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Conservative Catholic Comes Out In Favor Of Marriage Equality

Joseph Bottum is the type of conservative Catholic writer that conservatives adore. He’s on a first-name basis with Thomas Aquinas, writes for the Weekly Standard and National Review, and was editor for five years of First Things, a journal for conservative Christians. So, it’s a surprise to see Bottum in a densely written personal essay in the traditionally Catholic journal Commonweal express his support for marriage equality.

“[S]ame-sex marriage might prove a small advance in chastity in a culture that has lost much sense of chastity,” Bottum writes. “Same-sex marriage might prove a small advance in love in a civilization that no longer seems to know what love is for.”

It’s quite the turnabout. Just five years ago, Bottum argued that “an amoral world may be a quite suitable environment for gay marriage, but it is hardly the kind of world in which most Americans want to bring up their children.”

Which is not to say that Bottum’s rhetoric isn’t just as offensive as it was when he opposed marriage equality. In fact, his essay is much more a complaint about the terrible position Catholicism occupies in American society, much of it, by Bottum’s acknowledgement, of its own making. He talks about losing the friendship of a gay friend, Jim, but also says that Jim’s support for marriage equality “was at least partly free from the grating self-interest, the fallacy of special pleading, that infects too many declarations on the topic.” He notes the personal pain that the inability to marry has caused but wonders “doesn’t that kind of personal fact deployed as argument reduce public discourse to little more than self-interest and self-importance?”

For a Christian argument, it’s remarkably lacking in caritas. No wonder Isaac Chotiner of The New Republic calls the essay “The Worse Imaginable Case For Gay Marriage.” (By contrast, Andrew Sullivan called it “moving.”)

Even Bottum’s final endorsement of marriage equality comes with a little twist of the knife. The one legitimate fear that Catholic’s have about same-sex marriage, says Bottum, is that “the movement is essentially disingenuous. That gays don’t actually want much to marry, but Catholic resistance to the idea is just too useful a stick not to use. That modern Americans, heirs to the class-based self-satisfactions of their Protestant ancestors, look at same-sex marriage and think how wonderful a device it proves for a little Rome bashing.”

Trust us. Joe. It’s not always about you.

Photo credit: Joseph Bottum’s Amazon page

By:          John Gallagher
On:           Aug 26, 2013
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    • Jonty Coppersmith

      How ironic that his name is “Bottum”.

      Aug 26, 2013 at 8:56 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • 1EqualityUSA

      He totally got me wrong. What a wipe. Sweeping generalizations begone. As if I needed another reason to dislike Catholics.

      Aug 26, 2013 at 9:22 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DarkZephyr

      @1EqualityUSA: I normally like what you have to post, but please remember that not all Catholics are like this guy. I have said this several times in the past, but when Referendum 74 passed here in Washington, a huge chunk of the “yes” votes came from Catholics in the Pew.

      Aug 26, 2013 at 11:53 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • 1EqualityUSA

      Fair enough, DarkZephyr. I’ll try to curb my bigotry.

      Aug 27, 2013 at 12:33 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Polaro

      Could be a lot worse.

      Aug 27, 2013 at 12:42 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • J with da tea

      Did anyone else see that picture and think”what does Jason Bateman have to do with any of this?” Lol

      Aug 27, 2013 at 10:49 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Caliban

      Wow. That is some weapons-grade gay-face AND his name is “Bottum”? I think the lady doth protest too much.

      Aug 27, 2013 at 1:10 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Spike

      How nice a member of the American catholic Taliban is throwing a few crumbs to the marriage equality movement. How generous. Reminds of playing tug of war, when you opponent least expects up, you allow a foot of rope to go in their favor, they either fall on their asses and let go or loosen their grip, at which point you yank hard and win the match.

      Aug 27, 2013 at 4:54 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • 2eo

      I can’t trust anyone with a passing resemblance to the vile Peter Mandelson.

      Aug 27, 2013 at 5:17 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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