Matt Damon continues to dig himself into a deeper hole after admitting to a reporter that he jokingly used the word “f*g” up until just a few months ago. Now, he’s changing his story, insisting he’s never actually used the antigay slur despite admitting otherwise.
In case you need a recap: In an interview with the U.K.’s Sunday Times, Damon said he used the “f-slur for a homosexual” until his daughter recently informed him it was, in fact, homophobic.
“I made a joke, months ago, and got a treatise from my daughter. She left the table. I said, ‘Come on, that’s a joke! I say it in the movie Stuck on You. She went to her room and wrote a very long, beautiful treatise on how that word is dangerous. I said, ‘I retire the f-slur!’ I understood.”
(Quick aside: We’d also like to point out that, in that same interview, Damon used the word “homosexual”, which GLAAD’s Media Reference Guide notes is considered offensive as it is “aggressively used by anti-gay extremists.” The word is restricted by several major media outlets, including The Associated Press, The New York Times, and The Washington Post.)
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Now, Damon has rushed out a lengthy statement walking everything back and claiming that he’s never actually used the antigay slur in his “personal life” and, in fact, does not “use slurs of any kind.”
In the statement, the 50-year-old offered a slightly different version of the story he told Sunday Times:
During a recent interview, I recalled a discussion I had with my daughter where I attempted to contextualize for her the progress that has been made – though by no means completed – since I was growing up in Boston and, as a child, heard the word ‘f*g’ used on the street before I knew what it even referred to. I explained that that word was used constantly and casually and was even a line of dialogue in a movie of mine as recently as 2003; she in turn expressed incredulity that there could ever have been a time where that word was used unthinkingly. To my admiration and pride, she was extremely articulate about the extent to which that word would have been painful to someone in the LGBTQ+ community regardless of how culturally normalized it was. I not only agreed with her but thrilled at her passion, values and desire for social justice.
He added that he’s never actually called anyone the antigay slur in his personal life (on camera, of course, is another story) and, more importantly, he supports LGBTQ people 1000%:
I have never called anyone ‘f****t’ in my personal life and this conversation with my daughter was not a personal awakening. I do not use slurs of any kind. I have learned that eradicating prejudice requires active movement toward justice rather than finding passive comfort in imagining myself ‘one of the good guys’. And given that open hostility against the LGBTQ+ community is still not uncommon, I understand why my statement led many to assume the worst. To be as clear as I can be, I stand with the LGBTQ+ community.
OK, just so we have this straight: Damon said he used the antigay slur a few months ago “as a joke”, presumably at a family dinner since his daughter “left the table” in protest. But he also said he’s never actually called anyone that word in his “personal life” and doesn’t “use slurs of any kind.” Except, um, when he’s joking around his family at the dinner table.
Now, how about some tweets?
https://twitter.com/RufusTSuperfly/status/1421974843772260353
Does Matt Damon not have a group chat he can share this stuff with
— bi-onic rad-neck (@danielleradford) August 1, 2021
matt damon and dababy’s publicists after writing 15 apology notes to the lgbtq community pic.twitter.com/KLAuWPxGwk
— matt (@mattxiv) August 2, 2021
Just outstanding that Matt Damon told his "I learned not to use a homophobic slur at 50" like it was a heartwarming anecdote of lifelong learning. Like your nan enrolling in a watercolour class at the local college, but for not saying the n-word.
— James Felton (@JimMFelton) August 2, 2021
Matt Damon's publicist this week pic.twitter.com/jKc6CbgI2j
— Casey Mink (@Casey_Mink) August 2, 2021
Everybody:
The national news media:
The trades:
TMZ:
Matt Damon: Y’know I said f*gg*t until like last Tuesday?— Chase Mitchell (@ChaseMit) August 2, 2021
At this point, Matt Damon’s daughter needs to just send him several invoices. Gave him free PR training TWICE, just for him to still be this embarrassing!!! pic.twitter.com/XBwRjsAUO4
— Clarkisha Kent (@IWriteAllDay_) August 1, 2021
If Matt Damon has been using homophobic slurs all this time, you know he’s been using racist and sexist ones too.
