Hunky Broadway star Hernando Umana came out as HIV-positive in an emotional Instagram post this week.
“This is by far the most important, scary, liberating post of my life,” Umana writes. “10 years ago, at a young young age of 20, I was diagnosed with HIV.”
Umana, who is best known for appearing in the first national touring productions of Kinky Boots and School of Rock, goes on to recount the moment he first learned of his HIV-positive status.
“It wasn’t possible,” he remembers thinking. “I had only slept with 3 people in my life! This can’t be true. The first words out of my mouth were ‘How long do I have to live?’ That’s how uneducated I was about it.”
He continues:
It had been drilled in my head that gay people get HIV because of wrong doings and they deservingly die from it. Well I’m here to shut that sh*t down. There is NOTHING wrong with me and I am healthier than I’ve ever been. In the last 10 years I’ve met countless of HIV positive men. Some of these men are so affected by the stigma that they don’t tell a soul about their status, even go as far as not taking their medication.
Umana says that he hopes by opening up about his status it will help not only end the stigma many people still associate with HIV, but help raise awareness to people living with HIV in disadvantaged communities.
“We still have a lot of fighting to do for the people who don’t have the privilege of cost affective medication,” he writes.
He adds:
I stand on the shoulders of the millions of people who had to suffer and die from this disease. I stand on the shoulders of the gay men who were forced out of the closet in such a scary time. These men and woman fought and died to get to where we’re at now- To take a pill at night and never have to worry about dying. To get the disease to a point where it is IMPOSSIBLE to transmit (undetectable). How can I be ashamed of this? I honor their legacy by telling my story.
Umana concludes his post by encouraging people to talk about HIV. Ask questions. Share concerns. Take PrEP. Use condoms. Be safe.
“Let’s end this stigma forever and eventually end HIV forever!” he writes. “I, Hernando Umana, am a proud gay man LIVING with HIV. F**k that feels good to say.”
Vince
Great story in very much helps the community. It’s another kind of
coming out story and one that’s needed very badly.
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Great you have stood up , we all need to fight the stigma of Hiv !
Amalgamate
wrong-this guy is an idiot-no one should be catching HIV in 2018-what imbecilic rock has he been living under to have unsafe sex in 2018???
amanofcolours
@Amalgamate – Please re-read the article; I think you may have missed some VERY important information that will hopefully have you take back the comment you wrote
dwes09
Amalgamate:
When you only read the headline before commenting you open yourself up to ridicule.
You are in no position to refer to another as an idiot!
jcoberkrom
Are those that “come out” really fighting the stigma or enforcing it? Seriously!
dwick
How is someone coming out positive enforcing the stigma?
geb1966
That’s the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.
QueerTruth
Please explain your thinking as it does not appear to make any sense.
DCguy
This is a definitive troll comment.
Do you notice that it merely attacks the post, but doesn’t provide any back up for doing that. It’s like the B.S. Trump pulls when he says “People are saying…”
Lacuevaman
I agree jcoberkrom. notice how these queen nazis on here attack you. how dare you have any idea different from theirs. they are feckless and vapid water-carriers for a narrow cause that will prove far more hurtful to queer health than anything the right can produce.
Curtispsf
Please remove your head from your arse. It’s stuck so far up that you’re having difficulty seeing clearly.
dwes09
Lacuevaman:
GOD you’re dull!
OK, I’ll bite, please try and explain how people coming out about their status will “enforce stigma,” if you can.
This is not about a difference of opinion, and need I repeat, you seem to have no notion of the difference between an opinion and a fact or accurate observation. It appears to be an inability to understand the meaning of specific words.
How do you manage to hold the idea that truthfully discussing status and prevention will “prove far more hurtful to queer health than anything the right can produce”? Once again, try to explain that in a way that at least seems sane.
The right (folks like you, child) demonstrates over and over again that their world is constructed of myths, half truths and outright lies so as to maintain their comfort and sense of safety. It was the right that held on to the lie that HIV was entirely a gay disease and punishment from God for as long as they possibly could (some still claim that). It was the right that wanted to round up and quarantine gay people rather than recognize the actual epidemiological reality and support research. It is the right that still sees basic protections for LGBT people as “special rights”. Their most basic assumptions are hurtful to “queer health”.
bowlingbutch
I can’t help tearing up when I read this. It is an emotional story and I remember all the talent and wisdom we lost to AIDS and how far we have come. My lover died in 1991 and the meds back then made him sicker. I love reading such an inspiring positive story. And I am so proud of the struggles others went through and how this gentleman reflected on that. There are so many stories out there waiting to be told. By talking about HIV, being positive, AIDS and all it encompasses makes it easier for others to find support and helps lift that dark cloud some people still insist on attaching to persons who are positive. Back in the late 80’s when my lover found out he was positive we moved from Little Rock to Dallas to keep his status from friends. Thankfully we are l-o-n-g past that era and that fear.
dre23222
Thanks for sharing your story @bowlingbutch. I also want to thank this guy for sharing his story. Its a positive story that needed to be shared.
Amalgamate
sorry for your loss, but why are you moved by this idiot? with all the info and help out today, there is ZERO excuse for having unsafe sex with an infected person-ZERO!
garyrj
Wonderful story!
