This just in: Adam Lambert describes himself as a “multi-dater” which, let’s be honest, is really just a polite way of saying “player”, but he hasn’t given up hope of one day finding “something significant and monogamous.”
“I haven’t been in a relationship for about five years,” Lambert tells Gay Star News. “I’ve been working and traveling quite a bit so dating is temporary and transient.”
Always being on the road, the Ghost Town singer adds, really isn’t conducive to finding love.
“I could meet and really click with a special guy in whatever city I’m in for a few days, but then I have to continue to my next destination,” he says.
He continues, “What’s hard is attempting to see each other again–especially after just a first date. That’s a lot of expectation and pressure to place on someone. Flying to another country for a second date is understandably intimidating.”
Lambert made a similar comment earlier this year when he appeared on KISS FM’s The Kyle and Jackie O Show.
“Dating is a bit tricky when you’re moving around all the time I have to say,” he said at the time. “You can meet somebody great and then be like OK, I’m only here for three days I gotta go.”
Still, Lambert says today, there’s an “inner romantic” that lives inside of him that will always love will one day come knocking on his door.
“My inner romantic always hopes that I could meet someone and it would grow into something significant and monogamous,” he says.
So he’s not in a relationship and no plans right now for one. Umm.. Ok.
WOW !!! Thank you for an article update on the Pop Rock Phenomenon Adam Lambert. I am sure that the hustle of the music business makes it quite difficult to connect to a long lasting love relationship. Ultimately, for Adam, he would have to be someone who can somehow miraculously balance his job/ career with the very busy schedule of a long term Music Tour, be flexible in his availability without jeopardizing his own life interests, be loyal and sincerely devoted and be willing to meet Adam Lambert half way. If Adam is truly in love he will arrange, sacrifice and manage to do the same for him. More convenient would be to connect with someone who already travels and works with him in the first place. Adam Lambert is one of the most extraordinary Talents and Personalities in the Music Business Today. I will never forget seeing him live in concert in a sold out arena in Roanoke, Virginia several years ago. I’ve attended countless Rock Concerts throughout my 54 years of living and I name his Concert promoting “For Your Entertainment” as the Best Solid Performance ever as one of the most gripping, mesmerizing spectacles of showmanship I’ve ever seen. It still amazes me that he was a Newcomer at the time. With his Handsome looks, Charm and Spunk, I believe Mr. Lambert will eventually find Mr. Right. It baffles me that he hasn’t already.
I think it’s unfair to call him a “player”, especially given the negative connotations that come with a label like that. I completely understand where he’s coming from, and I didn’t move around nearly as much as him, in my past. And who knows, one of these “one time things”, could become someone that he’s able to come back around to, later in life, when he is ready to settle down. It’s also ok if he never settles down. It’s his life, and he can do whatever he wants with it. I’m poly, maybe Adam is, too. But also… there was no “big reveal”, here… ?
From a logistical standpoint I understand. He’s travelling everywhere which makes it very hard to have a stable relationship. Plenty of celebrities have divorced/broken up over the exact same issue. It’s hard for me to relate, being a peasant and all but I get it.
The thing is, guys exist out there who can be in relationships and not have to see the person frequently. They enjoy being with the guy while they are around but can deal with their partner being away for a few months. I’m one of those guys so Adam hit me up if you read this! 😉
only doing one night stands with these guys in every the city he tours
One minute 30,000 guys wants 3 hours later just you and the guy in the mirror. It takes a special breed to get to the point where you are in charge of your career. I would always have 3 or 4 friends in tow to not go crazy and start sticking sharp things in your arm
Bark famous people who are your age and orientation are much more like you than you want to realize
Lonely does not have a financial requirement
I modeled in Europe for a couple years. I had no use for the gay divas and they were not wild about me. After 4 shoots it was quit or get my lover to travel with me
I gave him $3000 a trip and the rest went on my company American Express. Some days the card would melt from abuse. It became an adventure we fucked on the Eiffel Tower. A ton of old cattles
We would hook up with 1 or 2 cute local boys catch a buzz hot sex then he could hang with us for a few days or leave.
Suprisingly most stayed and we spoiled the boy
New clothes a bank account with z%I would 00give him a lot of money for his country
Je was not a hustler but a boy looking for fun and he gets a bonud
Yeah, no “big reveal” in this episode. He’s not a player, to be a player you have to have the intent to love ’em and leave ’em. Adam just wants to have dinner and a one-night stand it appears…nothing wrong with that if both are on the same page. I’m sure he will settle down when the time is right, but traveling with Queen, writing and performing your own music, being on the judging panel of various competition shows he has a full plate! At least he honest about it…big reveal??!?
Sooooooo…..he’s not dating anybody but night someday? Careful with these shocking reveals, I might yawn myself to death. 😉
So Adam Lambert has discovered why entertainment personalities find it so difficult to find and maintain committed relationships… So what else is new? … RobtheElder
As the itinerant circus performers used to say, “I love ya honey, but the season’s over.”
Why is single and dating multiple men considered to be a “Player” ? A player is a guy who dates several people at the same time and keeps that part to himself…..Being single and dating multiple people at the same time is healthy and fun….but if asked (and if on a first date I would run lol) I would say yes…I date
Who is Adam Lambert again?
I will be slammed for this, but I am very tired of journalists using “reveal” incorrectly….regardless of general misuse of the VERB, this non-article should have been about a REVELATION!! (Headline feels, to me, like fingernails on a blackboard…does anyone know what I mean by that?)
Is there something wrong with a guy in every port?
Why does it matter if he’s dating many or one after the other, or even bedding all he can (good for him if he does). Frankly, just like we criticize straight people for meddling into our private affairs, we should do the same to others without judgement.
It’s a bit odd that his travel schedule would interfere with finding a steady guy at home. There are much more popular and high profile singers that travel alot more than he does and do just fine in that area. Maybe there is more to the reason like he’s just not ready. But then who knows.
I suspect Adam is making more than enough money, thereby not actually worrying about a “relationship.” Especially given the fact that he can probably “afford” to manage more than just one, two, three, etc. etc. 😉 But one thing is for sure; the boy has some pipes!
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