The legacy of Ronald and Nancy Reagan has played a large role in my life for as long as I can remember. As a kid I would go through dusty old boxes with my Dad, who served in the Reagan administration, full of memorabilia from his White House years. He would tell me stories about how exciting it was, about how hopeful, optimistic and idealistic America felt back in the 1980s. It was the beginning of the lifelong fascination that I would have with the Reagan era, and what it represents to people.
As I got older and more aware of the political context of the Reagan presidency, my feelings got a little more complicated. As I came into my own as a Democrat, as a gay man, and most importantly, as a gay activist, I would hear anecdotes from older gay friends of mine who were around during the 80’s about the inaction and indifference with which Ronald Reagan treated the issue of HIV/AIDS. They recalled the countless friends they’d lost and funerals they had to attend because of Reagan’s failure to act sooner to address the crisis, which, in their minds, was an intentional act on his part of bigotry and malice towards gays.
A few years ago I went to a performance of the play The Normal Heart, written by one of my role models and heroes, Larry Kramer, which was based on the early days of the crisis when the Reagan White House was silent in the face of outrage and indignation from the gay community. I talked to my Dad about what he thought, about if he thought the Reagans hated gays or had intentionally ignored the disease. No way, he replied; the Reagans had many gay friends, and in fact, if you looked at the record, had supported gay rights publicly. It was Ronald Reagan, after all, as a former Governor, who was almost single-handedly responsible for the defeat of Proposition 6 in 1978, which would’ve banned gay people from teaching in California public schools.
I also talked to other people who’d served in the administration or knew the Reagans on a personal level. I read articles online, including one written by Patti Davis, their daughter, about how her father’s opinions about gay rights and gay people had been misrepresented and mischaracterized by those in the media and in liberal political circles. My research led me to write an article for The Advocate in 2014 entitled “The Gay Truth About Ronald Reagan,” which received, and continues to receive, quite a passionate response. In January of this year I interviewed Patti Davis for my new YouTube series and talked to her about this very topic; from her perspective, Reagan’s lack of action on the issue was due to a concerted effort by some on his staff to prevent him from learning about the true severity of the disease; in response to the now infamous audio of Reagan White House press secretary Larry Speakes mocking a reporter for asking about HIV/AIDS, she responded that her father, had he known about it, would have never condoned that sort of behavior or language.
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On March 6th, my father and I learned that Nancy Reagan had passed away of congestive heart failure. Yes, she was 94, so it wasn’t necessarily a surprise to hear the news, but it was strange considering that we had been with Patti just a few weeks prior, and that the Reagans had been so present in our minds in the days leading up to the news. My father was invited to the funeral but couldn’t attend, which he was pretty upset about, but the Library said that I could go in his place to represent him and my family, which was a pretty tremendous honor.
I knew immediately that my accepting the invitation would stoke anger and disapproval among my friends and followers; I felt a lot of conflicting feelings. On the one hand I fully agreed with the sentiment that the Reagans had failed adequately to address HIV/AIDS; I don’t think there’s any way to disagree with that. The difference, in my mind, was on the question of why they failed. Was it a pre-meditated decision not to act out of malice towards gay people, as many have suggested, or a grave error in judgment due to a lack of important information? The evidence, from my perspective, seems to suggest the latter.
I decided that I would attend the funeral and that I would drive there with Melissa Rivers, a longtime family friend who had also been invited. It was a truly incredible day for various different reasons. Aside from the surreal experience of seeing Michelle Obama, Hillary Clinton, George W. Bush, Laura Bush, Rosalynn Carter, Jerry Brown, Caroline Kennedy, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Maria Shriver, and Tom Brokaw among many others in the flesh, it was also amazing to meet many of the most prominent members of the Reagan administration, some of whom my Dad had worked with closely back in the day. I met Peggy Noonan who, despite our vast differences on politics, is someone I admire for her eloquence and mastery of the English language, and Peter Robinson, who wrote the famous “Tear Down This Wall” speech.
In an ironic turn of events, one of the big headlines coming out of the days events were the controversial comments made by Hillary Clinton on MSNBC about Nancy Reagan’s “quiet advocacy” in fighting HIV/AIDS during her husband’s presidency. The comments were quickly panned for being offensive and inaccurate, and Hillary quickly put out a statement apologizing and stating that she had “misspoke” about the Reagans’ record on the issue. The most ironic part of it was that the screen was split down the middle during the live interview- one part showing Hillary speaking to Andrea Mitchell with the other half showing a shot from inside the room of the funeral- with me center stage sitting next to Mr. T and Gary Sinise. Considering that this was an issue on which I myself had been criticized for my statements in the past, it was a truly bizarre moment.
In the days since the funeral, I’ve gotten a very interesting response. I’ve heard from David Furnish, Elton John’s partner, and many other prominent members of the LGBT community. The truth is that this is an area on which I continue to feel very conflicted and complex feelings; I have always felt that the Reagans failed dismally on this issue and that there is no way to defend or excuse them. They were in the White House, and therefore deserve responsibility. The only remaining question is why they allowed things to happen the way they did. It’s a question that I will probably always struggle with, and that now, with Mrs. Reagan’s passing, we may never be able to answer.