Amalgamate
its wonderful that this idiot had irresponsible unsafe sex??
Romen Rotberg
Really great story
Amalgamate
what???? this idiot, despite all of the decades of research and advisements had unsafe sex and got infected!
KevInSD
All you need to do to avoid HIV is not have anal sex with anyone who is infected or whose status is unknown. That’s it. If you avoid that one thing, you’re good. And this clown couldn’t manage that one thing. This was in 2008, not 1981. So I have a hard time seeing what he has to be “proud” of or why there shouldn’t be stigma attached to incredibly stupid choices.
jsmu
@KevinSD—There’s always one ignorant, hateful, miserable TROLL in the comment section of any inspiring story like this one. You know nothing about HIV transmission , nothing about the circumstances under which Umana was infected, and nothing about being a human. Crawl back into your sewer and get off this site, you ugly little roach.
Vince
@KevInSD. I’m very proud of him coming forward knowing it could effect his career and social life. That takes balls. Something a coward like yourself could never do. He’s someone that’s actually making a difference while all you know how to do is shit on others to make your pathetic self feel better.
Now STFU and move on Troll.
KevInSD
@Vince – Yah, he’s really making a difference. He has compromised his health, possibly shortened his life, possibly inflicted harm on other people, and definitely is taxing the health care system’s limited resources. That’s quite a difference he is making. And despite all the carnage, he insists that no stigma should attach to any of his choices. Sorry, no deal.
Calin
@KevinSD What a poor comment to make, first of all anal is not the only way you can get HIV, second have compassion. Is it really that hard to have an ounce of decency? Are you that miserable in your life that you have to be an a hole, be nice it doesn’t cost a thing and you probably be happier. Try it please! Sending you a big hug and a kiss!!
QueerTruth
It must be a lonely place to be above it all. When misfortune finds you for an error in your life, let’s hope that you are humbled and not persecuted and judged like you are doing to this actor.
I feel sympathy for you and joy for the actor.
DCguy
Hey Queerty, come on, these anti-LGBT troll accounts are really flaring up again. Is this site for LGBT people or is it a site where anti-LGBT people have free reign to come in and attack?
Amalgamate
Kevin you are 100% right-this guy and his supporters are idiots-no one should catch HIV today-NO ONE!! If you do, you demean all of those who died and fought and studied to help those today not get infected. Stupid millennials
Lacuevaman
right on KevinSD.!! Notice how these queen nazis call folks they do not agree with “cowards” or “trolls” or supporters of Trump? they are the disease threatening the diverse evolution of queer culture. you can almost smell the stench of their rot when reading their words..
KevInSD
@ QueerTruth – You wrote: “When misfortune finds you for an error in your life, let’s hope that you are humbled”
You have it exactly right! When we make stupid choices and those choices result in harm, we should be humble about it. This guy is the opposite. As the article tells us, he is proud.
When we screw up, we should own up to it and not shrink from judging our own actions as having fallen short. By contrast, this guy insists that no stigma should attach to his choices.
So actually, you agree with with me. Thanks for the support!
batesmotel
There are more people than you realize that feel they’re immune to catching the HIV virus until it happens. It’s not like the 80’s when there were very public scares about it. In today’s world it’s not really talked about much anymore. Sex is glorified, but the potential repercussions are not. In the 90’s safe sex was promoted in pop culture, that’s no longer happening anymore. So you’d be surprised as to why HIV has been on the rise again.
Amalgamate
wow-what idiot catches HIV in 2018???
dwes09
What idiot cannot actually read an article before commenting?
Vince
@Lacuevaman@Amalgamate@KevInSD. Gee you all sound so similar. That’s totally amazing. Good try Troll. Lol
Jaroslaw
Hi Vince – I am not Lacuevaman, Amalgamate or KevinSD. These guys could have been gentler but I do not think having unsafe sex “with only three people” makes this guy some kind of hero. Do you? It doesn’t make him a villain either, we all have our shortcomings. But knowing AIDS can be a death sentence, is it worth the risk to have unprotected sex?
Vince
Did you actually read your babble before you sent it? Not going to comment on stupid. lol
Lacuevaman
having difficulty understanding there are queers out there that dont buy your merde? you, DCGurl and Dumbston are all the same to many of us fighting against the sissification of queer culture. grow a little.
Curtispsf
@Lacuevaman@Amalgamate@KevInSD All you guys are into is blaming and shaming. Your utter lack of compassion defines you as nothing less than sewer rats. Please crawl back to the room you’ve been locked up in underneath the staircase in Grandma’s basement apartment. And someone, please, take away your internet privileges. You don’t deserve them. With love, Grandpa.
batesmotel
HIV has been on the rise again over the last fifteen to twenty years. Especially among younger gay men. Part of this is because many of them haven’t watched friends contracting or passing away due to the aids virus. HIV advocates have been trying to do another outreach to younger gays, but haven’t been successful. The statistics available indicate this since the number of younger gays contracting HIV are higher than they’ve been in years past. So the fact that this guy is talking about it, perhaps that can hit home for a younger gay person that HIV is alive and well. And that you don’t have to be promiscuous for it to happen. It only takes you to sleep with one person.
Birdbrain1963
I’ll be your slave. Worship you and provide you with anything you want!