Donnie McClurkin may claim he’s straight and not a homophobe, but journo Clay Cane found an anonymous man who allegedly carried on a three-year affair with the gospel-singing reverend. Check out this exchange:
CC: During this time to 2001 to 2004 is really the height of his anti-gay rants. The book came out, he made comments, he told the New York Times in 2002 he’s counseling adolescent boys to convert them from homosexuality. Would you hear about these rants?
Rob: Every time I’d read an article in Ebony or Jet, or whatever, I’d just hear it–I’d get upset and we’d always have an argument about it. He said, “I told you.” I said, “It’s crazy. What you’re doing is crazy. You’re writing this stuff, but yet you’re still doing it.” I said, “I have a problem with that. What’s wrong with you?” He said, “I have a problem.”
CC: What do you think he meant by “I have a problem”?
Rob: It’s something he just can’t control. He feels that he has to say that to please people. He said, “I don’t want people to believe that I’m still doing it.”
And there’s much, much more…
Rt. Rev. Dr. RES
If you were ordained or studying for ministry before the changes by the psychiatric associations, and when there were few liberal theologians whose contextualism extended to us, it was easy to go on the “down low” or to keep your private life very closeted and private.
At that time, you realised that you had few friends and many opponents who could ruin your career. That was then, and this is now.
I am not African-descended and have no idea whatsoever what it is to be profiled due to race.
I also know that men were emasculated by racist bigots. I also know through black clergy friends and colleagues that a black gay man is subject to total derision by his race. The “down low” was the hypocritical alternative to open assumption. Then, it was important to be the top of the duo.
Again, I will pray for both of these clergy. They are both in a minefield and both will have to live with their theological views and their own demons. Senator Obama has probably unleashed more of a firestorm with unintended consequences for all three of them.
Rt. Rev. Dr. RES
My dear friends:
I have enjoyed sharing with you on this medium. Nigel and I and our son are leaving on a short holiday to the UK this weekend. I may or may not have time to comment upon some new topics as we prepare to leave and get our toddler ready to go.
I interact mostly on Canadian blogs and some international Christian blogs. I have however thoroughly enjoyed my time here this past week.
I want to thank David Hauslaib and Andrew Belonsky for expanding my musical knowledge as well as getting my heart beats going with handsome eye candy.
God bless, Bishop RES
Paul Raposo
It’s been fun reading your posts here, RES. Have a fun and safe trip 8^)
Terri
Pastor Donnie preached at my church this evening in Nashville, TN and he was AWESOME and highly used of God. I believe that he has been delivered and the devil is mad because he can’t get Donnie back.
So, the Bible says that you will know a tree by the fruit it produces…baby, this is a prosperous tree and I see the hand of God on him and you can’t do anything about it.
Death Style
Sounds like he’s addicted to gay sex like most homosexuals.
Who here will argue that the gay lifestyle is healthy?
Dave
Death Style says: Who here will argue that the gay lifestyle is healthy?
What? What do you mean by gay lifestyle? Do you mean two men in a committed relationship, monogamous, both working and paying taxes, both praying to God for guidance in their lives, both loving their neighbors as themselves, both giving to the poor, helping feed the hungry? Or do you mean a homosexual man, who like MANY hetersexual men, has a sex addiction? Death Style, when you lump EVERYONE together in one category you deny the FACTS. Get your own heterosexual community in order before you start throwing stones. Divorce rates are over 50%, sexual compulsions are at an all time high (among STRAIGHT) people, STD’s are at an all time high among STRAIGHT people, so according to your “educated” philosophy, who here would describe THAT as a healthy lifestyle? You are ignorant. Judgmental. And not a representation of the love of Jesus.
underbear1
When we catch this HYPOCRITE trickin’ with a guy, after he F*CKS UP Obama’s campaign…hell hath no FURY
got that Donnie, ya big GURL?
underbear1
DeathStyle,
go f*ck your BREEDER self
Memmorium
Good idea!
P.S. A U realy girl?
Marge
Hey all. Pastor Donnie is not gay anymore. Praise God.
Shanay
OH LORD. pleas have mercy. Pastor Donnie McClarkin. You cant be mad at him for being confused. he was raped…. twice. dat is so sad. but still, being the pastor of the church and reading the bible which talks about being gay and where that will get you….. i just dont know. all we can do is pray for him and hope dat he makes the right decission. an if he’s reading this right now… pray, thats the best thing to do. seek the Lord while He may be found. please.
