Dale Everard has learned the hard way why it’s really not a good idea to perform oral sex on another person without their consent, especially when that person is straight, passed out drunk, with his girlfriend just a few feet away.
The 22-year-old Scottish man was found guilty of sexual assault in a Dunfermline Sheriff Court this week.
The incident happened in May of last year after Everard met the man and his girlfriend at a bar. Everard and the girlfriend hung out together all night. At some point in the evening, the victim left the pair to go back to he and his girlfriend’s shared apartment. Later that night, the girlfriend invited Everard back to the apartment to keep hanging out. Once there, the girlfriend passed out on the sofa. Meanwhile, Everard and the victim fell asleep in the couple’s bed, fully clothed.
Hours later, the victim awoke to find someone giving him oral sex in the dark. Assuming it was his girlfriend, he kept his eyes closed. When he finally opened them, however, he was “in a state of shock and anger” to see it was actually Everard.
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“You liked it,” Everard allegedly taunted him before running out of the apartment. He later sent a message to the girlfriend on Facebook telling her: “Your boyfriend needs to calm down.”
This week, Everard was sentenced to 18 months in prison for the incident. He has also been placed on the register of sex offenders.
“This was a serious offense carried out with considerable forethought,” Sherrif Craig McSherry told the young man. “You befriended the victim’s girlfriend, went back to the flat with her, entered the bedroom and carried out the sexual assault.”
Everard’s attorney, Stephen Morrison, said his client was “ashamed” and “appalled” by what he had done and claims it never would have happened had he not been intoxicated.
h/t: UK Courier
Ben Stimpson
Rape is rape no matter what we call it. Sucking someone off when they’re asleep is not and innocent thing to do.
Phillip Bernal
Yea and the guy remained asleep the whole time…. YEA RIGHT!
Harold DV
Isn’t this really old?
DDstar1me
Yes but, your honor? Did the plaintiff cum?
RIGay
@DDstar1me: ROFL!!! Well… now he’ll get LOTS of time to practice.
Ben Stimpson
“If the person is asleep… don’t make them a cup of tea, believe me, people who are asleep DO NOT want a cup of tea.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8
Richard Rothlisberger
And….that’s called rape.
Greg Ballard
Because this is what’s called “sexual assault”.
SonOfKings
Clearly, this is predatory behavior and a criminal offense. But with that said, sometimes it’t best to avoid putting yourself in these kinds of situtaions to begin with. Passed out drunk in bed wih a strange man you’ve met in a bar? Not a good idea for anyone, gay or straight, male or female. Is this staying out all night drinking until you pass out a young, White person’s thing? We Black folk prefer to always be in control and be aware of our surroundings. Ain’t nobody trying to be caught slipping.
Dennis Maloney Jr.
I bet this so called straight guy loved every minute of it, and I am sure it was better then any women gave him.
inbama
Ridiculous.
Brian
This is a stiff sentence for something so small.
Robert Small
Stupid, get the real criminals
Kevin J Desmond
It’s called RAPE !!!!!
Stache
Hot! Damn. This is like a real life bait bus. Ha. Most likely just as fake too.
Kangol
@Brian: That’s not what the rapist said, ba-dum-bump!
Stache
Rape isn’t letting someone pull your pants down and enjoying it last I heard.
Tony Chaplinski
sounds more like a cheap porn movie, He slept through the whole thing ? come on!
joeyty
@SonOfKings: “We Black folk prefer to always be in control and be aware of our surroundings.” I guess that’s why none of you Black guys have HIV.
Sam Raether
Why is this news? This is assault, regardless of anyone’s sexuality, jfc.
Glücklich
http://www.tubechop.com/watch/7510265
@Ben Stimpson:
Where’s the cartoon for roofying the tea?
Daniel Luis Ortiz
Give me a break! What he did was wrong but if it had been a girl blowing him charges would never have even been filed and everybody knows it.
James Sigmon
Old news
enlightenone
@Ben Stimpson: “…innocent thing to do…”
Neither is getting drunk! And no, you don’t keep your eyes closed THE WHOLE TIME.
The girlfriend was the reason why the satisfied “straight” boyfriend was forced to file charges!
Still doesn’t excuse the FB idiot. But then again, he can give all the BJ’s he wants in jail. Doubt if anyone of the other convicts will report him. Lol!
Matthew Simonds
Rape is rape and that’s rape.
