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The Amazing A-List Advice Derek Gives Bryan Safi: Always Talk Shit About Your Frenemies

By December 3, 2010 at 12:12pm · 18 comments

On a campaign to be the next A-Lister, That’s Gay’s Bryan Safi sits down with New York’s most fabulous bully Derek Lloyd Saathoff to get some advice — one ah-lister to another. The first rule about making the A-list: Antagonize. Ooh, this is going to be easier than I thought!

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  • PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS

    Queerty: This show full ‘o phony, vapid, losers is over. Can ya please let get over it???? I watched the first ten minutes of this show and could’t get past when that douchefag Derek was emitting diarreah of the mouth about how oh so very important he was……..As opposed to being Gay bullies, they are a major contributing factor in the creation of bullies…………

    December 3, 2010 at 12:12pm
  • David Ehrenstein

    For the A-List L.A. it should be Bryan, Howard Bragman, Steve Antin (he’s our very own Austin), Bryan Singer, Jackie Beat and Alexis Arquette.

    December 3, 2010 at 12:12pm
  • Cam

    If Derek was so “A List” he wouldn’t need to be searching for a rich guy to hook up with.

    December 3, 2010 at 12:12pm
  • Qjersey

    Just get Bryan on as a regular on some show other than Current TV!

    December 3, 2010 at 2:12pm
  • scott ny'er

    ha. Dereck has an effed up hair-cut. He’s got a bald patch. Loser. I just hate Dereck. LOL.

    Bryan’s funny but much better when he makes fun of Dereck and not having him on his show.

    December 3, 2010 at 2:12pm
  • Latebrosus

    The first rule of any reality TV show is to antagonize. From keeping secrets to flipping tables, without drama, there’s nothing to watch.

    December 3, 2010 at 2:12pm
  • Bill Perdue

    They sit the way most women sit. Shouldn’t they
    at least try to act like men?

    December 3, 2010 at 3:12pm
  • Kieran

    Let’s face it, these two flowers are what John McCain is afraid our military will end up looking like if we repeal ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’.

    December 3, 2010 at 4:12pm
  • McMike

    This show is pathetic. I used to know some A-Listers in NYC and NONE of them would ever go around saying “I’m ‘A List’ because I know so and so and so and so.”

    Being “A List” isn’t who you know but, and I hate to say this, who knows you. It has way more to do with the affect you have on the city then whose hair you happen to cut or who you f*cked last week.

    December 3, 2010 at 5:12pm
  • Jorge

    At least the cast members are in on the joke. Judging my the comments here, some of the viewers clearly are too stupid to be in on it too…

    December 3, 2010 at 6:12pm
  • jacknasty82

    can you just ignore this show so we can all hope it goes away?

    December 3, 2010 at 10:12pm
  • Scott

    Wow, this is sad. I sort of feel like flicking the both of them to see if they flake apart.

    December 4, 2010 at 2:12am
  • Reserve

    Yeah, McMike, but you actually believe Cazwell and Michael Musto are A-list. LOL. (Nobody in NYC is truly A-List except for the pedigreed bluebloods).

    December 4, 2010 at 3:12am
  • Fitz

    Derek makes me envy bashers. Man, I would love a few minutes to beat the snot out of him.

    December 4, 2010 at 7:12am
  • scott ny'er

    @Jorge: FAIL.

    December 4, 2010 at 10:12am
  • Jonathan

    @PLAYS WELL WITH OTHERS: absolutely

    December 4, 2010 at 1:12pm
  • NYC SOCIALITE

    A- LIST NEW YORK. THE SHOW IS AWFUL!
    THE SHOW IS SO FULL OF GAY STEREOTYPES. NASTY, CATTY, QUEENS.
    NARCISSISTIC AND VAIN.
    NO ONE WILL EVER TAKE THEM SERIOUS AGAIN.

    TWO BIG THUMBS DOWN FOR LOGO TV.

    December 11, 2010 at 6:12am
  • Jon B

    I’m really confused, did none of the commentators a) watch the video? b) get that Bryan Safi was mocking Derek?

    The fact that he fake tanned around the sunglasses is amazing. I love it.

    December 22, 2010 at 12:12pm

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