In his address at Gettysburg, Lincoln said that ours was to be a government “of the people, by the people, for the people.” His speech took several days to write but only two minutes to deliver, and its lasting impact is undeniable. After November’s disappointing results in California, a motivated class of grassroots activists have been working on the campaign for marriage equality in Maine for months. The lasting impact of the results on November 3rd will be decided by two minutes of each voter’s time.
As a young gay man living in Manhattan, I identify as part of a generation that wants marriage to be an option rather than a dream. My friends and I wanted to give more than just two minutes to this cause.
Though a wedding isn’t on my immediate horizon, I joined a small group to travel from New York to Portland to volunteer for Protect Maine Equality, the group spearheading the “No On 1” campaign. The staff there, both paid and volunteer, was so excited to have extra hands on the ground. It was just a few minutes after our arrival that we were mapping door-to-door canvassing routes, calling volunteers to confirm their shifts, and reminding people to do the one thing that actually matters: vote.
We were working along side local members of the LGBT community, and some who traveled farther than we. (Greatest distance clocked by my count? Two thousand six hundred miles, by the Los Angeles crowd.) But it wasn’t just us queers; some amazing straight allies from near and far joined us. There was an atmosphere of a summer camp, with exercises in teamwork, trust, and camaraderie. The stakes, though, were just a bit higher than achieving summer celebrity.
Because of the accessible voting laws in Maine, registered voters have three options in casting a ballot. They can vote at their polling place on Nov. 3; they can vote early and in-person at the County Clerk’s office; or they can vote early by mailing in an absentee ballot. It’s that third choice the “No On 1” campaign is capitalizing on. Early voting is a simple and effective strategy; it locks in votes ahead of time, leaving little to chance come Election Day (weather, traffic, laziness). Which is why Protect Maine Equality’s plan has been to reach supporters and get them to cast their vote ahead of time. If the early bird catches the worm, the early voter catches a mean case of civil rights.
Our second day there, the campaign gathered for canvass training. We were provided with a script full of talking points and dialogue tactics, campaign materials, and ponchos to keep us dry in the biting rain. (Oh yes, it was wet!) We practiced the speech a few times and learned some solid facts about the state we could easily rattle off: There are roughly 1.5 million people in Maine; 995,000 of them are registered to vote. Recent polling indicates about 500,000 people will actually vote this year. And since Maine voting laws call for a “simple majority plus one,” only 250,001 votes are needed for a marriage victory. Run the numbers: Only 16 percent of Maine’s entire population needs to give us two minutes of their time.
We spent that Saturday and Sunday knocking on doors around Portland neighborhoods. We were targeting the doors of homes identified as supportive to the cause. It’s easier, after all, to nudge like-minded folks to vote than it is to convince your opponents to vote and see things your way. But that doesn’t mean we shied away from any door.
Those who answered our knocks were generally receptive, polite, and supportive. It was encouraging when one gay couple told us they’d be surprised if everyone on their block didn’t vote “No.” Another said they would be so disappointed in Mainers if Question 1 went “Yes” that they would likely move. We were thanked for our efforts and encouraged us to do more. And then there was the one woman who was busy when we stopped by her house — so she drove around the neighborhood looking for us so she could sign up to volunteer.
But not everyone was so supportive at first.
Daniel, a member of our canvassing troupe, knocked on the door of a woman who said she was going to vote “Yes.” When Daniel asked why, she said, “Well, because I’m a Christian.” Daniel responded that he was too, and that he thought religion had nothing to do marriage.
After a brief conversation, the woman said she was so glad Daniel had come by, because her friends had influenced most of her opinions. She hadn’t really had the chance to talk about the issues with anyone else, she said. Daniel’s two minutes with her might have just scored another “No” vote.
We returned from Maine exhausted but excited and cautiously optimistic. We had been blogging about our experience EqualMaine.com, and our friends across the country were waiting to hear what we would be doing next. So were we.
A phone banking party was an obvious choice. Easy to set up, these parties come with the support of Protect Maine Equality, who will provide the phone numbers and scripts for you to call. Today, at 5:45pm EST, we’re meeting on the south side of the fountain in Madison Square Park and will be dialing scores of 207 area codes from 6-8pm.
And we’ll be asking each voter in Maine to give two minutes.
Cinci Chris
Queerty needs more articles like this about empowerment and people getting involved. So nice to see something that isn’t dripping in snark.
