Tom Hardy Has Dated Men, But Won’t Bottom

A year ago, actor Tom Hardy told the Daily Mail that he has had “sexual relations” with gay men. One week later, “a source close to the rising star” said his words were taken out of context. One month later, Hardy clairified that he’d never “done it all.”

Now he’d like to clarify that, unlike Sinead O’Connor, he won’t do anal.

Hardy’s original admission went like this:

“Of course I have [had sexual relations with other men]. I’m an actor for fuck’s sake. ‘I’ve played with everything and everyone. I love the form and the physicality, but now that I’m in my thirties, it doesn’t do it for me.

I’m done experimenting but there’s plenty of stuff in a relationship with another man, especially gay men, that I need in my life. A lot of gay men get my thing for shoes. I have definite feminine qualities and a lot of gay men are incredibly masculine.’”

And now?

“I don’t regret anything I’ve ever said It’s just a shame things are misconstrued and I don’t get the opportunity to explain…

I have never put my penis in a man… I’ve never had a cock in my arse, and I have no fucking desire for it. If that’s what you like, cool. But it doesn’t do it for me.”

When you’re a rising star, it’s very important to clarify whether or not you’ll do anal. It matters a great deal to casting directors.

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  • fagburn

    “You must realize that when you’re a rising star, it is very important to clarify whether or not you will do anal, as it matters very much to casting directors.”

    Tee hee.


  • jason

    Hollywood is a homophobic shit-hole and so is Tom Hardy.

  • Pocket Otter

    Looks like Tommy has conveniently forgotten the stormy night we spent in Sarasota, huddled under the covers with nothing to do but play strip Monopoly. I won.

  • Torrie

    Lmao. You mad, bro?

  • SteveC

    So he’s quite blatantly given and received BJ’s from other guys.

    This is PR crap at its worst.

  • kyle

    I prefer actors who are way into anal.

  • newcityspot

    Hollywood IS homophobic, that’s why we rarely see movies of any real worth. Hollywood has major issues. I got an awesome job just out of college working at a studio in script development. I had no idea what Hollywood culture was like. It didn’t take long before my female boss started calling men she didn’t like faggots and the office assistant and her would accuse men here and there of being faggots (the ultimate scarlet letter). She also hated Asians, and people frequently use the word nigger. I didn’t stay in Hollywood for a full year. Nothing was worth being around all that hate, bigotry, and stupidity. It’s a disgusting environment…I just wish everyone who has that favorite movie would hear the conversations of those behind the making of said movie. No one would ever support Hollywood if they knew the truth.

  • EdWoody

    I’ve had sex with Tom Hardy.

    Okay, that’s not true. I just sold him a pair of headphones. But in my head that’s how I choose to remember it.

  • Thomas Maguire

    A while back, there was a Craigslist ad for talent to star in Hustler’s infamous “Who’s Nailin’ Paylin?” production.

    The ad specified the salary, the position (doggy style) and that “some anal may be required.”

    On another note, there are PLENTY of real life MMA fighters who DO like anal:

    Hope that helps.

  • the crustybastard


    The fact all that bigoted shit goes down in Hollywood doesn’t bother me half as much as knowing that precisely that same shit goes down in the offices of elected officials.

    And knowing that whistleblowers will be systematically ruined.

  • Simon


    How is he homophobic? He’s said that he’s experimented with guys but not done anal. Whoopee. Where did he express hatred or fear? Nowhere.

    Of course, we do know that there is a “Jason” who posts here who hates women with an insanely psychotic passion that certainly is creepy.

  • velocifero

    Never heard of Tom Hardy. Might have if was a gay actor though.

  • christopher di spirito

    Stop talking about my boyfriend. Tom Hardy does do “anal” and very well, too.

  • Por Supuesto


  • newcityspot

    @the crustybastard: There too? What a sick society with duplicity! Hollywood presents itself as progressive with ideas by releases if movies dealing with civil rights and politicians present themselves as facilitating change. What’s wrong with everything? I mean…why?

  • KJM1968

    Tom who?

  • the crustybastard


    Because promising change makes you electable.

    Keeping the entrenched interests entrenched makes you rich.

  • Adam

    I had hope for this one, then he fell into the same trap.

