
There was some of that [ageism] with ‘Padam’, where it surprised people and went on ‘youth-orientated’ radio. But I think we’re in a time where it’s not cool to be ageist. People are over it.
Kylie Minogue speaking to Radio Times on battling ageism and enjoying the success of “Padam Padam” after nearly 40 years in the business.
What’s really interesting is that it’s the younger people saying, ‘We love the song.’ The current thinking, which is amazing and a breath of fresh air, is that labels are dropping.
You can like what you like, be what you want to be. That’s helpful for me right now.
Another thing is, I’ve had people say to me, throughout the years, ‘You’ll always just be you.’ They don’t really see my age, which is kind of funny, because I started so young, and if there was any detrimental aspect to that it was, ‘You’re so young, what do you know, how can you be credible?’
At different points in my career, whatever age I’ve been, there’s been something to navigate. I spoke about it on my album “Golden”, saying, ‘We’re not young, we’re not old, we’re golden, you can only be who you are at that point in time.’
I have friends for whom, on their phone, I’m just called Sparkle. I don’t quite know how I’ve managed it, but I don’t think I’ve had to deal with it as much as some other people.
I’ve been spending a lot of time, much more than in recent years, being in the States and ‘Padam’ just keeps Padaming, really. I’m trying to keep up. It’s very exciting.
I would say, ‘Who would have thought?’ but I don’t think that’s the best attitude. It’s more, ‘Here we are and why not?’ Give it a go.
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Just.my.opinion
One of the ugliest songs ever written. I cringe every time I hear just a clip of it.
nm4047
ugliest? can’t say I’ve EVER heard a song reference as ugly. PS: it’s a pop song, guess it’s out of you listening genre.
abfab
I have.
If tomorrow all the things were gone
I worked for all my life
And I had to start again
With just my children and my wife
I thank my lucky stars
To be living here today
‘Cause the flag still stands for freedom
And they can’t take that away
And I’m proud to be an American
Where at least I know I’m free
And I won’t forget the men who died
Who gave that right to me
And I’d gladly stand up next to you
And defend Her still today
‘Cause there ain’t no doubt
I love this land
God Bless the U.S.A.
From the lakes of Minnesota
To the hills of Tennessee
Across the plains of Texas
From sea to shining sea
From Detroit down to Houston
And New York to L.A.
Where’s pride in every American heart
And it’s time we stand and say
That I’m proud to be an American
Where at least I know I’m free
And I won’t forget the men who died
Who gave that right to me
And I’d gladly stand up next to you
And defend Her still today
‘Cause there ain’t no doubt
I love this land
God Bless the U.S.A.
And I’m proud to be an American
Where at least I know I’m free
And I won’t forget the men who died
Who gave that right to me
And I’d gladly stand up next to you
And defend Her still today
‘Cause there ain’t no doubt
I love this land
God Bless the U.S.A.
Songwriters: Lee Melvin Greenwood
RyanMBecker
@abfab
Good one. I definitely cringe when I hear those sacchariny flag waving lyrics. And that was before the song got associated with Trump. Now it’s bsolutely nauseating.
salumbre
I’m a Jurassic gay who doesn’t do clubs or hookups anymore, and I love the song. It captures a whole Zeitgeist, and it does it really well. Plus the videos have a lot of flair.
Good for Kylie.
DrJones
So wait, was this supposed to be a point that since Kylie is is 50+, that Gen Z wouldn’t listen? That’s dumb. Everyone knows she is gay royalty, she’s been in the club with Madonna, Cher, Bette, etc. for decades. And to “just.my.opinion,” maybe keep it to yourself next time, while it’s certainly not “high art,” it’s a fun bop and definitely the song of the summer despite what VMAs say.
Magnus1999
Don’t get me wrong, I love Kylie. This song is fine, but it’s milquetoast. But the enthusiasm was completely manufactured by the industry.
Jack
Can’t let you get away with a lie, my friend. The enthusiasm was from the fans both old and new. It was an insanely catchy song with an amazing video. “The industry” doesn’t create that kind of buzz about a song. I live in Nashville, work for a big label and I’m really not sure what you think “the industry” does, but a label releases an artist’s record and video, the artist promotes the record, it’s “served” to radio and they play it or not. Success is really determined by how much the fans love the song/album. I wish it could be manufactured. We’d all be rich!
Vince
Being 50+ I’m not part of the young gays but I love the song. It’s cute and I love the youtube/tick tock parody’s of it.
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Georgeiv2
prefer the Piaf original title song !
abfab
Milord!
Fname Optional Lname
She creates gay so effortlessly.
Doug
“But I think we’re in a time where it’s not cool to be ageist….”
Yeah, right… when you have a net worth of 120 million, you can pay to be surrounded by people who will keep you in that bubble.
ScottOnEarth
I have to agree with Doug. Although I LOVE Kylie and ‘Padam Padam’ is an incredible song, ageism is alive and well in every corner of western society. Kylie happens to live in a bubble that does not include the real world. It is notable that not one radio station here in L.A. has played ‘Padam,’ in spite of it being *the* song of the summer around the world. So, yes, ageism is worse than ever.
abfab
Tell that to Marieanne Faithfull. And are you really still listening to radio stations?
RyanMBecker
It’s probably not my place to criticize the gay male community but I’ll do it anyway… Gay males make up one of the most ageist demographics in America. And it’s probably true in most Western countries. Several studies have documented this. One study found that of the four groups — straight men, straight women, gay men, gay women — gay men were by far the most ageist, with straight men in second. Lesbians were the least ageist. And if I’m not mistaken, lesbians were also the least body conscious. I can’t remember, but I think that gay men and straight women were the most body image conscious. That’s also why both groups rank highest is eating disorders.
A few years ago, there was even a short film depicting an older gay man repeatedly striking out with younger men. It was sad, but not too far from reality.
Another study looked at the tendency to date above one’s own attractiveness. I forget the methods, but researchers managed to rank subjects based on looks. I believe they had every subject rate every other subject, and each person’s rating was the average of those ratings. Then they gave the participants photos of the other subjects, and asked if they would date them. Of the groups they studied, gay men were most likely to only date people who rated more attractively than themselves.
Both those findings explain the mental health crisis among older gay men. I did some work with Senior Action in a Gay Environment (SAGE), and the stories I heard were heartbreaking. Many had feelings of loneliness, isolation and depression. Not only were most single and childless, but worst, many also had elements of self-hate. The ageism and youth-worship they had as young men were now turned against themselves. It didn’t help that younger gay men were largely ignoring them. In fact, many were flattered that I was so interested in their lives. So much so that I didn’t have the heart to tell them that I was straight (how many straight 20 yo’s know about the Mattachine Society and Daughters of Bilitis? Heh).
RyanMBecker
I’m [relatively] young and probably not gay, but the song doesn’t do much for me. Love the video but her voice is so heavily processed that I don’t understand much of what she’s saying (that’s true of Tension as well). I assume though that most of the song is in English and some Australian aboriginal language.
When AI takes over the music industry, her voice will be one of the first ones to be replicated. And no one will know the difference. Or care.