January has been flying by, which means your local gyms, bootcamps, and fitness centers have seen their usual influx of members, both old and new, working to make those New Year’s resolutions a reality. To keep the gym an inviting, safe, and fun experience for everyone, this is an appropriate time to discuss some general gym rules to ensure that endorphins remain high while tensions stay low. I’ve been in the fitness industry for almost 15 years and have been working out as a regular gym member even longer. Over the years, I have seen the good, bad and the ugly of gym etiquette, including minor tiffs and full-blown arguments. The truth is, if everyone follows a few simple and courteous guidelines, many of these issues can be avoided and everyone can use the gym as it is intended: a shared space for people to meet their health and fitness goals.
Share: This basic principle is something we all learned at an early age and should carry through our adult lives. Depending on your gym, there may be limited equipment, many members, or any combination of variables that make certain pieces of equipment and space prime real estate. If you’re in a highly valued area like a squat rack or a bench press, use the equipment as effectively as possible so that others have access to those machines. We all take rest intervals, but make sure they are reasonable timed, and be prepared to let someone work in with you if you require longer periods in between sets. My general rule of thumb is: If I have more than one more set of an exercise left, I will always allow another member to work in with me. This being said, if you do a superset or circuit program that requires several pieces of equipment throughout the gym, don’t expect people to not use your equipment when you step away from them. When you return from your previous exercise, simply ask that person if you can perform your set and carry on with your circuit as planned. I once witnessed a member doing a circuit-style training workout in the only squat cage available, which included pull-ups, box jumps, burpees and virtually every other exercise other than a squat in the squat cage. As you can imagine, it was super frustrating for someone who wanted to do legitimate squats using the squat rack. If you’re going to do a high intensity, body weight, superset/circuit focused workout, there are generally better areas of the gym to do this effectively without commandeering a single piece of equipment for everything other than it intended use. On that same note, utilizing a single piece of equipment during peak times for your entire workout is both rude and unnecessary. Remember everyone is paying to use all of the same equipment. If you’re going to be on your phone in between sets, taking selfies in the mirror, or having extensive conversations, be prepared to share. Other people aren’t running their workout schedule based on your entertainment, photo shoot, and social schedule.
Cleanliness: As the old adage says, “Cleanliness is next to Godliness.” Gyms are full of sweaty people touching and sitting on equipment. Just as you don’t want to be sitting in someone else’s pool of wet exertion, others feel the same way about your sweat too. Make sure you carry a towel to wipe down your equipment. Many gyms provide towel service so you don’t even have to worry about bringing one from home or laundering. Cleanliness isn’t just limited to sweat. Re-racking your weights is probably the biggest cleanliness issue at the gym and also a major factor in safety. Nothing is more frustrating than a gym floor littered with weight plates, barbells and dumbbells. Not only is it frustrating not being able to find the weights that you are looking for, but misplaced weights are also a danger for people to trip on. It’s a pretty simple concept. When you are done using your weights, re-rack them in their designated spot and make sure that any other equipment that you used is placed out of the way and in a safe, appropriate location. You came here to lift weights and get stronger, so think of the re-racking process as part of the exercise. You’ll also be able to find those 45lb dumbbells the next time you need them, because they have been placed where they belong. It’s a win-win situation for everyone at the gym.
Odors: We all sweat — some of us more than others — and with that can come smells. It’s completely normal. We have all had days where we might have to take a second whiff to see if a smell is coming from our body. Thankfully, most people follow basic hygiene practices. However, I have come across people that I can smell from several feet away or coming down the hall. If this is the case, you may want to invest in a new brand of deodorant, or start washing your gym clothes more often. Synthetic fabrics that wick away sweat can often hold on to stench more so than other fabrics, so don’t let those gym clothes sit in your gym bag and stew. Make sure you have enough gym clothes to change them regularly, or step up your laundry game to keep those clothes smelling Tide fresh. On the flip side, there are also overpowering colognes and perfumes. Colognes and perfumes are great for late night gatherings and social events, but not so much at the gym. Many people might love your choice of fragrance, but others may find it distracting, overpowering or even allergy-inducing in a gym environment. Keep up the basic hygiene at the gym, but leave the spritzing for post-workout festivities.
Social skills: We all have busy schedules, and getting in our due time at the gym can be a challenge in and of itself. Remember that the next time you see someone you know at the gym. I’ve worked in gyms for so long I generally know a vast number of the members, trainers and staff. It’s always nice to acknowledge people with a friendly hi or head nod, but it can be stressful when someone wants to command all of your attention while you’re trying to get in a good workout on a time schedule. Be friendly and courteous but save the deep chats for post workout lunches and social gatherings. Many people, like myself, use the gym as a time to decompress. Many people put on their headphones, get into their zone and like to knock out their workout. Don’t take offense if someone keeps the chit-chat to a minimum. On the flip side, if someone takes the time to say hi to you while you’re working out, be kind and return the favor in a brief exchange.
