Was Your First Gay Date Heartwarming Or Horrific? Guys Share Their Answers.

By now, most of us are so jaded that when we hear the word “date,” the first things that come to mind are an empty apartment, Netflix and a pint of Ben and Jerry’s.

Just us? Oh.

Well think back to that first date experience. The butterflies, the adrenaline, the fumbling in the back seat of a car followed by worrying if you went too fast.

Just us? Oh.

We asked Whisper to round up what guys are saying about their first (or first after a long dry spell) man-on-man dates.

Here’s what they found:

I'm gay and was on a first date with a guy yesterday. I went to go to the bathroom and when I came back he was on the phone calling me a whale to someone. I just left. Wish a guy could just like me.

Went on my first date in years last night. It was so fun! Nice to meet another gay guy who has similar tastes and isn't like all the others. Perfect gentleman.

I'm finally about to go on my first gay date. Here's to me finally accepting me for who I am.

I just had my first date with another gay guy and he wants to take things a lot faster than I do so I'm confused and nervous.

Last time I fell for someone, he was only pretending to be gay so he and his friends could beat the shit out of me on our

I had my first ever gay date today. I don't think it will go anywhere but it was simpler than expected and won't be the last!

Had my first date ever... And with a guy I'm crazy about. The butterflies won't stop and I'm nervous because he said yes to another date. This is the last thing i want to mess up... (Gay)

I went on my first date with another out gay guy yesterday. I was surprisingly comfortable being out in public.. Don't know what I was so worried about.

I went on my first date in 7yrs. I thought it went great.  This is the first guy I went on a date with since I came out and hasnt talked to me since and it hurts. Now I feel like I cant go out again.

As a gay guy, I just want to enjoy myself, not sleep with a guy on the first date.

Today I had my first date with my boyfriend. We're both gay teens, we're both still not fully out, we weren't all alone, and yet, it was one of the greatest days of my life.

I deleted all my

My first date with a guy and it gets cancelled. Fuck my life. Gay guys never have any luck!

Just went on my first date with another man. Total bust. Time to drink up the courage to try again.