  • Vinny

    What’s so wrong with what he said? He didn’t retract what he said, he never said he fucked or was fucked by a guy. Gays act as if anal is the end all be all. I was openly gay for two years and had lots of great hot sweaty sex with men without any anal whatsoever, top or bottom. And I’ve noticed as my partner of 12 years and I go forward, we fuck each other less and less (We still do it, but not nearly as much a we used to). I simply enjoy lots of other sexual activities more. And over the years I’ve fooled around with lots of “straight” or “bi” guys that enjoyed sex with a man, but never wanted or tried to fuck. If Tom Hardy had same-sex relations with another male, that doesn’t instantly mean that anal sex took place. I don’t see why that’s so hard to believe.

  • Michael

    I have never put my penis in a man… I’ve never had a cock in my arse, and I have no fucking desire for it. If that’s what you like, cool. But it doesn’t do it for me.”

    This is the part that gets me that he said.I get that he doesnt want a dick in his ass but the way he responded was hateful and angry no question about it. Then again maybe he was angry because as he said he feels like what he said was misconstrued.I have no idea but it just did not come across the right way the way he responded .

    Not to mention this is the typical pr response from people who are supposedly gay friendly: if thats what you like cool. That does NOT mean he is gay friendly nor a gay supporter for that matter.We really should not be this gullible there are plenty of celebs out there who PRETEND to be gay friendly when actually they are no where near it.

  • Michael

    Not to mention half of these dudes we drool over who are in the gay porn business one are NOT gay and are only doing it for the money.Doesnt mean they are gay friendly at all.

  • Mike in Asheville


    What’s wrong with what he [Tom Hardy] said?

    NOTHING, as you point out.

    I’ll take it even further, and say that Hardy’s comments are, actually, quite amazing. Wouldn’t it be a more wonderful and friendly world if all straight guys were as comfortable in their own sexuality as Hardy is that they need not falsely boost their masculinity by bashing the gays?

    GO TOM — love how he shows off that bod!

  • Lucas

    @Mike in Asheville: Did you not read the interview? Sure, he doesn’t bash gays but he describes gay sex in the grossest way possible and then very irritably states he “has no fucking desire” for it. Doesn’t sound like someone who is the pinnacle of gay-friendliness.

    Furthermore, the reason he described gay sex in the most grossed out possible way is to deflect attention away from HIS OWN ADMISSION of having relations with a man. There are multiple ways he could have answered this that would have been just as direct yet respectful to his phantom gay friends, but the method in which he chose to answer makes him seem like yet another semi-openly-closeted gay man tormented by something as menial as being attracted to the same gender.

    I too, Adam, had high hopes for this one. Lame…

  • Michael

    @Mike in Asheville:

    There is also a little something called TACT though which apparently Tom lacks that’s the point.

    Ive seen enough homophobes who make the EXACT SAME statements as he did especially the I dont want a dick in my ass comment.That is literally one of the oldest homophobic comments ive heard for years from celebs singers and online.It’s asinine and idiotic.

    Yes I give him credit for standing by what he said and not making excuses for it.But still the way he responded was not respectful nor tactful.He didnt even have to go as far as he did saying he never had a dick in his ass and I have no fucking desire for it either.

    He could have simply been as eloquent as many male celebs have been such as James Franco for example.He didnt have to take the macho fraternity brother approach and make such an asinine and rude statement such as the one he made.Thats just my opinion though.Everyone has one.

  • Interesting

    The implication of what is saying is similar to what you find in many Macho based cultures. It says that so long as you do not engage in anal then sex with men is not gay or bi. Some cultures go further. I remember an article on here, and I remember also talking to some Muslim guys about this- that if they fuck a guy- as in penetrating him – then its not gay because they are not acting as a bottom.

    In other words, its the kind of fine splitting of hairs that someone trying to make themselves “no” something do. This is not specific to Islam or even Macho cultures. You have Christian women who will say they have not had sex with their boyfriend because there was no vaginal penetration. I first hear that back in college where a girl told us that the sounds of sex coming from her room wasn’t sex because it was just oral. That’s not sex. IN short- its a lot of unhealthy denial.

    You don’t need to know the specifics of how each other have sex to admit that we are indeed having sex with men.

  • Tony

    Thank you..I thought the same thing. All he said was he never engaged in any type of anal penetration, how on earth is that anti-gay or homophobic?? I’m really starting to feel that gays are becoming guilty of the same sort of over reaction and phony outrage once reserved for the conservative christian right. So now the only way a confession of past gay encounters is valid is if anal sex took place?? Even I’m getting tired of whiney fags.

