Actor Daniel Newman recently shared with the world that he’s a top because he’s “too lazy to bottom,” but that he would consider doing it “if I got married” or the guy was strong enough to pin him down.
Related: Daniel Newman says he’s “too lazy to bottom” but he might consider it “if I got married”
“I’m a TOP. I’m too lazy to bottom!” Newman announced to his 944K followers. “Lol. Maybe if I got married. But I’m also always super attracted to Tops so I guess whoever is strong enough and can pin down the other wins that night.”
Now, actor/poet Nico Tortorella is letting everyone know that they may present as a top, but really they’re vers, “depending on the day.”
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On their Instagram story, Tortorella, who came out as gender fluid in 2018, shared an illustration that claimed to identify a person’s preferred sexual position based on they way they sit.
While Tortorella was sitting like a top at the time, they clarified: “But more here. Depending on the day y’all,” with an arrow pointing to the “vers” image.
Now that that’s been settled, scroll down for more pics from Tortorella’s Instagram page…
Related: Nico Tortorella leaves very little to the imagination in latest share
Troysky
….lets relax and let him have his harmless fun.
Josh447
What a hottie he is. Did you really mistype and call him they? I only see one guy there and what a hunk.
D_Bro
Nico identifies as gender-fluid. Preferred pronouns are “they” & “them”
jayceecook
He’s non binary and uses they/them pronouns. As does their spouse.
Rock-N-RollHS
Lol. Clearly a marketing/branding thing. Guy’s a dude and I’m sure when he’s around a bunch of straight people, especially guys, he goes by he, Just bet. Either way, who the f cares. Seems like a narcissist anyway you slice it. But hot guy.
Josh447
Well that ought to do well in the no fly zone. What an irrational concept. Sounds like attention seeking and makes me wonder if these guys adhere to such. They don’t look like the type.
jayceecook
Yesterday I sort of giggled at the guys who said they wanted to punch themselves for ever finding Kirk Cameron hot. Then Queerty went and reminded me of this twat. Now I know your shame. *Sigh*
Still the second and last pic…
Donston
I find people I don’t care for physically attractive all the time. It is what it is. And I wouldn’t refer to Nico as a “twat”. It’s apparent that he/them/they has been through some traumas, some addiction and psychological struggles, some gender and sexual fluidity, and has had some confusion about where “they” fit within the gender, romantic, sexual, affection, emotional fulfillment, emotional investment, relationship contentment spectrum. And I can sympathize with all of that. However, Nico has also said some problematic shit that was apologized for. (Saying that he can’t be “gay” because most of his friends are female, saying that good people shouldn’t identify as “gay”, saying that he can’t build a life with a guy because he’s too sexually fluid. As if there’s not a good percentage of homosexual or sexually homo-leaning males who build lives with women. There’s also a good amount of non-homosexual guys who build lives with males and even gay-identifying guys who don’t live homo lifestyles. He really needed to educate himself before giving these stances). There seemed to be a lot of self-misandry, homosexual shaming, gay identify shaming and perhaps internalized homophobia for a while. While “gay media” has just chosen to ignore all that problematic stuff. I’m guessing that’s because he’s attractive, white and identifies as “queer”. He was also just flat-out pretentious, self-pitying, cryptic and attention obsessed for a couple years. I’m not a fan, but I wouldn’t say Nico’s a “twat”, just narcissistic and sometimes problematic. I’m also pretty sure Nico said that he/they/them wasn’t interested in guys any longer in any capacity beyond viewing porn. But ultimately, that’s “their” business.
jayceecook
@Donston I had typed out a very good response to your comment when it wasn’t a reply to me but since you deleted it whilst I was writing it when I hit “post” it disappeared into the ether. If I find the time maybe I’ll retype it. I’m too miffed atm to do it because I thought it was very good.
BudAnderson
He is a twat. He is also married to a woman, and therefore, I’m guessing most days he’s a top since, pegging notwithstanding, that’s always been my understanding how hetero sex works. I don’t know for sure. Nevertheless, He’s an attention-seeking, “look-at-me-I’m-such-an-artist” twat who calls himself queer for clicks and likes.
Chrisk
BudAnderson
Yeah, I have to laugh at this clown. He really does have an inflated sense of himself. I mean themself. Lol
Donston
@jayceecook. Sorry about deleting the post. I meant it to be a response to your post. But yes, I read your response.
