Greek-French singer George Perris is speaking his truth â the accomplished performer (those pipes!) has publicly come out as gay.
Just ahead of the release of his ninth album, No Armor, which drops on Wednesday, the 38-year-old is opening up about his experience coming to terms with his identity.
âI grew up believing that there was something wrong about me because, at the time, when you were a kid in the â80s or â90s, you came to believe there was something wrong with you,â he told People. âBack then, people would always use words like âtolerantâ or âopen-minded,â and I always hated those terms because I think they hide a defiance; thereâs contempt to it. I donât want you to tolerate me. I want you to accept me because weâre 100 percent equal.â
Growing up in Athens, Perris said he hid his sexuality due to a dearth of queer representation.
âI was raised in a society where you had no way of seeing the normality of a gay relationship,â he said. âIt was not on TV. It was not in the media. It was not a part of any discussion.â
That dynamic started to chance for him in 1998, when pop star George Michael came out as gay.
âMy first experience with a public figure coming out was George Michael. I was 15 years old at the time, and to me, that was like a revelation because I had never even thought that it was possible,â Perris said. âI didnât know You could have a superstar who was an extremely talented and incredible artist and a beautiful man and everything and he was gay, and he was living a normal life.â
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Even so, it would be a while until Perris would come out to friends and family. âThere was a little bit of backlashâ when he told his family in his early 20s, he said, âbut everyone was fine, and they all accepted it.â
Now heâs ârelievedâ, âhappyâ and âproudâ of himself for coming out to the world.
âEven though in my private life, I wasnât hiding anymore at all, as a singer, as a public figure, it had a cost for me because there was a part of me that wanted to talk about it,â Perris said. âA lot of people told me, âYou shouldnât come out,â âYou shouldnât talk about that publicly,â âItâll destroy your career.'â
He sees this step as living up to his âresponsibility, as a human being but also an artist and a public figure, to speak up about this.â
âThereâs a lot of people out there that donât have that luxury,â he said. âEven today, being gay is a cause for death in so many parts of the world.â
He added: âI feel the responsibility, as an artist, to be as honest and as true to myself as I can possibly be and to share that with my audience. Thereâs a difference between privacy and secrecy. Iâm not a secretive person. Iâve never hidden or pretended to be someone else, ever. So Iâm sure [me being gay] is not going to be a shock to them or anything. But I feel like my relationship with my fans, my tribe, we just came a step closer. Thatâs what I feel that this will be because they will have the full picture of who I am, free and completely open.â
On No Armor, Perris has arranged a selection of English-language cover songs that he finds inspiring.
âI felt the need to go back to my roots. I realized that the only music that I wanted to hear was the songs that shaped me, the songs that made me who I am,â he said of No Armor. The album includes Billie Eilishâs âMy Future,â Joni Mitchellâs âBoth Sides, Now,â ABBAâs âI Have a Dreamâ and âSomewhereâ from West Side Story. âMy only goal in music has always been to create emotion and to move people. For me, this is my healing album.â
Check out his gorgeous version of âSomewhereâ below:
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judysdad
Wow! He’s terrific!
Diplomat
Totally awesome voice!
MarcyMayer
The Greek culture is generally homophobic because of the very strong influence of the Eastern Orthodox Church and the Greek culture venerates toxic masculinity. Greeks are considered a very religious group. I’m not surprised that he felt unable to express his homosexuality, and I’m sure his relatives in Greece are not too happy with him coming out. However, I wish him good luck!
The real Bruce
Very enlightening Marcy, but have you heard any of his music? His voice and talent are new to me. But I plan to purchase some of his albums (CD’s). I hope you do too and help support him. Cheers.
Kangol2
You, ma’am, are completely wrong. Greece is one of the most liberal countries in Europe when it comes to same-sex rights. Have you ever been to Greece? NO. Did you just pull some ethnocentric crap out of your tuches to slam Greek people? YES. Why are you on this site spewing nonsense, under multiple names? Is the desire to troll that great that you will just say anything, no matter how empty of facts?
Same-sexual activity has been legal in Greece since 1951. That is earlier than the UK, the US and many other countries. Same-sex marriage has been legal since 2015. In 2017, Greece recognized trans people fully in 2017, at the same time as your beloved GQP psycho traitor president Don the Con was banning their service in the US military! In 2018, Greece officially recognized non-binary individuals, and that same year passed a law supporting same-sex couples serving as foster parents.
Lastly, you claim to be a “libertarian” (you, and your other screen names BarryM and James Hart), yet you also rabidly support the GQP, which is passing law after law that is extremely anti-libertarian. Shutting down speech that you find objectionable is NOT libertarian, it’s the exact opposite, yet you keep fervidly cheering on the very party that is doing this. If you’re a libertarian, up is down and red is blue!
LegionKeign
What garbage and a nasty generalization.
I have been blessed to know several Greek families and I can tell you that they were the farthest thing from being homophobic.
I’m openly Gay I make sure folks know right off the bat and I was welcomed as if I was family.
I was treated with nothing but kindness and warmth and to this day share a great relationship with my Greek friends and family.
Diplomat
Marcy,
U should probably run along now.
Marcus2811
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Jim
George, it’s the 21st century. These days coming out is only a means of getting a little extra press.
Charlie in Charge
Is that so? I am so relieved to hear that homophobia has ended, everyone all across the globe embraces gay. What a time to be alive.
gjg64
Not in Greece!
unreligious
Itâs always amazing how out of touch with the real world some people can be. Never mind that in much of the world being gay is a criminal offense. Just look at states like Florida that are trying to erase gay people and portray them as pedophiles. If his coming out gets him some press that lets a lonely gay kid feel better about themselves, then I hope he gets lots of press. Your privileged experience is not the norm for most of the gay people in the world.
Gourmet Guy
Jim, I don’t know where you live or whom you sleep with, but if you consider coming out as a way to get “a little extra press,” you must be living on another planet.
Just.my.opinion
I had not heard of Mr. Perris. Thank you for introducing him to me/us. I plan to purchase some of his music immediately.
The real Bruce
Like you, I am not familiar with him. But just seeing/hearing “Somewhere”, I want more and plan to purchase his music. Beautiful voice!
RyanMBecker
Great voice — both singing and speaking. Love the perfect English, but with just a hint of an accent to make it exotic. And erotic…
nyxy
Wow! Beautiful voice! I’m jealous. đ
Inspector 57
Wow! Why had we not heard of him previously?!?
dale hankins
He has been around a few years and I had the feeling that he was gay after seeing him in concert. You can check him out on YouTube. Love his version of Broken Vow and Somewhere
gregg2010
Anytime a performerâno matter from where or how minorâcomes out, it increases Gay visibility and lets people know weâre not going back in the closet regardless of homophobic laws that are passed in places like Florida.