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Judy Shepard Responds To College Football Players Heckling Actors In “The Laramie Project”

Earlier this week, the University of Mississippi’s (AKA “Ole Miss”) theater department’s production of The Laramie Project, which is about the 1998 murder of Matthew Shepard, was interrupted by a gang of 20 or so college football players in the audience, who are reported to have heckled actors, going so far as to call one of them a “fag.”

The players were in attendance as part of a course requirement. Afterwards, they were ordered by the athletic department to apologize to the cast, but many claimed they “didn’t know what they were apologizing for,” and so the apology for the team as a whole came from one lone player. The athletic department also e-mailed the theater department chair to apologize.

Michael Barnett, assistant chair of theater arts at the school and chair of the faculty senate, told USA Today in a phone interview: “We don’t always have the best audiences, but this was taking it to a new level to be sure. There were a lot of athletes there that night, so we’re trying to identify who specifically was using hate speech.”

In an exclusive statement to Queerty, Judy Shepard said:

One thing I often see in productions of The Laramie Project is that involvement in the play sparks in them an awareness of anti-gay hate that they often would not have noticed, especially when performed at colleges and universities. Seeing how the community of Laramie, Wyoming was affected by the murder of my son as told in the play, creates a space where a community can talk about hate.

I was disappointed to see that a number of Ole Miss football players and others in the audience decided to interrupt a performance of the play using anti-gay slurs. Using hate-filled words to interrupt a play about anti-gay hate is a sad irony that only reminds me of the work we at the Matthew Shepard Foundation and each of us as individuals must undertake to help stop hate.

After significant media pressure, the university’s Chancellor, Dan Jones, and Athletics Director Ross Bjork issued a joint statement Thursday afternoon pledging that the individuals involved will be “held accountable.” They concluded by saying: “On behalf of our 22,000 students, our faculty, and our staff, we apologize.”

Mississippi, where openly gay mayoral candidate Marco McMillian was brutally murdered and set on fire in February of this year, does not currently have a hate crimes law that extends to sexual orientation. President Obama signed legislation extending the federal hate crimes law to sexual orientation in 2009. The law was named after Matthew Shepard.

In other news: “Go To Hell Ole Miss” t-shirts are currently available on Ebay for just $17.50.

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    • Dakotahgeo

      What can a normal person say except: Mississippi… South… redneck… inbred. Simple, and in only four words! Not to miss the fact that they are not alone in the South to have such mindsets, nor are they in the majority. At the same time, they are all over the age of 18+ and one wonders just how far ahead in thinking their parents are. Scary?!

      Oct 3, 2013 at 8:38 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • rk8289

      @Dakotahgeo: Believe me, as a recent graduate of Ole Miss, no one could be more disappointed than me to hear something like this coming from my school. It’s unsurprising that these players (the majority of whom, if not all, are freshmen and have been at the school for less than two months, and likely as not are not actually from the state) would have a reaction like this, considering the appalling lack of education on gay rights and and other human rights issues in schools and homes throughout the country. At the same time, blaming an institution or an entire state or student body for the terrible actions of a few, and limiting us to stereotypes is neither fair nor productive. Instead you give in to harmful stereotypes, which as gay people we ought to know better than to be careless about. I don’t think I have to remind anyone that hate is not a purely or even mostly southern phenomenon, as the recent homophobic murders and attacks in New York might attest. I hope as we confront this situation, we can remember that the only way forward from hate and ignorance like this is through love and education–(an education which in which staging a play like The Laramie Project is in itself a step in the right direction).

      Oct 3, 2013 at 9:13 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dakotahgeo

      @rk8289: I mistakenly thought that I had made it clear that my descriptors were not covering ALL southern people or southern states. I did not do that and for that I apologize. Having said that, I have relatives and friends in the southern tier of states and they are the first to be embarrassed by their respective states. AS I AM when I wince at now being a Kansan, formerly from Missouri, born and raised in North Dakota (both of which are twice the state Kansas is but just as backward!) I guess I’m just naïve enough to think that some day soon, the bigots, and those with lower IQs will come around but… hope springs eternal! I still squirm and fidget when I read stories like this and think to myself, “Again???!?”

      Oct 3, 2013 at 10:00 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • jwrappaport

      This is exactly the kind of nonsense I saw from the USC football team when I had the misfortune of being in a class with any of the players. And then I transferred. And then I saw more of the same. I look forward to the day when our institutions of higher learning become more than daycares for jocks (or rich idiots for that matter).

      I always wonder what archaeologists will make of our great universities in a thousand years. I suspect they’ll wonder why every last one of them, from the Ivy League to Podunk State, had a massive stadium attached.

      Oct 3, 2013 at 10:01 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • stranded

      20 bucks says the guy who yelled out fag, has either had dick in his mouth or jacks off to the idea.

      Oct 3, 2013 at 10:02 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Teleny

      Nothing worse than a bunch of testosterone laden str8 men feeling empowered to bash lbgt people.

