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Never Forget: awesome movies to commemorate World AIDS Day

By David Reddish December 1, 2019 at 2:58pm · Updated on January 29, 2024

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[tps_header] This World AIDS Day marks 28 years of raising awareness for people with HIV. Bill Clinton became the first president to commemorate and recognize the event in 1995. By that time, hundreds of thousands of Americans had died from AIDS-related complications, and thousands more struggled to afford proper treatment and care. To honor those men and women we have lost, and the ongoing struggle to defeat the virus, we assembled this list of documentary films dealing in a moving way with the subject. Some focus on the epidemic at large, while others revolve around personal stories. Either way, the films listed here go a long way toward educating viewers on the human cost of HIV/AIDS, and offer a fine way to commemorate World AIDS Day… [/tps_header]

How to Survive a Plague

Journalist David France made a hell of a directorial debut with the Oscar-nominated How to Survive a Plague, his documentary tracing the rise of HIV activism. Featuring extensive footage of activists like Peter Staley, the dearly departed Spencer Cox and playwright Larry Kramer, who delivers one of the most visceral and shocking moments ever in a documentary. Right-wing bozo politicians like Ronald Reagan, George H.W. Bush and Jesse Helms also appear, effectively saying HIV/AIDS is punishment for vile behavior. Seldom has a film—documentary or otherwise—so uncovered the horrors of the disease, the inaction of the federal government or provided such a haunting memorial to the victims of AIDS. Streams on Amazon, iTunes & YouTube.

Longtime Companion

Once upon a time, before marriage equality, Ellen DeGeneres and Will & Grace changed the cultural landscape, gay people–men, in particular–couldn’t even get mentioned in the media, particularly when it came to obituaries. Yes, during the AIDS crisis, many families chose to conceal their dead relative’s sexuality, which often meant also ignoring partners and boyfriends. The phrase “longtime companion” often appeared in obituaries as a sort of code for boyfriend, and the eponymous film sheds light on how couples had to function in a hostile atmosphere. Bruce Davison scored an Oscar nomination for his moving performance. Available on DVD & Blu-Ray

Vito

Vito Russo loved movies, and spent his adult years compiling the first-ever survey and chronicle of LGBT characters and images in cinema. The Celluloid Closet revolutionized LGBTQ studies, and director Jeffery Schwartz provides a fitting portrait of Russo in his aptly-titled documentary Vito. Russo contracted HIV in 1985, and a good portion of Vito deals with Russo trying to work as the disease wears on his body and mind, as it does on his longtime boyfriend Jeffery Sevcik. Not an HIV documentary per se, Vito nevertheless personalizes the toll and effect of AIDS in the 1980s, and offers a portrait of a man unbowed in the face of his own impending death. Streams on Amazon & iTunes.

Desert Migration

At the height of the AIDS crisis, a number of gay men began a sort of sojourn to the desert sands of Palm Springs, CA in search of medical care, and a comfortable place to die. What they found instead, according to Daniel Cardone’s documentary Desert Migration, was a much-needed sense of community. Life took an even more unexpected turn with the coming of effective HIV treatments in the mid-1990s. What had begun as an almost Biblical journey into the wilderness at once became a residence in a promised land. Cardone’ examines the aging population of HIV+ men in Palm Springs, and how men once resigned to die struggle to find new purpose in an open-ended life. Desert Migration smashes the easy resolution so many other films dealing with the subject of HIV rely upon. Survival isn’t enough: people need to find a way to keep living. Streams on Tubi, iTunes, YouTube & VUDU.

BPM

This French drama kicked up a stir in 2017. For starters, it examines the AIDS crisis in Paris as opposed to more common settings like New York or San Francisco. Much as in the USA though, the government of France in the 1990s received a good deal of criticism for not doing enough to alleviate the suffering of HIV patients. BPM (short for beats per minute) follows the struggle of a Parisian ACT UP chapter, and the love story of two HIV+ members, as one enters the final stages of the disease. Streams on Amazon, Hulu, YouTube & VUDU.

