“A lot of laughing.” That what First Lady Michelle Obama says is the secret to her marriage to the “very romantic” president. “I think in our house we don’t take ourselves too seriously, and laughter is the best form of unity, I think, in a marriage. So we still find ways to have fun together, and a lot of it is private and personal. But we keep each other smiling and that’s good.” A lot of LOLing will totally give you the strength to laugh in the face of DOMA, AMIRIGHT?!