
Griffin Maxwell Brooks grew up in suburban New Jersey and attended Princeton University, which often serves as a springboard to a social calendar filled with fancy cocktail receptions and stuffy galas.
But Brooks isn’t spending their post-grad years working the black tie auction circuit. Instead, they’re taking their shirt off at New York’s hottest clubs, and dancing the night away.
An accomplished diver, Brooks started exploring the club scene as a sophomore, moving into an apartment with some friends in the city to combat pandemic loneliness. Instantly, they became enthralled with the bacchanalian vibe of discos and raves.
More than anything, Brooks cherished the liberation. Now, they could take risks, and present in the fashion they desire.
That means sporting a daily array of fashion-forward lews, full of upcycled garments and outrageous accessories. There are no rules in Brooks’ world. They are fully free.
Today, Brooks boasts nearly 1.5 million followers on social media (TikTok, Instagram, X/Twitter), where they show off their style, educate people about LGBTQ+ issues and embrace their inner-himbo (we think that’s a compliment). Oh, and Brooks is outrageously funny, too, parodying the beautiful, yet absurd culture they mirror.
Queerty recently caught up with Brooks to chat about their days as an athlete, life of a club kid influencer and the DMs that really freak them out. Here’s what they had to say…
QUEERTY: You were a diver at Princeton and competed in all sorts of competitions. How would you describe your relationship with the sport?
GRIFFIN MAXWELL BROOKS: I loved it! I miss it. Diving was a natural progression for me. I was a gymnast for four years; I think I started in fourth grade. And then I switch from that to diving, like, right before I started high school. And it was my entire life for all of high school–for a lot of reasons. I think it was my first form of self-expression. It was part of the reason I went to Princeton.
It was a part of my life for so long. I think it was gymnastics, and just with other things in my life, had me jaded over time. With diving, it was never the case. I was always happy to get up and go to practice every day.
It was really my first relationship with something I was super dedicated to.
How did you get into the NYC club scene?
I was living on my own extended journey of autonomy and gender identity and self-expression. And when I finished my sophomore spring semester, things started opening back up. I was living in New York, and at Princeton, I felt quite out of place. I was on this journey of self expression. My perception of myself, and my presentation was changing a lot. When the clubs started opening in a safe way, it was my opportunity to make friends and be with a community I hadn’t experienced otherwise.
I’ve always been inspired by the ’90s club kids like James St James. I just always thought the art was so fascinating. And I really liked how the art was tied into gender and sexuality and the queer community, and how people who I think were shunned by the rest of society were hailed in that time period. So I started going to events that still reflected those values, when I felt like it was safe to do.
It was just a magical experience. I felt very embraced by those communities.
What’s your day-to-day?
It’s chaotic, it changes a lot! There are some things that are constant. I dedicate, I would say like an hour and a half to content creation every day, and probably the same amount to work-related stuff: sending emails, sending invoices, brands, interactions and all that stuff.
I go to the gym every day. I retired from diving and I was like, I need to find some other way to keep myself active, because it’s not like there’s an excess of springboard access in New York City, or anywhere. So I lift weights every day.
I play with my DJ setup and add new music to my vocabulary every day. When I go out, I’m constantly acquiring new tunes, and then I’ll come back and mix them.
I also try to meet up with my friends who are just my friends, or friends who are fellow content creators. Making content with then, it just gets ideas going. Being a queer content creator in New York, the queer people band together in a very helpful way.
You wear some wild outfits. What’s your fashion inspiration?
It kind of changes frequently. There are a lot of people in my life who aren’t celebrities who I derive inspiration from. One of my best friends right now is a stylist and fashionable person, and I think I derive more inspiration from the people I know, because you see how their fashion changes and evolves over time.
I think celebrity-wise, I really love Julia Fox. It’s not a crazy hot take, but I love what she wears. I love the skin-tight dresses and craziness of it all!
But yeah, I’m all over the place. My passion is really eclectic. The things that I wear on a day-to-day are very different from what I wear at the club. And those are very different from underwear and events. I’m all over the place!
You aren’t shy about posting tons of fun underwear and speedo pics. What are some of the craziest messages you receive?
I think it’s interesting, because some people are trying to be very endearing, but don’t realize they come off as a bit intrusive when they speak about your body.
But lots of crazy ones! I think the craziest thing is when people are like, ‘Oh, I saw you walking down the street and you’re so beautiful.’ And I’m like, ‘Oh, that’s alarming.’
I’ll have ones where people will be like, ‘I can see right now, and you look great.’ Like on the beach. And I’m like, ‘OK, that’s great.’ But most people are nice and endearing… or at least they’re trying to be!
What’s the best experience you’ve had?
I like getting to meet with people I’ve impacted and then, like, consequently, have impacted me. I mean, I live in New York. I make content about living in New York for queer people. So I walk down the street and get recognized probably like five or 10 times a day.
It always surprises me to when it happens. I’m in random places in the Midwest. And I’m like, ‘How’d you find me?’