Andrew
Conversation is the only way to create equality – it informs and enlightens. It is very effective.
Thank-you for traveling to Maine and doing the real work of LGBT Equality. All of those people who continue to believe “making angry demands” is helpful should spend a few days with this bunch of real activists. Anger doesn’t accomplish anything – sincerity does.
fubar
Thank you Travis and thank you Queerty for bringing insightful content to the site
Brian
You need to send this group to Alabama and Mississippi. Of course, you might want to give them weapons first.
Bill
While I certainly wish for the same-sex marriage law to be upheld, I believe that we ALL know in our hearts that the heterosexuals who created us will vote to keep us oppressed and as second-class citizens.
Perhaps that comes from 40 years of watching heterosexuals abuse their gay creations and demand that government do so as well, but really, we all know that this will fail.
The only way LGTB Americans will achieve equality in this country is when the Supreme COurt finally DEMANDS it. Sorry, but that is the only way.
Do you think that the citizens of this country would not still have slaves if not for court protections? Sure we would. Do you think that we would allow inter-racial marriage if the court did not DEMAND it? Of course not. We would still be stuck in the 1960’s had the courts not done what they are there to do.
Only when this kind of court order is demanded for LGTB Civil RIghts will we be able to take them for granted the way every other citizen does.
So while I certainly HOPE that No on 1 ‘wins’ this vote, I just can not see it happening.
I hope I am old AND wrong.
Miguel
@Andrew; I’m sure it was the angry man with a megaphone making demands right behind Daniel that actually changed that woman’s mind. Yelling is *very* effective.
SeattleScott
“Run the numbers: Only 16 percent of Maine’s entire population needs to give us two minutes of their time.”
Amazing. Finally an LGBT Group actually uses “math.” Don’t we all wish that Gay Inc. would follow suit – maybe be held accountable?
Kudos to Travis and the rest for having the courage to “talk” about our equality. Most people expect HRC to create a miracle instead, but it’s been 30 years and more than $300 million with little to show for it. HRC will NEVER create equality – we must do that . . by talking.
Miguel
@Seattle; I’m sure it was the HRC lesbians-in-Spokane video playing on that woman’s computer that actually changed her mind. Poorly produced videos are *very* effective.
Brian
@ Bill:
Yes, you are old and wrong.
If Travis and his crew changed a few minds during their effort in Maine that proves it is possible. Many in our community expect HRC and Gay In.c to do OUR work for us. You want the Courts to do it. Well, here’s some news: Courts cannot “order” equality – they can only pass laws that punish people for non-compliance. To achieve our equality we must enroll our fellow citizens.
While you sit on your fat ass waiting for the Supremes to decide your fate, hundreds of young gay teens will take their lives because they have been taught they are defective. It would be much more effective if you talked to your friends and neighbors.
If we all accepted our responsibility to engage our fellow citizens in this important conversation we would create our equality. Waiting for the Supremes or HRC is lazy.
naghanenu
@Bill,
Wat you said is touching. Very. I m really sorry that life is soo messed up for gays..really.
I hope Maine vaotes in your favour too but the thing is i fear if you win here this way it will cause the anti-gay marriage crew to get nastier if possible. And once repubs come back and its up for vote again it can also swing away from your favour.
That sucks
We mock religion but we forget just how powerful it is. How something so fulfilling can be used so dangerously shows how messed up we humans are.
As a catholic you get my prayers that one day posts like yours never come up
PopSnap
@Bill
Actually, It’s looking much better than Prop 8 is. Proposition 8 was bungled because we only employed celebrities and Gay Inc., and they were cocky the entire time, rolling their eyes at the religious retards.
Now, we’re making it clearer that you should vote NO if you support gay marriage which solves the clarity issue; it includes wording about leaving religious institutions out, as well. We have door-to-door volunteers, real people, and NoM has embaressed themselves with a lawsuit threatened and being forced to reveal donor names.
I’m fairly certain we’re going to win.
Brian 9.0
It is lovely to see these guys going from door to door. I hope the bill is defeated, I really do.
Bitterness has a strange beauty, too.
valentine
Wow, what a well-written, thoughtful piece. I suspect Lincoln would have voted No on 1!
Chitown Kev
Well, if queerty wants yet another view on what’s going on in Maine all they had to do was ask me and all my peeps here in York County.
Mark-n-Dallas
You guys are doing something very effective – thank-you.