  • Lefty

    He’s a middle class boy who tries a bit too hard to seem edgy and street-wise most of the time.
    I think he tends to over-do the drugs and sex stories in order to come across as a reformed bad boy.
    Makes a nice story but it’s obviously backfired a bit with the gay stuff, so in typically faux bolshy fashion he tries to deny it in as graphic a way as possible. Yawn.
    He’s still hot though… :D

  • divkid

    i too prefer not to use the servants entrance (putting membership card in the post now), unfortunately the way he expressed it is open to negative interpretation.

    and “i’ve never put my penis in a man” leaves a rather limited menu of options — must mean he’s a heroically selfless giver of oral pleasure
    — all that neck action would explain the monster trapezius.

  • Michael


    People like you are part of the problem with this community.How exactly is it mature to call people whiny fags just because they think someone IS homophobic or possibly could be? Have YOU ever heard this guy say anything about gays that wasnt stereotypical? Didn’t think so.People like you really need to understand things better too there is such a thing called CONTEXT and the way in which it said DOES MATTER sorry if thats a problem for you.Logic and common sense would tell you that though just saying.

    Ditto also im quite frankly tired of people like you who seem to act like you know it all so that makes you think you have incentive to act like a pompous smartaleck.I guess your opinion is all that matters and COUNTS correct? Im sure I am.

  • A/C

    Of course he has never put his penis in another man, that shit is so small it’s laughable. Just google “Tom Hardy Nude” and giggle away.

  • Marcus

    This is baloney. That story is over a year old–probably longer, so why wait until NOW to set it straight? He’s done countless interviews since then.

    Oh wait. He has some movies coming out, doesn’t he?

  • Bryan

    To use his quote: “I have no fucking desire for him, if he’s what you like good for you, but he does nothing for me”.

    But seriously, what’s hot about his guy besides his bod? I know gays are very shallow nowadays, but besides his bod and if he wan’t a celeb, he really isn’t anything special. It certainly can’t be his face as I don’t find his handsome.

  • Okay

    Okay, here’s the deal. I keep seeing that one floating quote passed around. Anyone else notice the brackets, which are tantamount to putting words in his mouth? Read it without the bracket and it sounds like he’s talking about PLAYING gay, as an actor. I haven’t seen the full context, so I can’t be sure. But it sounds like he is getting misrepresented by this out-of-context quote.

  • jamie


    Wait! How did he describe gay sex in the “grossest way possible”? I hardly think that saying his saying “penis” or “cock” or “arse” qualifies as “gross.” Also, since you didn’t hear the conversation, you have no idea whether or not he was in a cheerful or joking mood.

    I find this sturm und drang silly. The guy had some flings in his youth. He was bicurious and found himself happy with a woman became his wife. Big deal. Move on.

  • Lucas

    @jamie: In case you didn’t learn in whatever remedial elementary you spend 24 years at, words have tone. The tone of what he said is clear and the irritability and disgust it exhibits is what’s causing the waves here.

    As for his description, unless you’ve been living under a rock you’ll know that straight society’s main problem with gay male sex is the ‘ick’ factor – two guys shoving their cocks “up there.” So when he describes that particular practice, in graphic detail, in an otherwise straight magazine, while speaking to straight people, he’s obviously trying to deflect attention away from him by vehemently stating he doesn’t engage in the act that most people find to be the grossest, most disgusting practice of being a gay man.

    Common sense, logic and critical thinking. Use it for once.

  • Aaron

    @Mike in Asheville:

    He basically said he wouldn’t mind being in a romantic relationship with a guy, and that he’s done plenty of non-anal things with guys. That’s called Bi, not a “straight guy comfortable in his sexuality”.

    @Michael: Oh, they are all gay or bi/bicurious. If they were straight guys so desperate for money, they’d, you know, go into straight porn… or better yet, find any sort of other regular/menial work. The thing is, if your gay or bi and need money, It just pays more in porn to say your straight when your a hot guy with a big dick. That’s how gay porn works. Unless you were already openly gay before making porn, your default is to say your straight to get more money. It’s disgusting and should be stopped, but it wont as long as queerty and LGBT-mass media keep buying into it.

    But make no mistake, Hollywood IS homophobic. You can’t be a very tolerant industry if you’re not even fucking willing to cast actual (openly) LGBT actors in LGBT roles. And yet, noone is willing to stand up to this bullshit- instead praising the actors and industry for it, when there’s plenty of openly LGBT actors out their looking for work, or ones to scared to come out of the closet who could do it.