These are some of the several basic gym etiquette guidelines that can make the gym going experience enjoyable for everyone, specifically this time of the year when we see a rise in gym attendance, but also during the rest of the year. These best practices are simple to incorporate, easy to execute and intended for all gym goers from novice to expert levels.
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Glücklich
Unless one wants to spend a fortune on gym clothes – save that for good quality shoes and a means to protect your MP3 – the fancy synthetic stuff doesn’t do what it promises. Buy the cheap stuff at Old Navy or whatever and resign yourself to tossing ’em every couple of months. I’ve been known to buy piles of t-shirts at thrift shops or Walgreen’s to use once or twice and toss.
And the gym is not the goddammed Starbucks or sidewalk. DO NOT STAND in the middle of the floor yakking away on the phone. I don’t know about these people who treat the gym as their living room. *I* want to get in, tick my boxes, wash up and get out.
SonOfKings
At every gym, there are always a couple of exhibitionist, attention-seeking queens, who set up shop in the lockerroom and spend and eternity strutting aound naked, blow-drying their balls, and otherwise making it an uncomfortable environment for gay and straight alike. They never actually spend much time working out.
bicurious
Fortunately the type of people who are attracted to the Pilates studio (my preferred form of exercise) tend to be extremely polite and considerate so these kind of issues don’t even come up for me.
chinadad
I find it difficult to take seriously the “workout” advice from a gym-bunny whose idea of a workout is to inject steroids into his worn out porn star body.
AaronGuy
@chinadad: Thanks for your comment Chinadad! It’s always nice to hear comments from readers who take the time out of their day to share their positive insight into the world of the internet. I’ve spent the last 15 years of my life helping people achieve their fitness goals which is why I can wake up happy every morning and truly say that I love what I do for a living. I’ve also worked incredibly hard to continually educate myself and grow as an individual and a professional. During that process I have achieved some of the highest accreditation in the industry and continue to strive to expand my knowledge base in order to share that information. I write because I like to share and teach….I’m glad you were able to read this article and take away something positive. Namaste!
rmatthews
@chinadad: Be nice. I’ve taken his classes. He’s extremely knowledgable, and a total sweetheart.
Ronbo
More for the locker room than gym:
Do not spit, piss or shoot snot out of your nose. Report those who do.
Do not show or parade around naked needlessly… especially engorged. It’s just creepy.
Do not cut, dye or shave your head hair. Shaving face is marginally creepy – especially naked.
Do not allow water to pool where others must change clothes. Dry it up, if you do.
Move with purpose so others aren’t standing and waiting for you to move.
Do NOT bring out a cell phone in the locker room – ever.
Do not talk on a cell phone in the locker room – ever.
Do not take pictures in a locker room – ever.
Fuckin’ idiot, this is not a phone booth.
Realitycheck
@Glücklich: True, I have lots of Under armor gym clothes, and they don’t help with sweat or keep me cool or what ever, even worse with those expensive Merino wool tan tops, they are boiling hot!!
Best to wear a simple cotton T-shirt, the softer the better, Pima cotton is one way to go.
Sneakers any brand will do as long as the sneaker is soft and has lots of support.
@SonOfKings: LOL yes, hair drying balls is very common and even deodorants in that area, I found guys with big penis like to walk around naked as long as possible no matter what their body looks like.
bicurious
I find the best way to keep my laundry smelling fresh is to dry it out in the sun after washing it. Of course this might not be an option if you live in an apartment but if you have a yard like I do there is nothing better for fresh smelling clothes especially in the winter when my citrus trees are in bloom when my clothes absorb some of the scent of fresh citrus blossoms.
petensfo
How can there really be nothing about the steam room / sauna in this article?
Here’s a suggestion, sit on a towel, wear flip-flops, leave your junk alone… ‘read the room’ (if you’re the only one playing with yourself, it’s not hot, it’s sad.)
I get really sick of the same guys yankin’ their chain, every f’n day! STOP, already!
o.codone
I won’t use any deodorant, so my pits stink. I kinda like it, but people sometimes comment about it. I don’t care, actually, they can kiss my azz, which probably smells delicious too. I’m an aromatic guy, get used to it.
Glücklich
@petensfo:
Love this. Read the room. Ha ha. 🙂
Bauhaus
Pool etiquette – in a busy pool, take a second to figure out which lap lane best matches your ability. Always swim on the right side of the lane, counterclockwise. If kicking or pulling, use a slower or designated lane.
sesfm
As far as gay men at the gym, you forgot the most important rule: Be fit and attractive already. Men who are not already very fit are not welcome at the gym and will be subject to ridicule, hate, and disgust. How dare these sub-humans infringe on the territory of the hot gays?
Can’t say I agree, but that seems to be the overwhelming consensus.
rjw
@AaronGuy: best response. XOX