Three years after allegations of repeated and unwanted online sexual banter were made against Philly-based drag queen Mimi Imfurst (Braden Chapman), two men have come forward with stories of real-life encounters with the performer that left them feeling violated.
It all started when two local up-and-coming Philly drag queens, Kyle Ayotte and Ethan Hunter Raysor, accused Imfurst of the unwanted sexual chatting. They claimed there were more victims but that they feared being “blacklisted” by the city’s most famous drag queen if they dared to speak up.
In response, Chapman told Philidelphia that he “deeply regreted” his “ongoing late-night sexual conversations that involved in-depth and often exaggerated cyber role play that although was welcomed by some has made others uncomfortable and used.”
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Now this week, another member of the Philadelphia LGBTQ community, Jimmy Boone, has taken to Facebook to accuse Imfust of sexual assault.
“After almost six years of thinking ‘Should I say something?’ or ‘Will anyone actually care?’…. I’ve come to the conclusion that I need to share one of my first experiences in the ‘Local Drag Scene,’ he wrote, going on to explain that he and his boyfriend, Joseph Cassise II, had agreed to be unpaid extras in one of Imfurst’s music videos.
“Joey hadn’t even performed in drag yet, and the gig was for us to be guys in our bathing suits around the pool. We get to the house in Cherry Hill, NJ where the video is being filmed and wait for Mimi to be ready. Once Mimi was ready to go, she came out of the sliding glass door of the house, walked down the deck right to where Joey and I were standing.
“She looked me up and down and then proceeded to fondle my genitals through my bathing suit and held on until she was able to feel every part she wanted to. While she did this, she very flirtatiously asked ‘…and who are you?’”
Like Ayotte and Raysor, Boone says he feared being blacklisted in the local drag scene if he spoke up.
In an interview with Instinct, Boone says he decided to share his story after he discovered he wasn’t the only one to feel violated by Imfurst.
“Her grabbing people’s crotches and grabbing genitalia used to be a part of [local drag competition] Philly Drag Wars, so it almost was like an accepted part of the culture.”
“I do not want or need an apology,” he adds. “I have already moved past it in that sense…I don’t wish harm on her or wish her to lose jobs, but she has proven that when she is in a position of power, that power is abused. I don’t think she should be in any position of power. Unfortunately, what she is doing and the events with Live Nation put her in a position of power.”
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Imfurst issued a flat-out denial, telling Instinct:
“Jimmy Boone’s allegations are 100% false. I have had numerous altercations with Jimmy since Fall 2018. He has demonstrated a constant pattern of trying to undercut my business, at any cost. This lie is just another desperate attempt as he seeks professional gain for his own company.”
However, a second accuser has shared a similar story that seems to back up Boone’s account.
Drag queen Miss Troy said:
“I had met Braden (Imfurst) after one of the shows. At this point, I had never heard anything negative about Mimi & had only known her from TV. My boyfriend at the time was talking to Mimi and shortly after speaking, she leaned in and kissed him. I walked up as she was doing it, and then she grabbed me, leaned in and kissed me too; it was kind of weird.”
To these claims, Imfurst called Troy a “troubled person with a history of maliciousness.”
“I admit that I have acted inappropriately in the past,” Imfurst continued in her response. “It was embarrassing and hurtful to others; I owned up to my behavior and I have apologized. It is something that I think about every single day with remorse as I strive to be a better person.
“That being said I refuse to apologize for the lies from two angry cis white male competitors, trying to weaponize petty drag drama and my polarizing drag character to co-opt some of the most important social justice movements of our lifetime for their own personal gain and vendetta.”
Earlier this year, Drag Race season 12 contestant Sherry Pie (Joey Gugliemelli) admitted to sexual misconduct and was disqualified from the show.
dougmbaaser
Ridiculousness. Lets make drag queens perform on a stage 8 feet in the air and lip sinc to preapproved Celine Dion songs in full length gowns only. IT. IS. A. DRAG. SHOW. it is supposed to be ribald.
ShiningSex
Mimi is ridiculous but that’s another story. If she grabbed your crotch, why didn’t you instantly say, “don’t do that”?
If you allow someone to do that and don’t immediately stop them, then you’re allowing them to think it’s ok to do so with others.
Speak up THEN and stop it THEN.