Steven Burr
Oh Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeassseeeeeeeeee like he didn’t enjoy it!
Morten Jensen
not that this is ok – but same nation then let a man go who “fell” in such a way his penis penetrated a girls vagina….?!
rand503
please — the little snowflake got a free blowjob and enjoyed it while he thought it was a girl. Rape is anal penetration, I agree, but this is not.
Jean-Claude Poulin
Sorry ladies. “Rape” is penetration” penetration without consent is not only assault but is very dangerous but giving someone head doies not hurt them and it is not physically forced on them. You ladies are being brainwashed by militant feminist lesbians. Grow a pair will ya.
Raoul Wijnands
I think it’s completely wrong what the gay guy did, but … 18 months? I think a fine of a few hundred dollars or two weeks in prison would have been enough. He didn’t use any violence, nor did he threaten the victim.
Gerald GeeLocke Panuthos
Giancarlo85
Sexual assault. The prison term is just and fair. That is justice.
Poncho Sanchez
@Phillip Bernal: The article said that the victim wasn’t asleep, instead it says he assumed it was his girlfriend and kept his eyes closed. The straight’s story seems marginally plausible, but I can also understand the skepticism. The straight probably would of let it slide if he “liked” it.
Tim Collins
How a man is laying down the mouth open I’m going to dip it in there I don’t care of the sexual assaults are not they like it they like it you know they like it laugh out loud straight gay or not don’t keep your mouth open when you’re sleeping then you get a surprise
Dan Steele
Passed out drunk….I already see the problem. I’d have argued this to no end as the defending attorney.
Marcus A. Moutra
In jail where he belongs because that is rape regardless.
Eric Grich
You fucked up prick!!! It was innocent
Jim R Zundel
Well now he will be blowing for 18 months
Jim R Zundel
Aslam Hafiz Muhammad Umer
Really?
Darryl LuWayne Weeden
Must not have SUCKED it right.
Charles Pope Jr.
hilarious, except for the ‘assailant’ going to jail.
Franklin
Something is really wrong in this chat room when you have several gay men acting like what this guy did is something that is no big deal. May a few of you need to take a refresher on what constitute consent. Life is not a Shaun Cody movie. Log off and come back to the real world.
Giancarlo85
@Franklin: YEs they think its hot that a gay man did that to a straight man because those same clowns fantasize about straight men all the time. Sexual assault is sexual assault. It is not a laughin matter and is never acceptable.
@rand503: Nice. You’re excusing a crime. Sexual assault is sexual assault, and that includes oral sex.
Straight men don’t want you, so get over it.
Joel Nunez
Read it Selena lol
PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID
Damn! A lot of fucked up individuals in this thread who really suck…criminally so
Oliver Thiele
I think it’s a bloody insult to victims of rape to call this incident rape too. I’m tempted to call it blown out of proportion… uh…
Giancarlo85
@PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID: of course. They lust after straight men and then cry when they don’t get anything from them. They bash on other gay men for being too femme lol. Then they excuse sexual assault. A crime is a crime simple as that.
Rimminit
Everyone gives head differently. I seriously doubt if the guy couldn’t have recognized the BJ was from someone other than his GF, especially considering guys give much better BJ’s than women! I say, “get over it” and next time you let a guy give you head, don’t wait to cum before you cry rape.
Jesse Erickson
Well yeah. It’s basically molestation.
Jonathan Owens
With enough common stereotypes in the gay community are starting to show. Lots of dirty old men…
Bo Hamrk
@Dennis Maloney Jr.: Yes! How stupid for him to embarrass his girl”friend” by shouting out his homopobisim and getting her involved. It probably put a strain on their relationship. One can only wonder if they are still together or if he is out there looking for the halo of a BJ from another man. He should have just laid there and enjoyed it. I, too, was once roused to “attention” with another guy performing such an act. AND boy did it feel great! Only one man knows how to pleasure another one. I “pretended” to be asleep and then went back to sleep after he was done. I was satisfied and so was he. No harm no foul. Needless to say, we never saw each other again after that but, after 30+ years, I still remember that connection with him and cherish the thoughts.
Stache
@Eldred: No it wasn’t. He let his pants down and enjoyed it. Just because you don’t like the person that performed it doesn’t mean it’s rape.
Eldred
@Robert Small: The hell are you talking about, he IS a real criminal. Rape is rape you perv.
