Whether you're single, coupled, or somewhere beautifully in between, understanding your love language can help improve communication and deepen connections. 

It's important to remember that we all possess a combination of these languages, but one or two may stand out as our primary love language.

Take our short quiz to discover your queer love language and how to use it in your relationships!

How do you cheer up a friend or partner who's feeling down?

1. Talk it out with them.
2. Get them out of the house.
3. Bake them their favorite treat.
4. Send them a care package.
5. Give them a big bear hug.

Pick a color that speaks to you:

Passionate red
Healing green
Sunny yellow
Mysterious purple
Tranquil blue

What's the most meaningful gift you could receive from your partner?

1. A custom playlist of songs.
2. Coming home to a clean house and dinner waiting.
3. An item you've had saved in your online cart for ages.
4. Tickets to an event or experience.
5. A day of pampering at the spa.

Which city would you love to (re)visit?

Bali
San Francisco
Paris
Rome
Tokyo

Which queer historical figure do you admire the most?

1. Audre Lorde, for her powerful words.
2. James Beard, for his culinary artistry.
3. Harvey Milk, for his generous spirit.
4. Marsha P. Johnson, for her activism.
5. Bayard Rustin, for his loving nature.

Pick your favorite heart emoji:

Red Heart
Smiling Face with Hearts
Heart on Fire
Heart with Ribbon
Two Hearts

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