James Duke Mason is a Lesbian & Gay Advisory Board Member at City of West Hollywood Government and the son of Go-Go’s lead singer Belinda Carlisle and producer Morgan Mason, and the grandson of the late British actor James Mason.
Brian Szuberwood
She wanted us to die. Why celebrate that?
1EqualityUSA
When the Democratic frontrunner is hosted in 2016 by Pastor, Keven kill-the-gays-kill-the-girl-scouts Swanson, then there’s a real problem. Until then, she has the spine to deal with the GOP do-nothing, obstructionist sharks in Washington…oh and the ancient snapping turtle, Mitch McDonnell. She will kick their a$$es! Vote 2016. Let’s change up the Senate and the House and get three Supreme Court Justices who are not bigoted towards us. LLLLLifetime appointments! Presidents come and go.
1EqualityUSA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ygHl94n2Ss
Masc Pride
Wow dude, you look EXACTLY like your mom.
I think Reagan’s handling of HIV/AIDS back then was one of those situations that isn’t clean or dirty. His administration underestimated the virus, but it’s also easier to say what should’ve been done when we know all that we know today. It’s still a complex disease today even with much more knowledge. It was a different time, and attitudes about sex and the people that were hardest hit were much different. He made a mistake there, but Reaganomics was great for the economy. No president is perfect.
1EqualityUSA
Reaganomics was a disaster. Propaganda won’t make it the truth, as much as the GOP says that they are fiscally prudent. Bush, also a disaster. Dream on. You must have fallen off of the turnip truck.
Goforit
The only reason that I can see to attend her funeral is to make sure the bitch is truly dead.@Masc Pride: Reagan’s administration “underestimated the virus” my ass. At that point Aids was only affecting the gay community. Their attitude was “let the queers die”. He wouldn’t even mention Aids publicly for 4 years. “Reaganomics was great for the economy”????? Surely you jest. Give the wealthy as much money as we can and then maybe their pocket change will “trickle-down” to the rest of us. Reaganomics coupled with deregulation laid the foundation of the financial meltdown. Reagan was a disaster for this nation.
Daniel James
Ummmmm…..to make sure the bitch was dead??
Stache
@Masc Pride: Trickle down economics? Giving all the power over to the Banksters and wallstreet? Deregulation? Everything that has since been proven to been a complete disaster for the country. Even today’s republicans don’t bring that up as anything good.
I can’t believe you can say that with a straight face.
Stache
@Goforit: Ha. I should’ve read your comment first. Yeah, what you said. Lol
AJ Beu
There is no us. AIDS is not orientation specific.
sfbeast
The best reason to attend the funeral would have been to drive a stake through the monster’s heart. Which hopefully was done to Ronald Reagan as well.
robho3
@Goforit: Your comment… To make sure the bitch was dead …. is very vile and shows what kinda person you really are. While I am a hardcore democrat and lived through that entire time and don’t agree with how the AIDS crisis was handled, Mrs Reagan is another human being and you should not say such things about another human being. She was not the president.
Stache
@robho3:http://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2015/feb/03/nancy-reagan-refused-help-dying-rock-hudson-get-aids-treatment
Yes. Such a great human being.
Stache
@Masc Pride:
“Ronald Reagan did not mention AIDS until 1985, in response to a reporter’s question at a press conference. He did not give a major speech about the epidemic until mid-1987—at which point 20,849 people had died of the disease in the United States alone. As my colleague Laura Helmuth explained, Reagan was silent at a time when silence equaled death. His cowardice in the face of the crisis will forever tarnish his legacy.”
Stache
http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2015/12/01/reagan_press_secretary_laughs_about_gay_people_dying_of_aids.html
Hussain-TheCanadian
Isn’t there a picture of Hillary snuggling with the war criminal George W Bush at Mrs. Reagan’s funeral?
It just proves that these politicians are just like WWE wrestlers, their animosity is just for show.
Ben Stimpson
The woman died, she can’t be characterized by her politics alone… as a Human being I think it should be noted that we lost a Human being when she passed, so anyone attending her funeral are entitled to without having to justify themselves.
Invert
She was a goddamn horrible human being while she was alive. Her politics were her life, what made her fortune. I’m sorry she didn’t suffer a terrible, prolonged, painful death- like the deaths she was quite okay with gay people suffering. Evil bitch.
1EqualityUSA
Horoscope said so….
Bauhaus
@Invert:
Congestive heart failure isn’t a picnic.
1EqualityUSA
her heart failure started in the mid-eighties.
Invert
@Bauhaus: music to my ears.
Bauhaus
@1EqualityUSA:
Oh snap!
1EqualityUSA
woof.
