Feeling jaded about love? Perhaps this story will help lift you from your funk. A gay couple in Britain just celebrated their 55th anniversary together. They are believed to be the country’s longest gay pairing.
78-year-old Ted Spring and 77-year-old Paul Pollard first met at The Lockyer Hotel, one of only two gay speakeasies in their hometown of Plymouth at the time, back in 1960, when homosexuality was still considered illegal in the U.K.
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“I was chatting to a friend of his when he came over. He bought me a drink and we just started talking,” Ted told The Plymouth Herald. “He’s never bought me a drink since, mind you!”
“I knew from the minute I saw him that this is someone I could spend the rest of my life with,” he added.
When they first met, Ted admits he was still struggling with coming to terms with his sexuality.
“I was always frightened by the gay side of life, but Paul didn’t care,” he explained. “He always used to say, ‘What’s wrong with being queer? What’s wrong with that? Who cares what people think!’”
“He showed me that no matter who you love, or what you love, love is beautiful and, after being with Paul for 55 years, I can honestly say I’ve never been happier.”
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The couple eventually went into business together, managing several bars and restaurants before eventually opening a small B&B, which they ran until they retired in 2000.
Over that time, they saw huge advancements in gay rights, but Ted confesses there are still times when he misses the good ol’ days, back when homosexuality was still considered taboo and gay people had to band together for support.
“We were like a big family,” he said, speaking of the friends he used to hang out with at The Lockyer Hotel. “We all knew who we were and where we could go. You’d go out and visit people on a Sunday for tea and things like that.”
“The country has changed so much, but prejudice still goes on,” he added. “If a lot more people had a better attitude, it would allow for a greater portion of society to live their lives.”
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Glücklich
Aww well that’s lovely. Congrats to them.
Glücklich
And how coincidental…nice little story about a coupla pensioners as I sit at a presentation about pensions: pros and cons of core, strategic, and unconstrained fixed income instruments in a defined contribution portfolio. I know you’re all jealous.
Sweetie Pie
I bet they had a few 3ways along the way…
Nahald
My partner & I just celebrated our 27th ! Hope we make to our 55th too !
GayEGO
Wow! Congratulations to them. My lifetime partner and I of 53 years have been married 11 years in Massachusetts. We are now both retired and living the American dream.
Xzamilio
@sportyguy1983: Welcome to Queerty, genius. Half of the stories posted don’t technically quality as news and you should know that by now. You want news? AP and AFP are a click of a mouse away. I mean really… Queerty posts something nice and heartwarming showing real love between gay men and… ugh, whatever.
Xzamilio
*Qualify.
Stupid phone
SportGuy
@Sweetie Pie: Hope not, as it would be nice to know that it is a real committed one.
John Kuehnle
55 years together…Happy Anniversary to them both.
Curty
For once a feel good post on this sleazy site… no straight lust, no guys in underwear, no closet cases. Just a couple in love. Sighs. Ok back to the sleazy, pea brain, stupid articles and trashy. Nutty commentators. Sighs
Bisexual-Transwoman
Congrats to them.
scotty
we should all be half as lucky as these two
silveroracle
Congratulations to them. 🙂
Tobi
“… back in 1960, when homosexuality was still considered illegal in the U.K” It wasn’t “considered” illegal, it was illegal. Homosexuality wasn’t decriminalised in the UK until 1967.
Leonard Woodrow
Hearty congratulations to them, and Snap! My partner (83) and I (90) met in 1960, too, and have been together ever since then.
Guy068
@sportyguy1983: Not hard news but it is a heartwarming story and a good tonic for anyone who thinks that it’s impossible for them to find that one guy they want to spend the rest of their lives with…
Cam
Congratulations to yhem, love stories like this. 🙂
OutInTheOC
Love to read stories like this…….me and my husband are on 11 years. We so much look forward to spending the last 30 years together……Booya!
NJjoe
@sportyguy1983:
+1
mezzacanadese
Hey, Paul, would you please buy Ted a drink!