Former priest Philip Clements spent his life working for the Church of England. At 60, he retired from his job as a priest after deciding he could no longer hide who he truly was. Now, at 78-years-old, he just announced he’s marrying a man 54 years his junior.
“I knew what was happening inside me but threw myself into my work,” Clements tells Kent Live, reflecting on his time in the clergy. “I didn’t let it worry me, but I realized something was nagging at me.”
He continues, “I had some casual or brief relationships, but not a sexual physical relationship, as I knew the church’s stance.”
Eventually, he decided he wanted more from life. So he retired. Though he continued volunteering with the church part-time. That is, until 2015, when he was accused by a local bishop of being a pedophile, despite there being no complaints or evidence to substantiate the claims.
“It was very upsetting,” Clements says. “I’d never had any complaints nor would I ever want to do anything wrong to children. … I’m sure it was because of my sexuality. The church confuses the two issues.”
After that, he left for good.
“I don’t have the duty of the church left in me,” he says. “For the first time, I’ve made a personal decision in my life. Now it’s time to live how I want.”
And he couldn’t be happier.
Clements recently proposed to his boyfriend, 24-year-old Romanian model Florin Marin, who he met on a dating site and with whom he felt an immediate connection.
“There was nothing serious until I met Florin nearly two years ago,” he says. “I was looking for somebody to have a close relationship with as this is what I wanted.”
Marin says he’s not concerned about the 54 year age gap between him and his husband-to-be, telling Kent Live that he’s always been into older guys.
“From the young people I have dated in the past, I have learnt nothing,” he says.
Marin describes Clements as “kind, compassionate, respectful, and attractive.”
Clements says he hopes the Church of England evolves on how it views homosexuality, as well as how it treats homosexual clergy.
“The church has moved on a little, but not enough,” he says. “It’s paradoxical position in that lay members are allowed to have homosexual relationships and partners, but priests are forbidden from the same thing, which seems idiotic to me.”
“I’ve served the church faithfully and put the church first throughout my life,” he concludes. “Now, it’s time to spend my few remaining years of my life in a way I chose.”
h/t: Kent Live
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Florin got a ticket out of Romania. Priest got a rent boy for a few years. Sounds like a good deal for both.
Albert Smit
And of course some jackass has to make a negative comment. I don’t think Florin needed to “get a ticket out of Romania”. And why refer to him as a “rent boy”? When did YOU personally pay him for sex? If you don’t have anything positive to say, please don’t subject the rest of us readers to your bile.
ChrisK
Yep. Someone’s getting their green card.
CanadianGuy62
ChrisK…your ignorance is showing. The U.S. has “green cards,” the U.K. does not.
ChrisK
Whatever. Yeah, I’m sure it’s an equal relationship. He’s a lonely retiree and the other is a “model”. I’ll bet that they met on a site like Seeking Arrangements.
Persa
Except the actual fact is that they are moving to Romania to live and retired vicars don’t have any money so what else you got?
Deviant
Model? lol where?
ChrisK
Yeah, that’s the thing about models. Very easy to find their pictures and I couldn’t find one.
Jack Meoff
Any guy who appears in a porn movie or jerks off in front of a web cam calls himself a model these days. They’re a dime a dozen. Not saying that’s what this young guy has dine just that the word model is a very loose term these days.
NateOcean
Melania is an ex-model as well.
Neonegro
Yeah but she actually looks the part.
am_psi
So we’re pretending that this guy marrying somebody young enough to be his grandson isn’t gross? Is that the situation?
postit2014
Spot on! No matter how many ways u screw it. This is gross and reeks of a deeper issue (be it gay or straight). Grandpa should know better and him being a “prehistoric priest ” make it worse.
Luna1979
Apparently, but I’m pretty repulsed. sorry this guy took so long to come out, but gay is not retroactive.
BriBri
What a bunch of hateful queens! Grow up.
natekerchel
It’s very easy to be cynical about this story. The age difference is something that causes us to be uncomfortable – there are suspicions regarding the motivations of both people involved. I don’t know if he is a ‘model’ or not – it is irrelevant. What I do know is that he does not need a ‘green card’ or any similar item to live in the UK. He is from a country in the EU – and therefore entitled to live and work in the UK. I dont know if the former priest has any kind of private income – what I have been able to research is what he would be paid as a priest. Not a lot.
Maybe we have just become too cynical and look for motives that are not there. We have been hearing many times on here about ‘personal preferences’ – maybe that is just their personal preference. I I feel uncomfortable about the huge age difference, that is my issue – not theirs.
Hermes
Absolutely right.
fur_hunter
I hate to be the one to throw water on this fire, but……..’Something is rotten in the state of Denmark.’ I cannot imagine two people that far apart in age having ANYTHING in common. And don’t anyone say SEX.
For me to be the slightest bit interested in forming a major relationship with another, I have 3 things to inquire about. And I have to hear the correct responses.
1. Where were you when John Kennedy was shot? The wrong answer is: ‘I was not born yet.’
2. When I speak of Peter, Paul and Mary, I do not want to here. ‘Oh. Aren’t they people mentioned in the Bible?’
3. When I mention the Jefferson Airplane, I do not want to hear. “Is that a new airline?’
My mother told me that to have a meaningful relationship, you better be able to talk about things and have something in common. You can’t have sex 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. That will not work.
I have a feeling we will hear about this couple down the road…..and I don’t think it will be pretty.
Hermes
And so YOU should never have a relationship with anyone that far apart in age – but YOU should not judge what other people do. It’s fine that you do not choose to have breadth although you imagine depth – that does not make it your right to tell other people they cannot have breadth. Live your life – for the sake of the goddess you should have learned better than trying to live other peoples,’ just by being gay.
DCguy
So a “Model” like Calvin Klein or Marc Jacobs exes?
MediaGuy
Okay, it’s nobody’s business, but seriously, what in the world would these two have to talk about? I can’t imagine the older gent being interested in any of the conversations the young guy would engage in. And, it’s kinda gross to think of that saggy baggy body having sexual relations with a twenty something. IDK what’s going on here, but that marriage is going to flame-out sooner than expected.
heatstroke1981
Love happens in some really weird places. As long as it’s really there, we could all be so lucky.
Herman75
Some youngsters look for a partner they can call Daddy………or Grandaddy.
On a side note, what does a priest have in common with Walmart?
—————– Boys pants, half off.————————
Lance Mullholland
Tsk tsk – so serious and downright MEAN, this commentary!
I choose to think of the movie “Harold and Maude”.