  • Michael


    OMG I am beyond appreciative and thrilled to see people actually UNDERSTAND it finally.

    Look I dont think everyone is homophobic that would be mental if I did.But just as Jamie said its the TONE in which a person says these things that gets me.Things can be taken out of context I understand that but the context in which someone says it matters.Ive noticed some people here claim that because you get an inkling or even a clue as to if a person is homophobic or not that it makes us whiny? My question is how does that make sense? I can read people pretty well and ive always been able to pick up on things there are some celebs out there who many gays love but I dont because I do not trust them.I mean part of the problem is some of us automatically assume that a person is gay friendly just because they claim they have been with another guy or whatever it is they claim.That’s the thing though a person can easily say whatever they want to say as long as the other person believes it then that is all that matters to them. Ive even gone so far as to see online if any of these people say anything that is remotely gay friendly or compassionate and understanding…. nope its a rarity if I ever find anything about half the actors in hollywood much less singers etc…. Just because someone is good looking or claims they have gay friends does NOT automatically mean they are not homophobic or for that matter gay friendly.

    The politicians like Rick Santorum are an example of that truth.

  • Mr. Enemabag Jones

    Imagine if an openly gay actor had made sex with a woman seem this gross.

    I have never put my penis in a woman… I’ve never had a pussy on my cock, and I have no fucking desire for it. If that’s what you like, cool. But it doesn’t do it for me.

    Imagine the howls of derision from liberal Hetllywood.

  • Lucas

    @Michael: I said that. Jamie argued otherwise. Don’t give the nutcases credit.

  • Ralph H

    His personal life is none of our business!

  • Michael


    My bad I meant to say what YOU said about tone not Jamie damn fast typing .

    Exactly there are some supposedly gay friendly folk out there that the LGBT community supports who have said crap like Tom has as well.

    I never will understand that though.I mean why would someone support much less think someone is gay friendly when they use derogatory insulting and hateful comments like Tom Hardy has used?The thing I can’t stand are how cowardly these people are if you have a problem with just admit it flat out.Nothing worse then a liar … well except a homophobe but that ones a given.

    A person with class and refinement who was actually GAY FRIENDLY and intelligent would have responded with class and respect for the LGBT community.He didn’t though however and then you get jumped all over for simply disagreeing with other people about whether he is homophobic or not.I think he is no question or doubt in my mind about it.Apparently though it means you are automatically a whiny gay just because you perceive someone to be homophobic you learn something new everyday.

    It reminds me of certain celebs like Alec Baldwin hes supposedly gay friendly yet he got off on calling someone a rude queen and he used it intentionally in a derogatory way.I was nice to him on twitter and confronted him about it as respectfully as I possibly could last week.He never responded to what I wrote and ignored it basically. It would not surprise me either if he wasnt as gay friendly as people perceive him to be.I mean look at the way he treated his own daughter years ago that became such a huge controversy.

    We just need to be careful who we trust in this community we need to know whether a person is with us or against us.Otherwise thats the same thing as supporting and liking someone who would rather crap on us and our rights then actually care about us and our rights as human beings.

  • Marie Cohn

    Hardy likes to come across as a total chav, but he’s got a posh public school background, in which all the Harry Potters diddle with each other.

  • jamie


    Wow! “Words have ‘tone'”? Gee, I never learned that at Andover or Yale. So much for an Ivy League education. LOL! It’s incredibly generous of you to insult me because of your lack of persuasive skills. Really, I’m touched by your magnanimity. Instead of presenting a reasoned argument, you rely on ad hominem attacks! Brilliant! Your arguing skills were obviously honed in the finest prep school and university. Who needs the Socratic method when a pithy, cliched insult will do?


    The guy admits to having had same sex flings when he was younger but not having anal because it wasn’t his thing. Big deal. There are plenty of straight men who won’t perform oral sex on their girlfriends. As for the ick factor about anal sex, so what! Not all gays are into it. Frankly, who wants deal with all that Santorum? I hear that it’s hell to get out of the sheets! That said, lots of sex acts are repulsive to lots of people. Take the missionary position. Having to look into the face of one’s partner? It’s just barbaric! Why would want to look at the twisted facial contortions of another?

    I don’t see any reason for losing sleep about what some actor says about his sex life or his lack of adventure. Hardy is British. He comes from a different culture.

    Get a life.

  • vixlad

    Of course these gay porn actors are bisexual or gay men. they are just liars or in denial because of the stigma that comes with being a out gay man. its like grownup who sleeps with underage boys or girls, when confronted, will say something like: “I’m not a child molester, but I like sleeping with little girls or boys” would you believe him? Come on!