Bo Hamrk
@rand503: RAPE is the penetration of any human orifice causing pain and suffering, unwanted insertion of any inanimate/animate object and not wanting close contact with another individual. He was done no physical harm. If he were intelligent, most men would lay back and enjoy it without broadcasting it to the world. One would think he would be emotionally scared but, again, intelligent people would defer speaking about it. Don’t get me wrong, rape is not acceptable but, as a human man, BJ’s are not harmful and most men (again) do NOT care where they “cum” from if it feels good!
Eldred
@Oliver Thiele: Call it what you want. It was an unwanted sexual act. It was rape. don’t be stupid.
Bo Hamrk
@Franklin: Who’s not to say that the “str8” guy did consent BUT, he felt different afterwards? There are those who feel ashamed and “dirty” AFTER they consent! I’ve met quite a few in the duration of my life. They WANTED it for the “relief” but, then, afterwords they felt like they “might” be gay and lost it!
Bo Hamrk
@Rimminit: Boy, you hit that nail HEAD ON!:0
corey
What is the average any guy gets when he rapesa girl?
DuMaurier
@Jean-Claude Poulin:
” “Rape” is penetration” penetration…giving someone head doies not hurt them and it is not physically forced on them.”
“Rape” is defined differently in different jurisdictions; if you’re hung up on the word, every jurisdiction defines what happened here as some kind of sexual assault–yes, if a man did it to a woman, a woman to man, etc.
And in answer to a few other posts, yes, I realize this is the scenario of a lot of gay erotica/porn, but please, let’s keep one eye on the real world. You get arrested less that way.
Franklin
@Bo Hamrk: You guys are seriously sick in the head. Some women orgasm during a rape, does that negate the fact that they were raped? This man was robbed of his choice of being a willing participant in this sexual act. The perpetrator knew what he was doing was wrong, otherwise he would have asked to guy when he was awake and sober for sex. But instead he waited until this gentlemen was passed, out and probably hoped that once this guy realized what had happened that he would be too embarrassed to tell anybody about it. In fact I’d be willing to bet that this is probably not the first time this guy has done something like this. And you guys are straight up endorsing this kind of bs? There are way to many gay men out there that are ready and willing to have sex any and every way you want. Why are so many of you fixated on straight men? Is the thirst that real?
Bo Hamrk
@Franklin: NO! We are not seriously sick in the “head”. We are normal now and you are in the minority! As to “Some women orgasm during a rape”. WHAT!? Did you not see my previous entry? I suppose not. If a women orgasms’ during the pleasuring of the “outer lips” called the labia majora it is NOT considered sexual penetration. Just as if a male is NOT violated via his anal canal ~or~ any OTHER orifice. Plus, the article is not speaking of woman being raped. Just this one person [male]. Keep your insidious thoughts on the subject at hand and try not to let your emotions overwhelm you. Also, BTW, we are not always wanting to do anything to YOU str* guys. We have no thirst for the ones who are “str8” because, all the intelligent ones do not CARE. AND, u must be “str8″(?)as to why else would you be so defamatory on a GAY website is beyond me. Don’t go flattering yourself. We have other MEN [unlike u] who DO love it.
PS: and A LOT of them who want to “shove” things further! (IF u get the drift.)
Bo Hamrk
@Franklin: PSS: You are an imbecile… Please stay out of the gene pool.
Bo Hamrk
@Franklin: “Something is really wrong in this chat room when you have several gay men acting like what this guy did is something that is no big deal. May a few of you need to take a refresher on what constitute consent. Life is not a Shaun Cody movie. Log off and come back to the real world.”
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Well, well, well “Franklin”. This is NOT a chat room. Maybe YOU need to shutdown and reboot into the REAL world. This site is featured as an opinion format. Trolls are looked down upon highly. WHY do you spew forth such discrepancies and place your fear into words when everyone else on here is trying to get along and state THEIR OWN OPINION w/o having to result in demonizing others? Could it be that you have been ostracized from the “other” boards? We can welcome you with open arms [and whatever] only when you denounce your aberrations to homophobia. Just let us know when [and if] you CHOOSE to be “normal” as we are. 🙂 BTW, It is “constitutes”.
Bo Hamrk
@Franklin: “Some women orgasm during a rape.”
PLEASE send us that report. How else would you know other than if you were there!
I’ve had women orgasm just by looking at me!
