European reality star Tom Brusse went on the talk show Sunday Deluxe last weekend where he made a big reveal about his sexuality.
“I like to try everything,” the 29-year-old said. “I try everything and see what I like and what I don’t like.”
Brusse, who is from Morocco, has appeared on several Spanish reality shows and has over 370K followers on Instagram. When asked how long he’s been trying “everything,” he responded by saying that he first experimented with another guy a few months ago.
Actually, it was more than just one man. It was more like an, ahem, orgy. And, yes, for those of you wondering, it involved penetration.
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“I’m not going to say I didn’t like it,” the 29-year-old said. “The sensation was not different from the penetration of a woman.”
When asked if he would do it again, Brusse said he wouldn’t rule out the possibility, explaining, “If it happens again, it happens.”
En pleno mes de la visibilidad bisexual, ayer Tom Brusse salió del armario como bisexual en el @salvameoficial ADORO ? #politom pic.twitter.com/IVatRAThDr
— Igualdad LGBT ???? (@IgualdadLGBT) September 12, 2021
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Donston
I’m kinda over queer media making a story out of every time a dude confesses to some homo behaviors or says that they’re not entirely hetero. It’s not a story any longer. While it doesn’t really matter what his sexual experiences are, sexual dimensions are or where he is in the gender, sexual, romantic, affection, emotional investment, commitment spectrum is. These reality “stars” pretty much do and say anything for attention/clout/ego. So, it’s impossible to believe anything they say. It’s especially hard to believe that that was the first time he’s sexually engaged with his or even if there even was an orgy. But as I said, the big problem is the media feels the need to report and hype up every time a “straight presenting” dude admits to homo behaviors. It’s coming off tacky, sensationalistic and even homophobic at this point. So many “gay presenting” guys admit to not being entirely homo or admit to indulging hetero behaviors, and no one gives a shit. Then they want to post articles about dudes “queer baiting” when it’s so easy to get attention for just admitting to taking some dick/messing around with a guy one time. It’s tired.
Cam
I don’t mind the media bringing it up because there is still SUCH an assumption in media that everybody is straight.
Donston
It’s not as if the dude is suddenly not “straight presenting”. Admitting to some homo behaviors doesn’t mean that you’re not still “straight presenting”. Also, it’s the way that it’s presented that is problematic. True progression is this stuff not being a story at all. If women admitting to same-sex hookups and overtly “queer” guys admitting to hetero behavaiors isn’t a story, then we need to see this stuff as less sensationalistic. Furthermore, I just don’t care about reality “stars”. It’s been shown time and time again that so many of them say/do whatever for clout and opportunities. And of course, he reduced his supposed one-time same-sex experience to a fetishistic orgy scenario. Therefore, it wouldn’t come off “too gay”. But it would also still net him the attention he was looking for.
Of course, I understand that male homophobia, male/masculine insecurities, hetero expectations, toxic masculinity, gay panic, identity politics, people not understanding fluidity or experimentation or the gender, sexual, romantic, affection, emotion, relationship/commitment spectrum- these are the real issues. But the media often makes things worse not better.
Openminded
Totally agree with you Donston. I see this case as more about media attention than exploring one’s sexuality.
Cam
@Donston
I see what you’re saying, but I still am all in favor of someone that media would normally present and assume is straight, being open about that the fact that they aren’t.
It keeps shaking up the viewers and I’m fine with that.
BigJohnSF
His experience doesn’t matter, but where he is on the “gender spectrum” does matter? LOL! Sounds like you don’t have much experience, do you. Poor thing.
Michael
I take it he didn’t bottom. Someone should clue him in about, at least, 90% of guys having sex with other guys just want to bottom if possible.
Man About Town
Thanks for your Wishful Thinking Assumption!
CatholicXXX
Gay baiting.
Hussain-TheCanadian
He’s one of those straight men who will put his dick in any available hole; gay he is not, wouldn’t allow him the privilege.
Donston
I mean, there are plenty of queers who will have sex with just about anybody, who contend with hyper-sexuality, who contend with a lot of fluidity. There are many dudes who are overall homo-leaning but constantly hype up their “non gayness” and their sex with women while preferring to consistently receive passions, affections, romantic attention, comfort from their homeboy and preferring same-sex relationships. I’m not saying that he’s one of those types. But there are plenty of guys like that.