For the most part, all of those interactions are really lovely. I’ve had a couple that really stand out to me, like the parents of queer children who come to tell me and say they’ve consumed my content, or watched my child consume my content, and it helps them in some way, shape or form.
It makes me so grateful to be a part of such a loving community.
dbmcvey
Seems fun! Live your life!
abfab
They are fabulous! Lovely buns. Lovely hair. Lovely!
FreddieW
Why is he a “they”? Personality disorder? Just trying to be cool? PC Ivy League education?
abfab
Hey turd. Do your own research. it’s 2023. Can you handle that?
FreddieW
yada, yada, yada
ryepie2222
Of course he’s trying to be cool and latching onto the he/she/they/them is really in… to those who don’t actually identify as they/them. He’s a poser wannabe. Check in with him in 5 years. Will he even be alive? I wish Queerty would stop doing stories on these vapid dumb wannabes.
Mr. Stadnick
Being a troll is so sad.
abfab
Wish all you want 2222. Q is not interested in changing course just because a few hicks like you disapprove. Move on.
dbmcvey
Interesting. When I think, “who would I rather spend any amount of time with at all, Griffin Maxwell Brooks or FreddieW,” the answer is Brooks, because Freddie hates joy.
Rocinante
It must be difficult to go through life being an ignorant moron. Without any consideration of the modern use of “they” as a gender free pro-noun; English speakers have used “they” to refer to a single person for my 56 years.
There’s someone on the phone for you.” “What do they want?”
Everyone should do what they think is best.
abfab
Yes, Rocinante.
They are the ones with the ”personality disorder”. The inability to observe and appreciate. Enjoy or celebrate. Embrace the ever evolving diversity in popular culture and generally, in our western society.
Where is their humanity. I think I know.
FreddieW
@dbmcvey
Um, I wouldn’t let you spend time with me even if you thought it appealing.
abfab
Figuratively v Literally. Learn something new today Fred.
dbmcvey
Good to hear Fred, because there is nothing fun about spending time with joyless scolds like you.
TimidTim
Not so much as “THEY” as with “THEM,” first thing I think of is “Van Morrison’s getting the old gang back together? Gloria, Gloria, Hallelujah!”
redcarpet30
“New York’s hottest club is *guttural noise*”
Its got everything, Twinks, twonks, twerks, Kevin James naked on a table covered in truck stop sushi. And Bwedish Chefs. Its that thing when you have two bears on skate boards and one of them is fisting the other while chasing a chicken…
abfab
OMG!
”New York’s hottest club is STAND CLEAR OF THE CLOSING DOORS PLEASE!
Stefon! Please!
Doug
LOL! I was just watching Stefon clips on YouTube yesterday!
abfab
And the writers at HOMOEXTRA (back in the 90’s) had a very clever way of writing the lastest goings ons at all the clubs. That was such a handy and portable weekly, a must have!
Stefon iS REALLY TOO FUNNY! Holiday fun for the average American Family visiting NYC for the first time. This place has everything.
still_onthemark
Whenever “clubbing” is in a headline I expect it to be about Labradorians clubbing baby seals.
abfab
And now an add for Pet Groomers sends shockwaves thru the system.
jlreyactor
I continue to be stunned by the negativity. Here is a seemingly well adjusted, intelligent, talented, person who is living life on their own terms, exercising their freedom and creativity to create a successful life while harming no one, and actually providing inspiration and/or entertainment to many.
Yet some folks have to be critical, negative, and downright nasty. If you don’t like them, use your mouse and click away from the story, post, or photo. The misery some folks seem to need to spread still surprises me. I guess I’m an idealistic old fool.
Live your life man! Remember the best revenge is joyful success!
FreddieW
“Live your life man!”
To follow that advice, it helps to actually think of yourself as a man.
abfab
You never really make any sense at all.
dbmcvey
To Fred, you should say “live your life, drudge.”
abfab
You never really make any sense at all @Fred.
Mack
FreddieW is just jealous because someone is getting more attention than her.
Thad
Although NYC clubbing is not out of the question for me, it’s guaranteed I’ll be the oldest guy there. I’ll have fun, but don’t want to be creepy.
So I like GMB, but our paths will not likely cross. I’d smile at him, though. I’m glad he’s in the worlds, real and virtual,
abfab
I think he’s fabulous. Keep clubbing! There are a few spots where EVERYONE fits in. But one must like the DJ. God I miss the Sound Factory and Junior V. Whoaaaaaaaa
Gay Thomas
Gotta love this gurl’s devil-may-care, F**K-you-if-you-don’t-like-it perspective. You know who you are, queens.
abfab
Love the SHIRT PANTS photo, and those buns!
Fahd
Seems very hard working and living full-throttle. 1.5 million followers is no mean feat.
Hermes in DC
A modern day Zsa Zsa Gabor. Their parents must be so proud of what they’re doing with that Princeton education.
abfab
There is nothing modern about you Hermes so save it.
dbmcvey
And yet, I’m sure he’s much happier than you are Hermes.