Origin story

Which two musical icons met inside a gay bathhouse?

Baz Luhrmann’s Moulin Rouge — along with Christina Aguilera, Lil’ Kim, Mya and Pink, of course — put “Lady Marmalade” up on the charts in 2001, but Nona Hendryx had a lot to do with that story.

Hendryx was a member of the soul trio Labelle, and they scored a major #1 hit with the original version of “Lady Marmalade” in 1974.

And would you believe it? This legendary performer has a good story or two from back in the day, like how she met another diva in what now seems like the unlikeliest of places — a gay bathhouse.

For the uninitiated, the Continental Baths opened their basement doors in 1968 at the Ansonia Hotel on New York City’s Upper West Side.

The sprawling sexual Xanadu offered unencumbered sexual contact in an era when that was hard for gay men to come by.

But it also offered a thumping disco, a tchotchke shop, library, juice bar, barber shop, café, gym, a health clinic (where you could get tested for STDs) and live entertainment.

And it is because of that offering, in the piano cabaret nestled in the bathhouse, that Hendryx met another up-and-coming artist eager to book gigs in whatever form they came — Bette Midler.

Related: Rare Footage Captures Bette Midler’s 1971 Farewell Performance At NYC Gay Bathhouse

Hendryx recently shared the story with the NY Post:

I like to get all over Manhattan and see people performing in various venues. I saw my old friend Bette Midler recently in “Hello, Dolly,” and she was wonderful. We first met at the Continental Baths (formerly in the Ansonia Hotel). It was a gay bathhouse that would have artists come and play there while guys watched wrapped in their towels — or not! I think that’s where she developed the moniker “The Divine Miss M.”

The Continental was the Studio 54 of its day—except that, next to Mick and Liza, were gay men in towels, either  coming from or going to have sex.

Learn more about this slice of queer history here.

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  • Texasholdem

    I’m assuming she’s the Nona that was in the lyrics for the song Midnight Radio from Hedwig and the Angry Inch.

    • Rabbit

      Nona is Nona Hendryx from LaBelle.

  • CalderBear

    Eh? Midler herself has spoken about this, and how Barry Manilow was her pianist.

  • Danny595

    Other great meetings that happened in bathhouses:

    Hepatitis A and Hepatitis B
    HIV-1 and HIV-2
    Syphilis and gonohrrea
    Giardiasis and amoebiasis

    • DCguy

      David Geffen and Keannu Reeves? Zak Efron and Tom Cruise?

    • Bromancer7

      Sigh… good times!

      I’d gladly suffer thru any (or all) of them if it meant never having to read any more of your batshittery. I can only imagine that having sex with a fleshlight is more enjoyable than with you.

    • PinkoOfTheGange

      yes Danny sex is icky.

    • Danny595

      PinkoOfTheGange –
      Sex is awesome when it’s with someone you live. Loveless sex with complete strangers, inside a commercial cesspool of disease, is icky.

    • Bromancer7

      Thankfully there are millions of gay men that disagree with you.

  • Bradsman

    I thought this was going to be a story of how Bette met Barry.

  • Kangol

    I figured someone would mention but since no one did, Nona Hendryx also is an out-bi woman, and has advocated for LGBTQ equality for decades.

    • JED08

      Truth. She is awesome.

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