Common Threads: Stories from the Quilt

In the late 1980s, the AIDS quilt became a symbol of the rising death toll HIV took on the American population. Common Threads: Stories from the Quilt, directed by queer documentary lions Rob Epstein and Jeffery Friedman (of Party Monster and The Eyes of Tammy Faye fame), examines five of the lives that inspired panels to the 48,000 section memorial quilt. Among them, Vito Russo discusses the life of his deceased boyfriend Jeffery Sevick; David and Suzi Mandell speak about their hemophiliac son David Jr. who contracted the disease through a blood transfusion and Sallie Perryman tells the story of her late husband Robert, who contracted HIV through drug use. The film expands the scope of the AIDS epidemic beyond the LGBTQ community which often carries the brunt of the stigma. Released in 1989, Common Threads hearkens to a time before proper treatment reduced HIV to chronic, largely symptomless illness, rather than a deadly one. In that way, the film encapsulates the dark fears of the ongoing crisis…and the sparks of hope that helped keep the search for a cure. Streams on Kanopy.

Todo Sobre Mi Madre (All About My Mother)

Pedro Almodovar earned raves for this weird movie about a woman trying to find the recipient of her dead son’s heart in an organ transplant. Enter the boy’s father: Lola, a transvestite; his girlfriend, an HIV+ nun named Rosa; a lesbian actress, and her longtime girlfriend. Todo Sobre Mi Madre walks a fine line between gut-wrenching drama and outright farce, making it necessary to see the film to believe it–which we recommend. Streams on Amazon, YouTube, iTunes & VUDU.

Fire in the Blood

https://youtu.be/QIKenCq5cjw The issues of medical care and treatment remain at the forefront of headlines, as Barack Obama staked much of his legacy on healthcare reform, and Donald Trump ran a campaign on undoing Obamacare reforms. Fire in the Blood spotlights the issue, specifically the blocking of HIV-fighting drugs from reaching low-income regions of the United States, and from ending the ongoing HIV crisis in Africa. Director Dylan Mohan Gray enlists the participation of Oscar-winner William Hurt to narrate, while Desmond Tutu, Peter Rost, and even President Bill Clinton turn up for star turns. Gray’s film traces efforts beginning in 2008 to dismantle big pharma monopolies on life-saving HIV treatment, and furthers the argument that affordable, available healthcare should be a human right rather than a privilege of the wealthy. Streams on Netflix.

It’s My Party

It’s My Party caused a stir upon its 1996 release, both for treatment of its subject matter, as well as for assembling a prestigious–if eyebrow-raising–cast. The film centers on Nick (played by Eric Roberts, in one of his best performances), a man dying of AIDS. Rather than wait for the inevitable, he decides to throw a massive two-day party, and euthanize himself at the conclusion. Potent, tear-jerking and bold, It’s My Party will divide audiences…though a cast that includes Margaret Cho (in a dramatic role), Olivia Newton-John, Marlee Matlin, Roddy McDowall, Bronson Pinchot and Elvira (really), cannot be ignored. Streams on YouTube.

We Were Here

Co-directors David Weissman and Bill Webber focus on the effects of the AIDS crisis on San Francisco in We Were Here. As much a personal recollection as a cinematic one, Weissman and Webber recall the wild hedonism following sexual liberation, and the rise of the LGBT rights movement that followed. Amid it all, however, the shadow of AIDS rises, first as rumblings of a “gay cancer,” and later, as an ever-expanding obituary section of the newspapers. Unlike several of the other films listed here which look at the crisis as a whole, We Were Here targets the specific lives of men and women lost to the disease, as well as those who survived to carry on the fight against HIV. Told with personal conviction and profound eloquence, the stories of We Were Here drive home the impact of losing an entire generation of gay men to AIDS, and the terrifying enormity of the plague. Streams on Amazon, iTunes, YouTube & VUDU.