Sansacro
@Masc Pride: “Not perfect!” LOL what an understatment. whoa! I lived through the era, lost friends and a sister to HIV related illnesses. And yours is revisionist history. The guy would not confront it because he believed that homosexuals brought it on themselves, which was, and, among many conservatives still remains, the attitude regarding HIV and gays. Believe me, bobblehead Reagan was aware of it. ACT-UP made sure of that.
maxxbot
They didn’t address the issue because they didn’t care. At the time Republicans for the most part were glad that the gays were dying and the Democrats for the most part didn’t care. That’s how it was, it was an ugly time in history and it should not be sugar coated. These people knew EXACTLY what they were doing by ignoring the issue, letting gays die.
1EqualityUSA
Sansacro, It was a hideous time. President Reagan did nothing. Doctors were sounding the alarm. Ed Koch didn’t want to scare away tourists, so info on safer sex was slow to roll out. We weren’t even sure if the virus was going to mutate and become airborne. When it started tainting the blood supply and affecting others, that’s when the political tree was shaken. Air conditioning was cut off to the designated AIDS unit. There was such fear that nurses retired out. Those who stayed, went to the Church down the street on their lunch hours because of the things they were seeing. ACT-UP awakened the complacent politicians. We had to fight.
spemat
The First Ladies are expected to attend and she didn’t want to trash a dead first lady. I think the hated qualities of hers are the same things that she could use on the other end to chip away at change. I mean, you all forget that Obama was also against gay marriage. Hillary gets bashed more than all of them combined and she is unruffled. She actually apologized vs her usual divert and change the topic but understand, she as a FLOTUS as well as presidential candidate would have gotten a lot of shit if she didn’t comment about Nancy in a nice way. She has a million things going on already and probably can barely keep up… Michelle went too…
George W Bush may be a war criminal but he also is historically the best when it comes to HIV/AIDS policies… better than any since the outbreak. Plus, there is some personal responsibility in my view. I actually have the CCR5 delta 32 homozygous mutation and cannot catch it but even then, I wouldn’t go to bath houses and mess with multiple strangers bareback with all the other shit I can get. HIV/AIDS is off the charts in gay, bi men and transwomen and it doesn’t seem like people learned. I am not criticizing but I have yet to get any STD as a former teen/early adult bisexual slut. I am a nazi about testing if willing to bareback.
David Reid
Perhaps sh was planting the revisionism seeds for how history will remember her husband for signing DOMA.
Their argument that if it wasn’t signed ‘they’ were going to pass a Constitutional Amendment to outlaw gay marriage.
This country couldn’t approve a simple amendment to make sex equal. 37 states would never agree by 2/3rd vote to approve such a amendment. Billy didn’t want to cause waves.
More to the question is why would a devote Hillary supporter want to keep this issue alive? Why keep kicking the dog? I went to the hassle of looking up the clip to watch the interview. HC brought it up. It was out of the blue. She was not asked about AIDS. Why not the (failed)war on drugs? After I watched the clip I questioned whether this type of personality to be President. The need to think first of herself, the statement was obviously to cozy to the middle ground folks that recall the Reagans fondly. Straight, white gay bashers among them.
What no one that went to the ceremony has leaked is if there was an after reception and who catered?
Jimmy
Duke,just as I have started to have respect for you and what you are doing , this saddens me. The fact that you would think at this stage of your life that it would be passable for you to attend that evil monsters funeral leaves me speechless. I am from the generation that lost so many due to the tyrannical administration that was Reagan’s. To say they were misinformed let’s us know how misinformed you are. In what is well known, the Reagan’s looked at AIDS as a fag, junky, prostitute disease. They saw no need to involve themselves in it and separate themselves from the evangelicals that they were bending over for. Tens of thousands died before these monsters acknowledged the disease. If you are claiming that they knew nothing about it, then maybe, no , definitely, they should have never been in the white house. For your father to say that this was none-sense and that they had many gay friends does a disservice to you. I bet they even had a block friend or two. Their trickle down bullshit did nothing to help the inner city either. Everything about that administration was elitist, evil, bigoted and left everlasting harm. I am glad your dad had a ball. He should have walked through the west village where i was and witnessed the original walking dead. Men weighing 85 pounds, trying to get to saint vincents in the freezing cold because taxi’s and even ambulance drivers wouldn’t help them. I could go on and on. Don’t romanticize the Reagan era. It wasn’t happy or successful. Unless of course you were white, healthy and rich. I am shocked but mostly hurt by you.
Stached1
Larry Kramer is batshit crazy, does not represent all LGBT people or even all rich white gay men like himself, or gay Jewish people, and his play about AIDS sucked.
@Jimmy: Keep spouting your silly revisionist history. The Reagan years were not that bad and they were the best two terms by any President and this even includes the current thief in chief. When they and the CDC did talk about safer sex and GMHC and other groups did in the early 80s, a lot of gay men and LGBT people did not take this seriously and had the mentality that ‘It won’t happen to me!’ but you still have foolish people who have this mentality today and they are on PreP/Truvada and think it’s fine to bareback and that HIV won’t happen to them.
Stached1
@spemat: How did you get tested for the CCR5 delta 32 homozygous mutation? Where is your ancestry from?
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