrative financially to hate on the Gays. Musical events where a rigid rightwing-anti Gay message is delivered in song and preaching are attended by tens of thousands. Wake up and see what is going on……
My posting on recent threads about the models was done in humor, people can actually post in these threads without making personal attacks believe it or not……
Same Crap
So you have never referred anti gay white evangelicals or mormons as ‘subhumans.’ That epithet seems reserved for sub-saharan Africans, Blacks and Muslims. Got it.
Cam
No. 8 · jason said..
One of the reasons why our ancestors banned homosexual relations is that they realized that most men were bisexual in orientation. Without a legal ban, men were prone to be promiscuous and cheat on their wives, if not with other women then with other men.
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I was wondering how long it would take for one of the Bisexual avengers to come on to this post and claim that everybody was bi. Just over 3 hours. How sppedy you are.
terrwill
@Same Crap: Dude I am done with you. I have made dozens of references to Dobson, Prick Warren, Robertson et all in the exact same way. Its people like you who attempt to ruin this experience, always looking for a fight. Unless you are fully aware of what you are speaking please refrain from spewing your uninformed garbage Don’t bother responding ’cause you are not worth the effort to push down on the keys………….
Bayonet
@terrwill: well well well, its good to see ur getting some of your medicine back, Terrywellis, sanctimonious, pompous, hypocritical and now racist. Ah yeah, gay karma is a bitch LOL. Good for all those other dudes standing up to you, freak.
StudSlut
j-elijah is a fox!
Chris
The Monique gay bit actually starts at 22:50, not 27:50, and it’s shortly after the third commercial break.
The Artist
It’s a good thing not to judge anyone. ANYONE. People should do whatever they want to do with their life, including becoming an ex-gay. As long as that individual is not hurting someone else, or spewing viral hate about another individual. PEACELUVNBWILDYALL!
Tim W
@Same Crap: Please you obviously are uninformed Terrwill attacks any of these vile disgusting homophobes. Here’s a quarter buy a clue.
Bayonet
@Tim W: @Tim W: no, its u Tim W whos uninformed. Heres a buck. U will escort for that amount right?
Tim W
@Bayonet: Again all you need to do is look at some past threads and he was nice enough to even quote some of them and do the work for your lazy ass. But I guess for you it’s all about race even when it isn’t true.
terrwill
@Tim W: TYVM, howeva best not to engage bayonut. Like a spoiled little brat who throws a tantrum, if you ignore the little brat it will storm away and cyberstroll over to ‘nother site to try and get some more attention…..
jason
The Artis,
People can do “whatever they want” but that doesn’t mean you can’t criticize them. When a person does “whatever they want”, they leave themselves open to criticism, fair and otherwise.
Bayonet
@Tim W: @Tim W: heheh, loser!
Bayonet
@terrwill: I am not the issue here baby, it´s YOU, as has been pointed out by other commenters. You and your obvious racism and hypocrisy. So dont´try to turn the subject around now, divert attention and focus it on me and how awful I am hehehe and how I behave like a troll blah blah blah… You´ve been caught with your pants down Terrywellis…Time´s up subhuman!
Marc Hansen
Ughhh. I hate Xavier Derron’s whack @ss. He is such a queen in that he takes it too far. Everything he types is “hun” this and “hun” that. I wish I could see what he looks like, but I would probably throw up all over the place. He runs to this site to read stuff and then goes back to Rod 2.0 to proclaim that everyone here is a racist (not that you aren’t, but I just hate Xavier). He’s probably a black Cartman….a big ole dark bag of boo boo. Eat manure, Xavier.
Same Crap
I never claimed Terriwill loved Christian white American right wingers. I am sure he despises them and had referred to using colorful name. But has he called them ‘subhuman’?
Whenever queerty posts a story about some anti-gay Jamaican rapper, African legislator or Muslim cleric, you can bet the farm Terriwill reflexively throws out that word in the comments. Like clockwork. Does he do that for sundry white homophobes? I haven’t seen it.
Take this story. The rapper seems like an obnoxious douche, but my mind doesn’t reflexively think he’s akin to vermin or cockroaches. That’s dialing it 11 when he ain’t exactly the vilest of the vile. Terriwill seems to “go there” with out hesitation. I am trying to ascertain why. That is all.
dontblamemeivotedforhillary
terrwill is an a@@hole and not in a good way! Go to Chinatown y’old letch as we know you hate black people but, ultimately, yourself! You can be critical without resorting to de-humanizing a whole race and reverence for another in that creepy colonialist way you spew inarticulate, drunk-induced comments.
BTW – Mo’Nique for the Oscar or there’s a queer riot in tinsel town!