Inside Lara Roxx

The Los Angeles porn industry made headlines in 2004 after an HIV outbreak sent shockwaves through the business. One woman, fledgling porn actress Lara Roxx, contracted HIV while performing one of her first scenes in LA. The film traces the years following Roxx’s arrival in Los Angeles, her diagnosis, and the aftermath on her life, which include a stay in a mental ward and a crack addiction. Roxx stresses that she went into porn to raise money for college, and how coping with the disease gave her a newfound purpose in life to help establish medical resources for sex workers, including porn stars. Inside Lara Roxx reminds viewers that for all the medical advances in fighting HIV, the disease can still have a devastating effect on a patient’s psyche. The film also raises questions about the porn industry caring for its performers, and considering that California voters just defeated a proposed law to require condom use in porn, Inside Lara Roxx the question of the performer’s plight is as timely as ever. Streams on Vimeo.

1985

Director Yen Tan made his way around the 2018 festival circuit with this gritty, black & white drama about a dying man trying to come out to his family. Cory Michael Smith (of Gotham) delivers a magnificent performance opposite Virginia Madsen, Jamie Chung and Michael Chiklis. Rather than see the AIDS crisis as a sweeping epic, Tan chooses to see it in simpler terms–as a personal story of a man who knows he will leave unfinished business. Streams on Amazon, YouTube & VUDU.

Paris is Burning

The original cinematic tribute to the fabulousness of LGBTQ culture, Paris is Burning offers more than just the origins of voguing and underground gay culture. Made in 1991, the film also highlights the effect of AIDS on gay culture in New York City, with a particular eye towards the transgendered community and people of color. Several of the subjects interviewed in Paris is Burning make a living as sex workers, and the movie pays specific attention to the dangers they face without proper medical care and in a hostile world dominated by cisgender, heterosexual white men. Streams on iTunes.

The Lazarus Effect

Bono and Spike Jonze produced this mini-doc for director Lance Bangs. The Lazarus Effect details the effects of proper HIV treatment in the third world nation of Zambia. Bangs interviews a number of men and women who recovered after coming to the brink of death thanks to their HIV infection, and the negative stigma that follows patients in undeveloped nations. The movie also offers a look at the growing counseling and treatment community in Zambia, and how the forming community fights to end stigma and provide testing, as well as the difficulty in getting medications to rural villagers. Unlike other films that focus almost exclusively on the effects of AIDS in the United States, The Lazarus Effect highlights the other great bastion of the disease, how it endures, and how humanitarian efforts continue to end the pandemic. Streams on YouTube.

United in Anger United in Anger examines the inaction of the federal government in the wake of the growing AIDS crisis of the 1980s, and radical activism that rose up to fight back. ACT UP formed in 1987 to demand action from the government and raise awareness of HIV with the public at large. United in Anger traces the history of ACT UP’s beginnings via recollections of some of the group’s earliest members. The film’s most interesting element comes as several members realize the community born out of the ACT UP protest movement, and the direction and purpose it gave their lives. Born out of the ACT UP Oral History Project, United in Anger gives an inside perspective on the fight by those who were there, and just how much life grew up from a movement about premature death. Streams on Amazon, YouTube & iTunes.

5B

In a way, this documentary by Paul Haggis and Dan Krauss captures the experience of the AIDS crisis better than any fictional movie ever could. 5B retells the story of the epidemic from the healthcare professionals that lived it, as well as the moral questions it raised. Should a doctor or nurse have the right to refuse to care for a patient if nobody knows how the disease is spread? Should hospitals make special accommodations for the terminally ill? 5B plays like an outpouring of empathy and a reminder that in a world of manmade evils, people can still choose to be good. Streams on Amazon & YouTube.

Beat the Drum

In an age of antiretroviral therapy and sex positivity, those of us living in the western world often forget that AIDS continues to ravage third world nations, including countries in Africa and Asia. Beat the Drum follows three different stories: the adventure of Musa, a young boy who leaves his AIDS-ravaged village in South Africa for the city; Pieter, a wealthy man with a son dying of AIDS; and Nobe, a truck driver who’s dalliances with prostitutes puts him–and his wife–at risk. Stuffed with rich cinematography that captures the beauty of the African landscape, Beat the Drum offers hope and warmth in the face of disaster. Streams on Tubi, YouTube, & Amazon. 

