
CAUTION: Spoilers ahead for the season finale of The White Lotus: Sicily.
Just before she is about to be married and spend her first night with her husband, the spiritually winged Butterfly of the seminal opera Madama Butterfly says, “Oh, could I but vanish, my blushes to hide!” A small, but significant moment; this a young woman who is about to be transformed by pleasure, so much so that she wishes to disappear into herself, into the possible ecstasy of love itself. But is it love?
Mapping the Puccini opera—about a very young Japanese girl who falls for an American naval officer in the early 1900s, which sends them hurdling down a path beyond their control—onto the second season of Mike White’s HBO show The White Lotus: Sicily offers an intriguing experience. It’s the opera that the extremely wealthy dandy Quentin (Tom Hollander) takes the equally wealthy Tanya (Jennifer Coolidge) to, as if to hold up a mirror to her own tragic status.
But it’s also the text White shows his audience, glimmering with aged perfection that suggests possible rot underneath. As the camera pushes in during an aria, Tanya’s face is caught in between: there’s recognition and disassociation, but also the sense of an uncanny smirk from behind the camera, that maybe Tanya isn’t the subject of the scene at all.

The twinned renaissances of Mike White and Jennifer Coolidge’s careers—in the wake of both the proliferation of their work being circulated around the internet, and particularly with the surprise success of the first season of The White Lotus—created a compelling and complicated dynamic, with Coolidge a muse of meme-makers and White the all-powerful god who could just as much control her narrative as relinquish that power to gay people on the internet.
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White has always been a sharp craftsman with an ear and eye for the absurdity of people who long for connection but are stunted by either their personal failings of the environment that encouraged those behaviors. In that vein, he gives Tanya a kind of pathetically goofy background—well-meaning but ultimately selfish. So rich and so miserable and bereaved (her mother died and she’s come to spread the ashes), Tanya is a lady Pagliacci with a bejeweled crown of gold.
And, what can we say? Gay men love an affluent idiot woman who suffers just enough to make persevering her storyline, to make the affect of materialism her personality—and therefore theirs—to transform a deftly observed black comic character into online fodder.
Pray for Tanya ? #TheWhiteLotus pic.twitter.com/KKakvMQTqV
— Jennifer Coolidge (@JENCOOLIDGE) December 12, 2022
White’s characterization of Tanya turns sharply left in the second season, not so much a woman baby who doesn’t know any better, but with a fuller sense of both a kind of helplessness and a complete disregard for the feelings of others. Arguably, she’s meaner, needier, but not ridiculous, not easily classifiable in a digestible way. At least, she keeps her assistant Portia (Haley Lu Richardson) on a leash while it looks like her marriage to Greg (Jon Gries) is about to fall apart.
Her search for happiness and beauty in Sicily is aggressively opaque, resting on either what she’s seen in movies (she loves and dresses up like Italian icon Monica Vitti) or what someone else can provide to her. She has no conception of it for herself. Instead, she is happy to play the role of a vacant but beautiful object for others.

Which leads us to Quentin and his coterie of expat hot, rich gays: refined, name-drop-y (he’s pals with author and public intellectual Gore Vidal), and divinely obsessed with Tanya herself. They provide to her the attention she has longed for from her husband, even though their interactions—implied by Hollander’s deliciously haughty line deliveries—have a bizarre flavor to them. It’s hard to pinpoint: a shifting power dynamic that at once props Tanya up onto a pedestal to be revered, yet controls and contrives what kind of idol she is. It’s classic gay diva worship, but with a tinge of darkness.
Quentin takes her to Madama Butterfly, gives her the time of her life, and makes her the star of her own tragic opera. But for all of his moves to make her the subject of her own fantasy, isn’t she really just the object of his? Someone to fawn over, to debate the value of beauty with—someone whose own beauty is a kind of capital that gay culture likes to associate itself with with little concern for interiority and depth.
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While much of The White Lotus: Sicily orbited around the sexual mind games of other rich people and those aware of intimacy as transaction, Tanya’s storyline stands out. Here, Mike White finds himself adapting those thematic preoccupations into an autocritique mode. Perhaps there’s a sense of deja vu for the writer and showrunner, who has also witnessed his once muse Laura Dern, of Enlightened, become an object of gay obsession on the internet in the last several years
The season both provides those quotes that can be quickly screen-grabbed and posted online for easy gay jokes (“Those gays, they’re trying to murder me!”) and undermine them at the same time—because Tanya dies. She needed to.
— out of context the white lotus (@oocwhitelotus) December 12, 2022
Tanya finds herself ensconced in Palermo with the gay mafia, and then trapped on a yacht with them, with all the signifiers of excess pushed to the limits so that they seem almost campy. And then, when she finally realizes she’s a mark for her fortune to be stolen by these gays, she makes a final fight. After she clumsily bandies about a pistol, on her way to escaping, she falls to her death. It’s an end both operatic and “derpy,” as White calls it. But it was necessary.
The complex history of gay and queer men and their diva worship—as well as the melodramatic suffering of women and its connections to camp sensibility—is long, too long for this piece. But White and Coolidge give it a fresh effacing. It initially seemed a little on the nose that Tanya would be trapped by a gay mafia that was obsessed with her. But, since the meme factory hasn’t shut down yet, such an obvious critique of this kind of engagement with The White Lotus only makes the show’s efforts that much more fascinating.
In the show, love ends up being a surface on which we can view our ideal selves—so long as we can convince ourselves that it’s beautiful enough to do so, and gaze at a non-existent perfection.
