Xem, we did not know you were in a relationship! We also did not know that your lover “Tiger” of the better part of a year is still posting photos and updating his online profile on a cruising site.
Sad face.
Last time we saw Xem Van Adams, he was hitting on a Target security guard. But apparently, the guy he is seeing — who Xem refuses to upgrade to his “boyfriend” — takes his indiscretions many steps further. Or at least is giving Xem plenty of reason to think so.
So here’s our blanket piece of universal wisdom: If you’re partner doesn’t acknowledge you on their online social profiles, and continues to actively use the cruise-ier ones out there, things are going down the shitter. Fast.
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But also: If you’ve been seeing someone for nearly a year, and refuse to become their exclusive partner and use the B-word, then, uh, yeah, the guy is gonna keep looking for action elsewhere. And why should he tell the world about you when you can’t commit?
Especially when YOU’RE WEARING A T-SHIRT THAT SAYS “SINGLE.”
SouLKid
awww. The more i watch Xem, the more i like him. He’s adorable.
Adam
Too funny.
Chaz
*your
Joseph
who *IS* this screaming ll-cool-j-wannabe loser? i mean, he’s (sorta) cute but highly annoying (and completely full of himself). fail.
KB
A) Why was Xem looking on BGC in the first place, if it’s primarily a hook-up site?
B) Who cares about any of this, and why does anyone follow this loudmouth on Twitter or anywhere else?
Marc
Hmmm, well my last bf was playing around. He left his hotmail logged on and so you could ask me why I was on these “dating” sites as well but it was only to find all his profiles and see what communication he had been sending and receiving.
Other than that, you won’t find me on those sites. I’d rather be single and have been since kicking his slutty ass to the proverbial curb!
drifter
Dears, if he says his lodge is meeting every night, that means you must not be handling all of your “business” right.
Personally I would love to put Xem on all fours with his chest planted squarely on the floor after drinking two six packs and cant’t hold back no longer.
Fitz
There is monogamy and there are open relationships and then there are those where one person thinks it’s monogamous and the other thinks it’s open. lol
haji727
I am not concerned with him. I strongly that you go get yourself tested, then move on. There is no telling what this guy has been up too. If he lied to you one time, he will do it again. It is totally not worth it.
edgyguy1426
I love this guy and follow him on Twitter but they should have had the ground rules more clearly defined early on.
rhydderch
this dude is more annoying than sherri shepard. I’m curious why in the hell is Queerty promoting the shit out of his idiotic vlog. Only place I one to follow this guy is down a dark alley with a staple gun
Creed
sounds like his ex realized he was dating a loud-ass social climbing wannabe and wanted to get the fuck out of that *relationship*. Can’t blame the guy, Xem is a dumb fuck and those bulging eyeballs, creepy guido facial hair and tacky gold necklace gives me the heebie jeebies. Somebody needs to shove a handful of Xanax down his throat.
schlukitz
He’s a black version of Davey Wavey. LOL
Joseph
@ schlukitz OH. FUCKIN. PLEASE. That’s like comparing Rihanna to Cher. (Mix and match the colors, styles and ages to figure out what i mean.)
schlukitz
@ no. 14 – Joseph
Is it really worth the effort?
Joseph
No.