The Normal Heart

Based on Larry Kramer’s play about the AIDS crisis, this Ryan Murphy-directed HBO film channels the chaos and despair of the plague era. A stellar cast that includes Mark Ruffalo, Julia Roberts, Matt Bomer, Jim Parsons, BD Wong and Alec Baldwin brings the story all the gravitas and power the material demands. Moreover, as Ruffalo’s character bears witness to the unfolding epidemic—and stomachs the rage that comes with it—so does the viewer. The Normal Heart isn’t just a movie. It’s a call to action to defend a community. Streams on HBO Max, Hulu, Amazon, YouTube & VUDU.

Angels in America

The greatest work of American drama (written by one of the great gay playwrights) comes to the screen almost impossibly well thanks to the work of one of the great American directors, Mike Nichols. With an all-star cast, this mediation on America, the dreadful Republican Party, AIDS, and religion retains all of its power with searing humor and powerful drama. Streams on HBO GO, YouTube, Amazon, Vudu & iTunes.

And the Band Played On

Aaron Spelling redeemed himself for all those years producing horny soaps by also spearheading this adaptation of Randy Shilts seminal work about the early years of AIDS. Matthew Modine stars as Dr. Don Francis, an early AIDS researcher and one of the first witnesses to the expansiveness and devastation of the HIV virus. The film also focuses on the race within the medical community to find a treatment…and take credit for discovering the virus (still a subject of controversy to this day). With an all-star cast that also includes Alan Alda, Anjelica Huston, Richard Gere, Ian McKellen, Lily Tomlin, BD Wong, Steve Martin and Richard Jenkins, it’s a fascinating and touching look at the early days of the epidemic. And speaking of Randy Shilts… Streams on HBO Max, Hulu, Amazon, YouTube & VUDU.

Killing Patient Zero

The work of Randy Shilts has undergone a reexamination in recent years, and attracted a new batch of critics. Though Shilts did incredible research on the early days of AIDS, he also propagated the myth of a “Patient Zero;” that is, the patient credited with bringing HIV to North America and spreading it across the country against medical advice. Shilts fingered flight attendant Gaetan Dugas as the culprit. Killing Patient Zero dismantles Shilts’ prosecution of Dugas, revealing that said patient actually was an unsung hero that helped doctors trace the spread of virus, and furthermore, could not have brought it to North America. Director Laurie Lynd also examines how Shilts arrived at his conclusions, and how he may have been tricked into using the Patient Zero myth as a marketing tool. So if Dugas was a hero, does that make Shilts a villain? Watch and decide. Streams on Crave.

Rent

Composer Jonathan Larson took home a posthumous Pulitzer Prize for this rock musical that changed the face of Broadway–and AIDS activism–back in 1996. The 2005 movie adaptation reunites most of the original cast including Jesse L. Martin, Anthony Rapp, Wilson Jermaine Heredia and Idina Menzel, and features Rosario Dawson in one of her best performances. Some awkward directorial choices and musical numbers that feel more like MTV videos aside, Rent still packs one Hell of a dramatic punch, and features unforgettable songs including “La Vie Boheme,” “Seasons of Love” and “Out Tonight.” Streams on HBO Max, Amazon, VUDU & YouTube.

Tick…Tick…BOOM!

Speaking of Rent and Jonathan Larson, this Lin-Manuel Miranda-directed musical tells the story of Larson’s life in the lead-up to his writing Rent. tick…tick…BOOM began life as a one-man musical show performed by Larson. The film reconceives the story as one about Larson as a still-struggling composer in New York in the late 1980s amid the backdrop of the AIDS epidemic. As Larson watches the disease claim one friend after another, he finds new inspiration to write a musical as a tribute to the friends he lost. tick…tick…BOOM! also features a powerful performance by Robin de Jesús as Michael, one of Jon’s friends infected with HIV. Streams on Netflix.