  • vixlad

    @Michael: Of course these gay porn actors are bisexual or gay men. they are just liars or in denial because of the stigma that comes with being a out gay man. its like grownup who sleeps with underage boys or girls, when confronted, will say something like: “I’m not a child molester, but I like sleeping with little girls or boys” would you believe him? Come on!

  • Michael


    Understandable that some people do not like certain things.That is just human nature I agree with that .But the context is the problem with this whole thing otherwise why is it that men who happen to be actors and happen to be gay friendly are very polite about it ?

    The way Tom responded was as if he was sickened repulsed and disgusted by that image.The problem with that though is within homophobic culture thats exactly how most of these macho straight guys would react also.

    I applaud the dude for not taking back what he said and being comfortable enough to not bash us for being what we are.But it still stands to reason that he could have easily responded in a less abrasive manner then he did.What he responded with was insulting and derogatory no matter how someone attempts to justify it.

    I don’t understand why he just didnt say anything about it at all and just go on about his business in the first place.

    I also have to disagree there have been other people who have claimed to be gay and slept with men but yet years later they pretend like they didnt say it or deny it profusely.

    I remember a specific actor I believe from Britain who denies he’s gay to this day yet years ago he claimed he WAS gay in an interview.Maybe someone can refresh my memory it was in Queerty not long ago.

    Also I am not here to insult anyones intelligence or talk to them just because I may not agree with their opinion.We can find ways to still be respectful to one another despite whether we agree or do not agree with one another period.

  • Keke

    he does nothing for me, ugly tats and all.
    I hope he gets his teeth fixed with all this new fond fame, and he’ll be
    able to smile once in while.
    then maybe I can picture him giving me head, instead of shred

  • grendel


    jamie, old man, don’t you know? we call it “New Haven.” Never the Y word.

    Lucas was way out of line, but why take the bait? You just undermine any point you’re trying to make when you engage in that kind of gross name-dropping. (I guess you’d call it “vulgar?”)

  • Michael

    Crap meant to write talk down to them I messed up stupid typo.

  • Timmmeeeyyy!!!

    He clearly needs to stop listening to his publicist.

  • Rashid

    Shoes? Screw you.

  • Dave

    When’s this guy going to come out as being bisexual?

  • jamie


    It’s called satire.

  • vixlad

    @<a hour @Dave:I wonder the same thing. Its quite obvious he’s bisexual or gay, but his handlers won’t probably won’t let him live his truth.

  • Interesting

    @vixlad: Hollywood still thinks people careers are over becaue theya re gay. There are now several stars like this. More out earlier in their career before Hollywood than they are now that they are in Hollywood.

  • shannon

    WHO THE HELL CARES???????? This is bi/gay….but he is DISGUSTING looking!!!!! Please do not say he is “hawt”….he is not!!! YUCK………

  • ophu

    I think it’s a mistake to assume that all gay men like anal sex.

  • Christian

    Disappointing, to the say the least. I thought highly of him when he made that comment about having had relations with men. I thought “Finally!. An actor bold and secure enough to be honest about his sexual past with men. If we had more actors like Hardy, it could open up the doors for men, gay, bi or straight, to happily discuss any relations they’ve had with other men without feeling like they were somehow tainted. Without it affecting their careers in any way.” But then he had to jack-ass it up with this comment. Now that Christopher Nolan is helping him gain some recognition, all of a sudden the idea of gay sex repulses him and the whole world has to know! What a surprise. Yet another actor going back in the closet as soon as the A-list beckons. Disgraceful.

  • Lefty

    @Someone: Go and suck a cock, you’ll feel so much better. :)

  • Mykey

    A lot of guys don’t do anal! I for one have never done it (at least not yet), with my boyfriend (he’s not a big fan either) or anyone for that matter and it’s no big deal!

  • Someone

    @Lefty: Trust me, sucking cock , stirring p00p in another man’s dirty filthy sh!thole and licking feces only makes gays like you feel better, p00p is your oxygen not mine. I am not interested in stuffing my cock into AIDS infected sh!thole. and its not my fault p00p doesn’t excite me sexually.

  • Blake J

    @Someone: needs to get bent!

  • Lefty

    @Someone: Sure you are. That’s why you’re here. :)

  • JoeyO'H


  • Lefty

    @Someone: Eww, you sound kinky.