Dirty Ole Man
No. 34 · Marc Hansen said:
Ughhh. I hate Xavier Derron’s whack @ss. He is such a queen in that he takes it too far. Everything he types is “hun” this and “hun” that. I wish I could see what he looks like, but I would probably throw up all over the place. He runs to this site to read stuff and then goes back to Rod 2.0 to proclaim that everyone here is a racist (not that you aren’t, but I just hate Xavier). He’s probably a black Cartman….a big ole dark bag of boo boo. Eat manure, Xavier.
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LMAO! I see you noticed that too huh.. Rod’s website is nothing
but a got damned bubble insulated from reality! It’s boring as hell and if Rod doesn’t agree with your comments or politics,
he will delete your post. He’s such a little bitch! I love it here at Queerty! We can be our fabulous selves without the censorship!
Chris Cruz
@ Dirty Old Queen
“I love it here at Queerty! We can be our fabulous selves without the censorship!”
Yes, here where they use this n-word all day and night and race-bait every single issue. What did they say in Morning Goods yesterday? How many times was “n!ggger” used in post? Sounds very fabulous.Oh and do black gay men love this site?
You’re probably some tired old puckered white queen who hates the fact he doesnt do white boys. Unless you’re Chad White of course. I doubt any of you are. And I am so sure you middle aged white “Hi may I help yous” hate the fact a black man doesnt need your validation. And isnt an Obamabot!
Andy, Joe, Rod and Pam are the go-tos. Queerty is the shit stirrer, the race riot and the crazy queens love it on their racist PNP tina binges.
/YAWN/
Chris Cruz
@ Dirty Ole Queen and Canadian “Marc”
How does it feel to be middle aged and in mommy’s basement, chulos?
how “fabulous” is that pendejo?
LOLz @ cracked out white racist gheys
I bet you have black and brown dildos tho ‘eh” Marc
Eat some mac n cheese and get fucked by a polar bear
Dirty Ole Man
@Chris Cruz:
If you don’t like this site, then you are welcomed
to take your sullen ass back to Rob’s Lame ass site!!
If you knew anything about me, you’d know that I do
battle with Gay Racists whenever I encounter them!
But you don’t care to know that don’t you? You just wanna
lash out because someone trashed your beloved Rob..
Well FUCK you and Rob’s ugly ass too! At least we are allowed
to disagree on this site and settle our differences with a good bitch fight. Over on Rob’s shitty site, you can’t dare disagree
with one of his ass licking friends or him! Send my regards
to that Ole Snow Queen!
soakman
@Jason
I have a LOT of personal experience with bisexual men actually, but I don’t know that many compared to bisexual women. I’m not sure your view of porn-based studies is valid though. Yes, porn is made, generally, from a very biased perspective (the straight male one), but there are inherent differences between the sexual arousal equipment that men and women have. Men tend to be more visually aroused for instance, while women tend to be more emotionally aroused.
Those things, along with a ‘objectifying women’ angle on porn, don’t really explain why women would evoke broader ranges or sexual arousal. You would think that they would have the opposite effect, since porn is both visual and objectifying.
The professor I had often performed these kinds of studies as well. That may maker her biased, or it may make her knowledgeable. Still, she told us that women were often even measurably aroused by images of animals having sex. So as far as I know, there is a broader range in women’s sexual attraction. That is key. I’m not saying that there are more bisexual women that are 50-50 splits or even close to that. I’m just saying that women tend to be somewhere on the spectrum. Most men, even when physiologically studied with plethysmographs, are only aroused at one end of the spectrum.
Just wanted to give you my insights as clear as possible. The exchange of information is great. Thank you for sharing yours as well. Now I’m all curious about things.
Jefferson Davis
Late night and the butt sniffers are out to play.
@ Dirty Ole Man
Cunt you didn’t come here to “do battle”. You came here to j/o over pics of pink and golden dicks. and WHITE muscles.
Only thing worse than a fag is a colored fag. If anyone is a snow queen Bessie, it would be the lonely spook who comes here and pretends she doesn’t wanÞto get dbl fckd bya white bodybuilder.Kuntry colored dirty ole fag.
Now do battle with me Jemima! ROFL Tighten ur do rag first !
Jefferson Davis
@DirtyOleColoredMan
ROFL ecen the colored fags told u u were too cuntry and colored for so u run here searching for golden blond muscles and dicks! JEMIMA!
You want a bitch fight huh? I voted for Mccain. I live in California and you colored morons helped pass Prop 8. There you wanna do battle deal with that you blk discksucker! After u j/o over are beautiful blond Adonises!