Franklin
@Bo Hamrk: Honey, I’m as gay as they come. I just have a low tolerance for people who seem to think it’s somehow ok to take advantage incapacitated people because in your mind they may have wanted it. Also, I’m obviously not alone in thinking that something is wrong here, because multiple people have stated they have issues with this. So I said chat site. I misspoke while typing that response in a hurry because I had to get to work. I should have said comment section. Happy? Bottom line is If you have sexual contact with someone without their consent, regardless of weather penetration occurred, that is violating someone. Period. End of story. Additionally rape does’t always involve penetration. As far as orgasming during rape, yes, it is a thing that can happen. Here is a link to one article that talks about just that. Finally, I don’t care if the victim in this article had an orgasm. The perpetrator chose to sneak into this guys room while he was asleep and perform oral sex on him. I don’t understand in what alternate universe someone could even begin to think that this was something ok to do. I don’t get it, and I never want to get it. In fact you, you call me an imbecile, but the assertion that because the victim enjoyed, what happened must have not been wrong, is probably one of the most idiotic thing I have ever read. So lets run with that. Hypothetically speaking, lets take a set of twin brothers married to two different people. One day one of them decides he is tired of having sex with his wife and wants to have sex with his brother’s wife. So, he pretends to be his brother and gets to performing oral sex on his brother’s wife unbeknownst to her. She enjoys it at the time, but later finds out that it actually wasn’t really her husband. So by your logic nothing serious happened because A) she wasn’t penetrated and B) she enjoyed it.
Sluggo2007
I had a “straight” drinking buddy who used to crash at my house all the time or invite me back to his house because he knew he was going to get blown. We slept in the same bed. He always let me go down on him (pretending to be asleep) and never mentioned it the next morning. It went on for years until I moved away.
GayEGO
Oh come on, he just needed some cream for his coffee! :>)
Stache
@Franklin: I can guarentee you that no women would ever orgasm during a rape. Idiot.
Stache
@Sluggo2007: Thank god you’re straight buddy wasn’t too fucked up in the head like this one. Otherwise, you would’ve had dipshits like the judge and Franklin all screaming bloody murder.
Stache
This case reminds me of when black men were imprisoned or strung up on a tree for looking at a white women. Of coarse the gay guy is the bad guy in this case. If it had been a women everyone would’ve been are you crazy and good for you.
Franklin
@Stache: You were saying?
http://www.popsci.com/science/article/2013-05/science-arousal-during-rape
Stache
@Franklin: So what. 4-5% reporting an orgasm means nothing.
Bo Hamrk
@Franklin: I must have overlooked the link…
Bo Hamrk
@GayEGO: BA~ZIN~GA!
Bo Hamrk
@Franklin: I see no qualifications on her resume pertaining to any sexual degrees. She’s just a writer expressing her OWN opinion.
Get back here with some SUBSTANTIAL report(s). Hurry before you need to go to work. Take your time… 🙂
Bo Hamrk
@Franklin: http://www.jennymorber.com/blog/?page_id=36
Stache
Lastly, this..”Everard and the victim fell asleep in the couple’s bed, fully clothed.”
You fall asleep in the same bed with a guy you met earlier. Wake up to a blowjob and enjoy it. Now you claim you thought it was your GF. Bullshit.
Stache
Again, he voluntarily let his pants be unzipped and pulled down and enjoyed this BJ. Nothing was forced. This is akin to people claiming rape because they were drunk at the time. Never mind the fact that they were into it at the time.
Stache
@Bo Hamrk: When someone leads off the “study” with “probably” you know the rest is full of shit.
Stache
She basically found one or two people that had orgasms through some kind of rape. Then went on to other studies that said some people can have them by having their eyebrows stroked. Therefore, there’s most like many we’ll just never know. Lol
Franklin
@Stache: Sigh, first you call me an idiot because you claim that it never happens. I show you an article that says it does happen. Then you move goal posts and say, well it only happens 4-5% of the time so that doesn’t count. Also, I never said it happens all the time. I said it can happen, and apparently it does. 4-5% of the time is still more than never.
