The leather crowd has embraced you. How has the trans community? Is there a need to strike a balance between these two “scenes”?
I don’t identify as part of the trans community. It is true that I am trans and I have been well received by other trans people but the core of my identity is as a gay leather man. I don’t feel a need to strike a balance I spend as much time as I can with my larger leather family. Being able to meet more leathermen and leatherwomen has been one of the best parts of my year.
We post photos of guys in leather but get push back if they’re not manly enough or somehow too pretty. Is there such thing as a real leather dude? Is the leather community learning to embrace individuals who don’t necessarily look like Tom of Finland?
I do think that there are many “real” leathermen. However, I don’t believe that looking like a Tom of Finland model is key to being a leather person. Leather is about heart and spirit and hot kinky sex. It is also about how you carry yourself in the world and the values you believe in. Do you walk with honor, integrity, trust and respect? These are the things that the leather community looks for in its leathermen.
What has been the biggest perk of winning IML?
Fitz
Blech. Haven’t been to an IML event since they sold out to the PC police.
I like my IML to be M
Joel Wang
Wow! I guess there’s leather and then there’s LEATHER!
What a wonderful progressive and unifying statement from the IML. Kudos!!!
And CONGRATULATIONS to Tyler McCormick!
Joel Wang
@Fitz:
Yeah Fitz, everybody knows, proper conduct of sexuality is all about EXCLUSION.
Ryan M
I go to a lot of leather events around the country and the world. This year, I have been surprised that Tyler McC has been largely absent. He is simply not present. If he is actually involved in leather play, he keeps it very safely hidden away. IML seems to have pretty much lost its teeth during its transition to an socially acceptable, politically correct organization. These people are not the leaders of our community.
tony
just a note – Tyler is from Albuquerque, not Phoenix.
American Again
Who gives a flying rat’s ass. You can sew up all your holes, but that does not make you a man. You live in “narratives”. I will live in reality.
Leather John
To all the fags that are bitching that a transsexual won IML FUCK YOU!
maybe the christian right wingers are right and fags like you hatefull queens should be put to death behind an electric fence or a death camp. You are no better then the transsexuals.
Incase you forgot you do “unnatural ” sex acts will an organ designed to expeal food waste. So unless you want your one man one woman arguement thrown in your face and your rights taken away DO NOT bash others like the mainstream bigots bash you. Or at least get off my planet and stop breathing my air.