We want to make sure that we do not discourage guys from being honest. Dudes being casually honest about their dimensions or experiences or struggles is the best way to help eradicate gay panic, male homophobia, closet cases and ignorance towards fluidity, paraphiliacs, experimentation, the gender, sexual, romantic, affection, emotional investment, commitment spectrum. On the other hand, a lot of guys exploit their willingness to sexually engage with whoever or use their bit of “queerness” mostly to shock and get attention, to be seen as “progressive” and less “basic”, to bait, to get money. And it often works because so many people jump on that stuff. So, it’s a thin line.
Hussain-TheCanadian
I hear what you’re saying Donston; I did a light internet search on this guy and my immediate impression of him led to my post.
He doesn’t appear to be gay or homo-leaning, at least not to me. I say so while fully admitting that I don’t know him, and my knowledge of him is quite limited.
Generally speaking, I agree with your post.
Donston
You would have been better off just calling him a hoe and saying you don’t want to hook up with him. While a guy not being “gay” identifying or not being homo-leaning doesn’t mean that he can’t express his same-sex experiences or feelings. At least 30% of the population is probably in the “queer spectrum”. And most guys who have had at least one sexual encounter with their sex will never identify as “gay” and/or will never have a same-sex commitment. These are all things that we need to respect. Just like we need to respect just how individual sexuality, gender, love, emotions, relationships, motivations are. It’s also impossible to determine that someone is “straight” based on their social media, “straight presenting” perhaps. Social media is just what someone wants to present. While a shit ton of guys have had sex with tons of women and spend years in hetero dynamics but still end up in same-sex relationships or end up even coming out as “gay”. In fact, I find it likely that if a guy is out here indulging a bunch of orgies and constantly having sex with random women then he probably is in the “queer spectrum”.
People should be able to express themselves. My issue is that so many dudes are starting to use bi behaviors like a lot of women have unfortunately used bi behaviors for decades: for some quick shock value or some quick attention or to seem “open-minded”. And it’s tired. While the media still eats the shit up.
TMBisAOK
No, he is one of those bi/gay men that wont just f*cking SAY IT that he us bi or gay. This f*cking teasing “try anything” choice BS is nauseating!He is no different than all the “gay4pay” in porn that will have gay sex and alude though that he is not a fa**ot like us! Eff him!
Cam
Either he’s going to now step out with a hastily acquired girlfriend and will talk about how that was a youthful shenanigan, or he’ll end up taking a few more steps down Queer road and end up like Colton from The Bachelor.
Liquid Silver
So, who gets the toaster? And do you really want to brag about that?
Mr. Stadnick
Puerile at best.
Fahd
In the clip, one can note from the reaction of the show’s hosts that his revelation really got their attention, but not in a bad way. I can’t recall seeing anything similar on an American talk show – where things would probably be more sensationalized and judgmental. It all seems like it was fun, and he enjoyed the attention he got by revealing it. I’ll be curious to see where he goes with this.
GayEGO
Well, he is a nice looking dude! Maybe he should just come out as either a bi-sexual or gay!
G R
This guy is as interesting as unbuttered toast.
SFMike
Just another good looking himbo gay baiting for clicks as there is nothing special about a guy who will screw anything when available as most of us have been there, done that.
JoshGL
Let me know when he takes it up the ass.
Troyfight
@ ..I agree.
mateo
I beg to differ with those who say it’s no big deal or that he’s only seeking media attention. HE’S FROM MOROCCO, an extremely homophobic country! It IS a big deal, no matter what his intentions are.
nm4047
Sounds like a fluff story that should have been left to the Spanish equivalent website to run. Will assume his 340k ‘followers’ are by a country mile spanish speaking and as such not a personality known by the vast majority of readers of this site.
CurtisIsTheOne
ALL of you who commented on this story took the QUEERTY bait, Hook, Line & Sinker. Except of course, moi.
CityguyUSA
I’m kinda over just taking a head shot and putting it on someone else’s body. At least give the body the credit it deserves.