As for more sources:
Easteal, P. and McOrmond-Plummer, L. Real Rape, Real Pain: Help for women sexually assaulted by male partners, Hybrid Publishers, Melbourne (2006)
Finkelhor, D. and Yllo, K. License to Rape: Sexual Abuse of Wives, The Free Press, New York, (1985)
Maltz, W. The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse, HarperCollins Publishers Inc., New York, 2001
Matsakis, A. I Can’t Get Over It: A Handbook for Trauma Survivors, New Harbinger Publications Inc, California, (1992)
Petraitis, V. and O’Connor, C. Rockspider: The Danger of Paedophiles – Untold Stories, Hybrid Publishers, Melbourne (1999)
Russell, D. The Politics of Rape: The Victim’s Perspective, Stein and Day, New York, (1975)
It’s funny I don’t remember the article saying the guy let him unzip his fly. I believe it said he work up to him performing oral sex on him, which means he was probably asleep when the guy started. I don’t know about you, but if I have been consuming a lot of alcohol whenever I am woken up, the first few moments can be a bit confusion and it takes a while for me to put together where I am and what’s going on.
alphacentauri
This guy is creepy, and he’s a prime example of why people hate LGBT people.
alphacentauri
@Stache: I’m not surprised you’re excusing someone who raped/sexually assaulted someone sleeping. I’m guessing you would be fine with a man giving a woman oral sex while she’s asleep, or a lesbian woman giving oral sex to a hetero woman while she’s asleep.
Bo Hamrk
@Franklin: It’s really funny how you twist this article to “find” references to women when the only woman in this matter was just his girl”friend.” This is about another guy blowing another guy, n.o.t a woman at all was involved. Do you have an emotional issue from growing up telling/teaching you that being gay is wrong? You state that you are as gay as they come. Come on now, you are a closeted homophobe that not only hates men but, that you are “gay as they come”. Keep telling yourself that and vote Repub. They will make your life here better. [s.i.c.] YOU need to reboot and get your head out of the dark ages. If you ever had sleepovers when you were a kid, you know we all experimented and no one cared. If this guy feels (getting back to the subject at hand) that he was violated then, he has a problem. We are NOT talking about women. We are discussing M4M sex. I’ve N>E>V>E>R been turned down for giving a BJ. Wanted or not. Maybe that is a fault of mine (in a way) but, I guess I’ve always approached the more intelligent ones with open minds. (And legs!) 🙂
@alphacentauri: Do you get out much? Because not all LGBT ppl are this way. Just like str8 ppl they have the same outlook too.@Franklin: Also, Stache may have referenced you as an idiot, but that is mild compared to imbecile. Look it up.
Bo Hamrk
@Franklin: Oh, and, DON’T even bring pedophilia into this discussion. When you do that, you are completely NOT as “gay as they come” because, you sound like a fearmongering Xtain who hates themselves and are willing to spew verbal diarrhea on a message board that caters to LGBT ppl. IF you were one of “US”, you would KNOW better than to reference that meaning. Ponder that and PLEASE go away and come back when you get “edumacated and intelligented.” I feel sad that ppl out there are so confused as to what they are…
Realityis
All you guys blaming the victim are pathetic…. and I know some of you who come down hard on guys who slut-shame PrEP users.
Just a bunch of hippocrates and losers….
Stache
@Realityis: Rich coming from you. How much have you come down on the PReP users yourself?
Franklin
@Bo Hamrk: Whatever helps you sleep at night man. Just know that you, Stache, and Bill Cosby are probably about the only people that think performing sex acts on sleeping person is not a problem.
Realityis
@Stache: I don’t come down or criticize PrEP users if they use it responsibly ant the way it is supposed to be used. I couldn’t care less how slutty anyone is cus I’ve been there.
I only tell people the truth about the medication since I have been on it for years. And excuse me that I want a cure, to be cured, and not continually line the pockets of Big Pharma. Especially now since they have sunken their claws into the negative population. Fuck the vaccine, bring out the cure.
Stache
@Realityis: Yup. I hear you man.
Stache
@Franklin: No I prefer them to be awake but that’s just me and my ego speaking.
alphacentauri
@Franklin: LMAO!!! Yeah I would not be surprised if stache does not believe that Cosby raped those women while they were sleeping/drugged.
tjr101
People on this site are really defending this? Really? I thought 18 months was too lenient and suspect had this occurred anywhere in the US he would’ve gotten an even longer sentence.
You don’t get invited into someone’s home and then sexually assault them.
o.codone
Just last night my BF was TOTALLY passed out and I went to suck him, right away he ended up pissing in my mouth.
A warm mouth is very disinhibiting. Primal brain-stem level behavior. Anyway, I drank the whole piss-river. He didn’t remember any of it but he had a laugh. True story.
spemat
I am bisexual and would have put him in a coma… rape isn’t funny