Philadelphia

Tom Hanks won a well-deserved Oscar for his performance as Andy, a lawyer fired from his law firm when his bosses learn he has AIDS. As Andy’s health begins to fail, he teams with an ambulance-chasing attorney (Denzel Washington) to sue for wrongful termination. Director Jonathan Demme ensured authenticity to the story by including real AIDS patients as background extras and in supporting roles in the film. Writer Ron Nyswaner–who is gay in real life–also drew from his own experiences watching friends struggle with HIV, and the societal stigma that came along with it. Antonio Banderas and Mary Steenburgen also star in a movie that packs a massive gut punch almost 30 years later. Streams on Amazon, VUDU & YouTube.

Peter’s Friends

This little-seen gem out of the United Kingdom is something of a British answer to The Big Chill, albeit one with a much darker undercurrent. Peter’s Friends follows a group of former Cambridge students that reunite for a New Year’s Eve bash. Of course, like all “reunion” films, the movie follows characters wrestling with aging and life disappointments…including one character with an HIV-related secret. With a treasure trove cast that includes Stephen Fry, Hugh Laurie, Imelda Staunton, Emma Thompson, Las Vegas comic Rita Rudner (who co-wrote the script) and Kenneth Branagh, (who also directs), the film’s emotional power more than makes up for some of its more predictable elements. Streams on Tubi, Kanopy & VUDU.

Behind the Candelabra

AIDS only plays a small–but pivotal–role in this biopic of Liberace from director Steven Soderbergh. Michael Douglas and Matt Damon star as Liberace and his longtime boyfriend Scott Thorson, respectively, in a wacky real-life story of love, obsession, glamour and hedonism. Equal parts dark and glittering, the movie will make viewers question Liberace’s sanity at times, not to mention his ethics. Still, for all Liberace’s bad behavior, his death due to AIDS still manages to evoke sympathy…and even a few tears. Streams on HBO Max, Hulu, Amazon, YouTube & VUDU. Note: this article includes material from earlier features here on Queerty

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16 Comments*

  • jcoberkrom

    Without “An Early Frost” on this list it’s a waste.

    • WashDrySpin

      AWESOME MOVIE

    • Kangol2

      Yep. Oustanding film starring Aidan Quinn and Gena Rowlands. Thanks for reminding Queerty & its readers.

    • QueerOpCat

      Can’t trust anything they say, if they ignore such a seminal film on the subject…

  • jetboi

    Awesome list! Jeffery was impactful also Philadelphia . Both movies came about as the AIDS holocaust raged into the 1990s killing ove a million gay men.

  • PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS

    Longtime Companion still makes me cry like a little girl in the last scene when all those lost to that horrific plague reappear out of the Heavens and run down the beach to embrace those who survived….

    • maleficent

      ……………………………………………………………………YOPH

    • barryaksarben

      me too. and my all time favorite is “Parting glances”. I saw so many in the Seattle Film festival like “Zero patience” and “Silverlake life”. and “As if” too

  • john.k

    While “Longtime Companion” was a fine movie my favourite from that era is “Parting Glances”. It dealt with gayness in a very matter of fact way and while one of the main characters was dying from AIDS that aspect did not dominate the film/

  • Chrisk

    Fire in the blood makes my blood boil. Showed what shitstains the American Pharma industry really is.

  • bgray

    Silverlake Life: The View From Here – a documentary made in 1993- was such a powerful, honest statement of life in Los Angeles with AIDS. Wish it had made this list.

  • maleficent

    movies about AIDS ?? anything with AL PARKER…..

  • Paul

    Can’t forget “Zero Patience”. I think it’s the only musical about AIDS. It showed how so many people at the time were just looking for someone to blame, not how to help. A bit cheesy, granted, but I still remember most of the catchy tunes. And the singing buttholes scene is definitely unforgettable.

  • john.k

    I had forgotten “Savage Nights”. Thanks for reminding me of it.

  • Jack Meoff

    Holding The Man (2015) most of you guys wouldn’t be aware of this Aussie film but it’s well worth a watch.

  • cuteguy

    The evil Jessie Helms was a predecessor for today’s evil Moscow Mitch

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