Kickxy Vixen-Styles, a popular drag performer, works the door as a greeter at Rich’s nightclub in San Diego, but she didn’t make any friends when she was allegedly attacked while patrons watched without helping.
Vixen-Styles claims she was accosted in the bar’s parking lot by a man who had been escorted out of the club earlier in the night. The attacker had allegedly tried to sneak into the bar. When she left work at approximately 3:30 a.m., he was waiting.
“I’m done for the night and I’m walking to my car when all of a sudden he’s behind me and I try to get in my car but it was too late he grabs my door open, and at that point I’m stuck between my door and him slamming it against me and trying to break my window,” Vixen-Styles told the San Diego Gay & Lesbian News.
She didn’t suffer any serious injury thanks to bar security staff, but says she’s left with emotional scars after her screams for help went unanswered by patrons. “A group of four trans girl(s) just sat across the street watching instead of getting help,” she said. “”I just felt so helpless and in a way just let down by the people around.”
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“You would think that in your community people would take care of each other,” she posted on Facebook. “I know that if I were to see something like that I would intervene and get help. Please be safe out there and take care of each other.”
Vixen-Styles described her attacker to SDGLN as, “mid to late 20’s, Middle Eastern I think, black hair, goatee, about 5’10 to 6’0. Regular build.”
A separate attack on a Rich’s patron in January left the victim, William Frank Kidney, in the hospital.
H/t: LGBTQ Nation
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Mauricio A. Perez
Victoriano Diaz. Eugene Beronilla.
Omar Ramos
SHAME ON YOU, San Diego, shame on you…
Mauricio A. Perez
I’ve never been to the cesspool, but apparently teh gays are angry.
Manknee Aeizona
Mike Waddell
This is why no one should go to Rich’s
jayj150
“A group of four trans girl(s) just sat across the street watching instead of getting help,” she said.’ Poor thing. Did he honestly think a transgender would care about a gay person(and a Drag Queen at that) being in danger?. It wouldn’t shock me if they were rooting for the attacker. Transgenders hate gays and lesbians; always have, always will, and they particularly hate non-conforming gay people, specially Drag Queens and butch lesbians. The assumption that they have our backs is due to their nonsensical inclusion in our movement, pushed by mainstream gay groups, completely disconnected from reality.
Sand Nierenberg
Disgusting that people do this low lives to attack someone that’s why I worship cats and dogs and I hate people with a passion
Juan Torred
Wow… Am just in shock we’ve have become unattached to our community with each other. #Shame #SeeSomethingDoSomething
Juanjo
@jayj150: wow! Assume much?
Jer Beår
That’s fucked up ð???ð??©
Diesel69
Last week at my local bar–a client was being BULLIED and attacked by a drunk–aggressive dude–I asked several larger people to go and intervene—NO ONE MOVED–i a smaller person went over–moved the guy and explained to him that he was an aggressive bully and to leave alone the client—Behaviour like that is not acceptable–When someone tries to move from you and doesnt want to talk–LEAVE HIM ALONE—–society is so scared at being REAL PEOPLE—Its like someone dying on the street–everyone takes out their cell phones to record it but no one ever Helps—PEOPLE TODAY ARE DISGUSTING HUMAN BEINGS—–
Adrián Flores
Bastards!
Ummmm Yeah
Of course the transgenders did nothing. Do they ever do anything positive or to help? No. They just drag us down.
Aron Martinez
Nicole Lvn be careful
Nicole Lvn
Thanks babe. We never walk alone and I keep my pepper spray on me at all times.
Kathleen Flynn
Twats
joeyty
No surprise. Firstly…it’s California. Secondly…why did the drag performer think THEY were going to help ?
Scott Redner
Oh the shade! Those other drag queens just watching it all go down… Welcome to how it gets better, well that is unless you need help from your own kind…
Randa Speidel
That’s crazy. I would have helped. I probably would have got my ass beat too but I would have tried!!
Chris Drennan Sudduth
This is why a bitch keeps a shank in her weave at all times.
Chris
I hope they arrested the perp and throw him into jail. As regards no one coming to her help, well, there’s thing called Karma.
Sandra G Hair Lanham
Why can’t we all get along darlings!!!!
Bob LaBlah
When I took martial arts classes years ago the first thing my instructor told us was “never think that just because you are around a group of people your safe” and this proves it. I can’t take sides on this one because something just doesn’t sound quite right as to why he targeted her. It what wasn’t said as to a motive is why I am not condemning the man.
Entertainers these days are going above and beyond the realms of decency for a laugh. Look at Chris Rock at the Oscars and his crack in regards to asians that he was not called on.
Matthew T Langan
How dreadful !
Ricky Ricardo Quevedo Melincianu
Kickxy Vixen-Styles so sad that no one jump in ur defense , i wish i was there when it happened , just to beat that asshole
Kickxy Vixen-Styles
Yeah, I guess it is what it is. But thank you love ð???. It’s people like you and positive energy that has helped.
Trinity Phair
First philly now San Diego why aren’t we helping our community
Victor Cobo
Jay Burr !!!!
Theresa Abreu
<3
joeyty
@Matthew T Langan: “How dreadful !” Seriously. Imagine actually calling yourself Kickxy Vixen-Styles ?
Harley
I don’t know this person in particular but I’ve known a lot of drag queens who work the doors and most often then not they are total bitches.
Ryan Phillip Edward
Jerry Michael Hernandez
Bob LaBlah
@Harley: There was a bartender in ChiChi”s down on Christopher street whom I wonder why something like this didn’t happen to her. That queen was the reason a lot of people didn’t go in there.
I don’t find it an oversight as to why this patron who attacked was thrown out of the bar. That omission is the dead giveaway as to why there is more to this story than is being reported.
Periwinkle
@Juanjo: well, to be fair, the str8 trans community (particularly str8 ftm which refuse to let go of their lesbian privilege; mtf largely runs on whether they’ve had access to the lgbt community before… those that haven’t, unsurprisingly… like most people (including high number of str8 acting brahs) that haven’t had access to the community by anything more than sitcoms, tend to be less appreciative of it.) do tend to be pretty anti-gay, anti-gay scene.
but san diego has always been more conservative in general… it’s mostly just mofos from outside of california that believe CA is full of nothing but liberals and hollyweird types.
David Bolton
“Kickxy Vixen-Styles, a popular drag performer, works the door as a greeter at Rich’s nightclub in San Diego, but she didn’t make any friends when she was allegedly attacked while patrons watched without helping.”
Your attempt at humor with your weird lede falls flat.
Editor, please.