The Precocious Marriage Behind NYC’s Nightlife Guide Gayletter

Tom and Abi, the proprietors of Gayletter, the indie nightlife emailer, have an interesting business relationship. “We don’t date,” Abi tells BUTT. “We hooked up a few times when we met, but we are not a couple.” Adds Tom: “we dated for few months and that did not really work out.” But they do have a relationship, of sorts. Says Abi: “I think we were just meant to be friends. We force ourselves to hang out because of Gayletter and we are constantly Facebooking and iChatting the whole day. And the we get an email at Gayletter and I am like, ‘Did you read that? What should I say?’ It’s really like a marriage.” This is their wedding photo: