Do you ever wonder why so many gay men are completely obsessed with Lana Del Rey? The singer has been a muse to gay fans for years, and her latest album “Did you know that there’s a tunnel under Ocean Blvd” has further solidified her status as an LGBTQ+ icon.
With her entrancing alternative music and lyrics that speak to the community, it’s no wonder why gay people are so #obsessed. From her homemade videos to her controversial statements in interviews, there are many reasons why Lana Del Rey is so adored by the LGBTQ+ community. Let’s take a deeper look…
Lana Del Rey’s iconic music, style, and culture
Imagine an eclectic mix of vintage California glamour, Americana, and some moody, ethereal vibes sprinkled on top. That’s Lana in a nutshell!
Her music is a unique blend of dream-pop, alternative, and indie, with lyrics that touch on themes of love, nostalgia, and empowerment. And let’s not forget her signature style–big hair, bold makeup, and vintage-inspired wardrobe choices that give off major old-school Hollywood vibes.
But it’s not just about the music and style with Lana–she’s created a culture of her own. It’s one that celebrates individuality, creativity, and the timeless art of storytelling.
Lana Del Rey’s unconventional allure to the gays
The reason why gay people love Lana Del Rey so much is simple: she’s fabulous! Her style is out of this world, her music is entrancing, and her lyrics speak directly to the LGBTQ+ community’s struggles and triumphs.
She also has a unique ability to make everyone – regardless of their sexuality or gender identity – feel included and accepted with her lush songwriting and haunting vocals. But don’t let her retro aesthetic fool you–her lyrics delve deep into themes of love, heartbreak, and the dark sides of fortune and fame. It’s impossible not to get lost in her hypnotic melodies.
How Lana Del Rey’s music resonates with the LGBTQ+ community
Lana laces her lyrics with themes of love, acceptance, and empowerment, hitting right at the core of what it means to be part of the rainbow family. Her melodies are like a big, warm hug from the inside out, lifting us up and reminding us that we’re never alone. It doesn’t matter who you are, who you love, or how you identify–her music speaks to all of us.
“Summertime Sadness”
Both the song and music video for “Summertime Sadness” contain strong gay themes. The video, which stars Lana Del Rey and Jaime King, follows a lesbian couple on a road trip that ends in tragedy. And the song itself has become popular in the LGBTQ+ community, with many fans connecting to its themes of love and loss.
“Love”
One of her most beloved songs is “Love.” The song speaks directly to her LGBTQ+ fans, validating their choices and understanding their struggles. The song’s lyrics are full of empathy and understanding, making it a powerful anthem for many in the community.
“Happiness Is A Butterfly”
Lana Del Rey’s “Happiness Is A Butterfly” is a popular gay ballad for its message of embracing fleeting moments of joy and freedom. The song speaks to the LGBTQ+ community’s struggle for acceptance and understanding, as well as their resilience in the face of adversity.
The lyrics are a reminder that even when life is hard, it is still possible to find happiness and peace. Lana’s hauntingly beautiful vocals evoke a sense of longing and hope, while her poetic lyrics speak directly to the heart of the listener.
Related:
The rise of the “LDR” aesthetic in pop culture
Have you noticed the rise of the “LDR” aesthetic in pop culture lately? No, we’re not talking about long-distance relationships. LDR stands for the “low-definition resolution” style our favorite LDR (Lana Del Rey) often embraces. LDR is all about that grainy look that has taken over our screens.
From music videos to Instagram feeds, everyone seems to be trying to capture that nostalgic vibe of the past. It’s like we are all trying to escape our high-definition reality and return to a simpler time.
Long live Lana Del Rey’s legacy
It’s clear that Lana Del Rey has a certain captivating allure for the LGBTQ+ community – an allure that has only been amplified in recent years.
Many of us can attest to her immense impact and contribution to the collective queer culture. Her music not only speaks to our hearts, but encourages us to step into our true selves — with no apologies and no regrets. What we can learn from Lana Del Rey is an unapologetic pride in who we are and who we love. Thanks to her, we’ve become more liberated than ever before.
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abfab
I’ll go first. Who the hell is she?
Den
A contemporary female singer/songwriter with a knack for telling interesting stories, constructing often haunting melodies and with good production values. Her voice is good but not great.
She is not nearly the talent that Sara Bareilles, Sarah Jarosz, Brandi Carlile (who, as a hugely talented lesbian should be a gay icon), or Patty Griffin are; either as writers or vocalists.
I like her music, but was not aware she is a “gay obsession”.
abfab
Brandi Carlile is on fire right now. And! Joni Mitchell is back on her feet again thanks to her, with a few summer gigs together.
correctio
I forget how old the average reader of this website is….
Doug
I’m definitely not obsessed with Lana DelRey.
Rank Amateur
I’m not obsessed with Lana Del Rey.
FreddieW
I wouldn’t say I’m obsessed, but I’ve been a fan since “The Great Gatsby”. She has a beautiful voice. Some of her music videos are striking, too.
ShaverC
Pander to “the gays” and you will become an icon!
Openminded
Sorry, I know she is supposed to be one of the hottest right now, but her music is much to melancholy and depressing for me. That may make it hit close to home for the LGBTQ crowd, but no need to wallow in your sadness when you can choose to make the best of your situation. More upbeat positive music helps me do just that.
abfab
I hear ya. Give me Marieanne Faithfull any day. xo
abfab
@Openminded……….Rufus Wainwright is persona non grata in our house because of his wallowing. His nasal. His brand of depression and melancholy. And that Judy Garland ride he took us on…..oye vay!
greekboy
Dont know who she is. Therefore…not obsessed
TomOH
Thanks Qweerty for informing me that I’m apparently obsessed with LDR (this is news to me) simply because I’m gay.
Seriously, how much did she have to pay for this fluff piece shamelessly promoting her latest album?
abfab
Since Q is Q, please try to imagine they are pulling your legs 99% of the time. I think the term ‘tongue in cheek” is also apt.
BullJac4
Personally, I like her music because its vulnerability serves up big sub bottom energy.
Diplomat
Well put.
Diplomat
She has an amazing commanding voice rich deep and complex. Not boring generic like so many. She casts a wide net.
FreddieW
I don’t care for Miley Cyrus, but I heard her on the radio a while back, and I thought she was trying to imitate Lana Del Rey. So I suppose she thinks Lana is good, too.
dbmcvey
You have a shaky sense of time.
FreddieW
Don’t know what you mean by that. It could have been several years ago, because everything from March 2020 to sometime last year was like a bad dream or a black hole. And I’ve found that the closer I get to 60, the more everything seems like it was just a short while ago.
FreddieW
I do remember that Miley Cyrus song was something about Malibu.
dbmcvey
I’m not a fan but we do seem to like women who are disasters.
Rambeaux
Thank you for that LOL !
How very true.
OhHellNo
Been trying to figure that out for years, but not important enough to worry long about. She’s a character, a cartoon, Jessica Rabbit on bulimia and Prozac, made basically the same album over and over, probably gets led by her manager to the bank a lot to sign papers she hasn’t read. Oxygen waits offstage. Before the set she prefers ether. Lizzy Grant me the serenity of ignoring this thing.
RomanHans
The video for Summertime Sadness has “strong gay themes”? That’s weird, because I see two women who don’t kiss & then kill themselves.
mastik8
Her PR people are planting stories everywhere in an effort to redeem her in light of that song from her new album with the homophobic preacher on it.
Ari
Wow, comments on Queerty are completely toxic and gross and make me sad for the commenters. What a life you must have!
Great piece here on a super-cool artist.
kevininbuffalo
Got it! No one can have opinions or tastes that are different than yours.
abfab
Sorry Ari. We’ll try to tone it down for you.
gregg2010
Why are WE gays so obsessed. . .
Grammar was never one of their strong points.
abfab
It’s a tabloid headline. Do you know what those are?
bachy
There’s a more nuanced analysis of Lana on Jezebel entitled, “Lana Del Rey and the Allure of Aestheticized Pain.” She can be something of a wallow in soft-grunge imagery, romanticized self-harm and dissatisfied femininity. Pity party music for the fainting couch. I’m not big on nostalgia either, but I do appreciate her unique sound and persona.
toddlicious
We’re not.
ScottOnEarth
A more accurate headline would have made reference to “…young queens obsessed with Lana Del Ray?” The bitter old fossils on this comment thread who feel compelled to voice their “I’m not obsessed with her!” gibberish haven’t worshipped a female entertainer since Liza did ‘Cabaret.’
Ronbo
You can obviously understand why ScottOnEarh is upset. We older folks changed the world (bringing LGBTQ acceptance) and yet we don’t praise fluffNbutter talent fresh out of middle school… as if it is a game changer! As you grow and mature Scott, your perspective changes. If it doesn’t, you aren’t maturing or growing.
My friends love Liza for her performance in Arrested Development. Individuals are free to pick their fluff. – enjoy the buffet instead of poisoning it.