Popular Youtube personality Petesjams has come out as bisexual in a lighthearted and rather captivating video.
He didn’t feel any need to come out until recently, but now, in the name of LGBTQ visibility, he thinks it’s a good idea to be upfront and honest about who he is.
He says bisexual is merely the “easiest way” to describe himself, but pansexual is probably more apt.
After joining in several Pride festivities, he felt it was important that people didn’t perceive him as “some straight dude” and wants to be one of the “vast array of voices” that are telling people ‘it’s okay’ to be gay, genderqueer, bi, asexual, curious, or whatever.
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Petesjams says he discovered his own sexuality “somewhere between the age of 12 and 14” and that it was the “liberal kind of nature that came with the ’emo’ ideology” that allowed him to experiment when the time became right.
He previously dated actress/singer Carrie Hope Fletcher.
Currently, his channel has 95,000 subscribes and more than six million views.
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h/t: Gay Star News
crowebobby
Never heard of this guy and I follow a lot of YouTubers. He’s my fantasy gay boy; love his looks, his voice and his demeanor. Wonder if gerontophilia is in his wheelhouse. All we have to do is cuddle; I’ll even keep my clothes on.
crowebobby
Checked out his Instagram. He’s just a little too old; will have to limit my fantasies to him in his late teens. Sorry, Pete.
PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID
LOL Tolling at its finest…please be a troll :/….oh Jesus please O_O
DannX68
Okay, now I have to say something.
I don’t know you, but you suddenly popped up in her not long ago and always with “kind words” about VERY young guys.
Now, normally I don’t have a problem with anything/one that is of legal age, but dude, you seem REALLY creepy. Don’t know if it’s loneliness or whatever, but tone it down a bit.
Unless you’re trolling, in that case, good one.
Donston
I hope it’s trolling. There are a decent amount of creeps who post here. But that second post was almost a waving of the troll flag.
Hussain-TheCanadian
@ PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID – ROFL; Yeah no he’s not kidding.
Billy Budd
Bisexuality is beautiful. In the near future, almost everybody will be bisexual, except for the fully gay 3%.
Donston
I love how you assume that 3% of men are 100% fully gay while in your world no man is 100% fully straight. You must be another one of Brian’s alternates. Your comments always make you very easy to suss out.
A recent Times article concludes that most men have zero sexual attraction to other men. So, it will never be “most”. Also, that same article concludes that, yes, about 2-3% of men are flat-out homo while another 3-4% have attractions that lie greatly with men. While not quite 1% of men are anywhere close to being 50/50 bi. Those numbers sound about right.
So, no matter how much you try to push your homophobic bi-fantasia the evidence continues to not back it up either in behavior, identity and especially in studies on inherent sexual attractions. And this comes from an inherently bisexual man, btw (albeit, homo-dominant with no interest in being with a woman again). Something I don’t think I’ve been straight forward about on this site.
Donston
Many of Queerty’s comment-ers (though many are the same two or three people with multiple usernames) need to actually read things on sexuality beyond Queerty, porn sites and probably Datalounge. So many of you are are living a delusion that’s often made up of hetero worship and self-hate and naivety and a ridiculous of self-indulgence.
Richard 55
All straight-identifying men are able to turn their gaze from women to men. All. They won’t admit it because women would punish them.
Donston
“All”. Sure. Yeah, Brian.
Most people are able to sexually engage with any type of person if they wanted to. Men can stick their penises in anything. Anybody can stick their body parts in anything. Whether they have sexual attraction to that something is an entirely different story. Same-sex sexual behavior has never been a huge societal issue (until the 80’s) as much as admitting that your attractions lie entirely with or almost entirely with your same gender and actually wanting to be with your same gender and not experiences sociological and psychological problems due to that. That is the homo struggle.
You keep making these basic, hetero-worshiping claims with almost nothing to back it up. “Most straight men can manage some type of sexual activity with dudes sometimes if they really tried”. And? No one cares. That doesn’t help us out one bit as the extreme amount of homophobia and internalized homophobia continue to highlight. Your thinking is why so many gay men end up alone, end up back with women or spend their entire lives paying “straight-identifying” men to be with them. The internalized homophobia and hetero-worship fantasy never dissipates.
Donston
The real sad part is that you expend so much effort and time hating on women and self-accepting homo men while defending closet cases, homo-dominant bi men who are desperate to hold on to hetero-normalcy and hetero dynamics, gay-4-pay/gay-for-fetish dudes, and sexual megalomaniacs when the majority of the those men are extremely resentful towards homos or spend a large percentage of their lives using people. You have zero pride or self-respect. But that’s been obvious for quite a while.
strix1
Never heard of him? That’s because he only has 95,000 subscribers…that is not many compared to users people know of. What was this topic about?
Richard 55
I like him. But should he tie his sexual outlook to GLBT politics? I sincerely hope not. GLBT politics exploits people and is not healthy.
Terrycloth
Once again I had to go to YouTube to watch the video.the commercial played fine ..go figure but , could not get petesjams video to play..
I’ve never heard of him either…is it me or are there more Brits coming out lately. When I came out i didn’t have to make a video.I bet 99%of his followers don’t care one way or the other…
Mo Bro
Sorry, but the term “pansexual” implies that he’s into all forms of sexuality, including but not limited to kids and animals, which is almost as creepy as crowebobby’s pedophilia (see above).
Donston
When guys use the term “pansexual” or “queer-sexual” it does seem to imply those things about half of the time. But not always. It also just mean that you are including trans and “non-cis” gendered people. However, it also does often implies the lack of gender attractions or that your sexual instincts have been taken over by fetish or an attraction to children and animals. It can mean that you’re a sexual megalomaniac who is obsessed with “feeling different things”, is into sadomasochism and is looking to dominant and be dominated by different genders to feed your ego and fetish. But there are plenty of men who are hetero, homo, bi, queer, fluid, etc identifying men who fit into those categories. That’s why it’s important to look beyond the “labels”.
Donston
The ability to be turned on by the mere nature of sexuality isn’t a problem. I’m somewhat like that (minus the kids or animals). However, my gender attractions lie greatly with men. And I have no problem living a life reflective of that and identifying as such. However, perversion, fetish, ego and sociology are the main reasons why so many homo, hetero, and homo-dominate bi men end up identifying as things they are not.
kent25
You can’t trust those queers they are turned on by everything.
BennyP
why does it matter? Get yourself a girlfriend and a shrink. They can control the same sex attraction.
They need a little Conversion therapy to push them all the way to the straight side