In Dallas, we have a bunch of so-called “activists” that organize protests and happy hours. They yell and demand, instead of talk and reason. They embarrass all of us. Avoid Queer Liberaction, please.
It’s great to see real people do real work towards our equality.
@PopSnap:
I would gently suggest that making “equality” the issue and not “marriage” would be more helpful. I wouldn’t leave “religion out,” as you suggested. People are very aware there is “nutcase” religion and regular religion.
Mark Reed
This effort is cute, but not effective. The National Equality March made all the difference and gave us the Hate Crimes Bill – finally. It was because we demanded our rights – not because we went door to door asking for sympathy.
Wake up – join EqualityAcrossAmerica and make a real difference. You don’t have to go begging – we will teach you to be lobbyists and spend time in real political circles. That’s where the action is. Join us. Become part of the solution and not part of the problem. We have the winning formula.
AlwaysGay
Thank you Travis and all those volunteering in Maine. Those living outside Maine can phonebank by going to NO on Question 1’s website. People living in Vermont, New Hampshire and Massachusetts can drive over to Maine this weekend and help by going door-to-door.
Brian NJ
Lovely. But these guys have kept their shirts on — hardly canvassers gone wild. So maybe I’ll drive up there, maybe I won’t.
Brian
No. 16 “Mark Reed”
That’s just stupid. Your equality-across-america is already out of business. These guys that went to Maine are doing real work. Marching and yelling are a complete waste of time.
Cam
Thank you to everybody helping out any way they can! Great article Travis and Queerty!
Cam
No. 16 · Mark Reed said..
This effort is cute, but not effective. The National Equality March made all the difference and gave us the Hate Crimes Bill – finally. It was because we demanded our rights – not because we went door to door asking for sympathy.
Wake up – join EqualityAcrossAmerica and make a real difference. You don’t have to go begging – we will teach you to be lobbyists and spend time in real political circles. That’s where the action is. Join us. Become part of the solution and not part of the problem. We have the winning formula.
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Not to name call Mark, but you sound like a really bitter bitch. I was at the march and I’m helping out for the vote in Maine. Hate crimes was already on the agenda this year, and if we are looking at it rationally, Hate crimes do not give gays any additional rights. They just mean that somebody who attacks me may get a few more years in jail than they would have before. The vote in Main is about getting gays a right that brings us one step closer to full equality. Efforts at centering all of our efforts in Washington the last 20 years and lobbying has brought us exactly nothing. Hate crimes and ENDA have been the main front for HRC for decades and yet they managed to do exactly nothing until this year. The local issues and states on the other had have seen worlplace protections for gays in almost all states as well as the right to marry in several. For you to dismiss this says more about you being a partisan than about your committment to actually helping the cause.
Yeah Yeah
Who gives a shit about Maine? There was a 20,000-strong Queerty Equality march on Washington!! Wow!!
Mark Reed
@ Cam:
Your words: “Hate crimes and ENDA have been the main front for HRC for decades and yet they managed to do exactly nothing until this year.”
My words: It is because of the National Equality March and our organizing EqualityAcrossAmerica. What, you need more evidence? The Hate Crimes Law is the beginning of our full equality. Maybe you don’t appreciate the additional protections, but I know it’s safer to go out now.
We know “angry demands” are the only thing that works. We’ll keep the heat on until we have full Federal Rights for all of us – even you Cam.
Join the movement. Organize in your City. We provide the tools and we have a very successful record. Let’s stop bitching and start marching.
Jimmy P. Wood
Here is what I will do to help make equality happen in my state: I will eat extra carrots for one. I don’t know if it helps but I know it will not hurt. That is a start. Next I am going to pee in a cup. Then I will only allow myself a small sip each day and try to make it last until I can get married. I may have to pee in a cup a few times but I will try to keep it minimal. Also I will spend more time complimenting neighbors on their lawns and their pets. People like that sort of thing and if they see I care about their lawn and pets they will be more apt to support my rights as a good neighbor. These are things I can think of. Maybe you have some other ideas. I could have a meetup group here too to talk about the carrots the pee cup the lawn and pets if you think it will help or should I do these things in secret and just let people think the change was their idea?
jason
The pro-gay marriage ads were super-saccharine and would have turned anyone off. Saccharine can only go so far. We also were far too timid. We should have gone after the credibility of the Catholic Church with its history of child molestation. We should have pointed out that there’s a “civil” in front of “gay marriage”. It’s civil, not religious.
We failed on so many counts. The HRC is failing us.