Now you just sound bitter about something. Not to say assault in the gay community doesn’t occur, but say something then and have those held accountable for their behavior.
Annaronimo
This right here is why sexual assault victims seldom speak up. Don’t underestimate imbalanced of power and its power to silence you. I had a boss once who would rub up against you in the store room, claiming the space was tight. It wasn’t. I would speak up now, but 20s me didn’t feel they could for fear of backlash.
Cam
Yes, if only rape victims had said “no” then that rapist would never have raped anyone else. (Eye roll)
Rock-N-RollHS
@ Cam. Grabbing a crotch is rape? What are you 12?
Cam
@Rock-N-RollHS
Sweetie, if you’re going to try to troll, do better. They said if somebody said something as it happened, that would stop it. I pointed out that that doesn’t work with some people.
ShowMeGuy
After learning of all the backstabbing, sabotage, under-the-table dealings, feuds, and falsehoods which were running rampant within the local drag community of the burg where I live….. with nobody being “famous”…… I smell shenanigans oozing all over this situation.
Imjustsaying
Braden Chapman is a HE.
jackscott
People need to speak up at the time of the event. Stop all this happened 5,7,9… years ago. If a person grabs you and tries to feel you up or kiss you…push him away, yell at him, etc. Own your actions. Not saying something in the moment and waiting years to tell a story is a waste of time! Seems like someone is just desperate for attention!
SalForth
You clearly have a very narrow view of how human behavior operates. It’s not that simple. If people were able to speak up in the moment things would be a lot different. But our thoughts and emotions are WAY more complex than being able to process sexual harassment in the moment. A battle starts to happen inside your mind and you start to tell yourself nothing happened and then you suppress it. It’s usually not until years later that something may trigger a memory or understand that what you experienced was indeed harassment.
IanHunter
Stop. If you’re sexually assaulted report it immediately. Don’t wait years just so you can get money.
SalForth
So glad you have it all figured out! I truly hope you never have to experience sexual harassment. If you do, please tell me how you were able to process it in that exact moment and have the wherewithal to define it immediately. Give me a break.
Cam
“”“That being said I refuse to apologize for the lies from two angry cis white male competitors,””
LOL!!!! Oh is THAT what Mimi is trying? Mimi’s name is Braden Chapman, and guess what. He’s a cis-white male also! Trying to avoid backlash by misdirection is just sad.
Mimi, sweetie, what did Dorian Corey say about trying to shade someone for being the exact same thing you are?
ryeguypdx
Given that these guys could easily take this up with Braden on their own time, confront him about dick-grabbing, and hash it all out, i think this is some particular bullshit:
“I do not want or need an apology,” he adds. “I have already moved past it in that sense…I don’t wish harm on her or wish her to lose jobs, but she has proven that when she is in a position of power, that power is abused. I don’t think she should be in any position of power. Unfortunately, what she is doing and the events with Live Nation put her in a position of power.”
They’re not coming for his jobs, guys, they’re just coming for his power, which by the way, comes from his job. Makes perfect sense.
I’ve also been “assaulted” at this benign level, and even thought about saying something to the guy, but not on Facebook, Jesus, let alone in a national magazine?!? Just casually ruining people’s lives, no big deal. You grabbed my dick 7 years ago, so I’m ruining your life today. Fair is fair, right?
This is not to say that rape and sexual assault are not very serious matters. They are.
Mimi Imfurst grabbing your dick by a pool, not so much.
ta2t2o
Glad none of these folks were around the gay scene back in the 90s. Being gay would’ve sucked. I used to get grabbed all the time in bars and clubs. There’s a certain hyper-sexuality that went with being gay then. But when a touch or grope or kiss (really…a kiss? Don’t gay men greet each other with kisses anymore?) bothered you at the time, then you addressed it then.
Rape is never ok, but in the hyper-sexual gay scene, there was a distinct difference between rape and these gropes, touches or kisses. When they weren’t welcomed, we just stated it and moved on.
Rock-N-RollHS
LOL. Please.
Rock-N-RollHS
If I had a $1 for every time a drag queen grabbed my goods, I’d be RICH! Oh the trauma!
Victims victims everywhere. How DO they get up in the morning. . .
AmberLeMay
As an experienced crotch-grabbing drag queen, one should be able tell if the actions are well received or not and act accordingly.