Straight guys reveal how it feels to be cruised in the shower room
By Editors · 41 comments· Updated on September 26, 2023
Ahh, the old shower room — everyone’s favorite place to get cruised…unless you’re straight! (Cruising means you’re looking for a guy to pick up, in case you’ve been living under a rock your whole life.)
You finish an intense workout at the gym. Covered in sweat, you strip down in the locker room and get ready to rinse off in the shower…aaaaand there’s some horny dude waiting to check out your merchandise. Do you skip the shower or just let the guy get a cheap thrill?
Now, imagine if you’re a straight guy in this scenario. Davey Wavey polled a group of straight guys to see how they’d react if they got cruised in the shower room. Then, Davey went a step further to see if this will change the way the guys objectify the ladies.
Find out what the straights say below:
When the question was posed to the straight guys, asking if they ever glanced at girls without their consent, it definitely gave them a moment of reflection. It made them realize that mutual respect is essential, regardless of sexual orientation. However, let’s be real, they may still sneak a peek at the ladies from time to time. After all, old habits die hard!
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I can careless how straights feel threaten over gay men when most don’t care to look. He should had survey gay men and how straight men make us feel when they see you and just look at you and walk/run away. As if you are a deviant. Lately u care about how the straight community feels intimidated by the gays and not how we are continued to be viewed as perverts by straight men. Yet it’s ok to be sexist.
Is this our new agenda? Convincing straight guys they are gay? Or convincing gay men that straight guys secretly desire them? I don’t understand the obsession with straight guys. What answer did Davey Wavey expect from them? That they, being straight, just love when other guys ogle them in the locker room? Which, btw, isn’t something straight guys get to do to women. There aren’t very many unisex locker rooms that I am aware of.
Ok gay guys…Str8 people are the VAST majority of humans. Why are you offended by a quite legitimate discussion like this? No one said anything about convincing either side they are the other way Paco. We are talking about co-existing in the real world. This discussion also turned on a light with these guys about how they view women as well.
@Larry: The only thing he highlighted was that unwanted sexual attention is why straight guys are kept out of women’s locker rooms, by using gay men’s attraction in the locker room as an example.
@Alexander R. Rodriguez: Though I don’t agree completely, there’s an element of truth there. It’s more complicated in actual reality, though, with more shades of gray. But a lot of gays do still feel a sexual attraction to straight men, and the more hardcore fascist they are the better.
This only stereotypes and feeds the myth that ALL gay guys want ALL straight men… I get sick and tired of that BS…. I have caught straight guys checking out the “competition” too… It’s a guy thing… not a gay thing… Guys has, is, and will always check to see how the man to their left/right measures up to them… The way I look at it… is God gave every guy a different penis… That’s what makes us unique… I’ve seen guys bigger than me and I’ve seen guys smaller than me…. But do I care? No, because every guy I’ve been with has never complained about my size. So, just to set the story straight… It ain’t just gay guys who “stalk” the showers hoping to catch a peek… Straight guys do it too… AND the gay guys at my gym wouldn’t step foot in those grungy showers… Most guys don’t even wear shower shoes when they shower there… and I don’t want my feet catching some fungus… I mean really, how often do you think they clean and sanitize gym showers? Hmmmm? But luckily I live close enough to my gym that it’s just about a 10 minute walk. At least I know who’s been in my shower at home… And the 10 minute walk is like a “cool-down” period….
@darkanser: If not in a magazine he and so many others often pop up on those endless Tumblr, Instagram, Blogger, etc. pages full of nudes of “straight” guys who just can’t stop taking pictures of themselves with erections bursting out of their briefs, d!cks resting on sinks, etc.
Umm. So recap: Only one person in the video had an experience remotely like what he suggested in the video. So then he made up a hypothetical. Thereby trying to validate a bullshit stereotype and perpetuate a damaging social myth. Then he decided he was going to speak for all gay men, and all women. Then he asked 4 people to speak for all straight men. WTF did I just watch.
I have a thought…some of these girls wear very tight fitting clothing. You’re going to tell me they wear it because it’s comfortable? No, they dress because they want to be seen. Men do the same thing, they dress to accentuate parts of their body, and then they protest when the “wrong” person looks. So hypocritical.
This is stupid. Gay men checking out straight men in a locker room is entirely different situation than straight men checking out women on the gym floor or on the street. Please don’t speak for me when you make “deals” with guys like this, Davy…
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Stephen Devine
YAWN
Sand Nierenberg
Morons
Marcus Magix
STFU smdh
Derick Lindsey
The video was actually entertaining. Oops, I mean…. *bitching*
Hero Hu
Why queerty is so obsessed with straight guys topics ? Last consecutive 5 posts are all about straight guys.
Carl Jay Same
This is so stupid. Are we in 9th grade?
Manny Lugo
straight guys… straight guys…. straight guys..Lord where are the gay dudes????? keep the straight men praising..
Gio Turcios
I can careless how straights feel threaten over gay men when most don’t care to look. He should had survey gay men and how straight men make us feel when they see you and just look at you and walk/run away. As if you are a deviant. Lately u care about how the straight community feels intimidated by the gays and not how we are continued to be viewed as perverts by straight men. Yet it’s ok to be sexist.