  • Secure Straight Men Aren't Homophobes

    @Someone: Me thinks the lady doth protest too much. Come on girl, you know you’re masturbating as you are typing out your swill of self-hating, closet-case bile.

  • Chad

    There is nothing hateful about what he said! In fact most gay men would agree with him. U people need to get over the fact that decent people ARE COMPLETELY DUSGUSTED with smelly, dirty, disease infested fecal matter!!! Liking such filth is not a litmus test for whether someone is gay or not. It’s a shame that the attitudes shown on by the comments here should take offense to someone who rejects something so disgusting. U guys represent the lowest of the low and thats coming from someone who is gay!!

  • Chad

    There is nothing hateful about what he said! In fact most gay men would agree with him. U people need to get over the fact that decent people ARE COMPLETELY DISGUSTED with smelly, dirty, disease infested fecal matter!!! Liking such filth is not a litmus test for whether someone is gay or not. It’s a shame that the attitudes shown on by the comments here should take offense to someone who rejects something so disgusting. U guys represent the lowest of the low and thats coming from someone who is gay!!

  • Someone

    @Lefty: you gotta try it with your boyfriends or in one of your bathroom meetings with complete strangers, will help a bunch, hot steel always scares the sh!t out of bacteria and viruses,

  • Lefty

    @Chad: Hey dude, I’m with you! I think it’s disgusting!!!! That hole just wasn’t designed for no dick, you know what I be sayin bro!? I mean, sure I be sticking my thing in my girlfriend’s shit chute but you know she’s not a dyke!!! Lolz. And I like puttin it in her mouth too loz, but… who don’t like that shit!? Lol, you get me bro? Not that I’m gay talking to yu on a gay site, i aint no homphob but that shit’s wrong. :(

  • Lefty

    I don’t mind the gays I just wish they wouldn’t keep shoving it down our throats.
    Eyethangyew, I’m here all week…

  • Lefty

    @Someone: Do you go and sit down alone in gay clubs and @Someone: “The ‘doth protest’ speech again “rolls eyes”

    So you spend a lot of time on gay sites, then? Haha.

  • Michael


    You need to get a grip dude for real.Its always priceless when homophobes HATE the gays yet you sure did take your time FINDING this site just so you could comment on it.Gee I wonder why something must have peaked your interest no question about it.Me thinks you have this stuff on YOUR mind as well.Once again I wonder why .Any secure *ahem* STRAIGHT guy comfortable in their own skin does not give a flying fuck what 2 consenting adults do with one another whether they are same sex or opposite sex.Please find a way to be comfortable within your own skin and stop concerning yourself about what the gays do.Once again its curiouser and curiouser how you homophobes ALWAYS seem to comment on sites like this yet you HATE the gays? Gee that sure makes a lot of logical sense doesn’t it? :)

  • Chad

    @Lefty: @Lefty: @Lefty: Anal sex is just as gross whether it’s hetro or homo. U doing this with ur girl is just as repulsive. Just sayin.

  • Lefty

    @Chad: Hey man, any hole’s a goal…

  • Mr. Enemabag Jones


    I know this is queer site and this won’t get posted…

    Looks like you were wrong.

    Considering what you’ve written here, you’re probably use to being wrong, though.

  • Lefty

    @Someone: “I don’t even know how I ended up on this site…”


  • Lefty

    @Someone: I hate to break this to you, dear, but humans are animals. :(
    Did they not teach you that in biology?

  • Mike in Asheville

    @Aaron: No, Aaron, he said he used to into experimenting. Now that he’s in his 30s, he has moved beyond experimenting with men. That means he is into women, ie, straight.

    Hardy’s now done with experimenting with guys/into women, is the very typical response found in the Kinsey Report — many males have experimented with other males in their youth, but, as they mature, remain attracted to women only. Certainly the Kinsey Report is not the be-all but it remains the most far-reaching report on male sexuality (and female sexuality in Volume 2).

  • Michael


    Wow you are braindead apparently. You actually think you are an intellectual here as if you know all about what us GAYS think and do in our lives?


    Your illogical statements would have made more sense if you would not have intentionally come over to THIS SITE a GAY SITE to begin with.Sorry your brain does not function the way normal peoples does but thats a problem you need to take up with your psychiatrist.

    When did I say gay was an insult you idiot? Nope the only one it insults are people like YOU the ones who fear the word or the ones who are even uncomfortable by the word.

