They say rejection is one of the greatest aphrodisiacs. Unless you’re Drew from OKCupid. Then it’s a declaration of war.
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After being turned down by a guy he briefly chatted with online, Drew launched into an angry, unending rant, accusing the man of being a flake, a jerk, a big jerk, an asshole, a geek, rude, an inexperienced loser, a fag, a faggot, a passive aggressive bitch, an antisocial asshole, a ghost, corny, socially awkward, an insensitive spineless dick, and an ugly no sex getting asshole, among other things.
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Drew also used the F-word no less than two dozen times and published the man’s cellphone number on Craigslist in retaliation. To make it even more confusing, throughout his rant he repeatedly apologizes for his behavior then continues calling the guy a weak asshole, ugly antisocial geek ass, geeky creepy ass, et cetera, et cetera.
Check out Drew’s entire message, which was posted to Imgur, below…
Huh. We can’t possibly imagine why this guy wasn’t into Drew.
Juanjo
Some queens cannot handle rejection well.
Roan
This reads like a string of 3am Trump tweets.
robho3
Hoody Moley — someone forgot to take their meds.
Chris
Wow! Someone can’t take “no” for an answer.
IanHunter
Sociopath. I would expect better from a person with an OK Cupid account. Lol
Truth-is-Truthy
Yes, one of the most frustrating facets of OKC is that people will reply once or pretend to be interested and then you try to keep the interest going but they suddenly disappear and you never hear from them again. It drives me crazy, and many others as well. There are dozens of OKC profiles I’ve come upon where the guys all say essentially the same thing “Don’t reply unless you intend to be mature about it and keep talking. Don’t pretend to be interested and then disappear off the face of the earth.” I happen to agree with that idea. It remains unclear to me whether the problem is unique to gay males or not as I have no experience with female dating (and much less so female dating websites). But with all that being said Mr. Drew has serious emotional issues that he needs to work out and likely needs a good psychologist, or needs more supportive and helpful friends in his life. The kinds of personality traits he expressed do come out subtly to others and can be one reason he hasn’t been able to get the interest of others.
Kieran
This sounds like a Hillary supporter venting about President-elect Trump. Move on. Get over it.
NateOcean
I found OK Cupid to be worthless. They basically admitted that the endless questions were to build a valuable marketing database not for better matchmaking.
Among the other Aps I’ve tried (Grindr, adam4adam, Jack’d, scruff), they all have weird bugs. Several leave you logged in for hours after you’ve logged out. Some direct message to your mobile phone even if you are using your tablet. Either way that can make it appear that you’re ignoring someone, when in fact, you never saw their message.
Vman455
You need to re-word the first several paragraphs. Based on the screen caps, Drew was the receiver of the texts, not the sender.
White_Bear77
BPD, leave, no come back, leave no come back….. Like Truthy says above “Mr. Drew has serious emotional issues”
jdboston617
The biggest phony here is the article itself. It’s all made up.
LucasH
Holy crap!!! I saw this headline and thought, yeah sure who doesn’t have some crazy stories to tell from online dating. And then I scrolled down. And scrolled down some more. And some more. And then I kept scrolling, and it just kept going and going and going…Wow.
Arconcyyon
No is dont´s no correty public mensagens aplicativy ! No is yes celebrety no potter hegay hasgay manogay sorry ! aplicaty the lgbtt .
spiffy
tl;dr
It’s most likely a chat bot though. They always want your phone number for some reason.
DaveNY
Me on Grindr, a play in One Act
Me: Messages kinda-okay guy on grindr with a nice ass
Him: Messages back
Me: Flirts
Him: Flirts back
Him: Sends nude pics
Me: Sends dick pics
Him: Suggests we meet up
Me: Agrees
Me: Asks when
Me: Asks when
Me: Asks “what’s up?”
Me: “Hey, how ya been? Haven’t heard from ya in a while?”
Me: Sends dick pics again
Him: HOW DARE YOU SEND ME DICK PICS YOU PERVERT YOU’RE UGLY AND I HATE YOU
Him: *Blocks me*
annnnnnd SCENE.
Jaroslaw
Surely there must be something more interesting going on in the Gay world than this? Just for a change, maybe someone who devoted their lives to a cause?
Well, since we’re talking dating and the incomprehensible things, maybe someone can answer this for me. Some years ago, I joined a dating service. They supposedly did police clearances and all kinds of computer matching. I was fairly slim, not ugly, but far from handsome. The guys I was matched up with weren’t handsome either. But several of them were super polite, a few insisted on paying for dinner, despite my saying I’m appreciative but this isn’t a traditional type date. One guy walked me to my car, opened and closed the door. I am not swishy. And then none of them would call back! Obviously if they’re using a service, they aren’t doing well at the bar scene or randomly running into people either. So I really don’t understand what happened.
Jaroslaw
Oh yes, of course, the clothes were in good shape, I flossed, didn’t wear cologne, showered just prior to the date. Didn’t make any comments about their appearance or line of work that were negative etc.
Jaroslaw
Last comment – and yes, I called them back after about a week. didn’t get a return call after leaving a VM or they weren’t interested. I guess I could have asked them. Oh, the guy who walked me to my car? He got up every 10 minutes to use the bathroom. He was supposedly a cabinet maker, and yet when I mentioned the gay newspaper, he said “reading gives me a headache.”
Baba Booey Fafa Fooey
Scary.
batesmotel
Most people on apps are flakes. Just accept it. Obviously this guy took it to the max. Can you imagine getting close to him and then dealing with his constant nightmare of abuse. Run the other way!
dollahsign
What a lovely opportunity to see how the broken guys live! Could he been any colder? I guess I’ve been fortunate to meet (mostly) reasonable guys, and despite a frustrating one-time meeting recently, I can’t see me going off on another guy, especially as rudely. I sure as hell enjoyed this stupidity, though!
Realitycheck
Yes the guy has some serious mental issue and anyone that has been to a bar or a club has met quite few of those
mental/evil queens.
But the real question is… why would anyone waste even 1 second to read that crap? What happen to block?
That is an iPhone and iPhones can block.
And I am also assuming this article is not fake, and considering we are dealing with queerty I would ask how did they get that conversation to begin with?
SnorlaxationKH
It’s understandable to get upset when you deal with jerks online, especially flakes on dating/hook up sites/apps.
But seriously? Getting so pissed that you blow up their phone with a monotonous diatribe? Makes this person look like a mental patient.
captainburrito
That guy is a one man reality show. That was an awesome trainwreck of a read! lol
BigG
Borderline personality disorder. Scary.
grethomory
This is so sad. I know the other guy must be freaking out. I’ve been there myself. The guy who wrote all of these texts needs to get help. The other guy needs to save these messages…”just in case.”
Terrycloth
So the date was a no then ?
mc4bbs
We’ve all had boyfriends or “ex’s” like this at one point or another. Sheeesh! This guy is going to be lonely.
Music908
Talker…. Wow….. and I thought I was crazy !