I voted for Mccain and will vote for Palin over this dbl OBama fail.Dirty ole kolored kween so miserable the otherkolored kweens told you to beat it. Isn’t life sweet? How is OFail trearing u kolored kweens? Even he prefers a good looking blond gay to defend his bs ROFL
Jefferson Davis
@Dirty Ole Man:
ROFL even the colored fags told u u were too cuntry and colored for so u run here searching for golden blond muscles and dicks! JEMIMA!
You want a bitch fight huh? I voted for Mccain. I live in California and you colored morons helped pass Prop 8. There you wanna do battle deal with that you blk discksucker! After u j/o over are beautiful blond Adonises!
I voted for Mccain and will vote for Palin over this dbl OBama fail.Dirty ole kolored kween so miserable the other kolored kweens told you to beat it. Isn’t life sweet? How is OFail treating u kolored kweens? Even he prefers a good looking blond gay to defend his bs ROFL
Now shine my shoes kolored kween! Do battle with a rag and some shoe polish dbl O’bsama Kolored Kuntry Kween! ROFL!
benlayvey
@Bayonet: @dontblamemeivotedforhillary: @Same Crap: You guys need to leave him alone. So he calls them “Sub-human”, he is right to do so because for a group of people [blacks and the indigenous Africans]who cry injustice and oppression against their kind, they should know better what it’s like be on the outer fringes of society.
Bayonet
@benlayvey: and you need to shut the fuck up Benlayvey and stop defending that loser. or r u a racist pig as well?
Dirty Ole Man
LMAO!! I must have spoken the truth somewhere,
because these sullen queens are mad as hell.
The Bad News is: “What I said above hurts your feelings.”
The Good News is: “YOU’LL SOON GET OVER IT!’
Ha!
Same Crap
@benlayvey: You guys need to leave him alone.
Who the f are you? His own personal Chris Crocker?
terrwill
I was gonna jus leave this thread but when clearly uninformed persons are spewin poo my way I need to respond. As I have said many times before I don’t care about your color, ethnicity, race, creed, religion, age, gender, sex, size, or any other determining factor. You hate on the Gays and I will come at you with all I can toss at you. Some have said that I should try a “kinder” approach and use “more restraint”. Sorry when my 19 year old friend was beaten to death simply because he was Gay they didn’t “restrain” themselves” Thats why its fucking personal for me. These scumbags on the pulpits can spew the poo and never consider how many of the lowlife scumbags that take their words to heart and feel they have been given a AMEX gold card to go beat the fuck out of any Gay they run across. Those who say I don’t use the same epithats towards whites ARE 100% WRONG Look at post #19, pretty sure those scumbags are both lilly white. I ain’t hate to pull out that old standby “some of my best friends”…….. But it is true. I have zero problems with Blacks, unless they start casting hate towards the Gays…………………
terrwill
PS I am including the two white people and the creators of that pop up in the st lucia pop up ads who plauge this site as subhuman scumbags also………………
Lukas P.
Playground rules still apply here:
Play nice!
Play safe!
Play fair!
And share the f’ing ball fer crissakes! [my spell check only works in Swedish..]
olen
Silly Christians.
blackjack44
this J elijah is such an idiot. another religious brain washed drone who was scared with hail fire and brimstone and eternal damnation to hell stories into believing he could change.
He was molested into being bi? another dumb Donnie McClurkin story believing gay can be prayed away. These are the kind of people that give religion a bad name and I hope he enjoys his enteral suffering. Its always scripture scripture scripture, but no one talks about the fact king james was gay while theyre holding his bible.
blackjack44
…and right after taping this show J Elijah went home and jerked off to jesus’s totally ripped abs in his picture bible
Taylor Siluwé
Wow. You guys do carry on, which is probably why I’m addicted to this site. It’s messy. No holds barred messy.
But this “rapper” is a sad example, or should I say symptom of what’s wrong with the world — the unstoppable power of religion to cause people to twist themselves into painful knots, destroying their lives and happiness, destroying the lives of others around them by proselytizing pseudo-science and quoting wildly and universally discredited “research institutes” as the last word authority on the subject, all in an effort to appease some invisible Puppet Master in the sky.
This ‘rapper’ is no more “sub-human” (sorry, Terrwill) than any of the other people we know and love who are equally twisted by the machinations of one Jesus-Pimp or another. They are all sad, pathetic, miserable creatutes who truly believe they’re trying to get right with God.
Having said that, we truly need to smack down their dangerous bullshit at every available opportunity, but with respect for why they are twisted in the first place.
So, Terrwill, have at it as you always do – but play nice (when you can ;-)).
Dionte
Mo’Nique is my new favorite girl!