    You’re the one with issues not me and not anyone who is gay for that matter.Please grow up and grow a brain while you are at it if you call fighting to be treated equally and like human beings an AGENDA paranoid one then you are damn right that is OUR AGENDA.

    Psych ward is waiting for you they have little blue pills you can take that will help you with your…. problem. :)

  • Mike in Asheville

    @Chad: @Lefty: VERY VERY FEW men and women, gay and straight, are into scat at all. And for the many many many gay men into anal sex, we use douches to wash up very nicely so we can enjoy ourselves. You two are repulsive in both your characterizing those of us who enjoy safe CLEAN anal sex, and are way too into describing dirty sex to not be somehow in some fucked-up way fascinated by it.

    Just Google any off color sex act/fetish [scat, piss, farm animals, bondage, slavery, etc.] and you will find as many, if not more, heterosexual website than gay/lesbian ones.

    Was is not Bill Clinton who used a cigar with Monica? That’s you weirdo straights, not us anal gays.

  • Michael


    Hilarious what a hypocrite you are btw.What are you trying to attempt here stupid to make straights look better then gays?Some are awesome this is true no question about it…. others not so much.

    Especially considering there are more divorces domestic violence abuse infidelity polygamy child abuse sexual abuse rape child molestors and so many other things within the heterosexual community and within most of their marriages as well.

    Nice try biased one care to try again? :)

  • Lefty

    @Someone: It’s a good job you’re not a nutter. :)

  • Lefty

    @Someone: If you’d paid attention in biology you might have a better understanding of the world. :)

  • Cam

    So his publicists have told him that being a bottom is somehow MORE gay than sucking dick.

  • Lefty

    @Someone: “• The Gay Report, published by homosexual researchers Jay and Young in 1979, revealed that 73 percent of homosexuals surveyed had at some time had sex with boys 16 to 19 years of age or younger.5 (5. K. Jay and A. Young, The Gay Report (New York: Summit Books, 1979), p. 275. )”

    16 to 19 = “boys”?? Please.

    The rest of your quotes are either from religious kooks like Reisman or Freund who actually did a lot to decriminalise homosexuality. His figures are hardly surprising given the fact the age of consent was much higher for gay people, so anyone engaging in sex with young men were deemed paedophiles.
    Why not put a chunk of your post into Google – the results are strictly limited to crazy religio-fascist forums masturbating over themselves at all these terrible gays and what we get up to. Much as you are here. :(

  • Michael


    Stfu already anti gay troll no one cares nor is interested in anything you have to say.

    But since your pathetic attempt at trying to once AGAIN paint gay americans as pedophiles has failed.I will fix that.

    Pedophiles pray on children gay americans do not do that and even if there were some who did that the fact that you are stupid enough to attempt to paint EVERYONE who is gay with that same brush once again proves your own bias dipshit . :)

    Ever watched TO CATCH A PREDATOR btw dumbfuck? Didn’t think so you never see any gay men on that show but you sure as fuck definitely see STRAIGHT men on there constantly.

    Nice try with your AGENDA homophobe but you have failed miserably people like you ALWAYS attempt to use bigotry and ignorance in order to prove some kind of lame illogical point about us bad ole gays. Like I said grow a brain moron you definitely do not have one.

    LOL wow you really are a fucking moron .Do you not notice that YOU are the one bringing up poop and shit like that? None of us have gee makes ya wonder you must be into scat thats obvious since you keep BRINGING IT UP DUH.:)I have no interest in shit nor do I have any interest in knowing how STRAIGHT you are or claim you are.Hilarious thing is half the gay community finds people like you disgusting not the other way around.Im not into pussy not my thing Im definitely TALKING to a pussy though :)

  • Lefty

    @Cam: “Designed”???

    Ah, the penny drops: we’re not just dealing with an ordinary nutjob, we have a 24-carat-gold-the-earth-is-flat-and-we’re-all-going-to-hell religious nutjob.
    If you’re honestly convinced by your arguments then why the need to use mutiple names (Chad/Someone) or hijack other user’s names (Cam)? Says it all.
    Like I said: go and suck some cock, you’ll feel so much better. :)
    Which is just what I’m off to do right now. Yum.

  • Lefty

    @Me!: “Homosexuals claim that “heterosexuals” molest most
    children but statistics show that homosexuals molest at far
    higher rates than do heterosexuals.”

