
BLIND ITEMS — “Which musically-inclined actor secretly enjoys watching gay porn? He’s straight — and has dated some of Hollywood’s biggest starlets — but there’s something about watching two guys together that turns him on. As for his long-term girlfriend, she knows about his impressive gay porn collection, and she doesn’t mind.” [BlindGossip] (Note: Accompanying photos do not indicate any relationship to the report.)
@Mac McNeill: Uh, I don’t think there’s anything indicating that Elijah Wood isn’t straight. He just got out of a relationship of 5 years… with a woman.
Anyway, blind items are stupid.
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What you watch in porn movies does not always correlate with your sexuxual orientation. Voyeurism, by its nature, has a very fetishistic component to it. As many of us know, fetish is not orientation. Thus, a fetish such as voyeurism can be completely different from your desired experiences.
It is therefore possible for a person to enjoy watching that which he doesn’t wish to experience.
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@adam: Adam, I’m sorry to burst your bubble, but being in a straight relationship doesn’t make you straight. I was married for 7 years to a woman and I’m gay. Especially in Hollywood, it happens everyday. Rock Hudson was married as were many others.
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prohomo, I agree with you that you can’t be a straight guy if you enjoy “watching two guys together”. there’s clearly a fascination or curiosity that you’re not acting on if you still consider yourself “straight” and continue watching two guys together.
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@Mac McNiel
being in a heterosexual relationship doesn’t make somebody gay, true. However, watching gay porn doesn’t make a man gay either. If a man identifies and straight and is in a relationship with a woman he’s straight regardless of what his taste in porn is.
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@jacknasty82: Partly true, EXCEPT, watching gay porn and ENJOYING it renders one bisexual or gay. That’s called arousal= sexual orientation.
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@jacknasty82: bull
If you are male and get off on watching two men get it on – you are not straight
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I don’t understand why everybody here has so much stereotypes!
I’m a perfectly straight girl and I sometimes enjoy watching two girl doing it… I would not watch only that and I certainly wouldn’t have a “collection” but it’s not like I can’t relate to them at all, I have a clitoris and a vagina too!
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I disagree with those who say that enjoying watching two men getting it on automatically means one is gay. I sometimes enjoy watching two women have sex and I am most definitely a red-blooded gay man. Not bisexual. Gay. Sexual orientation is much deeper than what makes us orgasm; it’s mostly about to whom we form romantic attachments.
That being said, I think it’s Jared Leto.
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@Tony X: Thanks, Tony. We were all so confused about our sexual orientation before you decided to bless us with your wisdom. . .yeah. The people who claim that this porn collection is indicative of this actor’s sexual orientation are saying (in essence) that sexual orientation is PURELY a sexual thing. Really?! Seriously?! Let’s ignore the fact that the actor may or may not only be emotionally attracted to women or may only be interested in dating/having sex with women. Let’s box him in to a category that makes sense to us. . .wow.
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YAWN Johnathan YAWN
I just said they aint straight — and they ARE NOT.
Too many bi people are pulling that shit.
Bi folks DEAL you are NOT STRAIGHT.
And Elijah Woods is not gay.
I have a friend who is friends with him.
Who knows maybe bi – but not gay, as he is into women.
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I don’t think you can define your sexual orientation by your voyeurism. Sexual orientation is about what you like to experience, voyeurism is about what you like to observe. They are two different concepts with two different definitions.
A voyeur may like to watch things he has no intention of experiencing.
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It is amazing how hard people fight against the concept of bisexuality —- this is no different than what drives the anti-gay activity around the world
and SORRY folks — even if you have no intention of experiencing something, if it gets you off you like it
if a man gets off on watching two men have sex that is bisexuality (repressed maybe)
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Um why does there even have to be a label of straight gay bisexual. Cant you just be a guy with sexual interests, a guy with romantic interests. Cant a guy love a woman, marry and make a life with her, and enjoy the idea of sex with other men?
I grew up having sex with men, now Im dating women. I dont see why people should be labeled and branded. I wouldnt be in a relationship if I didnt want it, and to me labels just carry stigma.
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Hey that is cool with us as we are both bi and love to watch Gay porn. My partner Jane loves to watch gay porn and I LOVE THE FREEDOM of her doing so with me. I do feel at times that us Bisexuals can really be stuck in the middle of what is acceptable and some gays do feel, there is no such thing, you should be one or the other and not sit on the fence.
However for us sitting on the fence is more fun, best of both worlds xxx
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@prohomo: So is a Gold Star lesbian who loves gay male porn really bisexual deep down?
http://daily.gay.com/hot_topic.....sbian.html
http://www.lesbilicious.co.uk/.....-man-porn/
I used to think so – but now I’m not so sure.
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@Michael: Because we identify with labels, that’s why. You’re bi. See? The sky didn’t fall!!! So tired of the “no labels” sexuality argument. It’s false.. Everything has alabel, a description in our human language. The only reason straights and bisexuals hate it is because their homophobic, that’s why.
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So many comments and assertions about sexuality, it would be funny if only you weren’t so sure of yourselves. If we staged this conversation in literary Anatevka, it would go something like this…
Pundit#1: “He is gay, Reb Tevya.”
Tevya: “You’re right!”
Pundit#2: “No, he’s straight, Reb Tevya.”
Tevya: “You’re right!”
Pundit#3: “No, Reb Tevya, he is bisexual.”
Tevya: “You’re right!”
Bystander: “But, Reb Tevya, they can’t all be right.”
Tevya: “You’re right, too!”
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I don’t want to guess WHO he is; I want to know WHAT he has!
Does he have Big Guns, by William Higgins?
Does he have Pleasure Beach, by Arthur J Bressan?
Does he have The Destroying Angel, by Peter DeRome?
Does he have BiCoastal, by Lancer Brooks?
Does he have Good Hot Stuff, by Jack Deveau?
Does he have Men of the Midway, by Roger Earl?
Does he have Red Ball Express, by Joe Gage?
Does he have Screen Play, by Steve Scott?
Or, does he have the classy Night Walk: A Bedtime Story, by Gino Colbert and Michael Ninn?
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I know they say the photos don’t have an relation to the story but that photo is of Justin Timberlake.