Timothy Malcolm currently stars on TLC’s 90 Day Fiancé.
The reality show follows couples who have applied for K-1 visas (available to foreign fiancés of American citizens) and have 90 days to either get married or have the foreign half of the couple deported when the visas expire.
Timothy and his Colombian girlfriend Jeniffer are currently starring on the third season of the problematic show. Throughout the season, 38-year-old Timothy has been criticized by fans and co-stars for acting “effeminate” and wearing nice clothes. Some have even questioned whether he might be trans.
The chatter came to a fever pitch after the couple got into an argument about Timothy’s lack of interest in Jeniffer, particularly his refusal to have sex. Jeniffer called Timothy a “p*ssy” and said she prefers traditionally masculine men who like to “conquer” her.
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After the episode aired, fellow 90 Day Fiancé cast mate Dean Hashim went on The Domenick Nati Show to unleash a transphobic diatribe, saying, “The way he crossed his legs, man, it don’t look like he got a pair of balls between ’em.”
“I don’t know man, I can’t even cross my legs like that man, I’m blessed, you know what I mean? He crosses his legs more feminine than she do.”
Hashim continued: “Here’s what I’m thinking, cause look man, me and my brother was saying the other day, he was like, ‘Yo, I think that used to be a female that turned himself into a man. He trying to grow up here, you know. It ain’t ready, it ain’t fresh out the oven yet man. He can’t pull his pants down yet you know? I think what it is, when they get that sex change, they gotta give it time for that peter to grow, like a sprout.”
In response, Timothy took to Instagram to set the record straight.
“Rumors are carried by haters, spread by fools, and accepted by idiots,” he said in a post shared with his nearly 80K followers.
In a recent Instagram Q&A, Timothy added, “I have never had a problem having a girlfriend, so clearly there are some women who like men like me.”
“I knew I would have haters,” he continued, but he said “the transgender comments were not expected.”
Timothy went on to say that he considers metrosexual, adding that because he wasn’t in a hurry to have sex with Jeniffer, “ruthless” people have attacked him for simply being a “respectful man.”
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Invader7
A douchy show with even douchier people.. Their 15 minutes of fame has passed. ALL of those “reality” shows feature trashy people with trashier lives. I have way better things to do then even channel surf through those shows.. They’re all lowly, pathetic ,horrible, self involved, DEEPLY insecure,vapid shallow wanna be’s…
Cam
Aside from the rampant bigotry expressed by the cast members…..the guy needs to come out of the closet.
All of that B.S. of “I haven’t slept with her because I’m “respectful”…is the exact same crap that Clay Aiken and Ricky Martin’s publicists used to pull.
Either that, or the guy is straight, isn’t attracted to her, and it’s all a fake plot just to get on TV. But even then, most straight guys would still sleep with her.
dbmcvey
These shows are garbage.
j41005
I’m not going to pretend to know a lot about transgenders, but just from this persons body language, he/she? looks like a girl, trying to be a guy. Everything about him/her screams female.
I’m definitely NOT judging, just saying what I think.
Brian
Obviously you’re judging or you would have simply said “he”.
azjeff17
Tim is not on our team.
djmcgamester
I always think people protesting are hiding something. I’m not saying they’re necessarily gay or bi but maybe some anti-gay bias that expresses itself this way. He could just say nothing and then there’d be no controversy. Instead, he’s got to go all drama queen to make himself relevant.
IanHunter
Please cancel this show! It’s trash and deserves to be dumped.
MISTERJETT
even if people like it, they should just cancel the show because you say so? how about you just not watch it and let the people who do watch have it? how about that???
Toofie
Yes it’s a trashy show. So change the channel when it comes on.
PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS
Me thinking she doeth protest waaaaay too much….
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Doug
I haven’t watched this show and know nothing about this guy’s history, but after watching the clip I think this woman is a complete bitch. He didn’t deserve the big deal she made just because he had a problem with heights. Hopefully they’ve both dumped each other.
Doug
I haven’t watched this show and know nothing about this guy’s history, but after watching the clip I think this woman is a complete bitch. He didn’t deserve the big deal she made just because he had a problem with heights. Hopefully these two people have dumped each other.
piriblue
The only hint to something being wrong was when his x girlfriend asked about how they did in the sex department. A flashbulb went off. I don’t know but he seems to have women’s hips. Not judging but with all his money he should be able to buy what ever he wants.
truthseeker
LOL one minute we’re told about how toxic masculinity is but now a guy isn’t masculine and it’s still a problem. You people need to make up your minds
Brian
It’s the eyebrows. They’re very feminizing.
DarkZephyr
Gonna have to agree. I don’t know if he’s gay or trans, because I’m not psychic and his sexual orientation and gender identity are his business, but those overly plucked eyebrows are definitely very feminizing.
MISTERJETT
if he says he’s not, maybe he’s not.
Sister Bertha Bedderthanyu
The thump pic alone makes me think it was decided by the producers well in advance of this “news flash” that YOU would be perfect for such a “controversial” subject to get the ratings up. The words “reality show” was the red flag for me. Don’t you people ever stop long enough to think and remember that this is TELEVISION we are talking about. Get that audience to watch your show no matter what it takes. I’ll bet many of you set your DVR’s to record it and after five minutes you’ll slap yourself for doing so.
wellinmysoul
Will knowing this person’s business make me a better person?
Toofie
The guy has NO game.
MarkyMarkNipple
I think he’s just a weird kind of creepy guy.
Yooper
As much as I can tell, the premise of the show is to take two media-whore-ish, shame-free, relatively charm-free individuals and make them attempt to create a marriage bound relationship. I miss The Bob Newhart Show, both of’em.
And, the guy in question is gay as they come, I wish him peace.