Meet Robert Carter, a 29-year-old stylist and openly gay man based in Cincinnati, Ohio. Carter took the extraordinary step last month of adopting five children–all age 10 or under–at once.
Carter grew up in foster care and has always felt the sting of separation from his siblings. “I’ve always known I wanted to adopt because I grew up in foster care myself,” he told The Daily Mail. “I knew about my sexuality very young, so I always figured I’d have to adopt if I wanted kids.”
Carter became a foster parent in December 2019, taking in three of the brothers from the family: Robert Jr., Giovanni, and Kiontae. Only later did he learn that the boys had two other sisters, placed elsewhere in foster care. He immediately set up a date for the boys to reunite with their sisters, Marionna and Makayla, for an afternoon playdate. After seeing the five together, Carter had a moment of revelation.
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“The kids saw each other and started hugging and crying and wouldn’t let go,” he recalls. “That was the moment I said ‘okay I’m going to take all five.'” Robert had been one of nine children, and was separated from his siblings when they entered foster care. He wouldn’t see some of his siblings again for 14 years.
Against the advice of his friends, Carter applied to adopt all five kids. October 30, a judge approved the adoption, making him a father of five.
“My five kids are amazing,” Carter opines. “A lot of people think it’s hard if you’re by yourself or don’t have a house, but it’s a lot easier than people think it’s going to be and kids need parents whether it’s two or one. After it was finalized, I just cried because it was over and I didn’t have to worry about if they were going to be moved or would have to suffer anymore. I woke up the next day feeling relieved, at peace and blessed to have these kids.”
“I can’t even explain how unbelievable it is,” he concludes. “Just to have support and people sharing our story to bring awareness to the fact that we still have so many kids that need homes. I’m just happy that I’m able to help encourage people to step up as foster and adoptive parents so we can get these kids into great hands.”
Carter has set up a GoFundMe Campaign to help cover the expenses of the adoption and to buy a home for the family. It has a projected goal of $150,000.
Mister P
I wish this family the very best.
sfhairy
What a beautiful story. I donated to help them buy a home. I wish them the best!
jlew64
Thank you for mentioning the donation… I had already seen the story elsewhere and missed the gofundme link when I quickly scanned this article. I was happy to make a donation to this amazing man and his new family!
WashDrySpin
Donation delivered as well…I wish him the best of luck with these lovely children who are now his family!!!
cwaigy
I want to wish this family all the love and support that they deserve. What a wonderful beautiful story and what an incredible amazing fantastic man to adopt and keep a family together. Not all family do survive life and can be ripped apart by life events. But it is incredibly a breath of fresh air for someone to keep a family together. Mine disowned me because I’m gay and didn’t fit in to their selfish one sided attitudes and I walked away never to be in their lives again. They wanted nothing to do with me, so I moved on. But this story gives me hope that I can have a family of my own one day. So thank you, to this father and his five children. You have my support.
dinard38
That’s really sad to hear, that your family disowned you. But glad to know that you had the strength to move on. Wishing you the best. 🙂
dinard38
Wow! That’s amazing! I wish him all the best. Five kids as a single parent won’t be easy. Especially foster kids. I adopted two boys, ages 9 and 6, as a single parent. They were a handful (times 100, haha), especially the older one. They will come with lots of issues. That should be expected. Hopefully dad has a great support system. I wish him and his babies well.
Kangol2
This story is so moving. I wish Mr. Carter and his family the best and will do what I can to help. Thanks for posting this, Queerty, and for the GoFundMe link.
dougie
This guy is an inspiration and gives me hope for the future. I’m happy to donate to help this beautiful family get a home.