      Oct 3, 2013 at 10:30 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • rk8289

      @Dakotahgeo: I do the same thing. And unfortunately we’ve had more than our share of other facepalm-worthy controversies over the past few years at Ole Miss :P Coincidentally, I think we have to share the blame for Westboro (Fred Phelps is originally from Mississippi but set up shop in Kansas-ugh). Ironically, WBC picketed Ole Miss in May for “bowing to the football god” and being “fag-enablers.” We just can’t win!!!

      Oct 3, 2013 at 11:00 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Texasteacher

      The article states that the reason the players were in attendance were due to a course requirement. I understand the professor’s intent is to propel his students toward acceptance, but requiring attendance of a play to which they are closed minded didn’t work and even ruined the experience for the willing audience. You can’t force tolerance, because with some it comes more easily through boredom (getting used to seeing and knowing gays) than enlightenment.

      Oct 3, 2013 at 11:32 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • avesraggiana

      This is why it is absolutely critical, and just plain waaaaay cool, that one day, a nationally renown NCAA DIV ONE football star comes out, specifically, a FOOTBALL star. Football because that sport is still so widely revered as the last remaining societal bastion for the true, manly, All-American, thoroughly masculine, thoroughly macho, red-blooded, heterosexual American male. Protest all you want, but male figure skating and diving are not sports in the same sense that “FUP-BOHL” is a sport. Even swimming, tennis and track-and-field don’t cut it as “Real Men’s Sports” among the subset of American males I’m talking about.

      Talk about blowing a deeply held stereotype to smithereens! An Out and Proud college football star with real talent and real renown would show these young, putatively straight dimwits like this that We Homosexuals are EVERYWHERE, not just the girly, nelly, flamboyant ones that even they can make out, but even amongst their uber-straight, uber-macho, uber-masculine number too.

      Come out, Tim Tebow, wherever you are, even though your college days are now a few years behind you!

      Oct 4, 2013 at 12:29 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • ncman

      @avesraggiana: Come out Tim Tebow??? I thought you said successful !!

      Oct 4, 2013 at 6:55 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • avesraggiana

      @ncman: You know, you’re right…dang. I don’t care what a lousy QB he turned out to be, I’d still want to be clamped to immobility by his big, beefy thighs…

      Did I digress?

      Oct 4, 2013 at 10:15 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Spike

      To be expected from a SEC school.

      Oct 4, 2013 at 11:31 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • greyhound1954

      @Texasteacher: With all due respect, I think you’re wrong. I applaud Ole Miss and the teacher for the course requirement. I don’t view this as “forcing tolerance”; this is an opportunity to learn. This play represented multiple teaching moments. The first is the play itself, which offered attendees a dramatic lesson in acceptance (obviously, some of the athletes flunked this part). Another lesson is that attending a cultural event isn’t the same as going to the movies; there is a certain etiquette involved (obviously, they flunked this part, too). Another lesson is respect: for the play, for the actors, for fellow audience members, for the class instructor; for the university, and finally, for oneself. Ole Miss knows now what it has on its hands: a group of immature freshmen in need of extra help. I’m against any suspensions. I’d rather see a more fitting punishment, such as having to construct sets for a future play, or having to write and deliver a report on The Laramie Project. Finally, this course should continue to be offered and made a requirement for student-athletes.

      Oct 4, 2013 at 2:37 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • macmantoo

      To those yelling the “f” word, I wonder what their reaction would be if someone called them the “N” word? And while this is a Mississippi school, not all students are there from Mississippi.

      Oct 4, 2013 at 3:51 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • TheNewEnergyDude

      but many claimed they “didn’t know what they were apologizing for,”??????


      Oct 4, 2013 at 4:10 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • mlbumiller

      Just the fact that the team members we so disrespectful to the cast alone in my book should have caused them a few games of play since they were there as a team. That on top of it that they were using hate speach makes it even worse. GREYHOUND1954 is right on the money!

      Oct 4, 2013 at 7:07 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • OhioMan

      What does one expect…after all it is Mississippi…enough said….

      Oct 4, 2013 at 7:51 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dakotahgeo

      @OhioMan: As you will see in my comment No. 1, I made the same assumption. However, I refer you back to No. 2 and 3 for a much better take on this whole situation. I can name plenty of states that would fit in very easily in the Mississippi mind set. Have a read and think about this again. Thanks.

      Oct 4, 2013 at 10:48 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Daniel-Reader

      They should expel the entire team who attended the event, and give their positions to more deserving athletes.

      Oct 4, 2013 at 11:07 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • OhioMan

      @Dakotahgeo: I read your Nos 1 – 2 – 3 and still come up with the same thoughts…It happened at Ole Miss…in front of any audience which included Ole Miss Football players. Were they not taught they represent the Ole Miss football team and in turn the whole state of Mississippi? This would not occur in Columbus,Ohio in front of OSU football players….and if it were..they would be expelled. Again I say ..what does one expect it is Mississippi.

