The Reality Of Being A Gay Frat Boy


Frats offer no shortage of mythology, from extreme hazing to wild parties to closeted hookups. But the reality is much different, of course. Well, usually.

Below, get a window into the gay frat experience through Whisper.

We’d definitely like the expanded version of a few of these stories:

Living in a frat house as a gay guy can be a blessing and a curse. Alpha dude here, but I like when a guy takes control.

Being gay and in a frat isn't easy. Just wish things were better

As a gay dude living in a frat house it's like a buffet. None of the guys know I mess with any other guys in the house. They would all have heart attacks

I'm gay but the guys in the fraternity I joined don't know. I've hid it around them. Should I tell them the truth?

I'm in love with a guy in my fraternity, he doesn't even know I'm gay

I'm gay and in a fraternity. If they're really your brothers they won't care.

One of my pledge brothers is openly gay and I am not. He's the only one who knows about it. He was the worst person to tell because now he wants to out me to the whole house. I'm not ready yet..

I think I'm gay but I don't know how to come out to my fraternity

I'm in a fraternity that's against letting gay people join.. I'm gay

More and more of my guy friends are coming out to me and trying to hookup with me after I was the first in my frat to come out as gay

I'm trying to get the courage to come out to my fraternity. I'm sick of living in silence about it. If they drop me, then screw them

I pretend to be homophobic around all of my frat brothers. In reality I'm in the closet and jealous of those who are out.

My Frat was accepting of one of the dudes who came out this semester. But at the same time, I can tell they treat him a little different. I'm in the closet and may stay there because of this

I'm a closeted gay guy in a fraternity I'm scared to come out I love my brothers

I'm in a fraternity and I'm planning to come out to my brothers soon. I know some are homophobic but I want to be honest.

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