We’ve found the new Main Character of the Gay Day.
The only thing more perplexing than the unspoken rules governing gym etiquette is the newfangled magic of mass email marketing. And unfortunately, Paul (Twitter X user @GayCrossfit) was stumped by both.
It all started with an email from Equinox encouraging “acts of common courtesy” in regards to phone usage on the floor. As a means of personalization, the Supreme Gay Gym of Choice used a code to generate each member’s first name in the greeting. (“Dear TK…”)
The nuance was lost on Paul. And he took it personally.
To be fair, if a gym were to single out a member with a list of rules, we’d take that as an affront. (Who is a corporation to determine whether or not we were looking up fitness tips on the Grindr grid?!) But this Twitter Gay one-upped even the most simplest excuse by replying to the poor Equinox customer support team with a carefully-crafted rebuttal for each rule.
“Trying to really understand why this email was sent to me and will assume it was sent to the wrong person,” he wrote. “Cause I’m FOR SURE NOT THE ONE.” Oof, you tell ’em!
Perhaps this minuscule misunderstanding of email mechanics would’ve gone unnoticed (aside from a polite form-response from Equinox support), except Paul decided to share the entire exchange on Twitter X.
It did not take long for a mob of Twitter Gays to hit the reply section with assurances that they, too, received this email –– and the fact that he took it as a personal attack marked some unchecked Main Character Energy.
Isn’t it possible that this is just a preprogrammed email with your name attached. They aren’t difficult to create 😅
— Cex (Get it) (@ItsExhem) August 30, 2023
Lmao it was sent to everyone
— joshua (@joshsimontweets) August 29, 2023
You : pic.twitter.com/6VmaMGBy4n
— Daniel Zennon (@dzennon) August 29, 2023
To his credit, after realizing every Equinox member received the same email, Paul took the viral post (which has been viewed over 832.7K times) in stride.
“Well, the reviews are in! Ugly people HATE ME!,” he wrote after owning up to his protagonist-at-the-gym energy in another post.
Of course, the reactions ranged from hilarity, to vitriol, to other members who thought the email was singularly directed at them.
That being said, there’s some silver linings to this steam-room cloud.
Paul can remain an Equinox member WITHOUT feeling attacked. And by the time this is published, social media will have moved on to another Main Character of the Gay.
Check out some of the most hilarious rebuttals from Gay Twitter™ below.
as someone who also got this email, i’m obsessed
— Terron Moore (@Terr) August 29, 2023
wait this is so dumb I’m obsessed 🤣
— Zach O’Connor (@Z_OC) August 29, 2023
No one:
— HEADLESS GRANNY (@headlessgranny) August 30, 2023
Your equinox:pic.twitter.com/cFkCGoy8rh
bachy
I really don’t appreciate yet another Queerty article being directed at me. OK so I tend to use my phone a lot at the gym. I’m wondering who reported me to the Queerty staff, specifically Carson Minarik?
I can see quite clearly that everyone posting here is really just one, vindictive, evil person using multiple false screen names – and they’re out to get me.
Rambeaux
As Sigmund Freud once said:
“The reason that you have paranoid thoughts is because everyone DOES hate you”.
nm4047
Next you’re going to tell me I’m not the only person that got those letters personally addressed to me from my Nigerian prince?
bachy
YOUR Nigerian prince???
abfab
This Chinese lady from China keeps calling me. I block but she still gets thru. I want my Nigerian prince back!
ncman
why does the image used to illustrate this article have nothing to do with anyone in the article?
abfab
Welcome to Queerty. Where anything can happen. Soon you’ll discover the joys of the topics and ignore the photos. It’s not the most well-curated site in the world. They do need to shift the focus once in a while.
Creamsicle
Because this is a lazy blog post trying to spin a meaningful narrative out of run-of-the-mill social media garbage. The original tweet doesn’t even have a meaningful amount of engagement. It’s just something that the post writer saw and decided to milk for low-effort content.
dbmcvey
The internet exists for clickbait.
abfab
Rice Street Prison exists for jailbait. Enter POS.
jp47
I would assume Equinox used everyone’s name on the email to personalize it, however it would have been simpler for all involved if they had addressed it: Dear Equinox member. No misunderstanding from that.
bachy
My first thought too. Not everything needs to be “personalized.”
abfab
Quite the business model. File chapter 13.
woodroad34
*phew!*. I was getting tired of calling self-absorbed people “Karen”…although this queen certainly deserves the moniker.
MSM
Instead of addressing the gym member by his or her first name, a simple…..TO ALL MEMBERS would have sufficed.
ondaboat0069
Grow a pair