Meet Josh Sorbe, the 23-year-old swimming champion for the University of South Dakota. Sorbe captained the schoolās Division 1 swim team his senior year, leading the menās team to a second-place finish in the Summit League Conference. In a new essay forĀ OutSports,Ā Sorbe reveals that he once thought such a success would not be possible for him. The reason: heās openly gay.
āI love South Dakota,ā Sorbe writes. āOften, rural Americans are stereotyped to be roadblocks to inclusion. The people are generally kind, caring and community-minded. They fight for one another, but the stereotype of the intolerant few can manifest itself as the reality of the many in the minds of closeted LGBTQ+ rural Americans.ā
Sorbe goes on to recall his struggles with adolescent depression and anxiety as a result of living in the closet. He also reveals that he endured considerable harassment at the hands of his classmates for his effeminacy. Worse, when he reported the bullies, the school refused to take action. For Sorbe, however, that setback proved a turning point.
āI realized I could coast through school and keep bending to expectations with disdain, or I could authentically pursue my own path,ā Sorbe says. āI chose the latter. I learned to accept my sexuality and persona as a strength of mine.ā
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Sorbe opted to come out publicly after high school graduation. Still, after a lifetime of harassment, he expected to encounter the same thing at the University of South Dakota. Fortunately, he met a very different reception there.
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āI was recruited to swim for the University of South Dakota Coyotes, and in my first individual meeting as an athlete with Coach Jason Mahowald I told him I was newly out,ā Sorbe remembers. āThe first thing he told me was that he did not tolerate discrimination of any kind and that we were a family. A family that looked out for one another from that day on ā especially the LGBT teammates and alumni ā that I continue to hold onto after graduation.ā
āMost importantly, my Coyote family inspired me to improve as a human and be true to myself,ā Sorbe writes. āI challenged myself and ran successfully for student body president, and later I had the honor of being named a Harry S. Truman Scholar ā the premier graduate scholarship for public service ā and become their development and communications officer as my first full-time job.ā
Sorbe also found an unexpected level of social acceptance at USD. In addition to becoming team captain and a Truman Scholar, he also landed the job of Student Body President his senior year, and won the title of Homecoming King.
āI still struggle in hyper-masculine situation,ā Sorbe confesses, āvery prevalent in collegiate athletics ā but I was armed with the knowledge that my experience is valid and a necessary perspective for athletics to truly progress to be a place for all. When I would see new athletes, I always remember my times of hardest struggles ā knowing anyone can be in that period right now too.ā
āThatās my advice to younger, especially rural, LGBTQ+ athletes,ā Sorbe concludes āFight like hell, because your visibility matters.ā
Well done, Josh.
nm4047
water must have been cold. Or maybe a big of tucking took place before the photos. š
TheAbsoluteTRUTH
As an old man with probably a few thousand encounters in my life ( yeah i was a hoe for most of it) i can tell u that Iāve found that guys that show the least pack the most or grow ridiculously into it. Guys that show big boxes are the ones that usually just firm up not get bigger when excited. Never underestimate a non-shower or you might just wind up biting through a pillow because its too big…lol
Jerry
Thatās what yaāll took away from this???? Size? No wonder people think gays are perverts. I would hate for him to read this article and then see your posts.
ScottOnEarth
I couldn’t agree more, Jerry. Well-said.