Get fit and keep up with Garçon Model’s Peter Ward in this latest installment of Garçon Model’s new video campaign. If you don’t know already, Garçon Model’s new video campaign follows Peter Ward through his life New York City as a Garçon Model. These videos discuss things such as his gym tips, favorite recipes and other things one may experience in the life of as male model in New York City.
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Xzamilio
Why is the core the only place most gay guys think they need to work out? We have asses… most of us use them to attract mates. You’d think there’d be beaucoup legs, thighs, and ass videos for that gay man that wants to keep that donk on fleek… and fleet.
BigG
Gym is for people with low self esteem
Glücklich
@BigG:
You keep telling yourself that. The rest of us prefer not to bring the tide in when we go to the beach.
Xzamilio
@Glücklich: Ooooh, somebody is bringing the shade to the beach, and the salt for the margaritas lol!!!
Glücklich
‘Course no beach for me. It’s been raining for days.
moldisdelicious
@Glücklich:
Actually, speaking as someone who has been going to the gym for 6 years, he has a legit point. There’s some people that go to the gym to be healthier in regards to staying fit and then there’s people that go to the gym to work out their ego. They basically are there for all the wrong reasons. You often hear the reasons why they started going to the gym is to basically attracted superficial people towards them who otherwise don’t give a fuck about them, guys who think that having muscles will get them dates or sex. Want to be macho men and etc, winning the approval of others. A lot of those guys need to seek out a therapist to help them develop positive self esteem instead of trying to fix their insecurities with added muscle.
moldisdelicious
@Xzamilio:
Well, unfortunately, we all know what is most likely to happen when we base ourselves off of our bodies and not deeper connections such as personalities. I prefer to attract people with my mind and my personality than my body. It most certainly avoids disappointment in the long run. I’m much more than a face or a body and unfortunately, it sucks to know that a lot of my gay peers don’t feel the same way and often sell themsleves short then wonder why they get no respect or are lonely.
Giuseppe Ferrazza
Yawn.
Milton Appleby
Sod off.
Matt Achine
@BigG @moldisdelicious: A movie theater has less projection than your comments. Loaded judgement is just as indicative of lacking self-esteem. Funny how it doesn’t cross your minds that looking good and being well adjusted can go together. I assume you never get a haircut or iron your clothes, since these things are so horribly superficial. Is it really too hard to compliment someone’s dedication? They could have just gotten plastic surgery instead of doing the hard work. Not everyone is into the Dadbod, and getting someone’s dick hard with your lovely mind is a stretch, get over it.
@Xzamilio Too many people forget to develop their entire body. I’ve seen many a great torso with scrawny legs under it. The funniest might’ve been Davy Wavy posting pics with a twink, captioned “booty,” & neither of ’em had one.
moldisdelicious
@Matt Achine:
Did you read what I wrote or are you just letting your insecurities out? Breh, you’re assuming that I’m out of shape when I said with my own words that Ive been in the gym for 6 years and actually have what I’ve been told by others to have a decent body. What I say is from experience and what I’ve seen with other people so you really can’t tell me shit. The well adjusted people are in the minority. A lot of gym guys that are all into their physique have issues and pretty much the gym is being used to overcompensate for that insecurity. This is why you have a lot of dudes that go to the gym and have the gym bods are quick to show off around other people their bodies because they want that validation and other people to make them feel special. When you been there and back, let me know. I wouldn’t be saying any of this if I never seen it with my own two eyes.
To me, I think that actually having to bw around shallow minded folks and having a body that these same guys are socially programmed to like is a curse because you find out just how many people are that fucked up in the head. I hear that guys are visual by nature but I also think that sadly, half of it is what they learn to be in society where folks don’t even know how to connect with someone and understand where they come from. Sad enough, it seems like almost all the guys that get it and have empathy are all in relationships. It’s downright embarrassing and one reason why I don’t even bother to interact with others within the gay community because I’ve come to accept that my peers really are that fucked up in the head. Why bother?
SonOfKings
@moldisdelicious: I am in the gym every other day and I actually agree with your observation. The majority of the body boys in there, gay and straight, are pretty douchey. But why not just go with the flow and use the situation to your own advantage? Surely you can get something out of this that will be useful for your purposes?
moldisdelicious
@SonOfKings:
I have. They basically make me strive to not be like them and to avoid spreading that culture around. Sadly, it’s not just the gym goers though that share that mentality. I sadly see it among gay guys who seem to have a problem in terms of engaging. It seems like being shallow is the norm. anything remotely substantive from these guys, you have to show some skin or they have to be attracted to you in order for them to even say something and they still don’t get it. It’s extremely frustrating. The irony is that these guys will be the first to cry foul when you give them the same treatment that they give you or call them out on their bullshit. Yet they think that it’s perfectly okay to objectify other people to the point where they are dehumanizing them.
moldisdelicious
@SonOfKings:
Thats one reason why I can’t support this whole encouragement of going to the gym or even the apps. Dudes forget that they are dealing with human beings. Not bodies. I refuse to believe that it’s in these guys nature. I see them communicating with women like they are humans so it’s just an intentional act. That’s why as I said, I don’t like engaging with other gay dudes.
notevenwrong
@moldisdelicious, so let me get this right. Working out is only okay if you pretend to do it for health, not for looking good…
That’s a very “Bonfire of the Vanities” kind of attitude. What’s wrong with making an effort to look good?
SonOfKings
@moldisdelicious: Yes, the world of men can be a Wild West of scoundrels, whores, liars, bullies, and thieves; but isn’t that what we signed on for when we ventured onto this rugged frontier? Don’t we have to adapt and find something to love in these thugs? Gay ain’t no tea party. It’s a brawl. There’s a thin line between fighting and ph**king.
SonOfKings
I accept the sour with the sweet. Sometimes from the same dude.
moldisdelicious
@SonOfKings:
It’s not about perfection. It’s about understanding, tolerance and respect. I am a human being and deserve to be treated like one. Not an animal or some object created to please another guy. I don’t treat other guys like that. I treat them like people. I guess because i’m used to dealing with guys as just friends where we make connections based on a mutual understanding, tolerance and respect for each other. I’ve found that this is usually not the case around gay people which to me is fucked up. I know it’s not something that is within folks nature either. They just learn to be that way from other people or how to be corrupted. I know that it’s not a way to go because it’s basically self destructive.
Glücklich
Oy vey! All this exchange for exercise! Go to the gym, don’t go to the gym, whatever. It’s a free country. I go because I like the results (so does my husband) and if I get a favorable response to them, that is the ROI of time I spend there. I get that it may be flawed people judged to be attractive tend to be treated better but being fit is a small effort on my part to add an advantage.