— Candice Marie Benbow (@CandiceBenbow) August 2, 2021
Matt Damon’s daughter literally said pic.twitter.com/QH5wGD4Y4h
— Saint Hoax (@SaintHoax) August 2, 2021
Liza Minnelli has outlived Matt Damon saying “faggot.” Damon admitted he recently stopped using the slur because his daughter told him it was taboo. He explained he retired the “F-slur” because it’s no longer used the same way as when he “was a kid.”
— LizaMinnelliOutlives (@LiZaOutlives) August 2, 2021
Matt Damon today: pic.twitter.com/MOzf8an3tl
— juandissimo (@Treeofl1fe) August 2, 2021
My favorite thing about this Matt Damon thing is he told on himself. This didn’t leak, he literally told us.
— Michael Benjamin (@mfbenji) August 2, 2021
Matt Damon before and after having a daughter. pic.twitter.com/BhQeyn7cJn
— hipstermermaid (@hipstermermaid) August 2, 2021
also I hate to start "gay actors for gay roles" discourse but Matt Damon was Bafta, SAG and Golden Globe nominated for Behind the Candelabra, a gay role largely about homophobia in the 1980s and the Aids crisis, so this type of shit is partly why people get so frustrated by it!
— Louis Staples (@LouisStaples) August 2, 2021
Matt Damon at the table with his daughter: pic.twitter.com/CBar33bwRc
— jenna say kwah (@Codestiel) August 2, 2021
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Cam
Honestly, less concerned about this than in the people who supposedly don’t use the word but vote for and fund the politicians that harm us.
People like Chris Pratt belongs to a viciously anti-LGBTQ church and his brother has sold carvings that included the symbols of the racist, violent organization the 1 percenters.
I’m for more interested in not seeing any of Pratts new stuff than worrying about Damon.
o.codone
Hi “Cam”. We figured out that you are the latest incarnation of “Bernardo1985”. Years ago he would do what you do now, put multiple posts on the same story, incite fights and have many other screen names. Just what you accuse others of doing here. The only sympathy I have for you is that you’re in jail. So, considering that you’ve been through a lot, you have few if any other social outlets and you are mostly civil here, I guess we’ll give you a pass. I don’t think anyone else here is quite as bad off as you. So, keep being reasonably nice (it’s hard for you I know) and we’ll treat you like a regular commenter here on Q.
dhmonarch89
which daughter was he telling the joke to? His 3 daughters range in age from 10 to 15…. none of those ages are appropriate for telling jokes like that to, even if the word was accepted.
Bosch
Y’all quit pickin’ on Affleck’s ex-boyfriend. We’ve got real homophobes to worry about.
Like the ones who post comments on queerty.
You all know who I mean.
Kangol2
So first he admitted to his casual homophobia, or was lying about that, and now he’s changing his story, i.e., lying again. I mean, come on, Matt Damon, man up and admit what you did. This makes you look worse, not better.
Vince
Can we just drop this shit. Talk about eating our own. Yeah, he shouldn’t have used it and he’s doing a crappy job owning it. However, his apology seems sincere. I give anyone the benefit of the doubt when they at least try to understand why it’s hurtful.
It’s still no where as bad as saying gay people have aids and will die in two weeks and don’t bother coming to my concert. Then triples down on it to show up his haters.
lou lou de la falaise
All that. I’m sick of all the play this is getting.
Hdtex
He does NOT get a free pass.
wikidBSTN
I think we all understand. Now we can let it all go. He’s not our enemy – by a long shot.
Fahd
¡Qué mentiroso!
I enjoyed him in the Talented Mr. Ripley, thought he was okay in Candelabra. He´s now on my ¨do not watch¨ list.
Maybe a large donation to the Trevor Project or an NGO working to help gay people in countries with actively homophobic governments (not to mention people).