DELORES
It’s very easy to gossip about other people pass but true be told we all have something or done something that we are not proud of. Personally i like
Donnie McClurkin i think even from the stuff that i have read i still think he is a wonderful guy reqardless. A real and true christian would not let the media poison their mind cause the media is cellular people and we to stand up for one another as christians should.i believe our job is to continue to pray for him and as we pray god will be in the midst getting his glory.I love his music im a big gospel listener.we must touch and agree christians.
DELORES
MR GOSPEL SINGER DONNIE MCCLURKIN IS A POWERFUL SINGER,he sings for the Lord, To the Lord and about his love of the Lord. I know that his music will continue to Bless others,so Mr McClurkin finish Y-O-U-RRRRRRRRRR race and be bold about it and do just what you sing about S T A N D . We love you all around the world , keep looking in front of you and all that is behind is just what it represents BEHIND
jay
hey pastor donnie i believe in you.don give a f**k of what others say. your music blesses me and that is what i care about. am also proud of you for testifying about how your relative took advantage of you.
just remember the positive life you live is a tesimony to all those who have had such a past to rise up just like you.
I LOVE YOU WITH GODS LOVE
jess
i KNEW he is gay!
HA! he can’t deny it
Joshua
Pst donnie, ur music has bn a blessin 2 me personaly nd many more others all over Nigeria. More greese 2 ur elbow, God’s grace shall continualy kip ya
bulelwa jikeka
I believe that God is with u DONNIE and the devil is trying 2 confuse people.
Stand on the truth,no 1 can be against u
GOD BLESS U
Bulelwa
youcanthandlethetruth
I admire this guy for trying to correct his sad homosexual yearnings.
And I’m ashamed at the homosexuals on here and elsewhere who try to throw him off the path to recovery, like shaking a whiskey bottle at a reforming alcoholic outside an AA meeting.
SM
@youcanthandlethetruth:
If a man commits adultery with another man’s wife, both the man and the woman must be put to death. Leviticus 20:10 NLT
All you Bible thumpers better get caught up and start putting people to death. It says so in the Bible DAMMIT! There goes half the adult population in the US. SHIT!
BLevah
One in three women will be sexually abused by the age of 18.
One in six men will be sexually abused by the age of 18.
This is a huge problem that is ignored by most people. It is also one that affects a huge amount of lesbian and gay people who are even more messed up wondering whether God created them gay or whether their sexual abuse did. A horrible shame that a gift from God can become so perverted by human abuse.
Donnie — and so many more child victims of rape and abuse — need our prayers, understanding and love.
Many Gay & Lesbian Christians have been uplifted by Donnie, even while he has hurt them also by making us feel sinful, rather than the blessed children of God. I mean specifically, being made gay, God has given us a special understanding of how what the world says about Jesus, God and all our unique and blessed relationships with the Most High. We do not have it so easy that we believe so much of the idolatry that passes as faith. We have to really pray, study, wrestle with God and passionately desire our greatest relationship with God through the Holy Spirit. While… hard to understand when we are young, but a serious blessing when we are older and wiser … our blessed creation as gay and lesbian Christians. Hallelujah, Lord Jesus, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven, Glory to God!
Chris
Donnie is still gay just maybe not practicing it now. I can respect that he wants to remain single and devote his life to the Lord. I’m sure he still has gay temptations however. Do I think he’s magically turned on by women now? No.
CESS
OK, really you can’t judge someone unless you have the facts at your fingertips. Whether one has read his book, those blogs all over the place or heard from someone, Pastor Donnie McClurkin was thrust into a lifestyle that really was not his choice through rape by uncle and later cousin. He talks about (in his book) how he had that sexual ambiguity for 20 yrs, but God delivered him as he surrendered to him in his walk.
Truth be said, the devil will never be happy for losing Donnie Mcclurkin, so that is why he lashes out at him through whatever means. But more truth, God had him in mind before he ever knew he would exist, he had a plan for his life to reach many souls, tough as his experiences were, God has used them to reach many lives for himself. God knew there can only be one Donnie Mcclurkin, just like you and me, and that he had to be on his side, his wonderful child through whom he will touch the nations for himself. Whether through song or preaching, God is doing just that and remembers nothing about his past. If we think we have seen what God can do with Donnie Mcclurkin, we ain’t seen nothing yet, let us stay tuned, more is coming, far much greater than what God has done with him.
Pastor Donnie, keep preaching and worshipping your maker like never before, if attacks are being hurled against you out there, hey, the devil and crew should be reminded we are praying for you too, an army all around the world, that Christ be preached through the ministry God has bestowed upon you. Some people may have given you a couple of years to see if you really mean what you say/preach, on this, even to your old age, he is there waiting to watch over you too. Even if we forgot and slept on the job, JESUS is forever interceding for you, all the heavenly host is rooting for you and when you win, we win all of us, to the devil’s shame, well, what else does he deserve but that and worse!