Steven Burr
Now they know how straight woman feel
Paco
Is this our new agenda? Convincing straight guys they are gay? Or convincing gay men that straight guys secretly desire them? I don’t understand the obsession with straight guys. What answer did Davey Wavey expect from them? That they, being straight, just love when other guys ogle them in the locker room? Which, btw, isn’t something straight guys get to do to women. There aren’t very many unisex locker rooms that I am aware of.
Shaun King
If straight men weren’t so dam Sxc this wouldn’t be a problem
Queer Comedy
Touche, my friend! 🙂
Kevin J Desmond
Bitch Please … he likes getting hit on, mostly from the rear. ( just saying )
Larry
Ok gay guys…Str8 people are the VAST majority of humans. Why are you offended by a quite legitimate discussion like this? No one said anything about convincing either side they are the other way Paco. We are talking about co-existing in the real world. This discussion also turned on a light with these guys about how they view women as well.
Sammy Schlipshit
Those boys still missed the point. They just don’t get it.
Paco
@Larry: The only thing he highlighted was that unwanted sexual attention is why straight guys are kept out of women’s locker rooms, by using gay men’s attraction in the locker room as an example.
rickhfx
Homophobia look it up
TheBippi
Oh look, another Davey Wavey video with ZERO older guys in the video!
rephello
Straight guys are so fragile. It’s why we can relate to them.
joeyty
@Alexander R. Rodriguez: Though I don’t agree completely, there’s an element of truth there. It’s more complicated in actual reality, though, with more shades of gray. But a lot of gays do still feel a sexual attraction to straight men, and the more hardcore fascist they are the better.
darkanser
I could swear I’ve seen that black guy in a gay mag – yes, naked!!!!
Brian
You should never cruise in the showers. It’s a sign of poor self-control. It’s rudeness personified.
billeetee
There is NOTHING more abhorent than a heterosexual male ego run rampant. They’re bad enough as is on a daily basis. Guys, get a life!
dubstepskater
This only stereotypes and feeds the myth that ALL gay guys want ALL straight men… I get sick and tired of that BS…. I have caught straight guys checking out the “competition” too… It’s a guy thing… not a gay thing… Guys has, is, and will always check to see how the man to their left/right measures up to them… The way I look at it… is God gave every guy a different penis… That’s what makes us unique… I’ve seen guys bigger than me and I’ve seen guys smaller than me…. But do I care? No, because every guy I’ve been with has never complained about my size. So, just to set the story straight… It ain’t just gay guys who “stalk” the showers hoping to catch a peek… Straight guys do it too… AND the gay guys at my gym wouldn’t step foot in those grungy showers… Most guys don’t even wear shower shoes when they shower there… and I don’t want my feet catching some fungus… I mean really, how often do you think they clean and sanitize gym showers? Hmmmm? But luckily I live close enough to my gym that it’s just about a 10 minute walk. At least I know who’s been in my shower at home… And the 10 minute walk is like a “cool-down” period….
captainburrito
I won’t lie, that was quite amusing.
Hussain-TheCanadian
@Brian: Damn Brain……….I can’t believe I agree with you.
Hussain-TheCanadian
@Hussain-TheCanadian: That guy in the hat is pissing me off for some reason; he seems disgusted or offended.
DrinkYourJuiceShelby
I hope Davey Wavey has a day job. Just saying…
Rob Laughlin
Liiiiieees!!! I’m not promising anything.
Invert
Well straight boys, never fear – only eye contact from me in change rooms/showers. More than enough free peen online these days anyhow.
But I find a lot of straight guys quite openly check ME out, and I’m not that cute at all.
zooby
@DrinkYourJuiceShelby: He’s a probably wannabe actor / fame whore… like most gay YouTubers – the rhodes twins, raymond braun, mark miller, etc.
Bauhaus
@Brian:
Of course you would say that – you are the nausea inducing hairball, swirling around the shower drain.
Kangol
@darkanser: If not in a magazine he and so many others often pop up on those endless Tumblr, Instagram, Blogger, etc. pages full of nudes of “straight” guys who just can’t stop taking pictures of themselves with erections bursting out of their briefs, d!cks resting on sinks, etc.
damobee
Theses dudes all seem gay to me : )
damobee
@Hussain-TheCanadian: Its a smoke screen. He’s really gagging for it.
Jared Smith-Valentine
Umm. So recap: Only one person in the video had an experience remotely like what he suggested in the video. So then he made up a hypothetical. Thereby trying to validate a bullshit stereotype and perpetuate a damaging social myth. Then he decided he was going to speak for all gay men, and all women. Then he asked 4 people to speak for all straight men. WTF did I just watch.
Joe Edwards
Why would I care if someone checked me out? Why was this article even written?
Marky
Who cares. Straight men are always ogling dick.
AlanZ
@Shaun King: Okay
Dymension
I have a thought…some of these girls wear very tight fitting clothing. You’re going to tell me they wear it because it’s comfortable? No, they dress because they want to be seen. Men do the same thing, they dress to accentuate parts of their body, and then they protest when the “wrong” person looks. So hypocritical.
Doug
This is stupid. Gay men checking out straight men in a locker room is entirely different situation than straight men checking out women on the gym floor or on the street. Please don’t speak for me when you make “deals” with guys like this, Davy…