    The statistics you quote yourself contradict what you’re trying to prove:

    “Drs. Freund and Heasman of the Clark Institute of Psychiatry in Toronto reviewed two studies
    on child molesters and calculated that 34% and 32% of the sex offenders were homosexual. In
    cases these doctors had handled, 36% of the molesters were homosexuals. (Freund, K.
    “Pedophilia and Heterosexuality vs. Homosexuality,” Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 1984;

    Surely even you understand that 34% isn’t a majority???
    I wonder how many sex offenders are religious. Do you suppose the high level of religious paedos means that religious people are the most likely group to molest children?
    Anyway, it seems that all the homophobic crap that’s been posted on here today is all from the same person using multiple names. How fucking sad is that???
    Hope you sort yourself out, whoever you are. :)
    I’m off out for some juicy cock. Byeeeeee.

  • Lefty

    @We!: Professor Henry Adams at the University of Georgia conducted a major study in the 1990s, where he took several groups of men who identified as heterosexual and expressed hostility to gays, and wired them up so the blood flow to their penises could be monitored. He then showed them gay porn — and some 80 percent became aroused. He concluded that since “most homophobes demonstrate significant sexual arousal to homosexual erotic stimuli”, anti-gay hatred is probably “a form of latent homosexuality.”


    Take care now x

  • Mike in Asheville

    HEY QUEERTY — IT IS MUCH MORE THAN A TROLL PROBLEM HERE: Now there is a Family Research Council wingnut under names ME! WE! YOU! SOMEONE CAM (though Cam has been hikacked because Cam regularly posts comments that are not wingnutty)

    Bet they are all from same IP // cut em off, please.

  • Lefty

    @Lefty: In the experiment, psychologists at Northwestern University and the Center for Addiction and Mental Health in Toronto used advertisements in gay and alternative newspapers to recruit 101 young adult men. Thirty-three of the men identified themselves as bisexual, 30 as straight and 38 as homosexual.

    The researchers asked the men about their sexual desires and rated them on a scale from 0 to 6 on sexual orientation, with 0 to 1 indicating heterosexuality, and 5 to 6 indicating homosexuality. Bisexuality was measured by scores in the middle range.

    Seated alone in a laboratory room, the men then watched a series of erotic movies, some involving only women, others involving only men.

    Using a sensor to monitor sexual arousal, the researchers found what they expected: gay men showed arousal to images of men and little arousal to images of women, and heterosexual men showed arousal to women but not to men.

  • timeye

    I am gay, do not do anal, no desire for it. I have a straight married friend who loves dildos. So there.

  • crowebobby

    @Interesting: I lived in Rome from 1970 to 1979 and had sex with hundreds of guys who considered themselves totally straight. Whatever they liked to do, it was the other thing that queers did. And if they were fine with both oral and anal, then it kissing that made you a faggot. It worked for them; I wish it had worked for the rest of the world’s hot young guys . . . though I’m too old for it make any difference to me now.

  • anonj

    With all due respect to the people calling this man homophobic, he only said he doesn’t enjoy anal sex. Stephen Fry said the same thing in his documentary “Out There” when he spoke to a Ugandan Pastor, preferring “mutual masturbation”. The language Hardy uses is just his London laddish dialect. He’s still admitted to having some relationships with other men which is more than can be said of many other actors who are so in the closet they’ve fallen into a kind of media blackout Twilight Zone. I’d rather Hardy be up front about his attitudes like this, more importantly his tastes, than pretend anything else is the case. And, as a closeted bisexual myself, I can completely understand why he wants to clear up previous misunderstandings. As stated by psychologists and sociologists alike, you fall onto a spectrum.

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  • brooklynbobby

    @jamie: I so agree with you! Everyone feels so comfortable reading what they want into things he said. Things that they are reading and are so easy to manipulate in your brain to sound a thousand different ways. Just the idea that he said anything positive at all is interesting to me. So when he was pushed to elaborate (and this is just conjecture because all we are seeing is a few lines from an interview) he just said what he wasn’t into. I know plenty of gay guys that aren’t into anal. I have never suggested to them that they should turn in their Homo Club Cards! LOL Boys get over yourselves. You are whiney!!! Haven’t we literally spent decades for people to do what they want to do with their bodies and make their own decisions?? And then you take someone to task because they “don’t go all the way”?!??! HORRORS!!!
    Maybe he is saving it for the “right one”? LOL Chill boys chill you are getting your panties in a bunch over absolutely nothing.

  • Clark35

    @Vinny: Well said. There’s nothing homophobic about how he said he does not have or has never done anal sex.

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