How Donnie Mcclurkin looks (e.g., someone may say he looks so gay) matters less to God, one thing for sure, there is a certain level of humility around this man that is even rare with many ministers of the gospel, he preaches what he lives and really, the rate at which God is moving with him, I doubt there is any room for looking back at anything, now that is a news flash for the devil and crew. Pastor Donnie, STAND, and after you have done everything, just STAND, God is for you not against you.
cabear
Sorry I can not respect ANYONE who makes money off preaching the bible , all show, disgusting
Tyrone
Please please once again I asked you TVONE to change “Black Men Revealed” to “Stupid men Talking” out of pure respect for mankind! Today the country is dealing with the wrongful attack on the first black President only because he is black. The BP oil spill two wars ( Iraq & Afghan.) HIV, employment at record high for black people! Black senior citizen murder by white cops and young black children as young as two year old shot by cops! Police in New York Stop & Frisk black children program! Black children walking home from school made to take off their shoes and drop trousers in full view of the public! The Subject matter on “Black Men Revealed” Four black men candidly discuss what they love and admire about women. Other subject matter has been light skin verses dark skin..black men dating white men…On the downlow…etc… To think these idiot claim to be what black men are revealing what’s on black men minds! Two brother that are college grads seem to be educate idiot! These two so-call educate brothers talk like teenage just arriving to earth stupid looking for dumb acting ignorance! As a black man at 51 years old they are a embarrassment to all men but especially black men! TVONE should be sued by the NAACP and all black teenagers and black adult men for making them look STUPID! To think there is not more outrage from the black community against this stupid ignorance show. The parent of the two brother that host the show should also be sued and jail. For producing not one but two ignorance un-intelligent FOOL!
$0.02
To all the gullible, uneducated, unintelligent, lackinginthe dept. of proper grammar, Donnie has not changed. He just knows how to fool idiots but a leopard does not change her spots.Continue to live in the magical land of denial all you please. All you all are showing is how the schooling system in this country, and apparently abroad, have completely failed. That is all…
Chs
wont you mind your own business and let God judge His own……..wahtever Pastor Donnie does is between him and God no one forced you to believe his change……grow up…
rick
Mr. McClurkin is a delusion fraud. One cannot change their sexual orientation…just as one cannot change their eye color or their skin color. One can wear color contacts or bleach their skin in order to try and decieve the world of their true eye color and skin color. But in truth they havent really changed anything, just found unique ways to cover it up.
Mr. McClurkin has used the bible as a means to cover up his orientation and like so many evangelicals has taken the bible hostage and used it as a means to try and cover up the fact that he is uncomfortable with his sexual orientation.
The only true sin connected to homosexuality is denying it and pretending it doesnt exist and teaching people that they are ‘bad’ or ‘evil’ for being different.
God made everyone different and for different reasons and some people he made gay or lesbian or trans gendered. Trying to question God’s motives is like trying to figure out why dogs pee on fire hydrants..who knows?? who really cares??? Our job is simply to love and accept one another AND ourselves, just as Jesus commanded us too!
Mr. Mcclurkin has missed the mark by a mile and HIS teachings (NOT Christ’s) are in fact hurting thousands of people worlwide causing severe emotional and spiritual damage to so many of our gay and lesbian youth.
Donnie Mcclurkin alongside so many of his fellow evangelical homophobes is DIRECTLY RESPONSIBLE for the suicides of so many gay youth who have been brainwashed into thinking they are worthless and evil bc of who they are! Their blood is on his hands!!! As fast talking of a preacher as he may be now… When he meets his maker i wonder if his words will be so sharp and swift when he is faced with the reality of all the damage he has done. I can only hope that God is kinder and more forgiving to him then Donnie has been towards so many gay and lesbian persons who have been decieved by his hate and lies and so emotionally and spiritually damaged!
In my honest opinion i would say one is better off an atheist than be a part of McClurkin’s so called Church. Because the more people who become a part of it…the larger it grows and the larger it grows the more innocent people become victimized by his lies and hate.
My mother told me as a child that the devil comes in many forms and has many faces… Mr. Mcclurkin has allowed himself to become one of the devils faces (metaphorically speaking). My hope is that someday logic, reason, and the guidance of the TRUE Holy Spirit will enter this man of hate’s heart and warm it like Christ warmed the heart of Paul.
Lady K
@Terri: Hallelujah to that! i mean HELLO! why cnt ppl let the past remain buried? jst focus on your lives and live Donnie McClarkin alone