“My husband’s been messaging a random guy,” the 39-year-old wife begins. “When I asked about him he insisted it was innocent. He said they were talking about Lady Gaga as they are both fans and offered to show me the messages to prove it.”
The woman continues, “My husband says it is sad I have such little faith in him and he doesn’t know how I can expect him not to talk to anyone. I replied that I don’t think it’s OK for him to start randomly messaging a gay guy.”
Now, she wonders: “Am I being over-sensitive and overreacting?”
Deidre keeps the response very short and to-the-point, writing, “Since he is openly texting this guy in front of you, then you don’t have anything to worry about.”
She adds, “You are the one he loves and that he wants to be with you. It’s your own insecurities causing the problem.”
Then she encourages the distressed woman to learn “how to deal with your insecurities more positively.”
Our advice: Maybe this woman should consider taking her husband to a Lady Gaga show?
The House of Gucci star, who is currently nominated in the Badass category in the 2022 Queerties, recently announced that she’ll be returning to Las Vegas for nine more dates of her Jazz & Piano residency at Park MGM theater Dolby Live.
The shows will span April 14 through May 1 and will “celebrate her love of the Great American Songbook” in addition to featuring selections from Love for Sale, her Grammy-nominated collaborative album with Tony Bennett.
Lady Gaga Jazz & Piano ?? Returning to Las Vegas this Spring at @ParkMGM’s Dolby Live!
Sign up to receive the Little Monsters pre-sale code at https://t.co/jnMYUgDoRu for early ticket access tomorrow ?
Tickets go on sale to the public Friday at 10am PT ? pic.twitter.com/9H247jrZHF
— Lady Gaga (@ladygaga) January 31, 2022
Voting in the 2022 Queerites runs now through February 22, and remember — you can vote once per day in each category. The winners will be presented at the Queerties Live Event on March 1, 2022.