“I wish I had come out earlier.
You know I was [first] accused of being gay when… I think I was 16 at the time.
But because it was kind of like I was being accused of it, I’d always thought of it, as that being a bad thing.
It was really hard for me to tell my closest friends and family. And I mentioned to them, ‘do you know, I’m thinking of coming out on TV, just so it’s done’.
People were like, ‘maybe you should just get used to it first’. I was like, ‘no. I will… no I’m going to do it’. I was able to be the kind of person who I am. And you know, that’s really a kind of powerful thing to have.
It’s weird, because [gay people] even have to think about, you know, do we hold hands or not? And we should be holding hands.
I think it’s important to have marriage equality in this country, and I think it’s important for it to happen now.
I know what it was like to grow up as a young person, like a second-class citizen, feeling as though what I’m doing is wrong. That’s what’s implied when you don’t have the same kinds of rights as other people.”—Ian Thorpe, during an appearance on Anh’s Brush With Fame in which he opened up about his struggle to come out and the sorry state of marriage equality in Australia