I speak from a place of recognition and a bit of knowledge and experience. A lot of you act as if you can’t comprehend anything beyond the basic. You can’t dismiss everything you don’t understand as nonsense or “twat-like”. That just keeps you from genuinely understanding other people and their circumstances. I’m not here for that. And in general the world is evolving. Nico has said genuinely hateful and anti-gay things. I never have. I am also married to a dude. We’re very different people. However, I recognize similar things in a lot of different people. And Nico has talked about childhood traumas and on and off addictions. So, it’s not like a pulled that out my ass.
I do think describing they/them as a “twat” is too extreme. But it’s your opinion. And Nico definitely uses his “queerdom” as a way to net attention and validation and because he doesn’t feel he fits within the “straight world”. There is a lot of unfounded arrogance. There’s a lot of dialogue without giving any real insight. While there’s never been an apology for all the shitty things that they/them has said in the past. The media has refused to call Nico out on that stuff. Passes were given because of his “queer” identity and good looks. I don’t care much about identity, who someone dates, who they have sex with, who they marry. I recognize how individual the orientation is, the realities of fluidity and that everyone has their own dimensions, struggles and journeys. What I don’t like are indirect anti-gay stances, self-misandry and the using of “gays” to get attention and validate himself. Nico plastered his previous same-sex relationship all over the internet and gave tons of interviews about it. And it was a “relationship” that apparently existed for merely a few months. He definitely is obsessed with attention, and he seems to use people for ego and sociological purposes.
What “queers” who have unabashed hetero relationship ambitions need to understand is that they will never fit perfectly into the “lgbtq community”. It doesn’t matter how much dick you suck, how many pictures you post on the internet of you making out with a guy, how many side dudes you have. You’re not homosexual, homoromantic or homophilic. You don’t want persistent same-sex passions, affections and love. And you only have interests in substantial, long-term relationships and commitment with your opposite sex. Trying so damn hard to constantly connect yourself to the “gay community” is leech like behavior. This is why I talk so much about the orientation spectrum. It’s why I place less emphasis on sex or identity. My way of thinking diminishes guys like Nico’s ability to demand that “gay” dudes uplift him and give him constant attention.
But as I’ve said a few times on this site, if so many people who post here weren’t so ignorant about so much or dismissive towards so much then there would be no need for me to be so verbose and persistent. If all of this makes me a “twat” then oh well. But I’m a “twat” who keeps it 100 and who knows my shit.
Mister P
They ain’t that cute!
ciasteczek
HE is super cute
Black Pegasus
Do heterosexual actors like Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth or Will Smith tweet/post about giving or receiving anal and oral sex?
No you say? Then why must the gays do it? It’s trashy and your fans shouldn’t be privy to your intimate moments.
jayceecook
Well Will Smith actually does. So does his wife. I’ve learned far too much about their sex lives and habits than I care to. While I don’t think the other two do, plenty of other straight celebs do.
Nico isn’t gay. They are married to another self identified non binary person who the rest of the world would see as a biological woman. While I won’t go around trying to discredit how they defines their sexuality, personally their queer status has always been suspect to me in that area.
Besides, nobody is making you watch or read anything you don’t want to. No matter who is posting it.
Kangol2
Nico does not describe themself as “gay.”
Man About Town
I completely agree. What you choose to do when you’re being intimate should NOT be publicized; it’s highly inappropriate!
Chrisk
@Man About Town
Do you work for one million moms by any chance? Unclutch your pearls a little bit. You’ll break them.
Troysky
@Chrisk ((….blasted out laughing))
barryaksarben
so he has said some stupid shit . He has talked about being a bottom. I cant see any other actor admitting to that EVER so he gets some points for that. SO he is messed up. I have been and many other have been. I like him. IT isnt like we will ever meet but I think he might have alot to say if you did meet him. and yes some of it may suck but it seems he is open to talking about it all
ElPillo
Our society is developing way too many attention seekers and we are giving it. Hello stop this sickness!
@dusyk
Ugh, who cares
Alex_S
Why are straight people always a hot topic on a gay website?
Prax07
He’s married to a Woman, can we please stop giving this douche news articles?
Troysky
That fact that he sometimes bottoms….is great news to my pervy ears.
SportGuy
He can be my bottom anytime.
scottfarmer
I would love to be his top! Gesus!
jonasalden
I hate this trend of oversharing. It makes them look desperate for attention.
skeldare
So his wife tops him?
jlogb
Hes a hottie! Full of himself but a hottie. I dont get the whole “them/they:bi-nary” yada yada but to each THEIR own…. hahaha. Such a John David.
Brian
Being a complete douche, he doesn’t even need time to prepare when it’s time to bottom.
sonic_source
He is exhausting.
Paul33iN
Troian Bellisario is a great Cher lookalike.
Steven34kT
Troian Bellisario is a great Cher lookalike.