      Oct 5, 2013 at 2:13 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Dakotahgeo

      Well, generally, Ohio indeed has more class than most southern states and yes, expulsion would be the least discipline meted out! Kudos.

      Oct 5, 2013 at 2:19 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • CeciliaRooney

      My Uncle Caleb recently got a new yellow Kia Rio Sedan just by parttime work from a macbook… go to website,,, korta.nu/lvx0w

      Oct 5, 2013 at 9:57 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Atomicrob

      The name “ole miss” conjures up an image of a 86 year old maiden aunt. Anyway, as someone else here said, it’s Mississippi…

      Oct 6, 2013 at 5:25 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • abnerbha

      Metthew Wayne Shepard (1976-1998) was not the innocent as he has been portrayed by Laramie Project or films like Shepard is a Friend of Mine. Metthew Wayne Shepard was a junky who assoc. with drug dealers in both Colorado & Wyoming, was possibly a drug dealer himself (Methew Wayne Shepard could also possibly have been a drug courier or a lookout, but whether or not he was a drug dealer he did assoc. with drug dealers) & when he was 15 years old, he was arrested for molesting 2 boys & he got counseling by Natrona County Juvenile Court for molesting 2 boys.

      Aug 8, 2016 at 10:23 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • abnerbha

      Methew W. Shepard’s a drug junky & he was a drunkard. Journalists who critique Stephen Jimenez either didn’t read his book by repeating what others say or hate what he found. Those journalists didn’t interview the witnesses who Stephen Jimenez did. Since Book of Matt was released in 2013, others have verified main things of Stephen Jimenez’s book-that AJ McKinney & Methew W. Shepard were acquaintances & the fact Methew W. Shepard assoc. with drug dealers in Wyoming & Colorado.

      I don’t know why the murder happened & I don’t know if Methew W. Shepard was a drug dealer which is why I say possible drug dealer-Methew W. Shepard could also have been a courier or lookout. Methew W. Shepard was a child molester because he had been a victim of homosexual child molestation & repeated the molestation as a 15 year old boy when he molested 8 year old boys. Stephen Jimenez possibly read Methew W. Shepard’s subpoenaed psychological/medical records, where Methew W. Shepard talks about why he molested the 8 year old boys by copying the conduct he learned from being molested as a boy. I wouldn’t be shocked if Methew W. Shepard molested more children than the 2 which were reported.

      after Methew W. Shepard’s murder, most people who knew ugly facts about him were shy as they don’t want to sound rude by talking poorly of dead-families of the 8 year old boys who Methew W. Shepard molested were shy because they likely guessed the same thing. In few cases where people tried to tell ugly facts about Methew W. Shepard, the journalists ignored them or they were condemned for talking bad about the dead. Witnesses who spoke to Stephen Jimenez likely thought that because Stephen Jimenez is a gay journalist, that they can tell ugly facts about Methew W. Shepard w/o being condemned.

      Judy & Dennis W. Shepard push ‘queero worship’ of Methew W. Shepard for years. They have gone to schools to speak being invited by teachers & kids have posed for pictures with Dennis & Judy Shepard. Many of the pro-gay teachers won’t tolerate students giving facts which offend them & if a student were to say to Dennis & Judy Shepard that Methew W. Shepard’s a child molester, drug junky & possible drug dealer, they could get punished by teacher.

      The teachers support free speech right for students to pose for pictures with Dennis & Judy Shepard-the parents of a dead child molester, drug junky & possible drug dealer but they oppose free speech right for students to say ugly facts. There have been cases over students getting punished by teachers for giving views against homosexuality which offended the pro-gay teachers.

      Dennis & Judy Shepard hope that people who agree with them reinforce them while those who differ be shy or if they speak censor them. If Dennis & Judy Shepard are invited to speak @ a school, then kids should have a right to tell ugly facts about Methew W. Shepard though Dennis & Judy hate it.

      Dennis & Judy L. Shepard have been arrogantly dishonest about who Methew W. Shepard was by trying to censor Stephen Jimenez. I have been humble not haughty, in that I don’t believe in censoring Laramie Project & I don’t believe in censoring Dennis & Judy L. Shepard’s free speech right. I will use my free speech right to tell ugly facts about Methew W. Shepard which usu. gets omitted.

      Metthew Wayne Shepard (1976-1998) was not the innocent as he has been portrayed by Laramie Project or films like Shepard is a Friend of Mine. Metthew Wayne Shepard was a junky who assoc. with drug dealers in both Colorado & Wyoming, was possibly a drug dealer himself (Methew Wayne Shepard could also possibly have been a drug courier or a lookout) & when he was 15 years old, he was arrested for molesting 2 boys & he got counseling by Natrona County Juvenile Court for molesting 2 boys.

      Aug 8, 2016 at 10:26 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • avesraggiana

      @abnerbha: I don’t believe you. In any case, none of what you’ve written warranted Matthew Shepard’s murder or the manner in which it occurred.

      Aug 8, 2016 at 3:21 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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