Or, possibly, if our search for love and beauty—because here they are the same—becomes one in which others are merely those shiny objects by which we can gaze at those faux perfect reflections, which then end in death, perhaps we may vanish, disappear into it. Transformed and destroyed by beauty that cannot be contained.
All seven episodes of The White Lotus: Sicily are available to stream via HBO Max.
AmblinGuy
A suggestion/request as a reader – please do not put a season’s spoiler for a fairly popular show in the title of an article – we aren’t even a week past the finale air-date. Thanks.
Cato
What I came here to say – putting the biggest spoiler in the headline is a lousy trick to play on your readers.
storm45701
I noticed that right away — a good editor should have caught that. A headline writer should know better. The piece is well-written but undone by the troublesome header.
Ronbo
The best part: the boozy act is dead. Range-limited actors can be fun; but, it wears thin quite quickly. Try watching “The Watcher”; she can’t carry off a real estate agent.
Bengali
Those complaining about ending of popular show being divulged are 100% correct.
Also, Jennifer Coolidge rocks. I just watched her in Single All the Way and she was awesome in a somewhat predictable movie. Still, all cast members were very loveable and I would watch it again.
As you check out other lgbt themed holiday movies don’t forget one of my faves,
“Make The Yuletide Gay”. Some is a little obvious in terms of dialog but most is absolutely wonderful.
BigRedEO
Thanks Queerty. Just started watching the series and you give this away.
Thanks. Thanks a lot. No, thank you.
still_onthemark
The opera is set in Nagasaki – then symbolic as the most foreign-friendly port in Japan, now known for other reasons. I thought back to the dialogue in ep. 1. Cameron & Daphne sincerely having no idea what’s going on in the world because they actively avoid news.
Please change the headline!
Ruggerbugger
Why in the world would you allow a headline like that? Queerty is such a great site… I’ve been reading it for years, even purchasing some of the products advertised. I LOVE your site… So I can’t imagine why on earth anyone there would allow a headline like that… spoiling a show that is so popular right now, during the holiday season? Is it some weird power thing? Like someone wanted to feel powerful by spoiling a show for others? Poor sportsmanship at best, folks. Please do better.
davidesky2
Strongly agree with other commenters here on anger over the spoiler headline—I just started watching this show after the hype and was avoiding spoilers until Queerty made that impossible with this headline. How has it not been changed yet? Should I stop following Queerty to avoid this happening again?
[email protected]
WTF? WHY would you divulge that in the title of the piece? There should’ve been a “spoiler alert” warning and then put the details in the article. Ya’ll ain’t right! (like we say in the south)
jaybird
THANK YOU FOR RUINING THIS FOR US BY PUTTING A HUGE SPOILER ON THE MAIN PAGE.
we just started this show this week and were on episode 3.
someone is getting a lump of coal
inbama
“he’s pals with author and public intellectual Gore Vidal…”
Gore Vidal is dead.
Kangol2
I think the character notes that he was friends with Vidal, who did spend years with his partner living in Italy. So the article is correct.
Kangol2
Queerty, please change the header on this. Please. It only takes seconds, really.
You could go with something like, “Mike White felt the White Lotus finale was inevitable,” or something like that.
bachy
Avoiding spoilers in this golden age of streaming is an Art! One must be nimble, one’s eyes choreographed to dance against the beat, gracefully jumping past the timing and rhythm of breathless journalistic revelations! Just now starting a show that your favorite rag has been discussing for weeks? You’re dropping behind, Nijinski! Catch up by bingeing – or just stop reading the ‘bloids!
Velvetalex
Kyle, you’re about as deep as a bird bath.
bigrawtop
Maybe I am overthinking it, but why would they woo her and treat her well, then to just kill her. What was the plan? The connection to her husband would be discovered and the if she was hot and/or gagged in the water, it wouldn’t come off as an innocent death.
bachy
They could easily have made it look like an accident: she got drunk and fell off the boat in the middle of the night, no one noticed.
Kangol2
I think there are several components. Greg wanted to get rid of her so that he could collect the money he inherited if she died (since he got nothing if they divorced because of the prenup), and he had a collaborator in Quentin, who was still somewhat in love with him. Maybe Greg was still in love with Quentin too but either way, with Tanya dead, he would get estate and then pay Quentin off. The plan was to lull her into thinking they really liked her, though Quentin’s touches were really over the top (the opera? all the coke, etc.), and then, to have the stud shoot her, tie her up, and sink the body, etc. The whole thing would then be covered up because of the stud’s ties to the mafia. Greg would be rich, Quentin would get a payoff to help his palazzo upkeep and high lifestyle, and everyone else in his entourage, especially Jack, would get a piece too. I think it was something along those lines.
Hermes in DC
Is this article satire?
What a load of lit crit hogwash. Half the sentences in this piece make no sense they’re so stuffed full of cliches and jargon.
Oh, and thanks for ruining the show for me.
Joshooeerr
Indeed. On a gay website it’s a shame that there isn’t somebody who could critique this (massively over-rated) show from a specifically gay perspective. Mike White’s penchant for resurrecting the tired old Hollywood trope of the villainous gays would be a good place to start.
Michael
Spoiler headline?? REALLY??!! Having just started watching season 2, I am not reading this article and can only hope the headline is just another typical Queerty click bait attempt. Thanks for the aggravation Queerty!
stuffedpuppy
Imagine: it’s the 1990s and Queerty’s headline reads as follows “There are no aliens in the X-Files-only molasses!”. Right, 48 hours after the finale… Damn guys, well done!!
Eldred
Kyle, how trashy do you have to be to drop Spoilers from the show? I seriously can’t believe these are the writers they allow on this site.